Will he come back after blocking me? 11 signs he will

Nothing feels worse than being blocked by a guy and not knowing whether he will come back or not.

But don’t fret! There are 12 clear signs that he will come back after blocking you!

So, if you want to find out if your relationship has a future, keep reading!

1) He impulsively blocked you

First off, if your ex blocked you impulsively, this could be a sign that he’s going to come back to you.

You see, in the spur of the moment, we often do things we don’t really mean. And blocking someone is one of them.

So it’s not necessarily a sign that he’s done with you, but rather a sign that he needs a bit more time to think things through.

Think about it: how did he block you? Was it during a heated argument?

Oftentimes, people block others just to symbolically “storm off”. They need time to cool down and usually, they will come back as soon as they’ve relaxed a bit more.

Now, what should you do in that situation?

First off, you need to give him space.

If he’s blocking you, it means he’s trying to escape something. So don’t try to contact him.

Instead, try to distract yourself and find something else to do in the meantime.

Whatever you do, don’t write him angry messages if you want this to have another chance.

Think about it: if he unblocks you and is bombarded with a bunch of angry messages, he’ll probably just block you again!

2) He still follows you on social media

One of the most obvious signs that he still cares about you although he blocked you is that he’s still following you on social media.

You see, he’s probably keeping tabs on what you’re doing.

If you feel like your relationship might be over and then suddenly see him liking your posts or commenting on them to try to talk to you, it could be a sign that he misses you and wants to get back together.

But maybe he’s not doing anything active, if you see that he’s still following you and viewing your stories, that’s already a pretty good sign.

You see, if he blocked you and wanted you completely out of his life, he would have blocked you on social media, too.

So what does that mean for you?

Well, you’ll probably have to be a little patient. When he posts something, you can like it, but just give him a bit of space for now. If he wants to talk to you, he’ll contact you.

Just rest assured that this is a good sign!

3) He was angry when he blocked you

One way to find out whether he’ll come back to you is if he was angry when he blocked you.

If you think back to when he blocked you, did he seem really mad?

Was it in the middle of a big argument?

You see, when people are angry, they often do things that they later regret.

For example, they might block you!

If he was really angry when he blocked you, try to give him some time to cool down and he will probably reach out to you again.

Think about it: when you are angry while fighting with someone, you often feel terrible after calming down, right?

He might feel the exact same way!

Now: how long does it take for him to reach out again?

A week or so?

Yes, that’s right. You see, when you are angry, you might feel like you have to let things cool down before it’s okay to talk again.

So if he was angry when he blocked you, give it a little time and he’ll reach out again.

The thing is, you’re in a position where, unfortunately, you can’t do anything but wait.

My biggest tip?

Give him a set time frame before you decide to move on.

This could be, for example, “if he hasn’t unblocked me in one month, I will move on”.

You see, you don’t want to be hung up on a guy who blocked you forever, you deserve someone who treats you the way you should be treated.

So give him a week or two to reach out to you.

If he doesn’t reach out, then that’s probably the end of it.

It’s time to move on!

4) He asked friends about you

It’s been a couple of days since he blocked you and he feels the need to ask your friends about you?

That means that he’s definitely interested in you and might come back!

You see, a guy who wants you out of his life completely won’t go asking your friends about you, would he?

The only reason he’s doing that is that he still deeply cares about you and wants to make sure that you’re okay.

Of course, this is a hard sign to spot, after all, you need to have mutual friends who will tell you if he asks about you!

But if he does, he’s definitely interested in you.

Now: should you ask your friends to talk to him?

You could. If they are friends with him, too, you could ask them to reach out and ask him how he’s doing and what he’s been up to.

Just make sure that you’re not making it too obvious.

This is a good way to see if he is trying to move on or if he will be back soon.

5) He needed space to think when he blocked you

The first step in figuring out if he’ll be back is to see if he blocked you because he needed space.

