If you’re in love with a Scorpio man and you regret breaking up with him, this article is for you.
Are you wondering if it’s possible to win him back?
The answer is yes – if you do the 14 things outlined in this article.
Let’s get started:
1) Be real and honest with yourself
The first step to getting your Scorpio man back is to look deep into your heart and soul.
Ask yourself if you really want to get back together with your Scorpio man.
Say you’re having trouble getting over him:
- Is it because you’re not used to being alone and you’re scared to move on with your life?
- Or, do you actually miss him because he was the love of your life?
Another thing you might want to consider before you decide to get him back is why you broke up in the first place.
Was the reason something you two will be able to overcome, or will it be haunting your relationship if you make up?
What will you do when after all the pain and complications of being back together, you realize you two still have something unbridgeable between you?
The truth is that no relationship is perfect, nor for the matter is any human being.
Are you sure you want him back? With all his faults and imperfections?
If not, it’s best to spare you both the pain of an unfulfilled love affair.
2) Be sure he still wants you
Here’s something else to consider.
You may want your Scorpio man back, but how does he feel?
Think about it:
Is he still interested in you? Do you still talk? Are you on good terms? Or does he want nothing to do with you?
He might still be in love with you, but he might also be scared to get involved with you again.
One of the main reasons Scorpio men become so distant when a relationship ends is because they don’t want to feel like they’re being stalked.
If you start calling him or texting him all the time, he will become more and more distant and eventually push you away.
So first things first, make sure he still wants contact with you. If he does, then there’s a good chance of getting back together.
But if he doesn’t want you in his life anymore, then forget about it.
This is why it’s best to end things on good terms, when the two of you can still stand each other.
3) Have you ever been to a psychic?
Until two months ago, my answer would have been no.
But when I came face-to-face with issues related to getting back together with my ex, I decided to think out of the box.
Even though I was skeptical about psychics and their knowledge on love, I gave the folks at Psychic Source a try.
It’s one of the best decisions I made.
The advisor I spoke to was kind, understanding, and genuinely helpful.
My love reading helped me understand an immense amount about where I was going wrong in my love life and how to fix it.
They are incredibly knowledgeable about how unique each Zodiac sign is and can tell you many of the ways to improve your love life and get in line with your romantic destiny right away.
4) Give him space
If you want to win your Scorpio man back, you need to give him space.
After breaking up, people need some time to themselves to process events. This is especially true of Scorpio men.
You see, they need to think about where it all went wrong and about any mistakes they might have made in the past, and to see how those mistakes might affect their future.
This is why it’s important to give your ex space and not harass him about getting back together.
Then, once he’s had time to think and figure out his feelings, you can approach him again, this time more carefully.
5) Make him miss you
Another good reason to give your ex space is that it will give him a chance to miss you and help him realize that life without you just isn’t the same.
What else can you do to make him miss you?
Well, there are a few things you can do:
- First, be mysterious. Scorpio men love a bit of mystery so don’t give him all the details of what your life is like after you broke up. He has to wonder if you’re still hurting and longing for the times when you two were together.
- Another way of making your ex long for you is by acting like things are all right between the two of you. Act like there are no hard feelings and you’ve moved on with your life.
- Don’t act too eager to win him back. Act like you’re just having a good time being single and spending your time with friends or family. You can also use the “out of sight, out of mind” principle by not being in touch with him as often as before.
- Lastly, pretend like you’re hanging out with other guys, even though in reality you only have eyes for him.
If you follow these steps, you will drive him crazy and he will want you more than ever before.
6) Take care of yourself
After a break up it’s important to remember to take care of yourself. You need to put yourself first.
Now, I know it’s easier said than done, but you really shouldn’t let yourself get depressed and neglect your well-being.
So, remember to…
- Get enough sleep: Go to bed on time and wake up on time the next day. Try going to bed at 10 and waking up at 6:30. This will help your mind clear.
- Get out into nature: Spend some time in the beautiful outdoors. Go hiking, visit the zoo or go to see a play and be refreshed by fresh air and sunlight.
- Eat healthily: Avoid fried foods and full-fat, highly processed food. These can lead to an increase in depression. Instead, have lots of salad, fruit, and vegetables. Did you know that healthy fats like olive oil, avocado, and nuts are good for you as they reduce inflammation in the body and stimulate serotonin production which in turn produces a happy hormone called melatonin?
