We all have our ups and downs when it comes to dating and relationships.
There are going to be times when one of you feels unappreciated, neglected, or even rejected.
No matter the reason behind his actions, it can be hard for any girl to deal with an avoidant partner. This balance of give and take is perfectly normal – so what do you do when your Gemini man pulls away?
Let’s take a look:
1) Know the reasons behind pulling away
Geminis are notorious for pulling away for no apparent reason, even when a relationship is going well.
It might seem like there’s no rhyme or reason behind this behavior, but there could actually be a few reasons why your guy is pulling away.
Communication is key in any romantic relationship, so be sure to talk to your Gemini about what he might be going through and why he might be pulling away. If he’s afraid of commitment, he might pull away when he senses that things are moving too quickly.
Anxiety, fear of intimacy, or even low self-esteem can also cause a Gemini man to pull away.
If he’s been hurt in the past, he might be unsure of how to move forward without making the same mistakes.
2) Don’t take it personally
Don’t take it personally if your Gemini man suddenly seems to be pulling away from you. He might just be feeling insecure, or he could be going through something that’s got him all tied up in knots.
So, before you start wondering if he’s lost interest in the relationship, take a step back and ask yourself: Is there anything going on in his life that might be triggering this behavior?
He could be having trouble at work or with his family. He could be under a lot of stress which makes him feel like he needs to get away from you.
Trust me I know how it feels – his sudden need to be alone has you feeling rejected. But it’s important to remember that you can’t control other people’s feelings.
Your Gemini man might just need a little more time to get there, so don’t jump to conclusions and assume he’s lost interest.
3) Trigger his hero instinct
If your Gemini man is pulling away, it could be because he doesn’t feel needed.
Let me explain:
There’s a new theory in the relationship world that’s causing quite a stir – it’s called the hero instinct.
Coined by relationship expert James Bauer, this fascinating concept finally explains how men really think and feel in relationships.
And it’s something most women have never even heard of.
According to James Bauer, men don’t actually need a lot to feel content in their relationships. In fact, what they need has nothing to do with sex.
Men have certain innate drivers. And when a woman comes along and triggers them, it causes a powerful response. The result is a man who loves harder, commits wholeheartedly, and truly dedicates himself to the relationship.
So, how can you trigger your man’s hero instinct?
The easiest thing to do is to watch this simple and genuine video by James Bauer.
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4) Communicate your needs and expectations
Communication is key in any relationship, but it’s especially important when your Gemini man suddenly seems to be pulling away.
If you’re not sure what’s causing him to act like this, the first step is to talk to him. If you don’t know what’s going on in his head, you can’t help him work through whatever’s going on.
Now, he might be pulling away because he feels you’re trying to push him into something he isn’t ready for, or he might be pulling away because he feels you aren’t giving him enough space.
You need to hear him out and see if there’s anything you can do to make him come back to you.
But wait, there’s more.
In addition to asking him what he wants and understanding his feelings, it’s also important to communicate your own needs and expectations.
5) Show him you’re worth the risk
Sometimes a Gemini man will pull away because he’s afraid of getting hurt again.
The thing is that if he’s been burned in the past, he might be hesitant to jump into another relationship, or he might be worried that you’re going to hurt him.
It’s important to show your Gemini that you’re worth the risk.
If he’s afraid of getting hurt again, reassure him that you aren’t like his last relationship. If he’s worried about you hurting him, try to understand where his fears are coming from. You don’t have to agree with his fears, but you do have to acknowledge that he has them.
6) Have a meaningful conversation
If you’ve been dating your Gemini man for a while, and he suddenly seems to be pulling away, it might just be that he’s experiencing some career or life changes.
He might just need some time to adjust to his new lifestyle, and he’ll come out of the other side feeling more positive and excited about life again.
What can you do?
It’s important to have a meaningful conversation with him to find out what’s going on in his life. Ask him what’s making him feel unfulfilled, and try to offer him some suggestions on how you can help.
7) Get tailor-made advice for your situation
While this article will shed light on the things you can do when a Gemini man pulls away, it can be helpful to speak to a relationship coach about your situation.
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8) Help him recognize his behavior
Geminis are often extremely hard on themselves, and they can get so caught up in worrying about the future that they don’t even realize they’re doing it.
