Everyone gets their rocks off differently, and we don’t judge. So, wanna give your man so much pleasure he ends up crying right in front of you?
Go ahead. We’ll admit it, it’s hot. But, how does one achieve these incredible results?
In this article, we’ll give you the techniques tried and tested by champions! Guaranteed to give an insane amount of pleasure to your man in bed.
Let’s get down and spicy!
22 ways to have your man crying in bed
You can do a lot of things to make a man moan, whimper, and even cry in bed.
We got you if you want to do things in the bedroom that will have your man tearing up from pure pleasure.
This is a detailed list!
1) Erogenous zones are important
Keep in mind that everyone’s different.
When it comes to sex, most of us generalize and don’t take this aspect into consideration.
So, if we’re talking about erogenous zones, remember that they can be different for each person.
What do we mean, you ask?
Some men might enjoy the sounds a woman makes in bed, while others are more…tactile, so to speak, and prefer their lovers to kiss them in certain ways.
Others might get turned on with dry humping.
Be that as it may, we know one thing for sure.
Your man has erogenous zones and, if you know them and use them to your advantage, you can make him cry in bed.
2) Compliments work a long way
The other person’s smell is an important factor when it comes to attraction. For many, the scent of their partner on their pillows or clothes is hot.
You can take advantage of this by mentioning to him that you find his scent hot!
There’s no need to complicate it. Something like “I love to wear your hoodies because they smell like you,” can be sexy.
Even better, this way he knows you like him in the bedroom as well.
3) Ear play
The ears are a sensitive area, and many men love it when someone touches them or kisses them.
Don’t overdo it, though!
Running your fingers behind his ears, caressing his earlobe, and teasing around it with your tongue will work.
Combine all this and a bit of dirty talking, and you’ll have him whimpering in pleasure.
4) His inner thigh deserves attention
While you’re kissing him, brush your fingertips up and down in this area.
The skin in the inner thighs is incredibly sensitive and paying attention to it makes everything better.
Remember not to be rough, some light teasing and rubbing work really well.
Try it if you want to make him beg for more and drive him wild!
5) Neck kissing works great
Especially after teasing the ears.
You can play a bit more around the neck, mixing between small bites and kisses.
Good bedroom activities are all about the build-up of sensations.
6) Caress his fingers & palms
All massages are great for releasing endorphins, which may lead to activities of a different nature, even if the massage itself isn’t sexual.
That’s why we suggest it: massage his hands softly, he has probably never experienced something like that.
If you play your cards well, you’ll have him crying in pleasure in no time.
7) Pay attention to his torso
We tend to think men’s chest area isn’t important, but nothing’s further from the truth.
If you caress his torso with your fingertips and switch the pressure, it will get him hot and bothered.
He might even think you’ll go straight down there… but don’t, instead, pull back and keep teasing him.
When you have him exactly as you want him, you can start the foreplay, but remember to be strategic about it.
8) Temperature play can be great
Temperature playing is a great way to make someone go crazy, and it’s also super fun!
You can start by bringing some ice cubes into the bedroom, teasing his erogenous zones with them. When you want to, play with your tongue around the area to warm it up.
Be ready for him to get wild with you.
9) Domination is guaranteed fun
Listen, we didn’t know this either, but there are a lot of men out there who would love to be dominated by a woman.
As usual, talk about it first, but if he’s into it… why not try it?
You might just find that you love making him your slave in bed. Also, it’s a sure-fire way to make him cry in the bedroom.
10) A scented lotion can work wonders
When you’re horny, get his favorite lotion – or yours– and apply it on your hands and legs.
It’s a good way to make him associate the fragrance with your hot nights together… and every time he smells it he will start reacting to those good memories.
If you really want to amp up the game, apply that lotion right before a date with him. It’s a great way to make him expect something even better later in the evening.
11) Make some noise!
Show your appreciation openly. Don’t be afraid to moan or even scream when you are having sex!
It’s the best reassurance for him that you’re enjoying every moment together. So much so, that you can’t help but be loud when you’re with him!
Also, it can help him start making some noises of his own, and believe us, this works wonders for the connection you share.
12) Touch his butt
Grabbing his behind while you’re doing it gives you control of his speed and his movement, and it feels great for him as well.
A sciencey fact for you: when you grab his butt, the sensitive skin around the penis and anus gets pulled and it stimulates the nerve endings in the area.
Besides, it can be great to predict when he will get closer to climaxing since his muscles will clench involuntarily.
