Are you tired of going on date after date with people who aren’t right for you? Are you sick of the single life?
You didn’t think finding a partner would be this hard and you’re wondering if you’ll ever be in a relationship and worried that you may end up alone.
Here are 10 ways to tell that you will find love.
Let’s get started:
1) You want to find love
The first step to finding love is wanting to find love.
The second step is being open to love. You see, some people wonder why they’re not in a relationship when the answer is simple: they’re not ready to be in one. But if you’re open to love and ready to receive it – love will find you.
The third step is believing you will find love. When you want something and believe in it, the universe will deliver (this is called manifestation).
2) You’re willing to work on yourself
Take it from me, nobody is perfect. That’s why we spend our whole lives learning and growing.
If you’re willing to work on yourself, then chances are that you’ll be in a relationship.
Now, maybe you’re shy and don’t go out much. If you want to find someone, then you have to step outside of your comfort zone in order to meet more people.
Or, perhaps you have impossibly high standards. This is something you can work on.
Ask yourself what you really need to be happy. You don’t actually need someone rich and handsome. You need someone who has a good sense of humor and the same values and beliefs as you – someone who makes you feel special.
3) A gifted advisor confirms it
The signs in this article will help you know if you’ll ever find love.
Even so, issues related to love and dating can be confusing at the best of times, especially as your situation is unique to you.
So could getting some outside guidance help?
After a really challenging breakup, I found that speaking to an advisor from Psychic Source was super helpful.
The advisor I spoke to was kind, understanding, and genuinely helpful.
My love reading gave me the guidance I was looking for (and needed) during a painful and confusing time.
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Not only can a gifted advisor tell you whether a relationship is on the cards anytime soon, but they can also reveal all your love possibilities.
4) You’re patient
It takes time to find the right partner.
Some people expect to fall in love, get married, and live happily ever after on their first try. They’re too eager and impatient and then they get disappointed when things don’t work out.
You need to go and meet different people until you come across “the one”:
The key is to be patient and enjoy the journey. If you’re patient and are able to take things slow, one step at a time, then there’s no reason why it won’t happen.
5) You’re realistic in your expectations
If you know that relationships are hard work and you understand that people are complicated and that nobody is perfect, then you’re on the right path.
The problem with some people is that they go out on dates expecting to meet a fairytale prince or princess.
That’s not real life.
Everyone comes with some baggage. And when people have unrealistic expectations they have a hard time finding love.
The bottom line is that if you keep your expectations realistic, you’ll find the right person for you.
6) You’re an optimist
I really think that positive thinking is key when it comes to relationships and everything else that you want out of life.
One the one hand, if you want to find love but are scared that you’ll never meet anyone or that you’ll end up all alone, then negativity will creep in and block it from happening.
On the other hand, if you keep thinking positive thoughts, if you believe that you’ll find love when the time is right and you’re not too worried, then the universe will respond accordingly by bringing positive things into your life – and that includes a loving relationship.
7) A relationship coach guarantees you will
While this article will shed light on the main signs that you’ll find someone, it can be helpful to speak to a relationship coach about your situation.
With a professional relationship coach, you can get advice tailored to your unique situation…
Relationship Hero is a popular site where highly trained relationship coaches help people work through complex issues so that they can find love and the relationship that they deserve. Their popularity boils down to how skilled their coaches are.
Why am I so confident that they can help you?
Well, I recently experienced a tough patch in my own relationship, and I reached out to them for help. From the moment I got in touch, I was given genuine, helpful advice, and was finally able to see my relationship issues with real clarity.
I was blown away by how kind and empathetic my coach was.
Within minutes, you could be receiving life-changing advice on how to navigate and repair the issues you’re facing that are keeping you from being in a relationship.
8) You have hope
Hope and optimism go hand in hand.
A lot of people give up when things aren’t working out for them, which is why they’re not in a relationship.
Think about it:
You have to believe that it’s possible to find love. If you don’t, then you’re going to stop looking and give up.
Keep in touch with your hopes and dreams for the future. Don’t let them fade away.
9) You’re open to meeting people
One way to find love is by going out and meeting new people.
If you’re open to meeting new people, people different from yourself or the people you usually go out with, you may just be in for a surprise.
Meeting new people isn’t just about meeting the same type of person over and over again, it’s about exploring and mixing things up a bit. It’s about breaking boundaries.
Who knows, maybe your soulmate is completely different from what you imagined.
So if you want to find love, be open to meeting new people – all sorts of strange and exciting people.
Start by accepting invitations to parties or other events where you can mingle.
I won’t lie to you. If you’re not willing to go out or don’t want to go out, then your chances of ever finding love are going to be slim.
10) You don’t judge a book by its cover
Don’t get me wrong, looks play a big role in attraction, but they’re not everything.
