16 clear signs he wants you badly sexually (really!)

Have you ever been put in the awkward position of having to talk to a man about his intentions of relating to you sexually? 

Well, then we have some good news for you. 

You don’t need to head out on a mission to find out his intentions. There are actually 16 clear signs that he wants you badly sexually (really!) and they’re all right here in this article.

1) Your guy tries to touch you or kiss you in public

The first sign is one of the most obvious ones, but many women still miss it to their own cost: This is when your guy tries to touch you or kiss you in public.

It’s not just a sign that he’s attracted and that he likes you. It’s also a clear signal that he’s trying to start getting more intimate with you.

The fact that he wants to be physical with you in the presence of other people means that he is comfortable with being close to you and didn’t mind if someone saw him kissing and touching you.

It gets better, though. Not only does it mean that he wants to be physical with you, but it also means that he doesn’t foresee a problem with the two of you as a couple, so he’s already trying to move forward in the relationship.

And if you two are already in a relationship and he tries to touch you or kiss you in public, it means that deep down, he doesn’t have any doubts about the relationship. He simply wants to show other people that he’s with a girl he likes and feels good about.

2) He strokes your hair or touches your arm while talking

The truth is:

While touching you like that, he can’t stop thinking about doing all kinds of wild things to you.

While this may seem like a small thing, it actually says a lot about him. 

It means that not only does he want to touch you, but he also wants to touch you in a way that’s intimate and caring. It’s his way of showing you that he likes being close to you and that he cares for your feelings and well-being.

Pro tip:

Try to respond with similar gestures. Simply return the favor because when you do, it will make him feel special and will also make him want to touch you more while also wanting to spend more time with you.

3) He compliments you in a very specific way

Another sign that shows that he has sexual intentions is when he compliments you in a very specific way.

Every woman would love to hear that she’s sexy, attractive and that she looks good. That’s a fact, but when your guy compliments you in a very specific way, you can be sure that he’s trying to steer the conversation to more intimate topics.

Here are some examples of what kind of compliments he might give you:

– “You’re the most beautiful girl I’ve ever known.”

– “When you walk through the door, I feel like everything is right in the world.”

– “You look so sexy today. God, I could eat you up.” (This one sounds like a joke, but it’s very real. Just ask any guy.)

Notice how he uses specific words and that he also makes sure to read your reactions and not just his own thoughts.

4) His hero instinct seems to be triggered

Have you ever heard of the so-called “hero instinct?”

No? Well, you probably did hear of stories where a man suddenly shows up to help a woman in need, right? 

What’s happening there is pretty simple: 

The hero instinct is triggered in that man. It tells him that he needs to be there for you and protect you.

This may sound like it’s too good to be true or that it shouldn’t be counted as one of the signs of a man that wants you badly, but here’s the thing:

The “hero instinct” is the strongest instinct in any man. That means that most men would feel a strong urge to be there for you and take care of you.

If he seems to act on that urge when you need him, then it’s safe to say that he has a deep level of affection for you. In fact, he probably feels very protective and possessive about the two of you.

Let’s dig a little deeper:

There’s a new theory in the relationship world that’s causing quite a stir – it’s called the hero instinct. 

Coined by relationship expert James Bauer, this fascinating concept finally explains how men really think and feel in relationships. 

And it’s something most women have never even heard of. 

According to James Bauer, men don’t actually need a lot to feel content in their relationships. In fact, what they need has nothing to do with sex. 

Men have certain innate drivers. And when a woman comes along and triggers them, it causes a powerful response. The result is a man who loves harder, commits wholeheartedly, and truly dedicates himself to the relationship. 

So, how can you trigger your man’s hero instinct? 

The easiest thing to do is to watch this simple and genuine video by James Bauer. 

The truth is, once you understand how the hero instinct works, there’s no telling what heights your relationship can reach. 

So if you want to give your man what he truly wants from you, make sure to check out James Bauer’s excellent video. In it, he reveals the exact texts and phrases you can use straight away.

Here’s a link to the free video again.

5) His eyes are in contact with yours

I bet you never thought of a simple thing like eye contact as one of the signs that a man wants you, right?

Well, it is. And here’s why:

Any time a guy feels attracted to a woman and he doesn’t feel like she would dislike it if he showed his attraction, he will try to make some kind of physical contact with her. 