You can increase the intensity of his orgasm and even make him cry from ecstasy.
13) Lube is the answer
Lube is great, and not only for penetration. Oral sex and handjobs are also better with some form of lubricant.
You can even try it when you play with temperature: have an ice cube in your mouth for a while before going down on him.
You’ll have more saliva because of it, and the way the temperature will rise in your mouth will be more stimulating for him.
For penetration, using a silicone-based lube will make things a lot easier for him and give him the opportunity to move better.
Just remember not to do it if you’re using condoms as well!
14) Enjoy your naughtiness
Your man will be happy to see you get wild.
It’s hard, especially for women, because it’s difficult to get rid of the “good-girl” image we like to portray.
But men love to see your wild side and you don’t have to pretend otherwise!
Of course, they will not ask you about it, so try it for yourself first.
Get friendly with your horny side!
Show him how much you’re into him and how much you want him.
15) The tongue is powerful
Some people pay a lot of money to have their ears stimulated.
If your man enjoys that, then rubbing his penis and playing with your tongue around his ears will make him go wild for sure.
Of course, it can all go south if it turns out he doesn’t really like it.
So, remember to talk about it first and see if it is something he’d like to try.
Lots of men don’t really moan in pleasure.
Perhaps you’re doing all the right things, but many men have repressed their moaning in fear of not being masculine enough.
Talking about it has made many men change their minds and become louder in the bedroom.
So, communicate with your partner and reassure him that yes, moaning is in fact hot and he doesn’t have to hold back. You appreciate the noise!
17) Prostate stimulation
There’s a key point that many of us don’t know.
Penetrating him, whether it is with your finger or your tongue, will stimulate his prostate. Believe us, his eyes will be rolling back in his head and he’ll not be able to stop the dirty talking and the moaning.
Stimulating the P-Spot can become your man’s favorite part if he doesn’t know it yet.
Talk to him about it and see him having the best orgasm of his entire life because of it. You know, the kind that leaves someone boneless afterward.
18) Rough play
Alright, we’ve already established that the “good girl” isn’t always the hottest version of yourself.
A lot of men would love to reverse the roles once in a while!
So, become the “bad girl” and surprise him with the novelty.
If you go rough from the very beginning, you’ll surprise him and give him the best sex of his life, complete with whimper and moaning.
19) Role-playing is good
We all have fantasies, and it’s good to explore them with a partner.
Whether you roleplay fictional characters or people from real life, chances are that it will spice things up in the bedroom.
Don’t be afraid to try on different costumes and play with your partner.
Your man will be super turned on and you might just find out how to make him cry from pleasure.
20) Scratch him
Yeah, we know this one sounds weird, but it can work!
When you’re in that mood, slide your hand under his shirt, and instead of caressing him, scratch him with moderate pressure.
This surprise will make him breathless!
Now you can take the lead and either get on top of him and play with his sensitive areas, like the neck or the ears, or you can even scratch him a bit more before going on the next step.
21) Exploration is key
Women aren’t encouraged to explore their partners as much as men are.
Remember, his dick isn’t the only part of him that he enjoys being stimulated. His entire body can be a playground!
You can play with his nipples, often forgotten by a lot of us. Suck on them, blow on them to stimulate them even more.
Use your fingernails to tease him, caress his belly, and take your time exploring his body.
But this doesn’t mean you should explore his body only…Explore his character too.
22) Lights on!
You’d be surprised to know how visual men are.
Yeah, it’s scary to feel like he can see absolutely everything.
Even then, he wants to see you.
Men love to see every inch of their woman’s body. It can be extremely arousing for them and even make them cry from pleasure.
Don’t think about your imperfections too much, it can take you off the mood very quickly and it’s not something he will be seeing anyways.
Your lovemaking and your man shouldn’t be in the dark forever.
So, believe him when he tells you how much he likes you because it’s definitely true!
Sex is all about the tension
Whether you’re in a long-term relationship or casually dating, managing the sexual tension is key to having a great time in the bedroom. Use this power for good!
With great power comes great responsibility.
It doesn’t have to be explicit at all. You can build up sexual tension with soft touches in key areas, and have him impatient for your intimate times together.
Whether he realizes it or not, these thoughts can trigger the right hormones in his body and get him horny.
You can even take it a step further: mix these soft touches with a bit of an abstinence period, like a few days or even a couple of weeks, and you’ll both be even more excited for your next sexual encounter.