If you’re interested in more than a person’s physical appearance, that means that you’re interested in getting to know them as a person and that in turn means you’re well on your way to finding someone.
It’s important to be able to look past a person’s appearance and not judge them for it. After all, looks will fade and what remains is what’s inside.
5 reasons you can’t find love
Now that we’ve looked at how to tell if you’ll ever be in a relationship, let’s look at some of the most common reasons people can’t find love.
1) You’re afraid of getting hurt
I know, I know. Love hurts.
But what you don’t know is that letting love in will hurt a lot less than carrying around the pain of it not happening for you.
When you try to avoid getting hurt, it just ends up hurting more in the long run.
Maybe you keep getting into relationships with people that aren’t right for you. Because of your fear of being alone or of never finding love again – you end up staying with them longer than is necessary and that can be tough.
So, you’ve come across a few bad apples, so what. Most people do. But if you just let go of the fear of getting hurt, then you’ll be able to find the right person and be happy.
The truth is that when it comes to love, things rarely go as smoothly as we’d like them to.
That’s why I recommend speaking to one of the gifted advisors over at Psychic Source.
I mentioned them earlier.
They’ve been incredibly helpful in the past when I’ve needed guidance on my love life, and they’ll certainly be able to help you with getting over your fear of getting hurt.
Whether you prefer to chat online, or jump on a call and speak face-to-face, you can get clarity on this situation right now.
2) You don’t think you deserve love
You don’t believe that you deserve love, so you stay in a relationship or even a friendship, that deep down you know isn’t right for you. And then, after many years of doing this, you wonder why it’s not working out.
If you want to find love and keep it, then it’s important to know that you deserve love – no matter what.
If someone doesn’t treat you the way they should and they make your life miserable, then walk away! They’re not right for you. It doesn’t mean that there’s something wrong with you.
You deserve love and you will find the right person for you.
3) You always fall for people who’re not available
If you keep dating people who’re not available, you’re never going to find love. You’re only going to continue wasting your time.
Ask yourself: “Am I choosing people who are unavailable?”
And if you are, then ask yourself “why?” Could it be because you’re actually scared of commitment?
If you want to find love, try dating someone who’s available and ready for a serious relationship with someone like yourself.
4) You’re not really putting yourself out there
If you keep seeing the same type of people all the time, but don’t open yourself up to meeting new people, it’s going to be really hard for you to find love.
You have to get out and meet new people. If you’re not willing to do that or if you think it’s a waste of time, then chances are really slim that you’ll ever find love.
The more open and outgoing you are, the more likely it is that your dream will come true.
I know it’s scary, but you really don’t have anything to lose and everything to gain. If you’re not putting yourself out there, then how are you going to find love?
If you expect someone else to make all the effort, then you’re making it more difficult for yourself and them as well. It’s about balance!
5) You’re settling
Settling for less than you deserve or settling for someone who’s not right for you is never a good idea.
Don’t stay in an unhappy relationship or with someone who is “good enough”.
Take a risk. Be single for a while.
Focus on your needs and when the right person comes along, you’ll be free to seize the opportunity.
6) You expect too much of people
If you expect people to be perfect, you’re not going to find love. This is because nobody’s perfect and nobody’s going to be able to live up to your standards.
One of the reasons why people can’t find love is because they’re waiting for their partner to meet all their needs or fill in the gaps in their lives. However, that isn’t how relationships work and that isn’t realistic.
Relationships are a two-way street and it takes two people working together towards the same goal, not one person riding on the back of another one trying to make them happy.
7) You refuse to change
If you’re not willing to change yourself, then you’ll never find love.
You have to be willing to open yourself up so that you can accept a partner who’s not like the last one. It’s about going out and meeting more people, but it’s also about learning how people are different and what makes them tick.
8) Your standards are too high
If you have standards that are too high, you’re going to miss out on many opportunities to find love.
If your standards are too high, you’re probably only going to meet people who don’t fit in with what you’re looking for anyway.
When you have very high standards, it’s difficult for anyone to live up to them. If someone does manage to get close, then we’ll either say they’re settling or that they’ve changed over the course of the relationship.
The bottom line is that if your standards are too high, maybe it’s time to take a step back and look at how unrealistic they are and where they’ve come from.
What should you do if you want to find love?
1) Be ok with being alone
It’s important to know that you can be happy being alone.
Don’t get me wrong, falling in love is great, and sharing your life with someone can be a very fulfilling experience, but it’s not everything.
The thing is that love isn’t going to make you happy. You need to be happy with who you are first. You need to love yourself and your life before you can truly love another person.
If you think love will solve all your problems, not only are you kidding yourself, but you’re also putting a lot of pressure on your future partner.
