You probably think a guy calling you “gorgeous” is just another shallow fad of our selfie-obsessed society. But there are reasons why guys will use that word to describe you.
If you’re lucky enough to have a guy who sees your inner beauty and thinks you’re gorgeous for more than just your looks, his words should lift your spirits and make you feel amazing about yourself.
In order to impress them with how “sophisticated” he is with pseudo-intellectual words, it’s best not to encourage him any further!
Keep reading for 15 reasons why a guy is calling you “gorgeous!”
1) A small price to pay for a little self-assurance
A guy might call you “gorgeous” or something similar just as a way to give you a boost of confidence.
Guys can be extremely critical and judgmental of themselves and others, and they’ll often criticize themselves way more than you’ll ever hear them criticize you.
They might have said something like, “You look nice,” and you might have responded with a nervous and self-conscious, “Oh, thanks.” If he then says, “You’re gorgeous.”
It’s probably a way of reassuring you that you don’t have to feel self-conscious or nervous if you don’t want to be.
He might even have just been trying to make you feel better about something he noticed you were self-conscious about.
It’s a small price to pay for a little bit of confidence, and it might make you feel better about yourself and your appearance when you are dating them.
2) He attempt to move things forward with you
If a guy is calling you “gorgeous” after meeting you for the first time, he’s probably not being sincere.
In fact, he’s probably just trying to quickly find a way to end the conversation as painlessly as possible.
If a guy is calling you “gorgeous” after meeting you for the first time, it’s more than likely an attempt to move things forward with you.
He’s trying to make you feel good and make the conversation last a little longer so he can get a little more information about you.
He might even be trying to get your number or set up a date. When a guy calls you “gorgeous,” it’s a way for him to quickly say, “I like you,” without putting too much effort into it.
He’s trying to get to know you while still making sure you know he likes you.
3) He wants to protect you
Men naturally want to defend the women they care about.
He probably likes you if he calls you lovely.
And if a man adores you, he probably has a natural tendency to take the initiative and save the day.
The efforts he makes to protect you?
Does he protect you not only from physical injury but also from any unfortunate conditions that might occur?
If he succeeds, congrats to you. Smitten with you, this guy has feelings for you and he wants to be your true hero.
You see, for guys, it’s all about triggering their inner hero.
I learned about this from the hero instinct. Coined by relationship expert James Bauer, this fascinating concept is about what really drives men in relationships, which is ingrained in their DNA.
And it’s something most women don’t know anything about.
Once triggered, these drivers make men into the heroes of their own lives. They feel better, love harder, and commit stronger when they find someone who knows how to trigger it.
Now, you may be wondering why it’s called “the hero instinct”? Do guys really need to feel like superheroes to commit to a woman?
Not at all. Forget about Marvel. You won’t need to play the damsel in distress or buy your man a cape.
The easiest thing to do is to check out James Bauer’s excellent free video here. He shares some easy tips to get you started, such as sending him a 12 word text that will trigger his hero instinct right away.
Because that’s the beauty of the hero instinct.
It’s only a matter of knowing the right things to say to make him realize that he wants you and only you.
4) They don’t want you to feel embarrassed or uncomfortable.
Guys will often call you “gorgeous” or something similar to make you feel less embarrassed or uncomfortable about the situation.
If the conversation doesn’t seem to be going anywhere or you’re just feeling a little bit off, he may call you “gorgeous” just to extend the conversation a little bit longer so he can ask for your number or set up a date for the future.
He might also do it because he knows you’re feeling a little awkward and he wants to end the conversation as quickly and painlessly as possible.
They don’t want the conversation to end on an awkward note or with you feeling uncomfortable.
They want to make you feel good, and they want you to walk away from the discussion feeling happy and not regretting that you met that person.
Calling you “gorgeous” is just another way of saying, “I hope this conversation doesn’t end awkwardly.”
5) Because you turn him on and make him horny
A guy may call you “gorgeous” because he’s turned on by your appearance. He might also call you gorgeous because he wants to have sex with you.
