16 alarming signs he is thinking is about other girls

Every girl has had that moment when she wonders if the guy she likes is thinking about other girls.

It’s a natural reaction to have when you realize someone could potentially hurt your feelings, but it can be difficult to know what he’s thinking if he isn’t upfront with you about it.

Thankfully, there are some signs that can help you figure out whether or not he’s interested in other girls.

If you want to find out if the guy you like has his eye on anyone else, read on for some helpful advice.

1. He’s not in a rush to promise you anything

If you’re looking for a guy who is willing to commit, there’s one thing you should keep in mind: if he’s not in a hurry to get there, he might not be your guy.

A guy who is interested in being with only you won’t hesitate to tell you that. In fact, he will want to make it clear from the beginning that he isn’t interested in dating other people.

So if this guy isn’t willing to commit to you and only you, then it might be because he is playing the field and thinking about other girls.

Does he try to immediately change the subject when the conversation turns to anything about labeling your relationship?

Can he not even talk about what’s going on between the two of you?

If so, then these are not good signs.

It shows that this guy isn’t looking for anything serious and he is probably seeing other girls.

2. His body language

Body language is one of the most important ways of nonverbal communication.

Body language can show us how people feel about a situation, what they are thinking about, and what they are planning to do in the future.

It can also tell us whether people have good intentions or not.

In this case, if you want to know whether he is thinking about other girls, look at his eyes when you’re out of in public together. Does he look at other women?

If so, it’s likely that he is thinking about other girls and might even want to pursue a relationship with other girls.

Does he get close to other girls and try to flirt with them? Then he is probably thinking about other girls.

3. The way he talks about other girls

If the guy you like seems to be interested in how other girls look and behave, it’s likely that he is thinking about them.

Perhaps he points out good-looking girls when you’re out together, or maybe he can’t stop talking about the girl he met at the gym.

These are all signs that he is thinking about other girls.

If he is your boyfriend and he never used to talk about other girls, but now he can’t stop mentioning them, then it is a sure sign that he is probably interested in someone else.

He might even be interested in dating other girls and thinks you’ll be okay with it.

4. He’s always missing the “little” things

If you’ve been dating this guy, then all you have to do is look at his past behavior.

Looking back over the history of your relationship, you remember all the little ways he used to let you know he cared.

All those little gestures and nice things he used to do, he no longer does. And when you ask him about it, he brushes it off as if it weren’t a big deal.

Things like sending you a text in the morning to tell you he’s thinking of you.

Or bringing you flowers on a random day just to brighten up your day.

This has all fallen by the wayside and it no longer shows him as the caring, loving man you once thought he was.

These signs show that he doesn’t put much thought or effort into your relationship anymore. You don’t mean as much to him as another woman does.

5. He doesn’t want to protect you anymore

When a guy likes you, he wants to step up to the plate and protect you. But if this guy doesn’t want to be your hero, then it might indicate he has lost feelings for you and is thinking of other women. 

You see, there’s a new theory in the relationship world that’s causing quite a stir – it’s called the hero instinct. 

Coined by relationship expert James Bauer, this fascinating concept finally explains how men really think and feel in relationships. 

And it’s something most women have never even heard of. 

According to James Bauer, men don’t actually need a lot to feel content in their relationships. In fact, what they need has nothing to do with sex. 

Men have certain innate drivers. And when a woman comes along and triggers them, it causes a powerful response. The result is a man who loves harder, commits wholeheartedly, and truly dedicates himself to the relationship. 

So, how can you trigger your man’s hero instinct? 

The easiest thing to do is to watch this simple and genuine video by James Bauer. 

The truth is, once you understand how the hero instinct works, there’s no telling what heights your relationship can reach. 

So if you want to give your man what he truly wants from you, make sure to check out James Bauer’s excellent video. In it, he reveals the exact texts and phrases you can use straight away.

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6. He makes an effort to hang out with his friends instead of you.

When a guy changes the way he treats you, it’s a bad sign that he’s thinking about other girls.

After all, if he had been thinking about you, he would care more and put forth more effort to make your relationship work.

But if he is thinking about other girls, he’ll want to spend less time with you. So he’ll make excuses to hang out with his friends instead of you.

He will want to spend time with other girls because he is interested in them.

And he knows if he goes out with his friends, and not you, then he has a better chance of meeting other girls.

7. He talks about ex-girlfriends in front of you

This is one of the most popular signs that he is thinking about another girl and it’s because it’s so simple to spot.

If your guy starts reminiscing about his past relationships and his ex-girlfriends, then there could be a bigger problem.

He might have realized that the relationship he is currently in isn’t going anywhere and wishes he could go back to his old girlfriends.

If your boyfriend starts talking about his ex-girlfriends, then it means that he is thinking about them. And these memories might make him wonder what went wrong.

It’s not normal for a guy to talk about his ex-girlfriends. Usually, when someone has managed to successfully move on from a relationship, they stop thinking about that person and move on with their lives. 

8. He compliments other girls in front of you

The little things mean a lot.

That’s why we tend to notice every single sign that can indicate that a guy is not interested in us.

