15 trick questions to ask a guy to see if he’s cheating on you

Are there any questionnaires out there that tell me if he’s cheating?

Let’s face it – finding out that your man is cheating on you is not an easy thing to deal with. 

You’re dating a guy and he’s been acting weird. Maybe you’ve noticed that he starts texting on his phone more often or that he keeps turning away from the dinner table when your eyes meet. 

You want to know for sure if your man is cheating on you, but you don’t want to ask him directly. Here’s how to find out if he’s cheating on you.

Let’s get started! 

1) Do you think that I’m still sexy?

This is the most important question to ask a man if you want to know whether or not he is cheating on you. This question is going to get him thinking, because it’s an open-ended question and there are no easy answers. 

If he is cheating, he’ll probably worry that you found something and be suspicious. 

If he says yes, then he’s probably got a good chance of being just lying to make you happy. But the important thing to notice is his reaction after answering the question. 

Does he care more about you? Does he keep looking at you like he’s doing something wrong? Does he hide away everytime he talks on the phone?

If he says no, then ask him why not. If you don’t get an answer, then this is probably a sign that you should consider ending things completely before they really start. 

The thing with men (and women) is that what they say and what they do are often two completely different things.

I’m not saying that you should give up on your relationship just yet – but you really need to step back and look at the situation from a different perspective. You might be surprised at what you find out.

2) Do you think it’s ok to cheat on your partner?

There are a lot of men out there who think that cheating is OK. 

The reason for this is simple – they are not getting the love and affection they need from the women in their lives. 

If you ask him this question openly and he answers with a ‘yes’ then you really need to reassess your relationship.

There are two reasons why your man may be cheating on you: one reason is because he feels as though he’s not being loved enough by you, but the other reason is because he simply needs more affection than what you’re able to give him. 

No matter what his response is, there is a good chance that he’s just not happy with the actual relationship that he’s in.

I ‘m going to say it right now – if he answers yes to this question and you decide to stick around anyway, then you’re the one that’s being cheated on.

3) Do you think that you can have sex with someone else and just forget about them?

Asking this question is pretty simple. If your partner answers ‘no’ then you should be fine because he’s clearly not looking to have sex with anyone else. However, if he answers in the affirmative, then this is a huge red flag.

Remember, there are a lot of men out there who really don’t care whether or not they hurt the people they love – some may even be quite happy to hurt them if it means that they’ll get what they want for themselves.

4) If I took your phone and found pictures of another woman on it, what would you tell me?

This is a great question to ask because it will give you an idea of whether or not there’s another woman in his life. Pay attention to his reaction when you ask this question. 

If he said that there’s no photo of any woman on his phone, ask him to show you to prove it.

And if, for instance, you found nude or semi-nude photos on his phone and he told you that they were there to impress the people he works with, then this single answer will tell you a lot.

There are a lot of men out there who actually cheat by using this method. 

5) Do you think I’m hot? How do you feel about my body?

This is a great question because it will get him to open up and tell you what he thinks of the way that you look. You’ll probably be able to tell if he’s lying or not based on his reaction.

If he answers this question by putting his hand on your waist, or by touching your butt in an ‘inappropriately intimate’ way, that’s an obvious sign in and of itself. 

But given the fact that women are always dressed to impress and men are always told to look their best, there is a reason why we should be always on the lookout for signs that indicate infidelity.

6) How would you feel if I cheated on you?

This is a great question to ask, because it’s going to set the tone for the conversation. You don’t want him to answer in a way that makes him seem like the victim. 

If he tells you that it would break his heart, then chances are that something is definitely going on behind your back – or perhaps even worse, he may just be looking for an excuse to cheat.

But if he answers in a really neutral way and says that it wouldn’t bother him at all, then again this proves that something is definitely wrong with your relationship.

7) Do you think I’m a good kisser?

While the answer to this question may seem like it’s obvious, there’s still a chance that he’ll be dishonest with you. 

If he tries to make excuses or blames a bad experience on someone else, then you could take that as a red flag and ask him some more questions.

You’ll need to decide what is and isn’t acceptable behavior from your partner if you want your relationship to last!

8) Does it bother you that I go out with my friends?

Men are very territorial – and if your man feels as though you’re going out with your friends too much, he’ll get jealous.

This is because men have a very possessive nature – and when it comes to their girlfriends, they don’t like the idea of other men being around them. 

If he’s cheating on you, then there’s a good chance that he doesn’t want you to have your own life. 

He may feel as though you’re spending too much time with your friends and not enough time with him. 

His ‘jealousy’ over your social life is one of the signs that he’s cheating on you. 

He may also be intimidated by your friendships since they are obviously important to you and he wants to be the center of your universe.

