Meeting your soulmate is something many of us dream about on a daily basis.
It’s a momentous occasion to find that one person who quick literally sweeps you off your feet and as you fall deeply and madly in love. It’s a magical union and no wonder so many of us are preoccupied with it.
But, how do you know what the universe has planned for you?
You might be ready to meet your soulmate now — or you might have been ready for years and wondering: when will it happen for me?
There’s no way of knowing for sure but the universe does send us certain signs to let us know that our soulmate is on the way.
Here are 12 signs to look out for when you’re about to meet your soulmate.
12 signs your soulmate is coming your way
1) You’ve been working on yourself
It’s true that in order to welcome your soulmate into your life you have to be in the best emotional and mental state possible.
Everyone has a back story. Everyone has ghosts they’d rather forget from their past. Everyone has their own struggles.
The truth is, you have likely already crossed paths with your soulmate before. But unless the two of you are ready for each other, then the time isn’t right.
You might have found yourself spending more time on yourself lately. This can come in a variety of forms:
- Sorting through your past and coming to terms with things that have happened.
- Focusing on where you’re at in life and making positive changes.
It’s about working on yourself relationship with yourself, so you can truly accept your soulmate into your life when the time is right.
When both you and your soulmate are ready, the universe will bring you together so that you can create a powerful relationship that is free of past burdens.
2) Your dreams are full of romance
We don’t always remember exactly what happens in our dreams but we come out of them with a feeling.
If you’ve been dreaming about a mysterious person, who uplifts you and leaves you feeling great when you wake — it could be a sign.
At times, these dreams can be really realistic. It’s like you’re literally there with them, talking, laughing, and sharing each other. These types of dreams are called astral dreams. It’s when your soul meets with theirs on an astral plane.
You might have this dream more than once but the person will always be the same. You won’t recognize them physically — but you will know. These dreams often serve the purpose of showing you that someone is coming into your life.
They prepare your subconscious so you’re ready when the moment comes.
If you’ve been having these dreams lately, embrace them. It can be hard not to wake up and feel disappointed that it isn’t your reality and was just a dream.
Turns out, it could be your reality sooner than you think.
3) You experience déjà vu
It’s an eerie feeling and can have our mind going in overdrive but it’s a great feeling. It’s the universe’s way of telling us we’re onto something good. Telling us to keep going.
This one isn’t just reserved for soulmates. It can happen to you no matter where you’re at in your life. You should always pay extra attention to moments of déjà vu and remind yourself it’s nothing to be afraid of. Instead, it should be embraced — you’re on the right path.
If you’re on the hunt for your soulmate, this feeling of déjà vu will guide you. Quite often, when we do meet our soulmates, we get the sense we have met them before and you find that you connect really easily.
So, next time you meet someone you have this instant connection with, it might be a good sign of what’s to come for the both of you.
4) You’re starting to forget your exes
Let’s be honest, exes can be hard to get over. You have a shared past together, and often plenty of wonderful memories to go with it.
But, at the end of the day, it didn’t work out between you. This doesn’t always make it easy to let go and move on — even when we know we’re doing the right thing.
If you find that you’ve started to forget about your exes, it could be a sign your soulmate is just around the corner.
Similar to working on yourself, forgetting your exes means you have closed that door and healed from any emotional wounds you were left with after that relationship.
You’re now in the best place moving forward to meet your soulmate and make the most of this new and exciting adventure, free from the pain of the past.
5) You’ve found self-love
After working on yourself and getting over your exes, you might have finally found yourself in this special place of self-love.
Have you ever heard the saying, “we can only truly love another when we love ourselves”?
We all know deep down just how important it is to love ourselves but that doesn’t make it easy to achieve.
As human beings, we are so full of self-doubt and get so swept up in concern for what others think of us and how others treat us, that we tend to forget the only one that matters is you. Many people get stuck knowing exactly how to achieve this.
How do we find self-love?
Here are some ways to practice self-love and put yourself on the right path:
- Nourish yourself: Think about what you’re putting into your body and be mindful of eating well and looking after yourself. You only have one body, you need to cherish it.
- Go out on a date. Don’t wait for a man to come along and take you out, show yourself how important you are and treat yourself. Do something just for you that you enjoy – head for a massage, go to a movie, or enjoy some quite time at home.
- Start a journal. We can’t love ourselves unless we feel positive about who we are. By starting a gratitude journal and writing down a few things you’re thankful for each day, you can truly learn to love yourself and the life you have.
Once you learn to love yourself, you’ll be ready to share yourself with that one special person.
6) You find your purpose in life
Have you ever found yourself plodding through life with no real purpose? We’ve all been there at one stage.
Whether you’re conflicted through your choice in careers, are desperate to travel the world, or want to live somewhere else, until you figure out what it is you want to do with your life, you’ll be closed off to your soulmate.
It’s once we find our purpose and know the direction we want our lives to take that the universe sends us our soulmate to walk that road with us.
A life purpose is like a compass, guiding you over life’s path. It keeps you grounded, centered, and heading in the right direction.
Of course, sometimes it is our soulmate who is the person who helps us find this life purpose but I wouldn’t sit around waiting. Get out there and work out what you want. Then you can work out who you want and find that soulmate.
If you have recently found your purpose, your soulmate might be just around the corner.
7) Your gut tells you so
If you haven’t been told this before, then listen up, your intuition is a powerful thing and you should almost always trust it.
You need to be able to truly listen to yourself and let your body speak for you. Your higher self could be trying hard to let you know that your soulmate is almost here and coming into your life soon.
So, how do you recognize if this is happening?
