Twin flames are supposed to stay together forever, right?
I thought so, too, until my twin flame left me for someone else.
I was left shattered, heartbroken, and angry. I had no idea how to find my way back from this traumatic experience, so I felt a complete and utter loss of my identity and self-worth.
Good news: I found my way back, and you can too.
Here are 10 tips to help you get through this difficult time.
1) Don’t blame yourself for what happened
The first thing you probably did was to blame yourself for your twin flame leaving you for someone else.
You may have thought it was something you did. You might have even thought your twin flame left you for this other person because there must be something wrong with you.
While it’s natural to have all these assumptions, it doesn’t mean they are correct.
Your twin flame could be less awakened than you. What’s that?
One of the twin flames is almost always less awakened than the other.
It’s simply the way most twin flame relationships work. Often the twin flame who is less awakened ends up being an unhelpful partner for the one who is more advanced. The twin flames then grow apart, and it eventually leads to them parting ways.
So don’t blame yourself for what happened because you are not to blame. Your twin flame could simply be less enlightened than you at this point in time, so it’s understandable why he or she left you for someone else.
2) Understand that you and your twin flame will never truly be apart
The funny thing about twin flame relationships is that even though your twin flame left you for someone else, you and he or she are still connected at a soul level via a very rare energetic cord.
This energetic cord can never actually be severed, no matter how hard the two of you try to be away from one another. It’s there forever, whether the two of you like it or not.
You have a special connection, and no one and nothing can break your bond. So even though your twin flame left you for someone else, he or she will always remain in a way very close to you.
And the best part? Their relationship with the person they left you for isn’t guaranteed to last for long. They could serve a purpose in your twin flame’s life that could benefit you in the future.
3) Don’t try to suppress your feelings for them
The connection between you and your mirror soul is pure and real. You love your twin flame deeply, and you experienced things with them that were unique and special.
Although right now you probably feel intense anger, sadness, and confusion over your twin flame’s betrayal of you, things will change.
Regardless of how much you suffer because of this, it’s important to acknowledge that your feelings for your twin flame are real and genuine.
Don’t try to suppress these feelings because doing so only makes the situation more difficult for you in the long run. Instead, let your feelings be as they are.
Crying, lamenting, and being angry are all part of your twin flame journey.
On top of that, no one said is going to be easy, right?
4) Get a gifted advisor’s confirmation
The tips in this article will give you an insight into the things you could do if your twin flame left you for someone else.
Even so, issues related to love and dating can be confusing at the best of times, especially as your situation is unique to you.
So could getting some outside guidance help?
It’s fair to say there are plenty of frauds out there, who are just waiting to take advantage when we’re at our most vulnerable.
But after a really challenging breakup, I found that speaking to an advisor from Psychic Source was super helpful.
The advisor I spoke to was kind, understanding, and insightful.
My love reading gave me the guidance I was looking for (and needed) during a painful and confusing time.
Not only can a gifted advisor tell you whether your twin flame will come back to you, but they can reveal all your love possibilities.
5) Use your twin flame’s absence as an opportunity to grow
When your twin flame decides to leave you, it’s a lesson to you that there is more you can do in your life.
In order to handle the loss of your twin flame, you have to be able to see it as an opportunity for growth that can help guide you on your path back towards the light.
In my case, my twin flame leaving me for someone else helped me actually grow further in terms of my personal and spiritual development.
When something bad happens, we are often presented with an opportunity to learn from the experience and then move on from it.
So, what are you going to do?
You can choose to either sit there and feel sorry for yourself, or you can use it as an opportunity to become better than you were before.
6) Focus on finding your soul’s purpose
While your twin flame is gone living a love story with someone else, you can get ahead of them and try to find your soul’s purpose.
Your twin flame journey can’t continue until you both find your soul’s purpose.
This is because your twin flame relationship is very unique. It’s not just a romantic relationship; it’s also a spiritual journey to help each of you find enlightenment.
Once you know what you’re here to do, you can fulfill this mission while they are doing theirs.
As you can see, this could be the best way to move on from them and heal yourself by finding some peace within yourself.
7) Do something just for fun
Spirituality, counterparts, energetic cords, forget about all these for a few hours, and do something just for fun!
What is your idea of fun?
Whatever it is, just go with it!
Constantly thinking about your twin flame and what happened to you with them will do nothing but drag you down further into a place you don’t want to be.
Instead, make a conscious effort to fill your life with fun activities that make you feel good inside. You can even try doing something creative like painting or writing music.
It doesn’t have to be serious, just have fun with it.
Fair warning: If your idea of fun is to stalk your counterpart, just don’t! It won’t make you feel good and you know it!
8) Surround yourself with the right people
Twin flame relationships are really weird and there are times when it’s hard to figure out how you should feel.
Having the wrong people in your life while you’re going through this can do nothing but make things worse.
So, it’s important to surround yourself with the right people who will support you and love you unconditionally during this difficult time.
This could include your soulmate, a friend, or even a family member.
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9) Cut the connection that keeps you from moving on – for now
Maintaining a strong connection with your twin flame is definitely not advisable if they leave you for someone else.
It’s important to keep your energy from them at bay for a bit because this can just cause you even more pain.
