After a breakup, everyone gets haunted with these questions, “Is my ex thinking about me?” or “Does he miss me?”
But when you haven’t thought of your ex for a long time – and he pops into your mind more than normal, it could mean something else.
You can almost sense that your ex is using the Law of Attraction on you.
And now you’re wondering if you can tell if your ex or someone else is actively manifesting you?
Fortunately, when you pay attention to the signs, you can be sure that this is happening.
Is your ex manifesting you? 12 signs to look for
The Law of Attraction is powerful in manifesting what you want in life. It works in mysterious ways and is giving us signs that we may or may not be aware of.
But what if someone is using this to manifest a place in your life?
Pay attention to these signs to best figure things out.
1) You think about them for no apparent reason
When someone is on your mind more than usual, it could mean that your ex is manifesting you.
This isn’t unusual if you recently broke up as you’re probably thinking of them a lot anyway.
But it’s a different thing if it’s been quite a long time since you parted ways – then suddenly they’re in your head all the time.
Your ex could still be attached to you in some way.
This is especially true if you have no reason to contact them.
So if out of the blue, your ex keeps running in your mind and you’re thinking about them most of the time, it’s a sign that your ex is using the law of attraction on you.
2) You dream about your ex
The Universe communicates with us using signs and symbols – and through our dreams.
Do you have recurring dreams about the same person, and when you awoke, it seems fresh in your mind?
Seeing this person in your dreams is a definite sign that you’re being manifested.
You dream about them as you have this deep connection and your vibrations are aligning. And maybe this person wants to see you again.
Your ex could also be thinking about you and trying to get your attention. Or maybe you and your ex still love each other.
This is especially true when there’s no emotional charge around your dream.
As our subconscious sends us messages while we’re sleeping, use this to figure out what the other person wants to say.
Or maybe, there are several underlying reasons why you keep dreaming of your ex.
Professional dream analyst Lauri Quinn Loewenberg has this to share,
“Whatever’s going on in the dream is going to reflect not necessarily (what’s going on( between you and your ex, but what’s going on with you.”
It’s best to take this as a reminder to hold on to the lessons of the past to pave way for a new, healthy relationship.
3) What would a gifted advisor say?
During a breakup, most of us are all over the place. Energetically speaking it’s a turbulent time and reading signs for that reason can feel challenging.
For example, you might find yourself questioning, is this really a sign my ex misses me, or wishful thinking?
So could getting some outside guidance help?
It’s fair to say there are plenty of frauds out there in the psychic world, who are just waiting to take advantage when we’re at our most vulnerable.
But after a really challenging breakup, I found that speaking to an advisor from Psychic Source was super helpful.
The psychic I spoke to was kind, understanding, and insightful.
My love reading gave me the guidance I was looking for (and needed) during a painful and confusing time.
4) They suddenly pop into your thoughts
Pay attention if your ex or a specific person keeps getting into your head as it could be a sign that they’re thinking of you.
This sign isn’t always clear that too often, most people ignore or miss this one. But when you pay attention and look deeper, you won’t miss the message this brings.
It’s the Law of Attraction’s way of giving you a nudge in the right direction. And the Universe is trying to tell you something.
It can be like a picture, a phenomenon, or something that randomly appeared out of nowhere. And it’s happening when someone is tuning into your frequency.
When you keep experiencing this, it’s best to listen to your intuition – as most of the time, your gut feeling is right.
So if someone is thinking about you, this person is likely trying to manifest you.
5) You’re seeing Angel Numbers related to them
The universe is showing you signs and symbols to let you know that someone is manifesting you.
So when you keep seeing repeating sequences of numbers that repeat frequently, it means something.
These aren’t random coincidences as angel numbers have hidden messages that you need to know.
For instance, if their birthday is August 08, you might see Angel Number 808 randomly. It could appear on your receipts, clock, or license plates.
When you see Angel Number 000 frequently, there’s a powerful and uplifting message that the Divine realm is sending your way.
But you have to know what these Angel Numbers mean when it comes to love, life, or relationships – and be open to the journey waiting for you.
Understanding the true meaning of these occurrences will help you figure out what you need to do.
6) You run into them
Do you find yourself bumping into your ex even in unexpected places?
