Xandar Gordon

Xandar has seen the world through words his whole life. With both parents authors themselves, he was doomed from the start. He can always be found with a journal and ink smudges on his fingers. Xandar writes everything from music to poetry to personal essays. He has been writing professionally for over 6 years and has written copy on countless subjects. His portfolio can be found at writers.work/xandar.

“He proposed to his ex but not me” – 10 tips if this is you

So you found out he proposed to his ex but not you. There’s no doubt that’s going to sting, and probably more than a little bit. In all likelihood, though, there’s more to the story. In this article, I want to show you 10 tips if you’ve just found out your significant other has proposed …

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Does he want more than sex? 11 signs he does (and 6 signs he doesn’t)

Boys are notoriously difficult to read, especially at the beginning of a relationship. The relationship could become something more, or it might stay purely physical. How can you know the difference? Does he want more than sex? As a guy who’s been in these scenarios, I’ll show you 11 signs he does want more than …

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15 signs your husband doesn’t want to spend time with you (& what to do)

Marriages are tricky—they’re in a constant state of evolution. In fact, long-term relationships of any kind are difficult. As someone who’s been married for almost 10 years, I know firsthand the challenges of marriage. So, how can you know if your husband doesn’t want to spend time with you anymore, or if the relationship has …

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“Will I ever find a boyfriend?” 20 things stopping you from finding a guy to date

Being stuck at home with no one to go out with is one of the most disappointing feelings. I’ve been there before—in fact, being single (and not wanting to be) used to be a huge source of unhappiness for me. But here’s the thing: my outlook wasn’t healthy; I’ve since been able to identify what …

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