Twin flame dreams: Why they appear & how it makes your connection deeper

Dreams come in all shapes and sizes and often it’s hard to know what our dreams mean.

If you have a twin flame and feel connected to someone in a meaningful and deep way, you might find them entering your dreams from time to time to share secrets, tell you important information or help you deal with a tough decision or experience.

What’s more, if your twin flame struggling to tell you something, they might even come to you in your dreams to share that information with you.

But the truth is that your dreams mean what you want them to mean and it’s up to you to pay attention to the messages you receive from your twin flame while you’re dreaming.

Here are 4 reasons why your twin flame might appear to you in a dream

1. You need them

There might be something happening in your life – or that’s going to happen – that is going to cause you to need your twin flame in a very real way.

They might come to you in a dream to support you or to try to help you make a decision and their presence alerts you to the fact that you need to reach out to them and talk about what’s going on.

This is a big deal.

If you ignore these opportunities to make these decisions or speak to them, you might miss the opportunity to overcome something together, rather than alone.

2. You miss them

Sometimes, your twin flame comes into your dreams because you simply miss them and you’re not being honest with yourself about that fact.

This is also a symptom of a twin flame reunion

People like to pretend they are independent and don’t need anyone and they want to do things on their own, but when you have a twin flame, you find yourself being drawn to them inexplicably and can’t seem to understand why you need them in your life so often and so much.

If that’s true of you, you’ll dream of them when it’s time to reconnect and bring them into your life once again.

3. They miss you

Another reason your twin flame might come into your dreams is that they miss you. They are trying to let you know they need you and your support, love, and guidance.

Our dreams are connected on another level and you’ve probably experienced this before where you dream about someone and then they call you or reach out to talk to you in some other way.

It seems odd because you just dreamed about them last night or earlier in the week, but that’s what the dream meant: they needed you and missed you.

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4. Something is calling you together

Even though twin flames have an incredible connection, it doesn’t mean they spend every waking minute together, nor do they have to. In fact, sometimes your twin flame may even be ignoring you.

Of course, not all twin flame relationships are romantic in nature either, so your twin flame might be far away all the time, but you feel connected to them on a deeper level.

If your twin flame makes their way into your dream and you haven’t seen them in a while, it might be that something is going to happen to bring you two together and remind you of how much you care for and need one another.

If you’ve been longing for an opportunity to see them or feel like you’re losing touch, finding them in your dream is a great way to stay connected on that deeper level, but also, it’s a sign that you might need to be together again soon.

Twin flames share many wonderful things and although not all twin flame relationships are romantic, they are powerful and often more meaningful than romantic relationships.

There are an inherent trust and security that comes with these kinds of relationships so when your twin flame shows up in your dream, it means something.

Take from this what you will, but know this: people come to us in our dreams for one reason or another. If you pay attention, you’ll be able to understand why.

There’s a reason twin flames dream about each other. But you may be surprised.

Here are the reasons why you may be dreaming about your twin flame and how it might help you connect on a deeper level.

How dreams help you and your twin flame connect on another level

Twin flame relationships are incredibly special and while not all twin flame relationships are romantic, they certainly can be.

It’s an amazing kind of relationship that allows you to feel deeply connected to another person.

You’ll know if you have a twin flame relationship with someone because you’ll feel them when they’re not there.

You’ll dream about them and see yourself in their lives.

You’ll know things about each other you don’t share with anyone else and what’s more, the way in which you share that information is unlike how you share it with anyone else too.

That’s because what makes twin flames special is not just the kind of connection they have, but the way in which they connect.

Dreams, in particular, are an important part of the way twin flames communicate subconsciously with each other and while we can’t control our dreams, twin flames do share their most important fears, events, ideas, and secrets with each other via their dreams.

Dreams are also an important way to distinguish a true twin flame from a false twin flame.

Let’s find out what that looks like and how it helps create an even deeper bond for twin flame relationships.

1. You share fears

When you are deeply connected to someone and have a twin flame relationship, you’ll often find yourself connecting with them in your dreams.

You might find that your twin flame shows up in your dreams to help calm your fears or help you through something difficult that you’re trying to process.

It might be something as simple as getting your bills paid, or it could be something as painful as losing a parent or friend.

Your twin flame senses at the deepest level your despair and fear and will come to you in your dreams.

2. You share life events

Twin flames share a lot of in-person events together, but what makes them special is that they share a lot of dream-state events together as well.

