Are you wondering whether or not he will ever come back after saying he didn’t want a relationship?
That’s a tough situation to be in, but here are 14 signs he will come back:
1) He’s actually calling you a lot
Some people feel like when someone says they don’t want a relationship, it’s just easier to cut them off and not call them anymore.
That’s potentially what you did after stopping to see him, right?
However, things can get confusing really quickly when he’s actually the one calling you a lot!
Didn’t he say he doesn’t want a relationship?
Calling you a lot is a huge sign that he wants to get back in the relationship.
This also applies to texts, by the way.
You may have seen him say that he doesn’t want a relationship, but did you see him send you multiple text messages and emails every single day?
If so, then it’s much more likely that he wants to get back in the relationship.
You see, when you are done with someone, you don’t feel the need to contact them a lot.
If he can’t stop reaching out to you, there is definitely something going on still!
2) He’s sent you flirty messages
If he has sent you flirty messages, that’s a good sign that he will come back.
It could be something as simple as “Hey, you looked really good at work today.”
You see, why would you flirt with someone you have no interest in whatsoever? You don’t!
Simply put, if he flirts with you a lot, the chances are good that he is interested.
In fact, more than likely, he’s very interested in you!
Think about it: who do you send flirty messages to?
Usually only the guys you are interested in, right?
Well, with guys it’s not much different, they don’t want to flirt with just anyone!
If he flirts with you, it’s a good sign that he wants to get back in the relationship.
3) You bring out his inner hero
A huge sign that a guy will come back is when you manage to bring out his inner hero.
There’s a new theory in the relationship world that’s causing quite a stir – it’s called the hero instinct.
Coined by relationship expert James Bauer, this fascinating concept finally explains how men really think and feel in relationships.
And it’s something most women have never even heard of.
According to James Bauer, men don’t actually need a lot to feel content in their relationships. In fact, what they need has nothing to do with sex.
Men have certain innate drivers. And when a woman comes along and triggers them, it causes a powerful response.
The result is a man who loves harder, commits wholeheartedly, and truly dedicates himself to the relationship.
So, how can you trigger your man’s hero instinct?
The easiest thing to do is to watch this simple and genuine video by James Bauer.
The truth is, once you understand how the hero instinct works, there’s no telling what heights your relationship can reach.
So if you want to give your man what he truly wants from you, make sure to check out James Bauer’s excellent video. In it, he reveals the exact texts and phrases you can use straight away.
4) He’s been really sweet to you
He may have sent you a text message that said “Hey, I hope you’re having a great day.”
That’s sweet, right?
And why would he be doing that?
Because he wants to get back in the relationship!
When the guy who said he doesn’t want a relationship suddenly starts acting really sweet, he might have changed his mind.
You see, guys are usually only sweet when they like you a lot.
5) He asks other people about you
If he asks people about you, that could be a good sign.
He might not want to admit it to himself, but he is interested in you and wants to know what other people think of you.
That’s very telling of his thoughts on you.
Oftentimes, guys will also use this opportunity to inquire about whether or not you’re seeing anyone right now.
He might ask other people to tell him whether or not you’re seeing anyone right now.
Of course, this sign only works when you have mutual friends who tell you about it.
But to be honest, there are not many reasons a guy would ask other people about you other than him liking you and wanting to be in a relationship again.
So: if anyone tells you that he asked about you, that’s a really good sign!
6) He has done the same thing in the past already
If he has done the same thing in the past and came back, he will most likely do it again.
You see, some guys are very flaky when it comes to dating. They’ll leave because they don’t want a relationship and then they’re back again a few weeks later.
If this guy has done the same thing in the past already, there’s a good chance he’s coming back this time, too.
Now the question is: do you want to be with someone who is there one day and then leaves the next?
Do you want to be with someone who is so flaky that you can’t trust him?
Sure, if he has done the same thing in the past already, there’s a good chance he will come back this time, too.
But you’ll have to decide for yourself if this on-and-off stuff is something you’re willing to tolerate.
7) He misses you
If he was really feeling great without you, he would have found someone else by now.
One of the biggest signs that he will come back is when he misses you.
Now: how can you tell that someone misses you?
Well, the most obvious sign is when they tell you “I miss you”, duh!
But you can also tell someone misses you when they call or text you a lot.
For example, I used to be in a relationship with this guy who I thought was my boyfriend.
I was so sure he loved me, but it turned out that he wasn’t ready for a relationship.
And then one day, he told me that he missed me and wanted to be in a relationship with me again.
I was so shocked! I had no idea what to think!
We ended up getting back together and now we’re still a couple after seven years of being together.
8) He is not dating anyone new
If he is not dating anyone new, then there’s a good chance he’ll come back.
You see, guys will often move on quickly when they are done with a relationship.