Aside from a brief meeting at the cafe, you got seated near each other at a concert. Perhaps you even run into each other in a foreign city (and that’s unusual).
When you run into your ex in random places, take this as an undeniable sign that they’re manifesting you.
The person who’s manifesting you will show up unexpectedly.
Pay attention when this happens as it can also mean that this person is thinking of you and can’t get you off their minds.
If there has been an unbelievable sequence of events and you keep bumping into each other, then it’s not a coincidence. That’s the law of attraction at work.
People tend to be at the same place at the same time when they’re tapping into the same energy – and the Universe is sending the alignment that they share.
And the Universe is sending you messages that something is going on between the two of you. It could be an opportunity for another chance or a way to resolve past issues.
7) You can sense when they’re around
This can be somewhat spooky if you can sense that someone is manifesting you, but the truth is, it isn’t.
There seem to be different things that you can sense even if your ex isn’t around.
For instance, you’re walking and hear a familiar voice. But when you turn, no one is around and it’s all in your mind.
Or perhaps, you’re in your room and you catch a random whiff of a familiar perfume, body spray, or deodorant.
And you don’t have to freak out when these incidents happen.
This happens as your ex is channeling high vibrational energies to you. And you will feel drawn to that energetic connection if you’re aligned vibrationally.
You also sense a psychic connection through these Clair Senses:
- Clairaudience: hearing things that aren’t present physically
- Clairalience: smelling something that’s not around
- Clairvoyance: seeing a past or present vision of someone in mind
When you acknowledge these signs, you’ll know where these sensations are coming from.
8) You recognize them
If your ex is manifesting you, they could be your soulmate.
Want to know for certain whether you’ve met your soulmate?
Let’s face it:
We can waste a lot of time and energy with people who ultimately we’re not compatible with. Finding your soulmate isn’t exactly easy.
But what if there was a way to remove all the guesswork?
I’ve just stumbled upon a way to do this… a professional psychic artist who can draw a sketch of what your soulmate looks like.
Even though I was a bit skeptical at first, my friend convinced me to try it out a few weeks ago.
Now I know exactly what he looks like. The crazy thing is that I recognized him right away,
If you’re ready to find out what your soulmate looks like, get your own sketch drawn here.
9) Sudden emotional changes
You’re wondering why you experience a quick shift in mood and energy out of the blue.
Again, it’s a sign that someone is manifesting you.
For instance, you might be having a bad day, but suddenly, you feel happy and good about yourself.
If your ex is manifesting you with good thoughts, the shift in the mood you experience is the result of you picking up on those feelings yourself.
According to psychiatrist Judith Orloff M.D.,
“Empaths are highly attuned to other people’s moods, good and bad.”
Most empaths, intuitive, and highly-sensitive people pick up other people’s energy even when the other person is at a distance.
And it’s because this person is tuning in to you energetically and will try to align their energy with high vibrational emotions such as love, gratitude, and joy.
10) You feel compelled to contact him
You’re wondering why you get a strong urge to reach out to your ex. There’s a sudden feeling to message or call the person you haven’t communicated with for a long time.
A sense of euphoria, fascination, and emotions start to envelop you knowing that you’ll be connecting with the person again.
The reason why you feel compelled to reach out is that your ex is trying to get a message from you.
Take this as a direct sign that someone is manifesting you as the other person’s intentions are traveling down the spiritual hierarchy and reaching for you.
So what can you do in this situation? Send this “No Communication” text
— “You’re right. It’s best that we don’t talk right now, but I would like to be friends eventually.” —
This one needs to be sent to your ex at the right time for it to be truly effective.
But why I like it is that you’re communicating with them that you don’t really need to talk anymore. In essence, you’re saying that you don’t really need them to play any role in your life anymore.
Why is this so good?
You induce a “fear of loss” in your ex which will trigger their attraction for you again.
I learned about this text from Brad Browning, who has helped thousands of men and women get their exes back. He goes by the moniker of “the relationship geek”, for good reason.
In this free video, he’ll show you exactly what you can do to make your ex want you again.
No matter what your situation is — or how badly you’ve messed up since the two of you broke up — he’ll give you a number of useful tips that you can apply immediately.
Here’s a link to his free video again. If you really want your ex back, this video will help you do this.