9) Do you feel that we are too close together?

There are some men who feel as though they need a woman to be ‘close’ to them at all times. 

You may notice that his response will be along the lines of “yeah, I mean, we’re with each other 24/7. I’m sure we are close to each other”.

If this is the case, you should be wary of what his intentions actually are. When your boyfriend doesn’t value the time that you spend together as a couple and just wants to go out without you, it’s a clear sign that he’s cheating.

10) What type of woman do you like?

This question will get him talking and he will probably begin telling you about all the different women he has been with – what they look like and how they act. Just remember, the women he tells you about are all ‘superficial’ in nature.

He doesn’t want to tell you about the intelligent women that he hung out with in college or the women who have been his best friends for years. 

When it comes to cheating, most men will always prefer a woman who has a killer body and a pretty face. 

So when you ask him this question, just be sure that you listen carefully for clues about what type of woman he likes to be with.

11) What do your friends have to say about me?

This question is also very relevant if you have not yet met any of his friends. In this case, you can ask him to describe them to you, so that you can make sure that they aren’t deceiving you with false flattery.

While asking about his friends may seem a bit strange, it’s actually really important that you do. If you ask him this question and he says that all of his friends think you’re crazy and that they don’t understand why he’s even with you, then that is a red flag. 

This is because the fact that he listens to his friends more than the person he’s in a relationship with, proves that your relationship isn’t in a good place.

If his answers are positive – or at least neutral – then chances are he has nothing to hide. 

However, if they aren’t positive, then it means that there is something wrong with your relationship. He may be cheating on you or perhaps even thinking about cheating on you.

12) How do you feel when you’re with me?

By asking him this question, you are essentially giving him a chance to talk about how he feels about his relationship. However, there are no right or wrong answers in this question – and at the end of the day, it really doesn’t matter what he says. 

What matters is what you think, because if he shows that he’s not feeling something that you’re feeling then chances are that things may be on the verge of going awry.

But the truth of the matter is that your relationship isn’t going to last very long if you aren’t both happy with each other. The answer to this question will really determine whether or not you should look into cheating further or figure out a way to fix your relationship.

13) If you met another woman who was sexy and smart, would you want to be with her?

This is a very important question to ask, because it’s going to tell you whether or not he’s looking for someone else. If he says yes and then tells you that there are other people out there who can meet his criteria, then chances are that he would happily run off with them if given the chance.

On the other hand, if he answers no and then tells you that there is no one else like you out there, then this means that your relationship really has a good chance of working out in the long term.

But again, this is not always an accurate sign – or at least not in terms of finding out whether or not your partner has committed the ultimate sin of cheating on you.

14) Did you like it when we did it?

This question can make him feel insecure. Some men (especially those who are looking for excuses to cheat on their partners) will begin talking about how much they loved it when you had sex with them. 

But this isn’t always the truth, because some men (like the ones who will cheat) are going to say that they like it when their partner is unhappy or angry – because this makes them feel powerful. 

But if he says that there were no feelings involved at all and that it was just part of their routine, then there’s a good chance that he’s cheating on you.

15) What was the most exciting moment in our relationship?

Now that you’ve asked all of these other questions, it’s time to ask him about the good times. If you have a list of exciting moments in your relationship, then make sure that you ask him about them individually and find out what he thinks makes each one exciting.

This is going to tell you a lot more about his character, and it will also give you an opportunity to get an idea of what he likes about being with you. 

So, if he gives you a detailed response that focuses on who he is as a person, then this will most likely mean good things for your relationship – at least from his perspective.

Ask yourself: why?

So far, you’ve been asking him a series of questions to learn more about him – and hopefully make sure that the relationship works out for both of you. 

But now the whole thing becomes a bit trickier, because you actually want to be able to talk to him about what makes you happy. You want to learn what he loves about you?

What is your partner definitely NOT lying about?

This is a really important question, because it’s going to help you figure out whether or not he’s being honest with you. Even if he gives you some vague answer, you still can understand what they really mean. 

Make sure that whatever answers he gives don’t seem very exciting – or at least not exciting enough to make up an entire story on their own. If he says that something is really exciting, but doesn’t elaborate and also doesn’t deny it when you ask him questions about the details, this should be a red flag.

Conclusion 

The more you get to know your partner, the more you can start to have a relationship that works. However, it’s not easy – learning about each other is going to take time and patience, and there are no shortcuts. 

You are going to have to learn as much about your partner’s life as possible, because this is what’s going to give you the best chance of being able to use these new things in a positive way. So ask yourself: why? 

Hopefully, by asking these questions and figuring out the answers, you can start having a more fulfilling relationship with him.