It was a happy relationship until one day, she decided to leave you. The reasons are not clear, but one thing is for sure; she left you.
And now, you are thinking about whether she’ll regret her decision.
To answer that question, you must first ask yourself, what made her leave me?
It’s okay if you can’t answer that question. Ex-girlfriends are complicated creatures.
There are several things that made her decide to walk away from you so there is no clear way to find out.
And yet, there are some things that you can do to make your ex-girlfriend regret leaving you.
Here are the top ten things you must do if you want your ex-girlfriend to regret leaving you.
1) Make yourself as attractive as possible.
It doesn’t matter if your ex-girlfriend left you because she wants to find someone more handsome or more intelligent than you.
If you want her to regret leaving you, then the first thing that you should do is make sure your physical appearance will make her want to come back to you.
There are several ways that you can do to improve your looks. You can go for a haircut and some facial grooming if necessary or go for cosmetic surgery if necessary.
But more importantly, you have to take care of your body because that is the physical representation of your personality.
A well-groomed and physically fit body will make you more attractive in the eyes of your ex-girlfriend.
Start working out and taking care of your body so there is no excuse for not improving your physical appearance.
Not only that, but you must make yourself mentally attractive too.
If you want your ex-girlfriend to take you back, then make sure that you are mentally prepared for her.
You should be confident and self-assured so that the only thing your ex-girlfriend might regret is making a bad decision by leaving you.
2) Learn how to take care of yourself.
After making yourself as attractive as possible, you must learn how to take care of yourself so that your ex-girlfriend will want to come back to you again and again.
How will you go about this?
One of the ways you can do this is by learning how to cook. You don’t have to be an expert chef but it’s good if you can cook simple meals.
The thing is that food plays a major role in a healthy relationship. If you are taking care of yourself, then your ex-girlfriend will see that you can also take care of her.
And she will want to experience the feeling of being taken care of by you.
Another way you can do this is by making time for yourself.
Do something that will make you happy like watching a movie or traveling. But more importantly, do it on your own.
If you can make your life happy and enjoyable without your ex-girlfriend, then she will miss her special place in your life.
So, learn how to take care of yourself.
3) Tell her you are going to cut communication with her for the time being.
Cutting communication with your ex-girlfriend might be a big thing for you to do. But if you want her to regret her decision, then you have to do it.
So what can you do in this situation? Send this “No Communication” text.
-“You’re right. We shouldn’t talk right now, but I would like to be friends eventually.”-
This one needs to be sent to your ex at the right time for it to be truly effective.
But why I like it is that you’re communicating with them that you don’t need to talk anymore. In essence, you’re saying that you don’t need them to play any role in your life anymore.
Why is this so good?
You induce a “fear of loss” in your ex which will trigger their attraction to you again.
I learned about this text from Brad Browning, who has helped thousands of men and women get their exes back. He goes by the moniker of “the relationship geek”, for good reason.
In this free video, he’ll show you exactly what you can do to make your ex want you again.
No matter what your situation is — or how badly you’ve messed up since the two of you broke up — he’ll give you several useful tips that you can apply immediately.
Here’s a link to his free video again. If you want your ex back, this video will help you do this.
4) Make yourself as interesting as possible.
A good online dating profile will surely make her curious about you again.
But making yourself interesting is not just about having an interesting profile on social media sites such as Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram. It’s much deeper than that.
It’s about the way you make yourself interesting through your personality.
The first step is to learn how to make conversations entertaining to her again.
Make yourself as appealing as possible by avoiding gossip and things that are likely to bore her.
Become interesting in the sense that you can make her want to spend more time with you again.
So, how do you make yourself interesting?
The first thing that you have to do is to avoid becoming predictable. That means making sure you are a mystery to her.
Diversify your thoughts and actions and do things that would surprise her from time to time.
Make sure she will never know what might be coming next from you.
This will give her a reason to want to spend more time with you again.
In addition, this will make your ex-girlfriend miss your presence in her life.
As a result, she will regret leaving you and return to you again.
5) Get rid of all distractions in your life.
If you want to get your ex-girlfriend back, then you have to be completely focused on her.
You have to slow down the pace of your life and make sure that none of the distractions will cause you to lose focus on her again.
There are certain things that you must get rid of first and they might the things that are mainly responsible for your breakup in the first place.
What can these things be?
It could be some of your so-called “friends” or a demanding job.
You have to make necessary changes in your life such that these things do not distract you from your focus.
So, how do you eliminate these distractions from your life?
The first step is to change your job. But if you still like the people you work with or the company you work for, then a change of position or department might be necessary.
You have to make it such that this job will not cause distraction in your life again.
The second thing that you have to do is make sure that your friends are not distracting you from your focus on her.
If they are then it is time to talk with them and tell them that you need their support and understanding of what you are about to do.
6) Give her space but be there whenever she needs you.
One of the biggest mistakes that people make when they want to get their ex back is giving her too much attention (or space).
They end up in one extreme or the other.
