At this age, getting to know someone is usually reliant on texting. So it’s not surprising if you find yourself wondering, “does he like me?”
If you’ve been wondering that lately, check out this list of 27 ways guys send cues they like you through text. Don’t worry, no one will know but you.
Sounds good? Let’s jump right in!
1) He responds quickly
This one’s a no-brainer. If he has nothing better to do than texting you, he likes you. He’s got your back!
It might be early in the morning, or a bit late the night when you sent him a text, he will be there in the background like a loyal, attentive pup. You don’t know but he might have even turned on his phone’s notification so he won’t be late for your reply.
If you’re in a relationship, you know how convenient it is to have someone who has got your back. You can do anything anytime because all you have to do is to text him, and he’ll be there for you.
2) He cares about how you’re feeling or is interested in your day
He likes knowing how your day is going. If he sends you a text asking you how something went at work, then it’s another thing to add to the pile. It’s a sign he likes you and really wants to know what’s happening in your life.
It’s a simple thing to do, but it shows he cares about making time for you and taking charge of the conversation. It triggers the hero in him… now hear me out.
There’s a new theory in the relationship world that’s causing quite a stir – it’s called the hero instinct.
Coined by relationship expert James Bauer, this fascinating concept finally explains how men really think and feel in relationships.
And it’s something most women have never even heard of.
According to James Bauer, men don’t actually need a lot to feel content in their relationships. In fact, what they need has nothing to do with sex.
Men have certain innate drivers. And when a woman comes along and triggers them, it causes a powerful response. The result is a man who loves harder, commits wholeheartedly, and truly dedicates himself to the relationship.
So, how can you trigger your man’s hero instinct?
The easiest thing to do is to watch this simple and genuine video by James Bauer.
The truth is, once you understand how the hero instinct works, there’s no telling what heights your relationship can reach.
So if you want to give your man what he truly wants from you, make sure to check out James Bauer’s excellent video. In it, he reveals the exact texts and phrases you can use straight away.
3) He makes effort to be funny
When he does, he’s showing you that he’s a romantic guy. He probably thinks you’re uncommonly awesome for liking him.
He doesn’t send it in every text, but when he does, it shows how much he likes you. He’s very selective with the jokes he plays just for you. Sounds familiar, right? His jokes are exclusive to you.
He is trying to know you by heart, so he knows which joke would make you laugh the most.
4) He just told you something he’s never told anyone before
This is a very special moment because it shows how comfortable he is around you. It means he trusts your judgment, which is already a big deal.
There’s this innate need for a man to prove himself and reassure himself that he can be as good as everyone else around him.
Does this sound just like him? Then that means he’s willing to open up to you, little by little, just to be worthy enough of your attention.
He opens up to you more than he opens up to anyone else.
You’ve known him for only a few weeks or months, but he still shares his deepest fears, secret wishes and fears with you. He keeps telling you how much he loves your presence in his life and he considers you to be the most amazing person ever.
5) He seems genuinely happy to hear from you
Whether it’s after a long time or if you haven’t texted yet, he seems to be pretty happy to hear from you.
He’s showing much enthusiasm when he greets you with a new message. So that means he’s waiting for your response the whole day.
6) He texts a lot at night
A guy who likes texting you at night is probably really into you. He has your back, so that means he’ll do things to make you happy even after the sun sets and stars come out.
It’s a great time to get to know each other in a comfortable setting, so why not?
It’s the perfect set-up (and time!) for flirting and building up intimacy. At night time, you can feel that you’re not alone, you have him to text. You’re sure to get a response very soon- he’s waiting for it.
Here’s the thing:
Late-night texting is a big hint that he likes you. Again, it might be hard to know if he really wants to text you so soon after watching your favorite TV show, or waking up from the deep sleep moments after your usual bedtime.
But if he’s really into you, it’s worth it.
7) He asks a lot of questions
He’s curious about you, and probably thinks you’re pretty cool. If he makes little personal details into big topics of conversation, that’s another indication he’s interested. Of course he’ll start it by asking about your day, or how’s your life.
That’s a good start to whatever is coming next. It gives you a chance to share some of the things that are going on in your life and make it more personal.
And you know what? He’s like this since you bring out the hero in him. I’ve mentioned earlier this fascinating concept: the hero instinct.
When a man’s inner hero is triggered, he’s more likely to show his interest in you.