You might find yourself dreaming about marrying your twin flame or having children, buying a house, or growing old together.

These dreams are vivid and pronounced and reinforce the fact that you are meant to be together with this person.

If your twin flame is not in a romantic relationship with you – which is possible and your twin flame can be a very important friend or family member – then you might find yourself in the middle of their wedding or dealing with a major life event such as a death.

3. You share paths forward

Another interesting thing about twin flame relationships is that the trust is so strong and the connection is so deep that the other person often knows you better than you know yourself and can help you move forward in your life in your dreams.

If you’ve been struggling to find a way forward or to make a decision that is important and could change your life, your twin flame may come to you in a dream to help you work through those emotions and feelings so you can make a clear, level-headed decision.

You trust and love this person more than anyone else and see their advice and guidance as truth.

They may also tell you not to take a certain path in life or warn you against something that is going to harm you down the road.

4. You (intuitively) know what your partner wants

One telltale sign of a twin flame relationship — and the cause of some twin flame dreams — is when you intuitively grasp what your partner wants from a relationship.

If you’re a woman reading this, what do you think drives your partner as a man? What does he want from a relationship with you?

People tend to think men are all about money, sex, food, sports, and power.

Sure, those things all come into play at times. But I think there is a deeper truth that few women are aware of.

Men are actually driven less by those sorts of external things and more by how you make them feel about themselves.

Above all else men want to feel essential to the woman in his life.

He wants to feel like your hero.

When men want to do something with their lives that matters and they want to make a difference, then this is going to work its way into their dreams.

This is especially true when it comes to relationships. They want to protect their woman, treat her right and earn her love in return.

How do you trigger the hero instinct in him?

The easiest way is watch this excellent free video by relationship psychologist James Bauer.

He outlines the things you can say or do to make him feel like he’s your everyday hero.

Some ideas are game changes. When it comes to twin flame relationships, I think this is one of them.

Here’s a link to the video again.

5. You share secrets

One final way that twin flames may come to you in your dreams is to tell you something they can’t share with anyone else or that they feel they can’t share in real life.

If your twin flame is struggling to share something with you because they don’t want to hurt you or they know this information is going to cause despair, they may come to you in a dream to let you know that they need to tell you something.

They’ve manifested in your dreams to have the difficult conversation they can’t have in-person just yet.

Once you’ve had this dream, however, you can bridge the gap between you by bringing up the dream and talking about how it made you feel.

This makes it easier to talk about the harder things between you.

Just because twin flames are soul mates and meant to be together in some way doesn’t mean it’s always easy and no matter how connected two people may be, they both have to decide to stay together or be in each other’s lives.

You’ll know you’re in a twin flame relationship when you can’t stop thinking about this person, no matter how many years have gone by or how long it’s been since you’ve last talked.

You feel connected to them in a way that goes beyond attraction and love. But like any relationship, twin flames need to work on themselves and their relationship to ensure it lasts forever.

The next time you dream about your twin flame ask yourself what you need to talk about or what they might need to talk about with you.

Dreams make us aware of our subconscious thoughts more than we realize.

The information is always available to us, we just have to see it.

Now if you think you haven’t met your twin flame yet, then you may want to know how.

Here is what a twin flame really means, how to recognize it, and what you can do to improve those relationships and your life.

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FAQ About Twin Flame Relationships

There’s a chance you’ve met your twin flame already and didn’t even know it because you didn’t know there was such a thing as twin flames in the world.

In this FAQ guide to finding your twin flame, we’ll break down what it means to be a twin flame, how to recognize it, and what you can do to improve those relationships and your life.

What is a Twin Flame?

Let’s start with the basics: a twin flame is a relationship you have with another person that is so deep, spiritual, and interconnected, you don’t know what you’d do without that person.

Often, twin flame relationships are romantic in nature, but they don’t always have to be.

Twin flames become romantically involved because of the heightened level of connection, but you may also find this kind of connection with a friend or family member.

These are people you would describe as your soul mate, but the connection can go even deeper than that.

What do Twin Flames do for each other?

If you’ve found your twin flame, you know that being in their presence makes you feel more alive than you’ve ever been.

An interesting thing that happens to twin flames is that they also fight a lot because they are so similar and have such strong connections with one another.

The level of trust is through the roof and when you trust someone, you can fight with them without fear of abandonment.