Some of these triggers can be:
- Caressing his ears and neck when you kiss him;
- Pulling his hair lightly, if possible;
- Kissing him, pulling back and walking away;
- Moan lightly when you kiss and show him as if you want more;
- Compliment parts of his body, like his arms or legs.
You can even drop sexual innuendos in normal situations, like lunch, but keep it as discreet as you can. Wordplay is as important as foreplay in this scenario.
Healthy habits of people with incredible sex lives
There are couples out there who have an amazing sex life even after being together 5, 10, or even more years.
They have certain secrets that help to keep their sex life vibrant.
And here are some of them.
For them, sex isn’t only about penetration
Sexually satisfied partners know that a great sex life it’s more than just having sex as usual.
Even better, they are intimate with each other at least once a week.
Of course, having a schedule isn’t very spontaneous, but wanting to be close to them frequently is a sign that you’re both in a good place in your relationship.
They touch each other often
Even for those of us that don’t enjoy physical contact a lot, it’s a fact that it helps a lot to build trust and connect with someone else.
Sensate focus is a technique that a lot of sex therapists love to recommend.
It’s like a game to figure out what different kinds of touch make someone feels. As an added bonus, it takes the pressure off of sex, like an orgasm or penetration.
Sensual touch helps couples get better at reading each other’s body language.
This, in turn, makes their sex lives better.
Trusting each other
Honesty is key to enjoying great sex life. If you’re not honest with your partner you won’t feel satisfied.
So, be truthful:
- If you’re not in the mood, or if having an orgasm is hard for you, tell them;
- Talk about your body image issues if you have them;
- If there’s something making you uncomfortable, speak about it.
Don’t build up negative tension between you and your partner. Trust them and reveal your thoughts, so that they know why you may not feel satisfied.
That’ll give them room for improvement!
They don’t judge each other
There’s no such a thing as a normal standard in sex.
Sex is as unique as you are, so keep in mind that, as long as it’s consensual, what you want, what you like, and how important it varies from person to person.
Furthermore, your libido changes over your life. Things that can make it change are:
- The level of your hormones;
- Your physical health;
- Your daily life struggles.
People who stay in long-term relationships are flexible with themselves and with their partners. This, in turn, helps them have fulfilling sex lives.
They make time for each other
With age, sexual responsiveness slows down. Older men can have a difficult time getting and keeping an erection.
For women, menopause can cause vaginal dryness and less sexual arousal responses.
So, make time for each other and build up intimacy slowly. Don’t put too much pressure on getting aroused instantly. Explore what turns your partner on and share your desires!
They aren’t afraid to experiment
Even sex can be boring if you do it the same way every time.
Here are some suggestions:
- Try different positions;
- Find new ways to stimulate each other;
- Play around with different things.
Innovating can be great to enjoy sex once again.
They care about their partners
Taking joy from giving pleasure to someone else is key to being happier in bed.
Perhaps this means you have to make small sacrifices, like doing it more often –or less!– than you are used to, or at a different time, or even exploring your partner’s fantasies.
They enjoy themselves outside of intimacy
Practice is great. Doing things you enjoy is good for sexual arousal because your body produces endorphins.
It can be exercising, painting, or even cooking. The point is that you can get aroused quicker.
They get comfortable
For some people, the thought of using lube or even toys is like an admission of their failure.
It couldn’t be further from the truth.
Partners who pay attention to each other’s needs are more sexually satisfied.
They fix it
Alright, we know, this doesn’t sound like the Hollywood version of a happy ever after.
Researchers at the University of Toronto proved that couples who actively work on their relationship enjoy a great sex life and more intimacy.
It’s the effort that counts, not believing in soulmates and avoiding conflict.
They don’t watch too much porn
Porn addiction is real and many people suffer from it.
Even though some forms of erotica can be great for couples if there’s an addiction the sex life will suffer.
Men experience difficulty getting aroused by their partners.
Besides, porn creates unrealistic expectations and isn’t an accurate portrayal of what sex is like.
They don’t have sex only to reach the peak
Having an orgasm shouldn’t have to determine whether or not the sex was good.
It can actually affect the mood and stress people out.
Remember, connection and true intimacy are more important factors when it comes to sex than just an orgasm.
They understand each other
In a nutshell, they know how to get their partners hot and bothered.
Usually, men can get in the mood in one second, without stimulation.
For most women, the stimulation is more mental than physical.
Knowing this and taking it into consideration can make both of you enjoy your sex encounters even more.
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