11) People keep mentioning your ex
It seems odd why people you know are mentioning this person from your past. It isn’t normal as you’ve heard this person’s name from different people.
For instance, your mom suddenly remembers your first date with this person. A friend from work mentions that she saw this person a few days ago.
Then, when you check your Facebook messages, some of your friends are asking something about your ex.
Aren’t these coincidences or not?
Truth is, this is the type of synchronicity that happens when someone is manifesting you.
And these synchronicities come into your life in different forms and appear in your life regularly.
According to Gregg Levoy’s article in Psychology Today, synchronicities are “meaningful coincidences – and a sure sign that you’re on the right path.”
When you notice these synchronicities, it could be that the Universe is also bringing you closer to the person manifesting you.
12) You receive a vision of the person
Visions happen as it’s one way the Universe reveals divine guidance to you.
These visions normally happen when your mind is at rest – while you’re sleeping (in the form of a dream) or during meditation.
And these visions can come in overpowering images and experiences.
When you’re getting visions of a person, it’s a sign that an energetic exchange is happening in your life.
You’re receiving these visions but aren’t sure why you’re seeing such things.
It could mean that someone is manifesting you or you’re manifesting something in your life.
Pay attention as someone is calling you across the spiritual plane.
When this happens, learn to listen to your gut feeling. If you’re having visions of seeing your ex again and you can sense it happening, it could probably come true.
Most of the time, your hunch is a sign that the law of attraction is working in your life.
It’s the Universe’s way of alerting you that your ex is manifesting back into your life.
Does manifesting a relationship work?
Now, you may be asking that since your ex is manifesting you, you can also manifest your relationship back.
Well, manifesting what your heart desires is always possible. But the complicated answer, in this case, is “no.”
That is unless you’ve both done deep soul searching, have worked on yourselves, and have figured out that this is what you want for the right reasons.
And when that time comes, you can both make the Law of Attraction work.
When your ex is manifesting you, here’s what you can do…
It feels comforting to know when someone is positively manifesting you.
If your ex is manifesting you – and he might also want you back, you don’t have to do anything at all.
Communicate if you want. If you want to contact them or respond to their messages, you can.
When you connect, let positive vibrations surround you – then maybe, you’ll get to see where things will lead.
Well, maybe you’ll see each other again or maybe you won’t.
But in the same way, it’s not an excuse to get back together. More often than not, something is going on under the surface of what you’ve realized.
And sometimes, there are reasons why you can’t be together even if you still love each other.
Remember that just because your ex is manifesting or is thinking of you – and you’re missing the person too – means that you can continue where you left off.
In most instances, when a relationship ends, it ends for many reasons.
Fill your life with positivity
You can’t stop someone from using the Law of Attraction to manifest you – but you can do something to protect your energy.
And this means loving yourself more by surrounding your life with good vibrations.
- Follow your passions in life
- Get busy with things that you enjoy doing
- Spend time with your loved ones and good friends
- Share joy and happiness with people around you
For when you fill your life with things and people that lift your spirit, you’re raising your vibrational level.
No matter what, the most important thing you can do right now is to be a better person.
Learn to love yourself more and be happy with the person that you are.
By now you should have a good idea of the signs your ex is manifesting you. But if you’re still unsure, I recommend getting in touch with a trustworthy advisor.
I mentioned Psychic Source earlier. Based on my own personal experience with them, I know they’re legit, kind and helpful.
So instead of leaving things up to chance, take control of this situation and clarify what’s in store for your future.
Speaking to one of their experienced advisors was a turning point for me, and I think it could be for you too. Especially if you want to find out about your ex’s intentions.
Can a relationship coach help you too?
If you want specific advice on your situation, it can be very helpful to speak to a relationship coach.
I know this from personal experience…
A few months ago, I reached out to Relationship Hero when I was going through a tough patch in my relationship. After being lost in my thoughts for so long, they gave me a unique insight into the dynamics of my relationship and how to get it back on track.
If you haven’t heard of Relationship Hero before, it’s a site where highly trained relationship coaches help people through complicated and difficult love situations.
In just a few minutes you can connect with a certified relationship coach and get tailor-made advice for your situation.
I was blown away by how kind, empathetic, and genuinely helpful my coach was.