You’re crushing on a guy and you’re not sure how to tell if he feels the same way?
I know, it’s hard to know what guys are thinking.
Well, don’t worry! Here are some common words that a guy says when he likes you:
1) May I join you?
The first thing a guy might say when he has a crush on you is: “May I join you?”
He will likely say this sentence as he’s trying to make his way towards your direction.
“May I join you?” This is one of the most common things guys say when they are shy and have feelings for you.
They are usually too nervous to come over and ask you out straight up, so they would rather ask if they can sit with you.
You see, some guys who use this phrase a lot are actually quite shy, while others are the epidemy of confident.
A shy guy who has a huge crush on you will ask you timidly, praying for the answer to be yes.
When a guy is confident, he knows the answer will be yes, so he is only asking in order to reaffirm that you are interested, as well.
If you want him to join, just give him a warm smile and say: “Yes! Please come join me!”
2) How was your day?
This is one of the first things a guy might ask you when he’s interested in more than just being friends.
It shows that he’s really interested in what you have to say and wants to know how you’ve been feeling lately.
You see, unless you’ve been friends for a really long time and check up on one another regularly, this question indicates a crush.
Not to be rude, but why else would a random guy care about your day unless he really liked you?
It’s also a great way to get to know you better without coming off as overbearing or too eager.
If he’s interested, he’ll probably ask you more questions about your day or your feelings.
Either way, it’s a great way for him to show his interest in you!
The sweet thing is, guys who ask this are usually concerned about your well-being.
He wants to make sure that you had a good day because he’s looking out for you!
That’s really sweet!
3) I don’t want anything bad to happen to you.
When a man says something along the lines of this to you, chances are he feels pretty strongly about you.
This is because you triggered his inner hero.
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4) I like your hair.
If a guy compliments you for your hair, it means he sees something in you.
He’s attracted to you and he wants to get to know you better.
This is a hallmark sign of a guy having a crush on you, especially when he noticed that you changed your hair up!
It might be a clichée, but men don’t often notice subtle changes in our appearance – unless they have a crush on us, of course!
If he’s complimenting your hair, it means that he’s noticed you, and he wants to get to know you!
It’s a good way for him to break the ice.
Plus, your hair probably looks on point that day, so that’s another plus!
5) You’re so funny.
If he’s always laughing at your jokes, then it’s a good sign.
Guys like girls who can make them laugh.
Plus, if he thinks you’re funny and cute, then he might also think you’re attractive.
So, what does that mean for you?
If a guy tells you that you’re really funny, chances are he has a crush on you.
And if he seems to be laughing at everything you say, and he’s always trying to make you laugh in return, then it’s also a pretty good sign that he has a crush on you.
It means that he likes you and wants to spend more time with you!
Laughter is a huge part of any relationship, so if a guy recognizes that you have a great sense of humor, there might be feelings involved on his part.
6) I miss you.
This is probably one of the more obvious signs that a guy has a crush on you.
If he tells you: “I miss you.”, then I can’t really think of any other explanation.
He’s probably thinking about you and realizes that he hasn’t seen you in a while.
And if that’s the case, then it’s probably because he has a crush on you!
Think about it: you only miss someone you really care about, right?
So, if a guy tells you that he misses you, it definitely means that he has feelings for you.
And if he’s thinking about you, then there might be a chance that he wants to see you in person again!
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7) I’m excited to see you.
This is another pretty obvious sign of a guy having a crush on you.
If he’s excited to see you, then there is definitely something going on between the two of you.
I mean, if he really wants to see you and can’t wait to hang out with you, then it’s pretty obvious that he has a thing for you!
So if he seems genuinely excited to see you, then it’s a good sign!
What does that mean for you?
If a guy is excited to see you, then he obviously wants to spend more time with you.
And if he’s stoked to hang out with you, then it might be because of the feelings that he has for you.
This is good because there is nothing worse than being with someone who seems almost indifferent to your presence, is there?
8) You’re really pretty.
One way to tell if he likes you is if he tells you that you’re pretty.
You see, men are very visual.
It can be frustrating at times, but they prefer women who they deem pretty.
So if he tells you that you’re really pretty, then it’s a good sign.
I mean, if he’s telling you that you’re beautiful and that your looks are one of the things that he likes about you, then there is definitely something going on between the two of you!
When a guy has a crush on you, he will have a crush on every aspect of you: your personality, your humor, and, of course, your looks.
Plus, men usually don’t give out compliments like this unless there are feelings involved.
9) Are you okay?
If a guy likes you, he’ll often act super concerned about your well-being.