If he has, this might not be a good sign, as weird as it sounds.

Some guys block the person they love because they need some space to think or because they want some time away.

Sometimes, that means he will be back as soon as he had some space.

Did he mention something about needing a little bit of time and space before he blocked you?

Of course, I don’t want to get your hopes up, it can also mean that he doesn’t want to deal with any emotions and wants to cut things off for good.

Getting blocked is a tricky situation and you never know where you stand with the other person because they won’t talk to you.

The thing is, some guys simply need a couple of days or weeks of space before they are ready to jump back into the relationship.

6) He has done it before

Okay, this is probably one of the biggest signs that he will come back to you after blocking you: he has done it before.

If he has blocked you before, this could be a sign that he will do it again.

He might be trying to avoid the feelings that come with being in a relationship, or it could mean that he just wants some space because of different reasons.

It could even mean that he doesn’t know how to handle the situation, so he blocked you so that he doesn’t have to deal with it, yet.

You see, if he has a pattern of blocking you when he’s mad or angry and then unblocking you again a few days later, then this might be the same situation.

It’s definitely a weird way for him to handle things but if he’s done it in the past, he might just be repeating his pattern.

Now: the question is, do you want to be with someone who repeatedly blocks you?

Maybe you do, maybe you don’t.

It’s up to you to decide if it’s worth the heartache, but at least you know that he has done this before.

Think about it: there are couples out there who fight in a healthy way, without leaving the other person to wonder whether things are over or not.

They communicate and they stay loving, even in the midst of an argument.

Blocking is not an option because they don’t need to run away from their feelings and would rather talk things out with one another than freeze each other out.

Doesn’t that sound like a relationship you’d like to be in?

Why would you want to be with someone who doesn’t communicate in a healthy way?

So, if he has done this before, it’s probably because he is an emotional person.

He is not the type of person who wants to make things clear and put everything out on the table.

This guy might feel that it’s harder for him to tell you what he thinks than stay silent and let his emotions boil over.

It could also mean that he just doesn’t know how to handle relationship issues in a healthy way, so he blocks them out instead of dealing with them.

Now, you need to decide if you want to settle for someone like that or if you want to move on to someone who will handle his emotions in a healthy way.

7) He still loves you

Another sign that he will come back to you after blocking you is that he still loves you.

I know this one is a little bit hard to tell, I mean, how do you know someone still loves you?

But oftentimes, you just know.

You’ll have a feeling in your gut or you remember something he said or did recently that showed his love.

You see, love doesn’t just disappear.

It’s a feeling that you can’t explain, but you know when it’s there.

If he still loves you, he will eventually come back to you and apologize for what happened.

He will tell you that he loves you and that he doesn’t want to lose you.

He might even beg for forgiveness, telling you how much he misses seeing your face and how much he wants to be with you again.

Now: the problem is that the longer he blocks you, the harder it will be to trust him again afterward.

But the thing is, sometimes the guy doesn’t even realize his mistake himself until he had some space to think.

Simply put, if a guy still loves you, there is a good chance that he will come back.

8) He feels terrible after the breakup

It’s normal for feelings to be mixed after a breakup, but if he feels terrible after what happened, the chances are pretty good that he will come back soon.

Sometimes, people feel relieved and happy that they no longer have to deal with the challenges of a relationship.

Other times, there’s regret and sorrow over what could have been.

It’s only natural for one or both partners to still hope for reconciliation, but when he feels terrible after the breakup, there’s a good chance you will be back together.

You see, if he’s just been spending some time alone and dealing with his emotions after the breakup, it might be a sign that he will come back to you soon.

Now: this is a hard sign to spot, after all, he blocked you, so you don’t know how he feels.

Your best bet is probably asking mutual friends, family, and coworkers.

They’ll know for sure if he’s been spending time with them and will be able to give you a more accurate read on his current state of mind.

But maybe there are some indicators that tell you he’s not feeling great, like him not posting on social media, or seeing what he’s listening to on Spotify.