It’s easier than you think – you can be happy alone. Once you’ve achieved that, you’ll be open to receiving love.
2) Learn to let yourself be loved
It’s hard to believe that some people have a hard time accepting love from others and yet it’s a problem faced by many people.
Even though they want love more than anything, they don’t know what to do when they find it. They get scared of getting hurt, losing control, not being enough, and being abandoned.
If love knocks on your door and you push it away because you have no idea what to do with it, then it’s time to learn to let yourself be loved.
Then allow yourself to be vulnerable and seen by another person. Love is a risk that’s worth taking.
3) Know that you’re worthy of love
Having a healthy self-esteem can help you to find love. If you don’t believe that you’re worthy of love, then what makes you think that anyone else is?
The lack of self-worth isn’t something that happens overnight either. It’s a gradual process over time.
Some people don’t even realize this is happening because it doesn’t happen in one day. It happens over a long period of time and it’s almost like a slow poison that affects us on a subconscious level. Put the work into yourself and learn to love yourself first before anything else.
If you don’t feel worthy of love, it’s because you haven’t been showing yourself the love that you need and deserve.
Simply put, if you want to find love, then start by loving yourself more.
When you do that, your fear of not being loved or not being good enough will disappear. You’ll be able to accept love from another person too and this is when true love can begin to blossom.
4) Know what you’re looking for
If you know what you’re looking for, it will be easier to find it.
What do you want in a partner?
- Is it someone who’s going to make you laugh?
- Someone who makes you feel safe?
- Someone who tells you to be yourself?
- Is it someone who has the same values as yours?
- Is there someone with similar goals or passions as your own?
If you’re looking for love, take time out and write down your list of things that matter to you.
Then take some time out and look at the people around you. Who are the people that interest and intrigue you?
In my experience, you’re never going to meet someone if you don’t get out there and socialize. You have to go out there and start making some new friends.
You need a social life that’s active and full of people – people who are outside of your comfort zone. This will put you in the best position possible to find love.
6) Take care of yourself
Many people get caught up in a spiral of self-neglect and unhappiness. They never take time out to look after themselves and they end up feeling unwell.
If you don’t take care of yourself, then you can’t expect someone else to do it for you.
But if you have a healthy diet, regular exercise, plenty of sleep, and a positive attitude, then you’re more likely to attract love into your life and be happier in general.
7) Be open-minded
You’ll never find love if you close yourself off from the possibilities that life has to offer.
You need to learn that what seems impossible today is possible tomorrow. Give yourself a ‘wish list’ and make it into a positive.
Next time you find yourself wanting something, ask yourself if you can make it happen. Challenge yourself and take action in the direction of your wishes.
Don’t be too shy to make changes either. If you have an idea, work out what you can do to make this happen for yourself. What steps can you take?
If you don’t take the initiative to push through with ideas that crop up in your mind, then they’ll eventually cease to enter your mind in the first place. You’ll be stuck in a rut and that’s not what we want to see happening either.
8) Don’t seek romance, seek partnership
Here’s the truth:
If you’re looking for romance, then you’ll always be disappointed.
You see, when you’re looking for romance, you have expectations of how things should be and don’t appreciate them when they happen.
9) Live a life that brings you joy
You can’t be happy and experience love if you’re not living a joyful life full of fulfillment and passion. Try doing things that make you happy.
What are your passions? What makes you want to get out of bed in the mornings? What really excites you? These are questions that will help to get your mind focused on the things that matter.
If you’re heading in the right direction, then a deep sense of contentment will follow.
10) Don’t be afraid to make the first move
When it comes to meeting someone new, don’t be afraid to make the first move. If you want to start chatting with someone, then approach them.
People love people who connect with them and show interest in them.
If you’re bold enough to approach people and make a friendly connection, then it’s quite likely that they’ll be interested in getting to know you better.
There are many ways of approaching people that I’m sure most of us have done at some stage in our lives – asking someone out on a date, writing a note, or buying them a present like flowers; all of these can be effective ways of starting conversations that can lead to more substantial things down the road.
Being single can be quite frustrating and dating can get tiring – trust me, I know.
While this article should give you a good idea about why you’re still single and what you can do to find love, I recommend getting in touch with a trustworthy advisor.
I mentioned Psychic Source earlier. Based on my own personal experience with them, I know they’re kind and genuinely helpful.
So instead of leaving things up to chance, take control of this situation and clarify what’s in store for your future.
Speaking to one of their experienced advisors was a turning point for me, and I think it could be for you too. Especially if you want to find out if you’ll ever be in a relationship.
Click here to get your own love reading.
Can a relationship coach help you too?
If you want specific advice on your situation, it can be very helpful to speak to a relationship coach.
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