If you say something like “I had a really bad day,” he’ll be worried and wants to know what happened.
And if you say that you’re fine, he’ll ask you again to make sure that everything is okay.
This shows that he’s really interested in your life and wants to know everything about you!
If a guy likes you, then he’ll want to know as much as possible about you.
He won’t want to miss out on anything.
That’s why the phrase “Are you okay?” carries so much meaning.
A guy who doesn’t care about you won’t ask you that, believe me.
I mentioned this fascinating concept earlier: the hero instinct.
When a man’s inner hero is triggered, he’s more likely to have a crush on you.
Just by knowing the right things to say to him, you’ll open a part of him that no woman has ever reached before.
And the best way to do so is by watching this free video by James Bauer. In it, he’ll reveal simple phrases and texts you can use to make your man truly yours.
10) I’ve never told this anyone.
The next hallmark sign of a guy having a crush on you is when he tells you a secret that he has never told anyone else.
You see, if a guy likes you, then he’ll want to tell you everything that is on his mind.
And if he tells you a secret, then it’s probably because he trusts you and wants to be with you.
Don’t forget that guys aren’t used to being emotionally vulnerable with other people.
So this shows that there is something different about your relationship and how comfortable he feels around you.
In my opinion, hearing the words “I’ve never told this to anyone” is always flattering, even if it comes from a friend.
After all, it implies a level of trust and vulnerability that they haven’t had with anyone else so far.
And the best part?
If it comes from a guy, it’s a huge sign of him really liking you.
11) I feel like we really understand each other.
This is a phrase that guys say when they feel like you understand them better than anyone.
In fact, if a guy really likes you, he’ll often say this phrase out of the blue.
He’ll just look at you and say it, without any explanation.
And when he does this, it means that you understand each other in a way that no one else does.
This is such a huge compliment because it shows that he trusts you to be able to handle anything that comes your way together.
It’s an absolutely amazing feeling and definitely worth holding on to!
In today’s world of dating apps etc, meeting an abundance of people is nothing new.
The problem with all of that is that genuine, deep connections have become rarer and rarer.
So: if a guy points out how understood he feels by you, that’s special!
12) You look great today.
This is a huge one! Guys who like you will be the first to compliment your appearance.
It’s almost always flattering, and they’ll make sure it’s genuine too.
When he says this, it means he loves the way that you look.
The thing is, if a guy doesn’t have a crush on you, he probably won’t notice the outfit you’re wearing or the way you did your makeup that day.
So, if a man points out how great you look – it’s definitely a crush!
13) Come sit next to me!
This one is a classic.
If a guy invites you to sit next to him, it’s a huge sign that he likes you.
The reason is simple:
It’s because he wants to be close to you.
You see, if you aren’t attracted to someone, you don’t really want to be very close to them, it’s a natural instinct.
Asking you to sit next to him is the first step towards intimacy.
And it’s definitely a huge indicator that he has a crush on you!
Of course, you should listen to what your body and mind are telling you, do you want to sit next to him?
If the answer is yes, then you can get excited, because this man really likes you!
14) I’m always there for you.
Here we’re back at the protector instinct.
If a guy says that he will always be there for you, he might even be past the crush and into the deeper feelings already.
It’s a pretty big statement, and it might seem like a bit of a stretch, but if he says this to you, he really means it.
He wants to be there for you when you need him, and he’ll do everything that he can to make sure that happens.
This is a huge compliment and one that will make your heart flutter!
15) Haha, why don’t you date me, then?
If a guy jokes about dating you, chances are he has a crush on you.
You see, this could happen every once in a while without carrying any meaning, especially if it’s a very good friend of yours, but if a man keeps making jokes about dating you, a part of him really wants to.
That’s why this is a great indicator that a man has a crush on you.
Think about it: you wouldn’t even think about making a joke like that unless the thought of dating has crossed your mind!
This is why that phrase is a huge indicator of him having a crush on you.
Look out for the signs
There are many things a man says that can give his true feelings away a little.
Most of all, watch out for any flirty phrases or words that indicate that he wants to protect you.
And if you want to get him to have a crush on you?
I touched on the hero instinct earlier – it’s the perfect remedy for the situation you’re facing.
Because once a man’s hero instinct is triggered, he’ll only have eyes for you. You’ll reach a part of him that no woman has ever managed to reach before.
And in return, he’ll be compelled to commit to you and love you like he’s never loved another woman.
So if you’re ready to take that plunge and reach new heights in your relationship, make sure to check out relationship expert James Bauer’s invaluable advice.
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