Cutting the connection that’s keeping you from moving on may sound hard to do. But remember this – it’s not like your energetic cord with them will no longer be there.
So, if you want to act in your best interest, you should try to cut off the connection and give yourself some time alone to heal.
That doesn’t mean you will never be in contact with them again; it just means that right now you need some space away from your twin flame.
10) You can fix everything by loving yourself
Self-love is the most important thing you could ever do. When you’re in a relationship with your twin flame and they leave, it’s important to love yourself more than ever before.
It’s easy to be in self-hatred when your twin flame leaves you because of someone else. But all of this is an illusion that occurs because you don’t fully love yourself yet and you don’t love your twin flame unconditionally either.
I have been there myself, so I know it can be very hard. Love yourself first, and then everything else will fall into line.
Unfortunately, life isn’t always easy to navigate and it can sometimes be hard to love yourself when things don’t go your way.
But whenever you’re feeling weak or like giving up, just remember that the most important thing you can do is love yourself more than anything else in the world – including your twin flame.
I promise it will help you so much!
Can twin flames live without each other?
For many people, the biggest concern about a twin flame is if they could live without each other.
Let me reassure you – your twin flame can be happy without you! The same goes for you.
They might even find another person to love and share their life with, although it’s unlikely because twin flames are meant for each other.
In other words, what is happening to you could be temporary.
Speaking from my own experience, I can tell you that I stopped feeling my twin flame’s presence after a while. I was heartbroken and thought he wouldn’t come back, but when he did I realized it had nothing to do with me.
I realized that his twin flame path had taken him somewhere else, which is completely normal as twin flames are supposed to make progress while together and apart.
So, I’m sure your twin flame will come back to you sooner or later, but sometimes, it just takes some time.
Twin flames can live without each other to some extent, but at the same time, they can’t.
They’re destined to be together for the rest of their lives, and no matter how much time they spend apart from each other, they’ll always remain connected.
It’s kind of like Death and Life – you can never keep them apart because they’re still intrinsically linked to one another.
That being said, there are many twin flames who live completely separate lives without any contact whatsoever, be it by choice or not. However, their spiritual awakening levels are questionable.
But as you know, when it comes to love, things rarely go as smoothly as we’d like them to.
That’s why I recommend speaking to one of the trusted, gifted advisors over at Psychic Source.
I mentioned them earlier.
They’ve been incredibly helpful in the past when I’ve needed guidance on my love life, and they’ll certainly be able to help you with your questions about your twin flame.
Whether you prefer to chat online, or jump on a call and speak face-to-face, you can get clarity on this situation right now.
Can my twin flame get married to someone else?
The interesting thing about twin flame relationships is that, for a certain amount of time, the twins could live totally separate lives. This includes the possibility of them getting married to someone else.
This is exactly what happened to me when my twin flame left me for another person.
As you can imagine, I was devastated, but at the same time, there was nothing I could do about it.
Twin flames have the ability to make their own decisions, and if your twin flame doesn’t want to be with you, there is nothing you can do about it.
Statistically speaking, there is a chance your twin flame will get married to someone else during the time you are apart.
But no matter what happens, you have to promise yourself that you’re going to find peace in this situation.
You can still take the steps above and do whatever it takes to move on.
And if your twin flame does end up getting married, don’t be afraid to think about it as a possibility that they were meant for someone else and not you.
How could this be possible?
One possibility is that they don’t recognize you as their twin flame.
It’s quite a common thing that happens to twin flames. You know how the universe works – if you don’t ask for something, you’re not going to get it!
Simply put: If your twin flame didn’t ask for a twin flame relationship, they might not even recognize who you are right now.
If this is the case, they may end up getting married, so don’t worry if this happens. They might experience spiritual awakening later on.
Another possibility is that your twin flame still loves you, but is not ready to be with you yet. Your relationship is overwhelming for them and they prefer someone more familiar.
This happens very often as well, especially when twin flames are in the process of healing their inner child.
The bad news? They may take a few years to let go of the pain they’ve been carrying and truly move on and be prepared for a life with you.
How do I know if my twin flame is coming back?
To answer it simply, I’d say that there is a big chance for your twin flame to come back to you because they are connected to you.
During their quest to find their soul’s purpose, your twin flame may decide that they want to be with you again, but then again they may not.
Ultimately, there is no way of knowing what will happen in the future until it happens. Or is it?
That being said, there are a few things you can do to help your twin flame come back to you.
Healing your past traumas and inner child is an important step towards attracting your twin flame back. If you’re hurt and angry, it might be hard for them to see the light within you, so they may feel like they should move on with someone else.
If this happens, it’s important that you do everything in your power to heal yourself before trying to get them back.
My twin flame left me for someone else. What next?
By now you should have a good idea of the things you could do if your twin flame leaves you for someone else. But if you’re still unsure, I recommend getting in touch with a trustworthy advisor.
I mentioned Psychic Source earlier. Based on my own personal experience with them, I know they’re legit, kind, and helpful.
So instead of leaving things up to chance, take control of this situation and clarify what’s in store for your future.
Speaking to one of their experienced advisors was a turning point for me, and I think it could be for you too. Especially if you want to find out more about your relationship with your twin flame.
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