- Get enough exercise: Exercise is the best way of releasing endorphins which are the “feel good” hormones in the body. It also helps to sleep better and reduces stress.
- Get a hobby: Getting involved in an activity that you enjoy is also important for boosting your mood.
- Meditate: Meditation is an excellent way of calming the mind and bringing about inner peace.
- Unplug: Delete your Facebook account and limit the amount of time you spend in front of a computer screen. If you’re feeling depressed, try to avoid all forms of online contact with other people for as long as possible, so that you can regain perspective on your self-worth.
- Do things that you enjoy: Keep busy and stop wasting your time thinking about the past. The less time you spend thinking about him, the more time you spend thinking about yourself. Catch up with your friends, spend more time with your family.
Be kind to yourself.
Love yourself: by loving yourself you’ll be inviting more love your way because like attracts like.
Not only is taking care of yourself good for you, but when your Scorpio man sees how great you’re doing, he’ll fall in love with you all over again.
7) Remember to enjoy life
Don’t just obsess about your breakup and how you’re going to get him back.
Remember that there’s more to life than your relationship. You’re still young and should be out experiencing the world.
And the best part? Be selfish for a day. Live life to the fullest by doing things that you enjoy and doing them to the best of your ability.
It’s important to stop and smell the flowers, to feel the sun on your skin, to enjoy each moment you can.
This outlook on life will help you put things in perspective. It will help you find balance, which will be a huge asset in all aspects of your life, including your relationship with Mr. Scorpio.
8) Keep in touch
Whenever possible, it’s a good idea to part on good terms.
Now, some people may not feel like having their ex in their life, others may want to remain friends, while others like yourself want to get back together.
So if you’ve parted on good terms, keep in touch.
Text him from time to check in and see how he’s doing. Don’t get carried away and get too nosy or text too often. Just be casual and friendly.
If you feel ready for it, suggest meeting for a coffee to catch up and see how you’re both doing.
If he seems open to it, you can always talk about what went wrong and how you could approach things differently next time.
We all make mistakes but that doesn’t mean that we can’t learn from them and change the way we approach situations so they have a better outcome.
And if he’s not in the mood to meet up, don’t take it personally. Don’t take his silence negatively, he’s just not ready yet.
9) Show him what he’s missing out on
If you’ve been feeling a bit down lately, remember that he might be feeling that way too.
You might, for example, bump into him “accidentally” somewhere you know he likes to go.
So put on your best face and show him what he’s missing out on by not being with you.
Perfume, jewelry, a nice dress – the works – all of these things will make you feel good about yourself and attract Scorpio man to you like a magnet.
And in addition to looking gorgeous, let him see you out with your friends happy and glowing.
In short: Show him that you’re doing just fine without him and don’t need his support to feel happy about yourself.
10) Remind him how good you were together
When the time is right, start to remind him how good you were together.
For example, to start with you may want to post a cute picture on your social media of the two of you on your trip to South America.
Then, when you meet up for coffee, casually bring up some fun memories from when you were together.
Be positive, happy, and be yourself. This will make him long to be with you again.
But as you know, when it comes to love, things rarely go as smoothly as we’d like them to.
That’s why I recommend speaking to one of the gifted advisors over at Psychic Source.
I mentioned them earlier.
They’ve been incredibly helpful in the past when I’ve needed guidance on my love life, and they’ll certainly be able to help you get your Scorpio man back.
Whether you prefer to chat online, or jump on a call and speak face-to-face, you can get clarity on this situation right now.
11) Don’t nag at him
I know it may be difficult to control and old habits die hard but please, whatever you do, don’t nag at him.
The truth is that nobody likes someone to nag at them all the time. It’s a bad habit and you should be above it.
You want him to miss you, not think how lucky he is that he doesn’t have to listen to you nag all day long.
So next time you see him and he does or says something you don’t like, control yourself and don’t nag. If you have to say something, turn to constructive criticism.
The best thing though might be to change the subject.
12) Make amends
Is the reason you broke up something you did? Did you do something hurtful?
Was there something you could have done to make your relationship easier?
It’s important to remember that it takes two to make or break a relationship.
So, why not take the first step to make amends.
Apologize for any hurt or stress you might have caused him.
The bottom line is that making amends will help you both let go of any negative feelings and will enable you to start over with a clean slate.
