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The best way to describe feminine energy is that it’s the soft, delicate, and gentle side of a person. It’s also the yin to masculine yang.
Feminine energy is not only important for attracting men but also for keeping them interested.
Here are 14 powerful ways to use your feminine energy to attract a man.
Let’s jump right in:
1) Be soft, delicate, and gentle
As you begin to use your feminine energy, it’s important to be soft and delicate.
Now, this doesn’t mean you need to be a doormat for men to walk all over. It simply means that you can be soft and delicate in your words and in your actions.
For example, you don’t need to be loud and assertive all the time to show that you are confident and strong. You can simply be soft and delicate to get your point across just as effectively.
Also, when you’re soft and delicate, it shows that you’re kind and gentle. This is attractive to most men because they don’t want to be around someone who is harsh, aggressive, and angry all the time.
2) Be playful and enjoy yourself
Men love it when you’re playful. They love it when you’re smiling and enjoying yourself.
It’s important to show your playful side when using your feminine energy because it attracts men to you.
Furthermore, when you’re playful, you don’t appear desperate or overly anxious to be in a relationship.
Show your playful side by doing activities that you enjoy.
- If you love playing sports, for example, go out and play your favorite sport.
- If you love cooking, make some delicious food.
- If you love reading, go to the bookstore and pick up some new books to read.
All in all, men are attracted to women who are relaxed and know how to have a good time. Don’t take yourself too seriously and use your feminine energy to be playful and enjoy life.
3) Let him chase you a little bit
As you begin to use your feminine energy, you want to let him chase you a little bit.
Now, this doesn’t mean you should be a tease. It simply means that you don’t need to approach him each time you see him.
It means that you don’t need to be the one who initiates plans to go out and do things.
It means that you don’t need to be the one who texts or calls him first. Make other plans and live your life.
Let him feel the pull and excitement that comes with pursuing you. You see, men like the chase, so let him chase you.
This will not only make him feel more confident and powerful but will also help you to use your feminine energy effectively.
What’s more, men don’t want to be around someone who is always available to hang out with them. If you’re too available all the time, it can make you appear desperate and needy.
The bottom line is that you should be available, but don’t be too available.
4) Take care of yourself physically and emotionally
When you take care of yourself emotionally and physically, it shows that you’re confident and strong.
It shows that you’re a catch and don’t need a man to take care of you.
Make sure that you are eating well, exercising, and finding time to take care of your mental health.
This will not only make you feel better about yourself but will also show that you are a confident and strong woman.
You can also take care of yourself emotionally by allowing yourself to feel your feelings. You don’t need to be the strong, silent type who doesn’t allow herself to feel her emotions.
Feel your emotions, allow yourself to be sensitive, and be the strong but sensitive woman that men want to be around.
5) Don’t sleep with him too soon
Unless you are in a committed relationship with a man, you should avoid sleeping with him too soon.
You don’t want him to think you’re easy.
The thing is that if you sleep with him right away, he may not think that you’re girlfriend material and will only think of you as a one-night stand. That’s why you should make him wait.
Use your feminine energy to keep him interested without giving in too quickly.
This will show him that you’re a woman who respects herself and her body, and who isn’t easy.
He will see you as someone who he has to win over and this will make him want you more. This is exactly what you want.
6) Learn how to use your opinions as a tool
Some women are so afraid of hurting a man’s feelings that they avoid having an opinion about anything.
This is a bad idea for a couple of reasons.
First, you may miss out on an opportunity to share your passions with the man you’re dating.
Second, if you don’t have an opinion, it’s very easy for a man to walk all over you. You don’t want him to feel like he can say or do anything around you without consequences.
Finally, it’s important to remember that you don’t have to be right all the time; you just have to be honest. If you don’t like something he’s done, tell him so.
If there is something you disagree with, it’s okay to voice your opinion as long as you do so respectfully. It’s important to use your opinions as a tool because it will help you to feel empowered in the relationship.
It’s also a way for you to let him know that you’re not a doormat.
7) Let him court you
This is a very old-fashioned way of dating, but it’s effective.
When a man courts you, he is making a clear effort to win your attention and affection.
He will do things like take you out on dates and gifts, invite you to social events he is hosting, send you flowers, and give you meaningful gifts he knows you will appreciate because he has taken the time to get to know you as a person.