It’s about trusting your intuition. Trusting your feelings and what they’re trying to tell you.
Your intuition will likely step in again when you finally meet your soulmate. Your heart may send flutters, you might feel it in your gut, or you could simply just know.
There doesn’t have to be an explanation for it. Our intuition goes above the rational but is the universe’s way of speaking to us.
Worried that you aren’t in tune with your thoughts and feelings? This is something you can work on:
- Meditation: try taking some time out each day to try some meditation. There are so many benefits that come with it: it can reset your hormones, help you make better decisions, help you find your higher purpose and also build your powers of intuition.
- Listen: set aside some time each day to simply listen to your intuition. We all lead such busy lives it can be hard to take pause to actually listen to what our higher self is trying to say.
- Trust yourself: if you’re already in a place of self-love then the trust should come naturally for you. The more you can trust yourself, the more success you will experience in life.
Had any feelings lately that your soulmate is approaching?
Trust them and be on the lookout, it’s your higher power trying to prepare you for what’s to come.
8) Love is all around you
You’re starting to notice it everywhere you go.
On a trip to the supermarket, you notice couples everywhere holding hands and laughing together.
On your way to walk you watch couples kissing each other goodbye.
On the way home, you watch couples warmly embracing each other after they say apart.
These couples have always been there. Deeply in love and showing it to the world. The only thing that has changed is that you’re now noticing it.
It might upset you at first. You find yourself wondering, why does everyone else have someone special in their lives except for me? How is that fair?
But it’s the universe’s way of getting you to accept love, by seeing it all around you. Once you can accept it, you’ll be ready to accept your soulmate into your life.
9) You have balance
Life is full of ups and downs and so many competing commitments for you to manage.
From family and friends, work and relationships to the gym, socializing and more. Finding a healthy balance between all these factors in your life takes time. It’s not something that will just come to you.
The right balance for you will be different from what is right for the next person. That’s why you have to truly know and love yourself before you can find the right balance in your life.
Once you get there, it’ll simply feel right. You’ll know you are onto a good thing and that it’s working for you. It’s the universe’s way of helping you get your priorities right and in order, before sending in your soulmate to fit into that.
As a life partner, you should grow together but not change each other. This is why you need to know who you are and what’s important to you before the universe will send your soulmate.
10) You’re embracing new opportunities
When you’re prepared to welcome love into your life, you’ll find yourself getting out there and taking on new challenges to find it. This often means leaving your comfort zone in the pursuit of love.
While we may all have a soulmate waiting for us, it’s unlikely that they’re going to turn up knocking at your door (unlikely, but not impossible).
You need to get out there and find them.
If you’re at the stage of actively seeking love, it’s a sign that you’re ready to welcome love into your life.
Let your body guide you to these new opportunities. Listen to what it’s telling you and embrace it. Your subconscious could be steering you in the direction of love, as long as you’re ready,
11) You’re happy alone
The best way to know you’re in the right mindset to welcome your soulmate into your life is when you find you’re truly happy — and that you don’t NEED someone else.
True love will arrive when you’re content just being with you. You’re complete on your own and have found the perfect harmony in your life.
Once you’ve found yourself in this place, you’re ready to accept your soulmate into your life and be in a genuinely loving relationship where you complement each other, rather than complete each other.
On the other hand, if you’ve been jumping in and out of relationships, you might want to think about putting the brakes on.
You’re avoiding finding your true self and using these relationships to mask the pain. This will only serve the purpose of pushing your soulmate further and further out of your reach.
Spend some time alone and do some soul searching. When you realize just how amazing you are and how much you enjoy your own company, it’s a great sign that love is on its way.
12) Divine timing
This is the final step before meeting your soulmate. That special moment in which it happens.
Your moment will come, the universe wants you to meet your soulmate and will make it happen. And it will all come down to divine timing. The way in which you meet each and the events that precede it will make it impossible for you two not to meet.
Whether you miss the train, a holiday is canceled, or you turn up to that party you weren’t going to. When two souls are destined for love, they can’t stay apart.
Next time something goes wrong, or something unexpected happens, it’s time to question whether this is your divine timing. Is your soulmate waiting to meet you?
Does everyone have a soulmate?
Not recognizing any of these signs yet? Don’t despair, it may just not be your time yet, but just hang in there!
You could be wondering: what if it’s not meant to be? What if there’s no soulmate for me?
We all have these doubts and fears. As we watch people around us falling madly, deeply in love, it can be hard not to wonder whether this will ever happen for you.
According to Helen Fisher of Rutgers University — an expert on love — we are all wired to find love. She believes that finding your soulmate is not only possible, it’s inevitable.
And she’s not the only one who believes this.
Richard Webster, author of Soul Mates: Understanding Relationships Across Time, says in his book,
“I believe that there is a special person for everyone. The perfect person for you is either already with you, or is searching for you. The hard part is finding that special person. However, you CAN do it. The two of you have been together countless times before.”
The most important thing is your mindset. You have to tell yourself it is going to happen. You WILL meet that special person.
Every time you leave your house, it’s an opportunity to meet your soulmate and find that love you have been pining for.
Don’t worry about how old you are, how many kids you have, or how you look — you need to believe there is someone out there just for you.
It’s time to stop asking yourself, “Does everyone have a soulmate?”
Instead tell yourself, “I can’t wait to meet my soulmate”.
They are out there waiting for you — it’s just a matter of time.
While you’re waiting, keep the signs above in you’re head, so you’re prepared when your moment comes.
Get out there, have fun, go on dates and enjoy yourself.
Before you know it, it’ll be your turn.
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