That usually happens by trying to get her to look back at him and hold his gaze for at least a second or two longer than necessary. 

But if it’s not working, he will probably start doing this naturally. He’ll simply try to catch her gaze as often as possible, either by looking at her face or by looking at her eyes.

The result of this? 

He will feel like you don’t mind his attraction and he’ll try to make the bond between you even stronger and closer. That way, you’ll be sure that he really wants a future with you. And that he really likes being around you. 

6) He searches for excuses to go back over to your place 

This one is pretty straightforward.

If a guy wants to spend more time with you, he will probably try to come up with reasons to come over to your place or reasons why you two should hang out again.

Sometimes, he won’t even give a damn about the excuse and will just ask you out on another date. But it’s the type of excuse he uses that really matters

Some guys look for excuses like:

He just had a cold, so he doesn’t feel well. He needs to rest in bed. He wants to check up on you because something happened. You left your door open, so he can come over and make sure you’re OK. 

Any excuse or reason that would serve as an invitation for him to come over is a good one to take him seriously when he says it out loud.

7) He tells everyone how great of a girlfriend you are 

One of the signs that he wants you badly sexually is when he tells people that you’re a great girlfriend.

If he says it, then you can be sure that he’s letting himself off the hook and judging if you’d be the type of woman that would make him happy sexually.

Let’s dig a little deeper:

Sincere compliments are the best kind of compliment a man can give you. 

That’s why you should remember to go for them. 

Yes, that means that you need to make him tell people how great of a girlfriend you are and make him think about it again and again. 

If he does, then he’ll be sure that he wants to get something in return from being with you. And that outweighs any other reason why he’d want to stay with you sexually at this point in time.

8) He leaves weird or inappropriate messages on your phone

Ever had a guy that would send you weird or even inappropriate text messages?

I’m sure you have. 

The thing is if a guy wants you badly sexually, he’ll do crazy things. 

He’ll send you text messages that were never meant to be sent or say things over the phone that he’d never say in real life. 

This usually happens because he can’t hold on to his feelings for you anymore, so he tries to make it up for himself by showing you how much he likes you sexually.

For example, these messages can be sent to your phone:

– “Wow, I love your body. You’re so hot.”

– “I really want to see you today. Let’s go out and have some fun.”

– “I can’t wait to have you on top of me. I think about you all the time.”

– “You’re so amazing in bed. I don’t know what I would do without you.”

It could go in a different direction depending on the guy, but it doesn’t really matter as long as he’s acting on his feelings for you. And all of these signs show that he wants to be more than just friends with you. 

9) He checks you out from head to toe

Men love talking about women. And the best thing about talking about women is that when he does, it shows you how much he wants you sexually.

You should always use this sign to your advantage if you want your man to open up to you more.

So here’s the deal:

Whenever he talks about a woman and talks about what she looks like, he can’t help but look at your body as well.

He will want to see if you match up to his description of her.

And that means that he’s got some sexual feelings for you. 

But keep in mind that you need to set boundaries to this, so he knows that he’s not allowed to look at your body with the same level of intensity and frequency that he does when talking about other women.

10) He gets excited by what catches your attention 

OK, I know what you’re thinking:

“But what if he’s just being a gentleman or playing the knight in shining armor?”

I’d say that’s pretty unlikely. 

In fact, I would go as far as to say that it’s extremely rare for a man to get excited by what catches your attention. 

It’s more likely that he’s doing this subconsciously because he wants you sexually. 

Why? 

Because he wants to take some advantage of the fact that you’re watching. And that will lead to him becoming better at picking up signals from women.

So, in a very subtle way, he is saying that he wants you to take a break from your normal routine and be more adventurous in the bedroom.

That’s not just something men want you to do for him. It’s something men want YOU to do for them as well. That’s why he gets excited by what catches your attention and that’s why he tries to catch it whenever possible.

11) He takes off his shirt to show off his muscles and abs for you 

Another case where guys will try to show off for you, especially if you’re a woman that likes muscle. 

When guys do this for you, they want you to know that they’re attracted and interested in having sex with them. Their goal is to get a “Yes-I-want-it” response from you by making their physique look as strong and as masculine as possible. 

So if he takes off his shirt, it means that he’s saying, “I’m here and I’m ready to impress you.”

