21 signs your ex wants you back but won’t admit it

Some love stories never seem to have a clean end, so you may end up receiving all kinds of mixed signals from your ex.

They may not say exactly what they want, but they might still be trying to get you back.

In the end, it’s not always as easy as saying “I miss you”.

Here are 21 signs that your ex wants you back (but won’t admit it)!

1) They don’t want anyone else

If you’re still trying to figure out if your ex wants you back, then the best way to find out is by observing their actions.

If they’re showing interest in other people and moving on with their lives, then it means they’ve already accepted the breakup.

On the other hand, if they’re being a bit ‘clingy’ and seem shy when seeing other prospective partners, then you might still have a chance.

2) They’re more attentive to you

You might not realize it, but your ex may still be checking in with you just to see how you’re doing.

If they’re being a little more attentive and asking about your day or other general questions, then it could mean that they want to keep tabs on you.

The interesting thing is that your ex may be even more attentive than when you were together.

3) A real love advisor confirms it

The signs in this article will give you an insight into your ex’s feelings and help you figure out whether they want you back.

Even so, issues related to love and ex-partners can be confusing at the best of times, especially as your situation is unique to you. 

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4) They follow your social media accounts

It’s not necessarily stalking when someone keeps up with another person’s social media activities.

Just because someone is following your social media accounts doesn’t mean that they want you back.

In most cases, they just want to be informed of your actions (and what’s going on in your private life).

However, if they’re showing a little more interest than usual, then it could be a sign that you still have a chance.

Your ex may ask you directly about something you posted, or they may use a more discrete way to get around it.

Either way, you will be able to spot the signs.

5) They text or call you out of the blue

Forgetting about an ex who’s already moved on is hard to do, but with time, most people will eventually move forward from their past relationships.

When an ex suddenly decides to reach out to you after weeks or months of no communication, then it could mean that they want to see how you are and hopefully reconnect.

Make no mistake about it – if your ex called or texted after months of being separated, it is very intentional.

There are certainly strong feelings involved, and he or she wants to keep their options open.

If your ex seems to be holding on to your relationship, then it could mean that they want you back and aren’t ready to let go of the past.

When an ex is still attached to a past relationship, it can be a hint that they may want you back but are unsure if you’re ready for it.

6) You see them often in person

When an ex wants you back, then they’ll most likely try to see you again in person.

Sure, it might just be for a quick coffee date but don’t be surprised if they try hanging out with you as friends because they still have feelings for you.

Looking for an excuse to meet again is surely not without reason.

There are probably still strong feelings behind it.

7) Your ex gets jealous when you talk with other guys

If you notice that your ex is a bit jealous if you talk to other guys, it is a sign of strong feelings.

Sure, this doesn’t mean that they want you back, but it’s a clear sign of insecurity and jealousy.

If your ex is getting jealous of other guys, then they’re still carrying some feelings for you.

So what can you do in this situation? Send this “No Communication” text

— “It’s best that we don’t talk right now, but I would like to be friends eventually.” —

This one needs to be sent to your ex at the right time for it to be truly effective.

But why I like it is that you’re communicating with them, that you don’t really need to talk anymore. In essence, you’re saying that you don’t really need them to play any role in your life anymore – especially if they express their jealousy.

Why is this so good?

You induce a “fear of loss” in your ex which will trigger their attraction to you again.

I learned about this text from Brad Browning, who has helped thousands of men and women get their exes back. He goes by the moniker of “the relationship geek”, and for good reason.

In this free video, he’ll show you exactly what you can do to make your ex want you again.

No matter what your situation is — or how badly you’ve messed up since the two of you broke up — he’ll give you a number of useful tips that you can apply immediately.

Here’s a link to his free video again. If you really want your ex back, this video will help you do this.

8) They’re staying in touch with your friends

If your ex was the one who wanted to keep in contact with you, then they’ll probably still be doing it.

Most exes will try to get along with their friends just to make sure that they are still good people and not going to cheat on them.

This is also a sign that they want to see you again and maybe explore their feelings.

9) They keep showing up at places where you’re present

When you start noticing your ex everywhere you turn, it might not be just because it is a coincidence.

There is probably some planning involved.

If your ex follows you around, then they want you back.

If they see you at the grocery or a party but pretend not to notice you’re there, then they probably still want to be with you and are paying close attention to your whereabouts.

10) They’re being extra nice

Your ex won’t necessarily be telling you that they want you back, but they will probably still be nice to you, which means they have feelings for you.

If this is the case, then you should try to see if you can work things out.

In case you notice that your ex wants you back, then don’t just ignore it.

