11 reasons why a guy might ask you what you’re doing tonight

Did a guy ask you about your plans tonight?

Well, I’m sure your mind is racing with what he’s implying.

There are actually tons of things he could mean with that question, but here are 11 reasons he asks you what you are doing tonight:

1) To check if you are available

The first reason a guy will ask you this question is to figure out whether or not you’re available tonight.

Maybe he’s planning to ask you out, or he simply wanted to know, either way, he’s checking to make sure you’re free.

This is the number 1 reason why a guy would ask you what you are doing tonight.

2) To see if he can join you in your plans

A guy might ask you what your plans are for tonight to see if he can join you.

You might be at a party with friends and he wants to know if he can come to hang out too.

Or, you’re going to a movie with someone else, but he wants to invite himself along.

It’s a common tactic guys use just in case they want to be around you without being too forward about it.

Essentially, he wants to spend time with you but isn’t confident enough yet to ask you on an actual date.

You will notice it immediately by him saying things like: “oh my god, that sounds really fun, I’ve wanted to see that movie for ages. Maybe I’ll also go watch it tonight”, in the hopes of you asking him to tag along.

3) You brought out his inner hero

One reason why he might ask you about your plans is because you brought out his inner hero and now he’s very interested in you and wants to see you as soon as possible.

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4) To see if he can take you out on a date

He’s asking you out on a date!

This is the most common reason guys ask girls what their plans are for the night.

Before you commit, make sure he’s someone you are interested in and that you don’t find him too creepy.

But if you like this guy then you can get excited, usually, when he asks you what you are doing tonight, the follow-up question will be “Do you want to go to dinner with me?”

How exciting!

5) Just to make conversation

It’s always nice to get to know someone, and talking about what you’re doing is a great way to do that.

It can be a little awkward sometimes, but it’s still an innocent question.

The guy might not have anything specific in mind and just wants to get to know you better.

I know, this is probably not the answer you were looking for but quite frankly, some guys just want to make conversation when they ask you about your plans.

Figuring out what someone likes to do in their free time is a great way of getting to know them.

That doesn’t mean this guy doesn’t want to take you out, by the way! Maybe he’s just still working up the courage to do so, and in the meantime, he tries to make conversation.

6) To make sure you don’t have a boyfriend

It’s possible that a guy is asking you what your plans are to make sure you don’t have a boyfriend or significant other.

He may want to go out with you but wants to make sure it’s not going to present any difficulties with your relationship status.

You see, some girls still talk to guys even when they’re in a relationship.

If the conversations have not been flirty at all, the guy might be confused as to where he stands with you.

He wants to make sure that there is no boyfriend in the picture, so he tries to see if you are hanging out with someone.

Most girls in relationships will use questions like that to disclose their relationship in a nonchalant way.

They’ll say something like “Oh, my boyfriend is making me dinner tonight!”.

Maybe you’ve done the same in the past.

Sometimes, we just don’t want to blurt out “I have a boyfriend!” right away, because it can seem rude and like you’re immediately assuming the guy sees you in a romantic way.

7) To feel out what kind of stuff you like to do in your free time

Some guys may ask you what you’re doing tonight just to feel out what kind of stuff you like to do in your free time.

For example, he may be trying to see if you like the same types of things in your free time that he does.

He might ask so he can plan a date with you later on, or because he wants to hang out with you but doesn’t know what kind of things you enjoy doing.

If this is his reason, his intentions are most likely very sweet and pure.

That’s a good thing!

He is actually putting in an effort to see what it is you like!

I mentioned this fascinating concept earlier: the hero instinct. When a man’s inner hero is triggered, he’s more likely to put in an effort to commit to you.

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8) He wanted to see if you want to hang out

Maybe he wanted to hang out with you, but he doesn’t want to scare you away.

He could be asking because he wants to see if you’re free tonight.

You might have plans already, or maybe you want to make plans with him instead!

Some guys are a bit shy and don’t want you to feel pressured to hang out with them, so they’ll leave the ball in your court with this question.

9) He has amazing plans and wanted you to ask him the same question in return

Guys will be guys.

There is a really good chance that the guy you’re talking to has some really fun plans tonight, like seeing a baseball game or going to a concert and he’d love to brag about it.

Instead of boasting, he asks you about your plans, in the hopes that you will reciprocate the question and he can nonchalantly tell you about his amazing evening.

10) He is too shy to actually ask you out, so he’s hoping it will happen organically

It’s possible that the guy doesn’t want to come out and say he wants to ask you out, so he phrases it as a question.

He figures if he asks you what your plans are for tonight and you tell him, then maybe one of those will be something he wants to do too.

Or perhaps he hopes you say something like “oh, I don’t have plans either, wanna hang out?”.

Whether you like this approach or not is up to you, after all, women like it when a man takes some initiative, but it could also just be a very sweet way of showing his shyness.

11) He is interested in you

No matter what his intentions are with asking you that question, one thing is for sure: the reason he asks that is because he is interested in you.

And the best part?

It’s most probably in a romantic way!

And if you want to make absolutely sure that he likes you?

I touched on the hero instinct earlier – it’s the perfect remedy for the situation you’re facing.

Why?

Because once a man’s hero instinct is triggered, he’ll only have eyes for you. You’ll reach a part of him that no woman has ever managed to reach before.

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