Just by knowing the right things to say to him, you’ll open a part of him that no woman has ever reached before.
And the easiest way to do so is by watching this free video by James Bauer. In it, he’ll reveal simple phrases and texts you can use to make your man truly yours.
8) He’s just as interested in you as you are in him
There’s no need to ask yourself if he likes you or not.
Well if a guy is interested in you, then he’ll tell his friends too, right? A guy who is interested in you will tell his friends about how he can’t stop thinking of you. You bet! He might want to invite some of his friends to hang out with you.
Also, don’t be surprised if he tries to find out more about your life after work or school. He’d like to make you feel like he’s one of the best friends you’ve ever had.
9) When texting, he usually takes the time to type full sentences and pay attention to punctuation
He’s not like most guys who type in short messages and use abbreviations, haha 🙂 in place of his smiley faces.
He puts just the right amount of punctuation when sending a text, so it shows he’s really into you. It’s one thing to show your interest, another to prove it.
Get this: if he cares about how you feel and what you’re doing, then that’s a pretty big sign that he likes you. He understands that little things like punctuation do matter in conversations.
10) His text messages are loaded with emojis, including lots of hearts and smiley faces 🙂
This is a telltale sign that he likes you. Now, this shouldn’t be the only reason why you should go ahead and say yes to him.
Because emojis aren’t really a sign of anything (unless your goal is to use emojis in every text you send to your boyfriend).
But when it’s done the right way, they can be proof that he likes you.
11) He sometimes deliberately changes the subject to something you’ve never talked about before
He takes more than the usual 5 – 10 seconds to answer your questions. He’s really trying his best to talk about something you’d like. It’s a great way to show that he’s interested in getting to know you better.
But you know what else? If he does this to you, it’s a sign that he’s attracted to you.
I’m sure every guy has done this at some point- just change the subject from something that doesn’t have to do much with his life.
But when a guy does it on purpose, it’s even better because it shows how much he likes you and what he’ll happily talk about when you’re together.
12) He keeps asking you questions about what you’re up to
He really wants to find out how you’re doing and what makes you tick. It’s like he sees something valuable in the way you think and act.
But, if he’s only answering yes or no to your questions, then that means he’s not interested.
But if you notice the occasional “yes?” in his reply because he actually wants to know how your day is going, it means that he’s actually interested. He’s trying to find out more about who you are and how you live.
13) He loves to follow up with you
A guy who really likes you will always check in with you after the conversation. He’ll stay updated about what’s going on in your life and be sure to text you when he sees something interesting or funny.
He does this because it shows how much he cares about feeling connected and wants to keep a close relationship with you.
14) He asks you to hang out more often
It shows that he’s not only interested in texting you, but he also wants to do fun things together. If he’s asking you to hang out, it means he’s really into you.
Again, it’s worth noting that if a guy is asking you out after just a few dates, then it might not be the best sign of him being interested in you or your relationship.
15) He compliments you a lot
It’s flattering when someone compliments you, right? We all like to hear positive words about ourselves.
So if he says:
- You’re pretty
- Your hair looks great!
- Your smile is amazing…
… that must mean he likes you.
We’ve all done this, sending a selfie to our friends or family, but when you send one to him (after his request), he’d say something big, like “Wow! You look so beautiful”.
It might be a bit awkward at first if he has never complimented you before, but it will feel natural eventually.
16) He listens to what you’re saying and concentrates when you’re talking
Most boys aren’t all that interested in listening, but they’d rather be on their phones. They can’t wait to put it down and pick up the next thing to play… don’t they?
Well this is an example of how a guy really wants to pay attention and actually listen. He doesn’t just want the conversation over with so he can entertain himself with his phone. Your conversations get deeper, it’s like he’s wanting for you to open up to him more.
17) He asks if he can call
Consider yourself lucky if this happens. He’s texting you like crazy and yet, he asks to talk on the phone.
That means he’s really into you! He wants to know more than just what you’re texting him. He wants to have a real conversation with you and talk about your days in person instead of through text messages.
He wants to hear your laughs when he tells you all of his silly jokes, he will even compliment how lovely your voice is.
18) He remembers your birthday
You told him only once, but guess what? He puts it on his reminders or better, he remembers the date of your birth.
He’s touching you and showing you that he cares about your life. This only shows that he wants to be a part of your life and make your day extra special.