13) Forgive and forget
Is it the other way around? Did you break up because of something he did?
Are you still holding a grudge?
Are you so busy thinking about the past that you forget to enjoy the present?
It’s time to let go.
If he is truly sorry then you need to let go of any hurt he caused you and forgive him for any wrongdoings.
You can’t move on if your mind is stuck in the past.
Think about it:
If you can’t forgive and forget, then how do you expect to get back together with him?
14) Be willing to compromise
A relationship with a Scorpio man is not easy. He’s an intense person, but you can make it work if you are willing to compromise.
What does this mean?
It means that in order to avoid constant conflicts, you’ll need to find a middle ground.
You might get into fights about small things, like the way you organize your kitchen cabinets, or something more serious – like your career plans.
Next time you find yourself arguing over something, instead of letting your pride take over, be willing to make changes to accommodate his concerns and demands.
What does a Scorpio man find unforgivable?
Relationships end for a myriad of reasons.
There are things a Scorpio man can get over, but there are others he can never forgive.
Here are 4 things Scorpio men don’t forgive:
Scorpios demand loyalty.
Cheating is a deal-breaker and they won’t even consider working things out or giving you a chance to regain their trust.
Scorpios are intensely jealous, possessive, and territorial by nature.
If they suspect their partner is cheating on them, they will go to great lengths to confirm it before confronting their partner.
Once their suspicions are confirmed, there’s nothing more that can be done; it’s over between them.
Lying is the one thing Scorpios cannot tolerate.
On the one hand, if they discover that they have been lied to but there was a good reason for doing it, they’ll probably be willing to forgive and forget.
On the other hand, if they discover that they have been lied to but there wasn’t a good reason for doing so, they may find such actions unforgivable – especially if they’ve happened before.
Simply put, if you keep lying to a Scorpio, they won’t be able to trust you anymore.
Playing head games
Scorpios hate women who play games.
They’ll forgive the first time she plays a game, but if it becomes a pattern, they will end it.
Scorpios like to be in control of their relationships.
They like to know where they stand with you, and if you’re the type of woman who likes to play hard to get by flirting with other men and “punishing” your man for things he hasn’t done, then he is definitely not going to forgive you.
Lack of love
They want a partner who loves them with all their heart and soul, who they can feel that they can share everything with, who they know will always be there for them, who will always love them unconditionally.
If a person doesn’t love Scorpios with all their heart and soul, then it may be over between them.
Signs a Scorpio man is done with you
Sometimes a Scorpio man will come back, especially if you’re willing to follow the advice from this article.
But as I mentioned above, there are situations when no matter what you do, it’s over for him and he’s done with you.
So how do you know he’s done with you?
No more mister nice guy
When a Scorpio man is done with you, he won’t try and hide it.
He’ll cut you loose with the harshness of a knife.
He won’t be willing to listen to your apologies. He won’t be giving you second chances to do things differently.
The bottom line is: he won’t take your bull*hit anymore.
He puts physical distance between you
He’s done with you and he wants to get as far away from you as he can.
So, he’ll put as much space between you as he can because he realizes that’s what needs to happen for him to be happy.
When he stops initiating contact, that’s the time when you have to take your own big step back.
Stop calling. Stop texting. And let him go peacefully.
It hurts to realize that someone you love no longer wants you in his life, but there’s nothing you can do about it.
He cuts you off emotionally
If he cuts you off emotionally, it means he’s really done with you.
He stops caring about how you feel or what you do.
You’ll be lucky if he has a civil word for you. You might even get the silent treatment.
That’s because he is so hurt by the fact that you broke his trust that he no longer cares about how you feel.
And in fact, he doesn’t care how it looks to others either.
He ignores your calls
When a Scorpio man stops returning your calls, it means it’s really over.
He considers that his right to do so, and refuses to answer or engage in any conversation.
He can’t stand the thought of talking to someone who betrayed him so profoundly and wants to cut off all ties with them.
He doesn’t care if you are in pain
When a Scorpio man is done with you, he doesn’t care if you are in pain. He doesn’t even care if you think he’s the cause of it.
He’s been hurt by you and doesn’t care if you have to suffer as well.
Hopefully whatever happened between you and your Scorpio man was not unforgivable and my tips will help you get him back.
But understanding an issue can be just the beginning.
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Their spiritual advisors understand an enormous amount about what makes people break up and make up and how to address it.
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