If you believe that there is something more for both of you and there are ways to work things out, then make sure you show it clearly so you can continue where you left off.

11) They keep talking about the things they miss about you

When an ex still has feelings for you, then they’ll most likely not be able to stop thinking about the good times you had together.

Even though they might not admit it, your ex will probably talk about the positive memories that are still fresh in their mind.

People tend to focus on the good things and forget all the bad ones if the connection between the two is still there.

12) They say things about your relationship

If your ex is talking about the good old times when you were still together, then they’ll probably still be holding on to those memories.

If they’re bringing up the old times and how much they miss it, then take this as a good sign that they still want you back.

13) They’re jealous of your new relationship

If you’re dating someone new, then don’t be surprised if your ex starts to feel a bit jealous and insecure.

They’re most likely going to see you as a threat and will try to ‘keep up’ by finding a new partner.

They’ll be a bit jealous of the way you talk or look at your new partner.

It’s all normal if they do this because they just want you back.

14) They’re giving you gifts

If your ex is suddenly giving you gifts after a breakup, then they still want to be with you.

Your ex may have no idea how to tell you that they still want to be with you and are doing the only thing they can by buying gifts or trying something different.

15) They want to hang out with you

If your ex wants to hang out with you and make plans for the future, then it means that they still hold a special place for you in their heart.

Pay attention to the way your ex dresses when you meet.

If you notice that they dress nicely when they know you’re going to see them, it is a sign that they want to look their best and make you reconsider.

If your ex has always been a bit more casual and now all of a sudden starts putting more effort into their outfits, it could mean that they want to look good for you.

It is a way for them to make you see them in a new light and remember how good you two were together.

16) They have all the time in the world for you

When an ex wants you back, then they’ll make time for you.

They might cancel important things in their schedule just to hang out with you.

They won’t necessarily tell you that they want to be with you, but it’s just a matter of being able to read between the lines and see what’s really behind it.

Once you start noticing that you get to spend time a lot and that your ex is truly trying really hard to show you just how valuable you are, then you should know that there’s a chance for you to renew your relationship, and it can happen sooner than you think.

17) They’re giving you compliments

When an ex wants you back, then they’ll most likely compliment you.

They might tell you that they like how you look or that they miss hanging out with you.

Perhaps your ex realized just how many virtues you had when your relationship was over.

The truth is that we sometimes take people for granted until we lose them.

18) They’re still checking on you

Your ex might be staying in touch with your friends or family members just to make sure that you’re okay.

They may also call or text you out of the blue just to check in with you and see how things are going.

If this is the case, then they probably want to know where you stand and if they can change your mind about getting back together.

19) They’re being clingy when they see you

They might have an emotional reaction when they see you.

They might even seem to be acting weird, but don’t be fooled.

It’s normal to get a little clingy around your ex because they miss you.

Most people will try to disguise their feelings, but their body language will most likely say it all.

Leaning towards you, coming too close to you, and trying to touch you will tell you that they still want you back.

Initiating conversation, holding the door open for you, or placing a hand on your shoulder is also a clear sign that they have feelings for you.

20) They’re going to extremes just to get your attention

If you’re asking yourself if your ex still has feelings for you, then the answer is most likely yes.

They might be showing interest in how your life is going and how things are working out.

If they want to know what you’re doing with your life, then they probably want to be with you again.

If their interest doesn’t end there and if your ex is willing to do anything just to impress you and get your attention, then they still have feelings for you.

They might even send flowers or be a bit flirty over text.

It’s normal if they try being different because they’re hoping to get your attention.

The reason is they probably realized that your relationship was better than they understood at the time.

21) They’re showing more affection to your friends and family members

If your ex is showing more affection to your friends and family members, it might be because they want you back and want the support of your loved ones.

The secret is that they simply want to see if you can change your mind about getting back together with them.

If this is the case, then try talking things out so everything can be the way it was before.

The solution is to discuss your feelings and see if you can get back together.

Talk to them and see if you could still work things out.

Final thoughts

So now you know all the signs that your ex wants you back.

It’s important to see if their feelings for you are real because there are a lot of fake signals out there.

If you’re still not sure about what your ex wants, then it’s better to be safe than sorry.

Choose to follow the tips given above so you can get the answer that you want.

Whatever the case might be, make sure that you don’t go there with high hopes that they’ll change their mind.

If you start dating someone new and your ex still has feelings for you, then they might try to sabotage your relationship just so they can get back to you.

If this is the case, then it’s time to re-evaluate your relationship and decide what it is that you truly want.

I hope these signs will help you understand your ex better and figure out what your next step should be!