If he is currently dating someone new or moving on to the next person quickly after breaking up with you, then it’s unlikely that he will come back.
However, if it’s been a few weeks or even months and he is still seemingly single (and you don’t hear any rumors about him, either), there’s a good chance that he’s still hung up on you!
In other words, he’s not over you yet.
So if you can see that he’s not ready to move on, then he’ll probably come back.
9) He is working on himself
If he is working on his own personal life, and getting himself in better shape, that’s a good sign.
He may be trying to improve himself to have a chance with you again.
But not just that.
You see, when he said he didn’t want a relationship, it doesn’t mean that you were the issue for him, maybe he just wasn’t ready to commit, yet.
By working on himself, he might also be working on his commitment issues as well as trying to become a better man.
All of those things are great, they show that he is changing!
And the best part?
They point towards him coming back to you!
This is especially true when he reaches out to let you know that he’s been working on himself.
You see, guys aren’t usually very open about their work on themselves.
But when they do reach out and tell you that they’ve been working on themselves, it’s a good sign that he wants to come back.
10) He’s thinking about the future
Every relationship has its ups and downs, but if your guy is thinking about the future and wants to be with you, then he will likely come back.
You see, when he’s thinking about what it would be like to spend life with you, that’s a sign he will come back.
He might not want to get into another long-term commitment right away, but if he’s thinking about the future, then you should give him some time.
Is he saying anything about a future together or mentioning you in plans far down the road?
That’s a huge indicator that he wants to come back and be with you!
I mentioned this fascinating concept earlier: the hero instinct. When a man’s inner hero is triggered, he’s more likely to commit to you.
Just by knowing the right things to say to him, you’ll open a part of him that no woman has ever reached before.
And the best way to do so is by watching this free video by James Bauer. In it, he’ll reveal simple phrases and texts you can use to make your man truly yours.
11) He gets jealous when someone else flirts with you
Once he starts to show jealousy, it’s a sign he might come back.
It could be because he still has feelings for you or is still confused.
Either way, if the person who said they didn’t want a relationship starts feeling jealous, then they may just change their mind.
You see, you don’t feel jealous about someone you don’t really care about.
When you notice him get defensive when other guys flirt with you or when you talk about going on a date with someone, that’s a huge indicator that he wants you back.
Guys don’t always show their jealousy openly or talk about it.
But you’ll notice that as soon as something happens, he might get really quiet and shut down, or not talk to you for a while.
12) He asks you out again
If he asks you out again, that’s one surefire sign that he’ll come back.
You see, if he was serious about you, he’d ask you out again.
He might not be able to get over you, but he is still thinking about being with you.
And since they care so much about the other person, they’ll often want to hang out with them even if they’re not in a relationship or together anymore.
Plus, he might want to feel out things a bit and see how it is to spend time with you again.
Maybe he misses your company or wants to give it another shot.
Either way, if he asks to hang out it could be a sign that he wants to get back together.
You see, if he doesn’t want to be with you and asks you out again, that’s a huge sign that he doesn’t really want to break up.
He’s just trying to see if there is something there or if you two were just a fling.
When someone wants to get back together, they will often ask the person out again and go on dates.
13) He sends you a gift
Okay, this one is pretty obvious.
If he’s sending you a gift, he wants to get back together.
It could be because he has feelings for you.
Or maybe he’s just really nice and wants to make sure you feel good about yourself.
Either way, if he’s sending you a gift or is making efforts to get back together, that means that he has feelings for you.
Sending you a gift could also be his way of apologizing to you, who knows?
Maybe he realized what a huge mistake it was to let you go, and now he’s trying to win you back!
14) He calls you when he’s drunk
This one is a classic.
When a guy calls or texts you while he is drunk, he definitely still has feelings for you.
You see, when you’re drunk, your true feelings come to the surface, so if he texts you under the influence, a part of him still really likes you!
Think about it: who do you call or text when you’re drunk? Either an ex you’re still hung up on or a guy you are seeing that you like!
It’s a huge sign that he will eventually come back!
Don’t put your life on hold
There are many signs that a guy will eventually come back, but until he does, those are just that, signs.
So, instead of waiting around, don’t put your life on hold! Live it to its fullest, meet people, work on yourself, and be happy!
Not only will that make you even more desirable, but it also ensures that you aren’t waiting around for someone to finally choose you.
And if you want him to come back already?
I touched on the hero instinct earlier – it’s the perfect remedy for the situation you’re facing.
Because once a man’s hero instinct is triggered, he’ll only have eyes for you. You’ll reach a part of him that no woman has ever managed to reach before.
And in return, he’ll be compelled to commit to you and love you like he’s never loved another woman.
So if you’re ready to take that plunge and reach new heights in your relationship, make sure to check out relationship expert James Bauer’s invaluable advice.
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