You might want to help him recognize his behavior by gently pointing it out.
Be patient, though – he’s probably so used to this behavior that he isn’t even aware he’s doing it. Let him know that you recognize what’s happening.
You don’t have to explain why he does it or all the reasons behind it, just let him know that you’ve noticed the pattern and that you care enough to bring it up.
9) Try something new together
Geminis are really great at taking care of other people – they’re born helpers, after all – but they aren’t always great at taking care of themselves.
If your Gemini seems to be pulling away, you might want to try something new with him. He might just need a creative outlet where he can let go of all his worries.
Geminis are often extremely creative people, so you can try getting him involved in an artistic activity like painting, writing, or playing an instrument.
10) Give him some space
If your man is pulling away from you, the last thing you should do is try to smother him.
You need to give him some space and don’t try to force him to talk about his feelings. Your actions will speak louder than your words.
The best thing you can do for him when he needs space is to encourage it and be supportive. Show him that you trust him by not checking up on him too often or prying into his thoughts and feelings.
Let me explain:
If you push him to talk about his feelings too soon, he may shut down even more. Give him space to figure out what he needs, and he’ll come running back to you when he’s ready.
11) Make him feel important
Everyone wants to feel loved, appreciated, and important – even your Gemini man.
You might be the one feeling neglected at the moment, but he might be feeling unappreciated as well, even if he doesn’t know how to tell you that.
You can make him feel important by appreciating the little things he does for you.
I mentioned this fascinating concept earlier: the hero instinct. When a man’s inner hero is triggered, he’s more likely to commit.
Just by knowing the right things to say to him, you’ll open a part of him that no woman has ever reached before.
And the best way to do so is by watching this free video by James Bauer. In it, he’ll reveal simple phrases and texts you can use to make your man truly yours.
12) Celebrate his achievements with him
Here’s the truth:
Even the most confident and self-assured man can feel insecure sometimes.
Celebrating his achievements can be a great way to boost his self-esteem.
Think about the things your Gemini guy truly values. Maybe he loves his job and feels proud of the work he’s doing or maybe he’s a musician and he’s currently on tour.
Whatever it is, you can let him know that you’re proud of him, and it will make him feel great.
You don’t have to do anything over-the-top – he just needs to know that you see and appreciate the effort he’s making.
Trust me, he’ll love the recognition, and it’ll make him feel more connected to you.
13) Show him you care
What does a Gemini man want from his partner? To feel important and appreciated, just like anyone else.
But when a Gemini starts to pull away, it can be easy to dismiss him and make him feel like he doesn’t matter to you.
Let’s say your boyfriend cancels plans with you because he has to work – and he’s been pretty distant ever since. In this situation, it’s easy to feel like he’s blowing you off.
But you need to remember that he’s just as sensitive as you are – perhaps even more.
Letting him know how much you care about him will help ease his mind and make him feel more secure in the relationship.
It doesn’t matter if you’ve been together for 10 minutes or 10 years – showing your Gemini man how important he is to you will help bring him back in.
14) Help him feel good about himself
At the end of the day, you can do everything in your power to reassure your man that you care about him, but if he doesn’t believe in himself, he’s never going to open up to you.
Try to find out what’s making him doubt his abilities and talents. Maybe he’s struggling at work or school, or maybe he’s just not sure about his future.
Whatever it is, you can help him get through it. You don’t have to solve all of his problems, but you can offer a listening ear, some constructive advice, and reassurance that everything will be okay.
If you let him know that you believe in him, he’ll open up to you and let you help him through it.
15) Build trust and create a shared vision together
One of the most common reasons a Gemini man pulls away is because he’s scared of commitment.
If you’ve been dating for a while and you’ve yet to hear him say “I love you,” it could be because he’s not ready for a serious relationship.
If you’ve been together for a while, and you’re looking to take the next step in your relationship, don’t expect him to jump the gun.
He needs to feel like he’s ready to take that leap, so don’t pressure him into saying things he isn’t ready for. Instead, focus on building trust and creating a genuine vision for your future together.
Let him know that you’re there for him whenever he’s ready, and offer him reassurance that you’re not going anywhere.