If he’s trying to feel you up in public, he may think you’re beautiful and wants to feel your curves in his hands.
Or he might be hoping that you’ll make the first move so he can hook up with you.
If you want to know if a guy likes you, look at his words and actions.
When he calls you gorgeous, it’s a good sign. But you’ll want to take his compliments as a whole and not just focus on this one word.
And if a guy calls you gorgeous, remember that you’re beautiful no matter what.
Admit it! We all need to hear compliments from time to time, and it can be even better when they come from someone you like.
6) You make him feel good about himself
A guy might call you gorgeous because he feels confident around you. He might feel proud and happy to be around you.
If he thinks you’re gorgeous and he likes spending time with you, he’ll probably call you that. If a guy only calls you gorgeous, it might be because he feels proud when he’s around you.
He might be proud of his accomplishments. He might also be proud of the way he can make you happy.
If a guy only calls you gorgeous, it might be because he feels proud around you.
He might feel proud of himself and his life. He might also be proud of the way he can make you happy.
This relates back to the unique concept I mentioned earlier: the hero instinct.
When a man feels respected, useful, and needed, he’s more likely to show his feelings
And the best part is, triggering his hero instinct can be as simple as knowing the right thing to say over a text.
You can learn exactly what to do by watching this simple and genuine video by James Bauer.
7) It is more than just words to him.
When you’re involved with someone, a man might refer to you as “gorgeous”, and his words would be sincere.
Your inner beauty and caring nature are matched by your outward beauty, according to him.
A guy who says things this way is often saying that he admires your character and behavior as well as your looks and that he values you.
It’s not always true that men are shallow.
When you’re dating, a man might compliment you on your style and accessories, which is the result of your efforts.
He views you as having “good taste” and would be delighted if you have nice clothes and accessories.
Another reason why a man might call you beautiful is that he’s naturally attracted to women with good looks and characteristics.
The truth is:
Men are emotionally attached to a woman, they feel compelled to show appreciation and admiration for her beauty.
When a man expresses his feelings through compliments, he’s expressing his desire for you.
8) He is impressed by the way you think and create
A man’s excitement comes from how your brain functions and how you create and imagine.
He might call you gorgeous to express how much he admires and finds appealing about the way you perceive the world and approach life.
He’s paying you a significant compliment here, and he’s probably got some pretty strong feelings for you, too.
He might be fascinated by a pastime you have, your gorgeous singing, or the way you react to situations and life.
He might be using this word as a way to express his gratitude or amazement at something that you’ve done or something about you that he finds amazing.
He might be using gorgeous as a way to show his admiration for your personality traits, such as your compassion or intelligence.
9) You’re the one he’s infatuated with.
It can occasionally be the case that a man is just in love when he calls you gorgeous.
He doesn’t say it to a female he’s simply interested in for a few nights because he feels something deeper for you.
Whenever a guy refers to you as attractive, he is expressing a deeper level of appreciation and connection with you than just a passing compliment.
He would not be giving you this compliment if he did not have a genuine desire to make you feel loved.
If you believe that this man truly is interested in you, then you must acknowledge the fact that he is telling you the truth. You are lovely not only to him but to others as well.
Take in the truth that he thinks you are gorgeous because you are important to him.
10) They want you to know that they think you’re attractive.
Calling you “gorgeous” is a way for a guy to say, “You’re attractive to me.”
It might seem like a silly thing to say when he’s just met you, but it’s a way for him to let you know that he thinks you’re attractive and he would like to see you again.
You might not like him or feel the same way about him as he does about you, but it’s a way for him to be upfront and honest about his intentions without having to say them out loud.
They might also be trying to let you know that they’re interested in you so you can make a decision about whether or not you would like to pursue a relationship with them.
They’re not trying to be malicious or aggressive. They’re just trying to let you know what they think and feel.
11) He admires your charisma and energy.
Charisma is the key to getting any man to fall in love with you. Men are drawn to confident and outgoing women who have magnetic personalities.
If you can display your charisma, men will be attracted to you, no matter what your outward appearance may be like.