A man who is courting you will want to make sure he treats you well because he wants you to be his girl.
When you accept his courtship, you will be making a clear statement that you are not desperate for a man in your life.
Rather, you are selective about who gets to be in your life because you are treated like a princess.
8) Practice self-care
A woman who embraces her feminine energy practices self-care.
What’s more, when you practice self-care, it shows a man that you are confident in yourself and worthy of being treated well. It also shows him that you have your life together.
This is especially true when it comes to your physical appearance. When you make an effort to look your best all the time and take care of your body, you will radiate feminine energy which will attract men.
9) Be vulnerable
When it comes to dating, most men want to date someone who is confident but also vulnerable.
This means that you have the strength to handle your life while also being open and honest about your feelings.
Vulnerability is attractive to men because it shows that you are a real person with real feelings.
It shows him that you are capable of being in a relationship without smothering him with your neediness and the desire to be in control all the time. But it also shows him that you need him from time to time.
10) Make him work for it
Here’s my advice: you should make a man work for your attention and affection.
He should have to make an effort to get to know you and earn your trust. If he is paying attention to you, give him some of your time and attention, but don’t fully open up to him until he really proves himself as a worthy partner.
This will make him work even harder for your time and attention.
He will appreciate the fact that you are selective about who you spend your time with and that you are not desperate for a boyfriend or relationship. He will see you as someone who is worthy of his attention and affection.
11) Don’t be needy
If you are constantly looking for a man to validate your existence, he may lose interest quickly.
In my experience, men are drawn to women who are confident and comfortable in their own skin.
If you are always trying to seek approval from your man, he may begin to feel suffocated.
Or, he may feel like he has to walk on eggshells around you and be overly careful about what he says and does. This is not a good feeling for a man and will make him want to run away from a relationship as quickly as he can.
It’s important to remember that men have their own insecurities just like women do. It’s okay for him to not have the ability to make you feel good about yourself.
It’s also okay for him to not be able to notice when you look beautiful. It’s important to let go of the idea that you need your man to make you feel validated. You can do that for yourself.
12) Make him feel special
Here’s another way to use your feminine energy to attract a man: make him feel special.
When you make a man feel special, he will associate you with this feeling of importance.
He will feel valued, appreciated, and important when he is around you.
This is important because it will make him want to be around you more often and will make him want to continue showing you how special he thinks you are.
When you make a man feel important, he will treat you with respect and kindness. He will want to do things for you because he will feel valuable enough to deserve the chance to do them.
This is exactly what you want in a relationship.
13) Show appreciation for his efforts
It’s important to show a man that you appreciate his efforts in trying to win you over. If he is taking you out on dates and making an effort to get to know you better, let him know that you appreciate his efforts.
If he is bringing you gifts and flowers, let him know that you are thankful for his gifts. Let him know that you appreciate that he is trying to win your attention and affection.
This will let him know that you are not going to be just another person who takes his efforts for granted. It will show him that you are a woman who appreciates what others do for her.
14) Maintain your independence
Finally, while it’s great that you’re using your feminine energy to attract a man, don’t forget to maintain your independence. This is super important for you – that you rely on yourself first and foremost.
What’s more, men appreciate women who can stand on their own two feet.
And when you are fully independent, it will be easier to avoid being clingy, needy, or desperate.
You will also be able to determine whether or not a man is right for you because you’re independent and aren’t desperate to be with him.
Final thoughts
By now you should have a better idea about how to use your feminine energy to attract a man. The powerful ways above are definitely going to work and lead you in the right direction.
Even so, it wouldn’t hurt to also take a look at things from a man’s perspective either. As relationship guru James Bauer explains, men have certain innate drives that make them fully commit to a woman.
And when a woman comes along and triggers them, it causes a powerful response.
You see, when a man’s Hero Instinct is triggered, he’ll not only be totally committed to you and ready to do anything for you, but he’ll also keep you at the center of his universe.
In short, he’ll fall in love with you and his love for you will grow immensely.
But how can you trigger a man’s Hero Instinct?
In his free video, James Bauer shares everything you need to know about how to trigger a man’s Hero Instinct.
He’ll explain the concept in detail and share simple text and phrases that you can use to make him think about you all the time, commit to you, make you his go-to girl, and fall in love with you.