16) Be patient and trust your gut
If your Gemini man is pulling away, you might start to feel like you’re losing him.
In my experience, this can be a scary feeling, especially if you don’t know why he’s doing what he’s doing.
Now, you might feel like you need to say something, but you don’t want to nag him. You might want to know what’s going on in his head, but you don’t want to push him away even more.
Try to be patient, and trust your gut. If you feel like you need to say something, go ahead and say it. If you think you’re nagging him, though, don’t let the words leave your mouth. Trust the relationship you’ve built with each other, and know that everything will be okay.
17) Take a break from dating and give him time to miss you
Instead of trying to force your guy to commit, take a break from dating.
Give him some time to miss you, to think about what he wants in a partner, and reassess how he feels about you as a couple.
Giving him space might be the push he needs to realize that he wants you in his life. While this doesn’t work for everyone, it might be the solution to your problems.
In short: Give him the time and space that he needs to figure out his feelings, and make sure he knows you’re still there when he’s ready to come back to you.
18) Go on date nights together
If you’ve been dating for a long time, the thrill may be gone.
Maybe your Gemini man is pulling away because he feels bored or unsatisfied with your time together.
Don’t worry! It happens in most long-term relationships. It’s important to do something about it.
If you want your man to come back to you, something has to change. You can help bring the spark back into your relationship by planning a date night for the two of you – even if it’s just once a week.
It’s important to spend some quality time together.
You don’t have to go out and do something extravagant every time – you can go to the theatre and catch a play, or to a blues club and grab some drinks, or to your favorite restaurant – good food and good conversation go a long way.
You don’t have to force any “romance” – you just need to be there, together, as a couple. The rest will come naturally.
19) Help him realize that he wants to commit to you
Part of the reason he’s pulling away may be due to some insecurities he has about you or the relationship.
Some guys might be so scared of getting hurt again that they’ll pull away from their partner before they can get hurt.
If you think this may be the case, then it’s time to step up and help him realize that he wants to commit to you.
Be attentive to his needs and make him feel loved and appreciated. If he’s feeling neglected, let him know that you notice and that it’s not okay.
If he’s unsure about his feelings for you, talk about it and try to help him find his footing.
All in all, let him know that he can trust you and that he’s safe with you. Let him know that you’re ready to take the next step with him and that he’s the one you want by your side.
20) Don’t give up
Finally, don’t be quick to give up if your Gemini man is pulling away.
This can lead to a break-up and the end of your relationship. Remember that the reasons behind his actions aren’t always going to make sense to you, and they’re not always going to be easy to deal with.
Be patient with him, and don’t give up on the relationship. Remember that he loves you and that you two can get through this together.
There are so many reasons why a guy might pull away from his girlfriend – he could be afraid of commitment, scared of getting hurt again, or just need some time to himself to figure something out.
Communication is the key to any relationship, and the more you can understand why your partner acts the way they do, the better your relationship will be.
When your Gemini man suddenly seems to be pulling away, instead of assuming the worst, try to understand why it’s happening. Chances are, there’s a perfectly good reason behind it.
In my experience, there’s one thing that never fails…
I touched on the hero instinct earlier – it’s the perfect remedy for the situation you’re facing.
Because once a man’s hero instinct is triggered, he’ll only have eyes for you. You’ll reach a part of him that no woman has ever managed to reach before.
And in return, not only will he stop pulling away, but he’ll be compelled to commit to you and love you like he’s never loved another woman.
So if you’re ready to take that plunge and reach new heights in your relationship, make sure to check out relationship expert James Bauer’s invaluable advice.
Can a relationship coach help you too?
If you want specific advice on your situation, it can be very helpful to speak to a relationship coach.
I know this from personal experience…
A few months ago, I reached out to Relationship Hero when I was going through a tough patch in my relationship. After being lost in my thoughts for so long, they gave me a unique insight into the dynamics of my relationship and how to get it back on track.
If you haven’t heard of Relationship Hero before, it’s a site where highly trained relationship coaches help people through complicated and difficult love situations.
In just a few minutes you can connect with a certified relationship coach and get tailor-made advice for your situation.
I was blown away by how kind, empathetic, and genuinely helpful my coach was.