There are several ways that you can display your charisma and energy. One way is through your body language.
If you are slouched over or slumped in your chair, it will be hard for him to relate to you.
Make sure that you sit up straight and infuse confidence into your posture.
Another way is through the tone of your voice. If you speak too quickly or too softly, it will be difficult for a man to hear what you are saying.
Instead, speak at an even pace and project your voice so that he can hear it clearly.
By doing these two simple things, you will be able to convey confidence and energy and make yourself more likable.
He will always want to have an upbeat, positive, and motivated partner. If you want to attract a man, then your energy will be important as well.
12) He wants to get out of friendzone
I’ve read a lot of articles on the friendzone and how common it is.
The friendzone is basically when a guy thinks he has a girlfriend but she never signs the official paperwork.
It can be because of social pressure, lack of interest, or fear of rejection.
We all understand, deep down, that cuteness depends a lot on the speaker’s tone and the situation in which he says it.
It can indicate that a guy you’re friends with is trying to get out of the friendzone in some circumstances.
He is using the phrase “you’re gorgeous” in a complicated tone. Would he say that to a mate alone? Most likely not.
13) He’s saying you’re attractive.
Being attractive frequently indicates a nice disposition.
It may sound as though he’s not serious about you or doesn’t think you’d make a good girlfriend or wife.
However, it’s not a given that it means that.
By accepting that he thinks you are wonderful and feminine, which is incredibly alluring to a guy, you are taking it in a positive way.
Being attractive to a man means something, which is very different from the usual meaning of being a pushover.
It means that you are desirable and fascinating.
If you are in a relationship and your guy calls you attractive, then it means that he is very fond of you.
14) He is aware that you’re not “easy.”
Sometimes a man will describe you as attractive even though he is aware that you are not “easy” and are a little out of his reach.
He can be very interested in getting to know you more and making sure you are comfortable with him.
He is drawn to you and might be a little nervous around you because you are out of his normal dating range.
He will want to let you know that you are very important to him and that you deserve better than what he usually dates.
He can be in awe of you and might be unsure of how to relate to you and demonstrate his concern.
He’s trying his best to demonstrate that you mean more to him than just a good time since he doesn’t want to blow it with you.
15) He’s acting impulsively.
Men are said to be quite honest by nature. Sometimes a man will say to you, “You’re beautiful,” “You’re magnificent,” “You’re gorgeous,” or “Elegant” without even thinking about it.
He may be in a situation where he is surrounded by beautiful women, and he will find you to be the most attractive of them all.
He might be in a situation where he is seeking friendship or a relationship, and you happen to be the best match in his eyes.
He might be in the process of courting someone else, and he just happens to notice you. He won’t know what else to say, so the words will just come out.
Don’t you think that effect is great to hear about?
This does not necessarily indicate that he is pursuing you or has hidden agendas.
The man is only showing his gratitude in this situation.
To sum up, now that you know why a guy might call you “gorgeous,” you can use these words for your own benefit. When you next hear him say it, say thank you, and mean it.
You might even get the chance to hear him say it again sometime soon!
Although he might not mean it in the same way, you could even reply with, “I am too, babe!”
This way, it will seem like a more reciprocal thing when he says it again.
Regardless of why a guy calls you “gorgeous,” it’s a good thing that he’s making you feel good about yourself.
There’s no reason why you should feel any less confident than you already are. When a guy calls you “gorgeous” or something similar.
It’s a way for him to make sure that you know he thinks you’re attractive and he wants to see you again.
By now you should have a better idea of why a guy is calling you “gorgeous”.
So the key now is getting through to your man in a way that empowers both him and you.
I mentioned the concept of the hero instinct earlier — by appealing directly to his primal instincts, you won’t only solve this issue, but you’ll take your relationship further than ever before.
And since this free video reveals exactly how to trigger your man’s hero instinct, you could make this change from as early as today.
With James Bauer’s incredible concept, he’ll see you as the only woman for him. So if you’re ready to take that plunge,be sure to check out the video now.
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