12) You catch him looking down your shirt 

It might sound obvious, but I bet you never really thought about it before. But men like looking at women’s bodies.

If your boyfriend or ex has caught you looking down his shirt, then he’s telling you that he likes the idea of what lies underneath it. That’s why he openly catches you looking at him with an intense stare in his eyes. 

Believe me, this is a sign that he wants to get more intimate with you sexually.

But you should also remember the fact that he doesn’t do this with every woman. He only does it with the ones he really wants to impress.

13) He asks for a lot of attention for himself

Fun fact:

Men don’t like to be ignored.

They know how important a woman’s attention is to her. And they want you to pay them more attention for being more interested in them so that you’ll chase after them more sexually. 

So if he asks for your attention, it means that he’d like to get a lot of attention from you sexually. 

For instance, if he’s drunk at a bar and asks you over and over again to come to talk with him, then it’s safe to say he’s attracted to you.

And if he’s really into you, then he’ll ask for your attention when he wants it most. 

But here’s the kicker:

He’ll ask you for some attention, but he won’t be able to receive it immediately, so he’ll make you wait a little longer. He’s doing this so that you can’t just walk away from him after giving him some of your precious time. 

And the more he keeps asking for attention, the more attractive he becomes to other men who want to hit on you. 

14) He always wants to be alone together 

The funny thing about men is that they always want to be alone with the women they really like.

Most men don’t really care about going to a party. They’re not looking for a huge crowd of people to impress, and they don’t want to make tons of friends at once. Instead, they’d rather go out on dates with women who they might want badly sexually.

So if your boyfriend or guy friend always wants to be alone with you, then it’s safe to say he’s got feelings for you.

He’ll want to get more intimate with you, and that makes him want to be alone with you more than other men. 

Remember, he doesn’t want tons of attention from other women so he’s not going to go out on a date at all if there are a lot of girls around. Instead, he’s going to want to be with you because you’re the one he likes a whole lot.

We’re not through yet:

You can easily make him commit to you by bringing out his inner hero. I mentioned this fascinating concept earlier: the hero instinct. When a man’s inner hero is triggered, he’s more likely to want you badly sexually.

Just by knowing the right things to say to him, you’ll open a part of him that no woman has ever reached before.

And the best way to do so is by watching this free video by James Bauer. In it, he’ll reveal simple phrases and texts you can use to make your man truly yours. 

Here’s a link to the excellent video again.

15) He buys you gifts that are sexual in nature or suggestive

When a man is trying to get closer to you, he’ll want to do some things that make him look good in your eyes. 

And that’s why he’ll want to buy you presents that are sexual in nature or suggestive.

Don’t be surprised if you receive an erotic calendar or some sexy lingerie from your boyfriend or guy friend. 

He might even give you a bottle of perfume that has a lot of sexual connotations. Or he might leave his phone number on your back with a note that says, “Call me if you want.” 

If he does something like that, and it makes you feel uncomfortable, then it’s safe to say he’s attracted to you.

16) His voice gets deeper and he’s more flirtatious all of a sudden 

Every guy is different. But one thing that’s true in every guy is this:

When they like a girl, they want her to know it. So if he likes you sexually or romantically, he’ll show his attraction by developing a deeper, more flirtatious voice. He’ll also do other things that make him seem more attractive to you.

According to scientists, a deeper voice is a sign that his testosterone levels are higher. And when the guy has more T in his body, he’s going to be more aggressive and protective than usual.

As a result, guys who have lower levels of testosterone will be less attracted to you or have difficulty connecting with you sexually. They’ll either be too anxious or embarrassed to speak with you even if they like you in that way.

Final thoughts

Hopefully, you now know 16 different signs that a man is attracted to you physically, romantically, and sexually.

I hope you’ve learned a little more about your man’s behavior and what it says about him.

But if you want to make him commit to you, there’s still one more thing you need to do.

I touched on the hero instinct earlier – it’s the perfect remedy for the situation you’re facing. 

Why?

Because once a man’s hero instinct is triggered, he’ll only have eyes for you. You’ll reach a part of him that no woman has ever managed to reach before. 

And in return, he’ll be compelled to commit to you and love you like he’s never loved another woman. 

So if you’re ready to take that plunge and reach new heights in your relationship, make sure to check out relationship expert James Bauer’s invaluable advice.

Click here to watch the excellent free video.