9) The breakup was sudden and due to a stupid argument

Another sign that he will come back is that one day, all of a sudden, you two were done.

No warning signs and out of nowhere, you had an argument and he blocked you.

You don’t know what to do or how to move on because the breakup was sudden and due to a stupid argument.

If that’s the case, the chances are pretty good that he acted out of an emotional state and didn’t mean to break up or block you.

He’s probably just not thinking straight right now, so the odds are good that he will come back.

You see, if you’re arguing with him and suddenly he blocks you, it’s probably because he got frustrated and blocked you out of frustration.

In that case, he will probably come back once he’s calmed down, which can take anywhere between a few hours and a few days.

10) He isn’t seeing anyone else

One of the ways to find out if he’ll be back is if he isn’t seeing anyone else.

If he’s still single and has no reason to be, then there’s a good chance he hasn’t completely let go of you.

You see, if he blocks you just to start seeing someone else right after, it’s a pretty huge sign he’s moving on.

However, if he isn’t seeing anyone else, then there is still a chance that he will come back to you soon!

Sometimes, guys just need a little bit of time to process their emotions.

Again, here you might need the help of mutual friends to figure out what is going on.

11) He doesn’t badmouth you behind your back

This is another sign that will be hard to spot without having mutual friends to consult.

However, if he doesn’t badmouth you behind your back and talks kindly about you even though you’re blocked, that’s a good sign that he will be back eventually!

Maybe he just needed some time to realize that you’re the one and only girl for him, so he’ll come back eventually!

You see, if he badmouths you and talks about you behind your back, then there’s no doubt that he wants to move on.

But if he speaks kindly of you even though you’re blocked, that’s a good sign that he will come back eventually.

What can you do now?

Being blocked by someone you love can be difficult.

I know, because I’ve been there — up all night wondering what I’ve done wrong, trying to figure out when they’ll come back…

But these long, torturous thoughts do nothing but mess with your head.

What I did — and perhaps, what you, too, can do — is meditate.

I sat back, took a breather, and listened to this self-healing meditation to drive those voices out of my head.

It was only 19 minutes long, but it made a world of difference.

It made me realize that it doesn’t matter if he comes back or not.

What matters is that I find my own peace — and you deserve that, too.

Click here for the free meditation.

When do you know he won’t come back?

Now: I’m sure you also want to know when it is time to move on and stop waiting for him.

Here are a few signs that he will not come back after blocking you:

He was only looking for an excuse to block you

Do you feel like there was no reason for blocking you and that he was simply looking for an excuse to do so?

If that’s true, then you might have a problem on your hands.

Because if he was only looking for an excuse to block you, there is a chance that he will never come back to you.

If he was looking for an excuse to block you, it’s likely that he wouldn’t do so unless it was serious.

So if there wasn’t a serious reason behind blocking you and he only did so because he could get away with it, then there is a good chance that he will never come back.

You know you won’t reconcile

As sad as it is, some fights are just too bad to come back from.

If you know deep down in your heart that you won’t be reconciling, then you might as well move on and forget about him.

You see, if he can’t come back to you after a fight like that and blocked you, this might be it.

So if it’s over between the two of you and there is no way for reconciliation, then it’s time for you to move on.

He has moved on

Another sign he won’t come back after blocking you is that he has moved on.

If he has moved on, then you can be sure that he is done with you and will never come back.

So if he is not coming back to you because he has moved on, then it’s time for you to move on as well and forget about him.

You don’t want to be hung up on someone who has already moved on, do you?

Respect yourself

After hearing all this information, my biggest tip for you is to remember to respect yourself.

You see, he might have blocked you, but you still have self-respect! Don’t beg him to come back or to unblock you, and instead, keep your composure.

If he doesn’t want to be with you, you need to move on.

You deserve a guy who wants to give you the world and who loves you and wants to talk things out with you, not block you!

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