Days before your birthday, he would sneakily ask what you would like to receive as a present. Isn’t he sweet?
19) He gives you nicknames
You know, like he’ll call you ‘honey’, or ask you to come out with him. Or he’ll refer to you as the ‘sunshine’ in his texts. When a guy is actually interested in you, he will start calling you by their nickname and it will just sound more intimate than when they call you their girlfriend.
That just gives you the tingles, right?
He would also want you to give him nicknames, that will just make him smile from ear to ear. This will bring you closer and build a bond that will make you two inseparable.
20) He would rather ask you out on a date than say ‘I like you’ first
He doesn’t mind calling or texting you in the morning to tell you that he’s thinking of doing something with you.
This shows that he’s actually interested in being your boyfriend. Instead of saying, ‘I think I’m into you’, he’ll try to make it more real by actually setting up a date with you.
He wants to show that he’s ready to be more than just friends with you.
Please note that if he asks you out in person, and doesn’t want to be your boyfriend yet, then it won’t be the best sign of him being interested in you. It shows that he might be interested in other girls.
21) He’s hard to read
Some guys aren’t as ‘open’ as other guys are. They keep their feelings to themselves and that means he wants a girl that’s also not going to show feelings easily.
He’d rather have you read his emotions and thoughts than just tell you what he feels, then you’ll be able to know more about him over time. That way, he can be your best friend and one day become your boyfriend.
22) He doesn’t care about your looks
He already saw you at your most natural, he doesn’t have a need to see you in an outfit that’s meant to impress him.
Okay so maybe he still likes your outfits, but your ‘best’ isn’t his best because as he already knows, you’re stunning with or without make-up and clothes that fit you nicely.
He loves the real you and thinks your natural beauty is enough for him to like what he sees.
Here’s the thing.
On the other way around, he’s not trying to impress you with his looks, or even money. He just wants to be with someone who will understand and care about him, who knows?
23) He’s not afraid to tell you negative things
He tells you how he really feels, even if it’s just a bit negative. It means that he really trusts the relationship between you two and doesn’t mind if he hurts your feelings.
He says things like: ‘I don’t want to hang out today’ or ‘Sorry I can’t come to your birthday dinner’.
He just wants to be honest with you, but he’s not going to lie about anything. Isn’t that better than hearing a beautiful lie?
24) He actually goes to bed when he said he will
When he says that he’s going to bed, it means that he actually did. He gets up early in the morning to take you out for breakfast, or better yet, send you romantic good morning images.
This shows that your relationship is getting deeper and intimate. You won’t see him online on his other social media accounts liking or commenting on other women’s posts, he’s just being honest and sincere.
25) He is willing to let you meet his family
If a guy is willing to introduce you to his family or people that he cares, that’s definitely a big thing. It means he’s been keeping you in mind for quite some time now. And it shows what kind of person he is – he values the people close to him and cherishes them dearly.
By hoping you could meet his family, he’s letting you know that you’re important to him.
And then, of course, he does this because he more than likely likes you very much as well.
26) He wants to meet all of your friends
If you have any close friends, he’ll want to meet them as well. He’d rather introduce you to them first, instead of bringing you around his entire life without letting you have a say in things.
It shows that he’s more than just interested in being your best friend. He cares about the people around him a lot and would like to get closer with them as well.
27) You’ve got this gut feelings
Gut feelings are common when you’re in a relationship, but the gut feeling should be there right from the very beginning of meeting him.
It’s that feeling that makes you feel secure and loved. You’ll feel happy when you’re exchanging messages or talking to him, and wouldn’t mind opening up to certain things that only he knows about and no one else.
You’d rather just share your heart with him because you like being around him, he’s everything you need at this moment.
Before you jump into a relationship with a guy, it’s better that you get to know him first.
Of course, there will be times where things work out for the best, but overall it’s always better to be safe than sorry. This will just make sure that you’re in a relationship where both of you are happy and satisfied with each other.
Having said that, if he’s the kind you can’t stay away from, the hero instinct is your perfect partner.
Because once a man’s hero instinct is triggered, he’ll only have eyes for you. You’ll reach a part of him that no woman has ever managed to reach before.
And in return, he’ll be compelled to commit to you and love you like he’s never loved another woman.
So if you’re ready to take that plunge and reach new heights in your relationship, make sure to check out relationship expert James Bauer’s invaluable advice.
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