That can be bad for you because one of the things that would impress your ex-girlfriend to come back to you is if she sees the changes in you.
A person who has changed for the better will make her miss what your relationship was once like. And this is something that she will remember.
The thing is, you will have to find the right balance when you want her back.
You have to give her space but be there whenever she needs you.
So as long as she is not ready for a serious relationship, then you can give her space.
And if she wants to meet up with you, then don’t let her down – make sure that this meeting happens.
But you need to be on your guard and make sure that you are not giving her all the attention just because she asked you something like this.
That would spoil your chances of getting her back.
This relates back to what Brad Browning taught me – there are simple ways to get your ex back.
I mentioned Brad earlier, he’s an expert at helping couples work through their issues and rebuild their relationships.
With practical tips to help you get your ex back, his advice could be just what you need to make her regret leaving you.
7) Make friends with other women.
I have found that friends of the other sex can be a good source of comfort when you want to get your ex back.
When you start getting girlfriends, your ex will feel jealous too.
This is because she will assume that you are going out with these women.
And as a result, she will miss what it was like when the two of you were dating.
This is one way in which you can make her regret leaving you.
But you need to be careful about that.
Make sure these women are good for you but also make sure that you can trust them. That is the first thing that you need to make this work.
It could be worth it if you want your ex to feel jealousy and miss what your relationship was like before.
However, be careful.
If your friendships with women are causing you to be distracted from your focus on your ex, then it is time to change things up.
Don’t let yourself get distracted so that your ex-girlfriend will have more reason to miss you.
Make sure she will know what it was like when you were together by giving her space and staying in touch with her friends.
Also, make sure that you are only meeting with those women when she is not around.
This way, you will ensure that your focus on her is intact and going strong.
That means your ex will have to realize what it was like when the two of you used to be a couple.
8) Have a face-to-face conversation with her.
Sometimes when you want your ex to realize what they have lost, a face-to-face conversation will do the trick.
That is because it will help her realize that she misses all the good memories of you. And as a result, she will be ready to accept your presence again in her life.
A conversation is different from simply chatting online or sending her messages through Facebook chat, IM, etc.
For example, you can start by sending her a text message or an email that will be casual.
That conversation will set the tone for the upcoming conversation and make her feel more at ease with you.
Meet with her at some place memorable to both of you. It will create a feeling of comfort between both of you.
Make sure that this conversation is not just a one-time thing. Make it one of many conversations that the two of you have over time.
The more conversations you have, the better your chances are of making her realize what she has lost.
And that is something that will make her regret leaving you. This will help her realize that she misses the good times that you share.
When you finally have a conversation with your ex-girlfriend, make sure that you keep these things in mind.
9) Be honest – tell her how you feel.
Telling her how you feel is another way in which you can get your ex back.
You can’t get her back, if you do not feel the same way about her anymore and if there is no passion and desire in your relationship anymore.
But this doesn’t mean that the fun days are over and done with.
Do you know what I mean?
When you are in a relationship with someone, there are times when people feel the need to say things that they don’t want to say.
That is because they feel the need, to be honest, and let the other person know how they feel.
Telling her how you feel is one of those things when you start telling her what you think and how she makes you feel inside.
Some people might have a hard time telling her what they feel because they are afraid that she would not like the truth.
That is why they kept everything to themselves in the first place.
However, when you start telling her how you feel, it will make her realize that there is nothing left to hide.
It will also help her to realize that there are things about her that she needs to improve on. And as a result, it will make your relationship stronger and better.
And when she realizes that you have this kind of passion in your relationship, she will not be able to ignore it.
You need to express your feelings and tell her that you love her.
This will make it easier for you to get her back.
10) Show her that you can change.
After you’ve told her how you feel, the next step is to show her that the things she doesn’t like about you can be changed and improved upon.
This is because you can’t get her back if your relationship had a bad start.
So, you need to show that you can be a better version of yourself.
Yes, you are different now but there are ways in which you can turn things around.
For instance, think about the things she doesn’t like about you or that made her stop loving you.
You don’t have to go from being cocky and rude to being a total sweetheart.
What you need to do is to find a balance between the two.
For example, if it was cockiness that made her dump you in the first place, then start showing her your sweet side and how much you can change for the better.
This is one way in which you can prove to her that she has a good reason to give your relationship another chance.
However, make sure that you are not changing yourself just to win her back.
Don’t let her get the wrong impression that you are now a completely different person than what she first thought.
Continue to show her that you have changed in the right ways.
By doing this, she will know that you are capable of being a better version of yourself.
There you go! These 10 tips will help you make your girlfriend regret leaving you.
But if you really want your ex back for good,
You’ll need the help of Brad Browning. I mentioned to him earlier, he’s developed some incredible techniques to help rebuild the love and trust between you and your ex.
And the best part?
With his practical advice and tips, you could be in contact with your ex much sooner than you think. Are you ready to take the plunge and fight for the love you once shared?
If so, check out Brad’s excellent free video.
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