But what twin flames do for each other is make one another feel safe, wanted, and needed.

There’s a balance that comes into play when twin flames are around each other.

If you’ve been near your twin flame you know you can’t get out of the stronghold they seem to have on you.

Another thing twin flames do for one other is bring out the best in each other.

I mentioned the hero instinct above. It’s a fascinating new concept in relationship psychology that goes to the heat of what men need from a relationship with their twin flame.

The hero instinct is the drive men have to live a life full of meaning and to earn the respect from those around him.

Men don’t necessarily want to be Bruce Willis but they do want to protect their twin flame, treat her right and earn her love in return.

And if you want your relationship to succeed, you’ll realize this.

The best way to trigger the hero instinct in your twin flame is to watch this excellent free video by relationship psychologist James Bauer. 

James outlines the simple things you can do right now to tap into this very natural biological instinct.

Here’s a link to the excellent free video again.

What does being a Twin Flame feel like?

It’s like a spark or a bolt of lightning. Twin flames don’t come into contact with each other quietly.

When you meet your twin flame, you’ll be jolted into a more awakened state and be very aware of this person and their presence.

If you didn’t know what a twin flame was, you might think this person was highly unusual or had a strong pull toward you, but with the right vocabulary, you’ll know now that it’s your twin flame.

Even if you’re not romantically attracted to this person, you’ll feel drawn to them and want to be with them all the time. You’ll feel lost and empty without them.

Are zodiac signs relevant for Twin Flames?

Yes, you can use astrology to find out whether you share something special with another person.

The best bit?

Zodiac signs can absolutely help you with your twin flame relationship. They influence how you connect with your twin flame regarding communication, love, emotions, sex, and personality.

For instance, if you’re an Aries then star signs Leo and Sagittarius are great for you because of the emotional connection you will have.

While a Gemini will be drawn to guys who are Aquarius and Libra because they’ll tap into your intellectual, confident nature with ease.

Just by taking this star sign quiz, you’ll be able to make it your twin flame’s idea to:

  • Pursue you
  • Chase after you
  • And completely commit to you.

I was blown away when I first took the quiz. I just selected my man’s zodiac and then discovered shocking details about him on the next page (which have proven to be 100% correct so far).

Take the fun star sign quiz again.

Does everyone have a Twin Flame?

Everyone is connected to everyone else on the planet through divinity and spirituality, energy, and the universe but not everyone will take the time to appreciate that fact or lean into it.

As a result, many people will miss the opportunity to connect so strongly with another human being, but the truth is that there are twin flames on the planet that match your flame.

It might be timing, location, or circumstance that keeps you apart, but they are there. I

f you feel drawn to a city to take a job or feel the urge to visit a place and you don’t know why it’s likely that your twin flame is near there and is drawing you in their own way.

Energy is all around and an important part of how the world works, but if you ignore those signs and signals the universe is trying to give you, you might miss the chance to encounter your twin flame.

Twin Flames will change your life

Even if you don’t enter into a romantic relationship with your twin flame, the power and presence of them in your life are going to radically change you as a person and the direction you go in throughout your life.

That’s because your twin flame has a deeper connection to you than you realize and can influence your decisions for the better and help you make choices that bring love and happiness to you.

That being said, the connection between you and your twin flame will also be so strong that you’ll feel tremendous pain and anguish if something happens to them and you will feel lost without them.

It’s one of the reasons so many twin flames end up romantically involved: it ensures they never go without one another.

The next time you feel like you should be at a certain place at a certain time or feel that push from the universe to show up at a party or visit a certain library, follow that hunch.

You never know what might happen, but also, it might be a message from your twin flame that they are also seeking you out and waiting for you there.

Go where your intuition takes you – it’s really your twin flame guiding you.

What should you do now?

If you are in a twin flame relationship — cherish it. These types of relationships can be fleeting and short, or last for years, but the impact they have on you will remain for the rest of your life. 

It’s a beautiful thing to experience.

However, twin flame relationships aren’t magic. Like any relationship, they require work and perseverance to last a lifetime.

If you want to guarantee a passionate and loving relationship with your man, you need to watch this free online video by relationship expert James Bauer.

He’ll introduce to you a radical new concept in relationship psychology called the hero instinct. I’ve talked about this briefly above.

I think learning about the hero instinct holds the key to gaining a man’s love and devotion for life.

Here’s a link to this game-changing video again.

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