When he constantly compliments other girls in front of you, it means that he’s not interested in pursuing anything with you.

He is disrespecting you and focusing on the beauty of other girls. 

He might just be having fun but if it seems like he is doing it from a genuine standpoint and he is admiring their beauty in an obsessive way, then it might point to the fact that he is also fantasizing about them.

It’s normal to look at other girls, but if he can’t get girls out of his mind and continues to compliment and talk about them, then it’s a sign that he might be interested in someone else.

9. He is hot and cold

This is one of the most frustrating signs that your boyfriend might want to date other girls.

When he suddenly decides to drift away from you, it’s a big sign that he wants to find someone else.

It’s not necessarily because he hates you; it could be because he is looking for something different or more exciting.

But if this guy is hot and cold, then you know something is up.

This is because when he thinks about other girls, he goes cold on you, and when he doesn’t, he is hot for you.

This is what you don’t need, and it shows that he is not fully committed.

You need a guy that is consistent and thinks of you. 

But if he cares for you sometimes, and then doesn’t care for you other times, then he might be because he has other girls on the go and you’re not a priority. 

10. He flirts with other girls when you’re out together

It’s natural for people to be nice to others.

But if all of a sudden you catch him taking it further and flirting with a girl while he’s with you in public, then it can be a very strong sign that he has other girls on his mind.

If he suddenly seems interested in someone else, then he may be doing his best to figure out how to get that girl’s attention so that she will pay attention to him instead.

If this happens, don’t take it too personally.

Instead, take note of what happened and consider why your guy is putting so much effort into trying to get the attention of another girl.

If it’s not from a romantic interest, then maybe it’s to shape up his appearance or to try and improve on some other aspects of his life that he’s not as happy with.

But if this is something he continues to do, then it’s a sign that he has other girls on his mind. because he is attracted to someone else, but now the way he treats you has changed.

11. He suddenly wants to keep things casual

You might be excited to find out that your guy wants to continue dating you, but he might not be that excited about continuing with the relationship.

If he suddenly says, “I don’t see this thing going anywhere and we should just keep things casual between us” then it could be a sign that he has other reasons for feeling otherwise.

If he introduces the idea of keeping things casual, you should take a moment to consider why he wants this before you agree.

Understandably, some people prefer casual relationships because they offer less stress and fewer rules than something more serious.

However, if your guy is bringing up casual dating because he no longer wants to date you seriously, then there’s a high chance that he has his eyes set on someone else.

12. Check if He Has a Dating App

Dating apps can move fast in these modern times and it’s not unheard of for a guy to be romantically involved with someone else through that app in just a few weeks.

If he has an account on the dating app, then that is definitely suspect and he might be dating other giros.

You can even ask him and see how he responds.

But whether he’s on a dating app or not, if he suddenly seems more interested in the app than he does in you, you might be seeing a sign that he is thinking about someone else.

If that’s the case, consider asking yourself what is he doing on there and why. Is he trying to flirt with someone or is he looking for something more meaningful?

If you can’t figure it out but don’t want to play the guessing game, your best bet is just to ask him about it.

I mentioned this fascinating concept earlier: the hero instinct. When a man’s inner hero is triggered, he’s more likely to commit to only you and not use any dating apps.

Just by knowing the right things to say to him, you’ll open a part of him that no woman has ever reached before.

And the best way to do so is by watching this free video by James Bauer. In it, he’ll reveal simple phrases and texts you can use to make your man truly yours. 

Here’s a link to the excellent video again.

13. He Ignores Your Texts and Calls

If your guy suddenly ignores your texts and calls, then it could be because he is annoyed with you for some reason or because he already has someone else in mind.

At the same time, if he only pays attention to you when you are flirting with him, then there’s a good chance that he is thinking about someone else.

This is because he rarely initiates any conversation with you himself.

He may just want to show you that he’s interested with a few little texts, but if he hasn’t been in touch for a while, then it might be a good idea to ask him why he has been ignoring your messages.

14. He Suddenly stops Flirting with You

He might have been flirting with you all along but now he just stopped.

This is because he no longer finds you as appealing as before and is trying to think of a way to break things off without hurting your feelings.

If this happens to you, it’s worth finding out what happened that made him stop flirting with you. If you think you know the answer, then be honest with him and don’t try to pretend that it’s not happening.

He might find out that it’s because he is dating someone else and he may just be trying to let you down easy.

15. He only flirts with you when other girls are around

It’s normal for guys to be attracted to others, but it’s not normal for him to only flirt with you when he is around others.

If you notice that he always starts flirting with you when other girls are around, it might be because he wants them to notice him and think that he is very attractive.

In other words, he is using you to make them jealous. Avoiding conflict is one of his best qualities.

So if you see him acting this way, then it’s worth asking yourself why he is doing it.

Is he romantically interested in someone else or is he just trying to get a reaction from other girls?

You don’t want to be a tool in this guy’s game. You deserve more respect than that.

16. He has just lost passion for the relationship

If he suddenly isn’t feeling the romance anymore, it’s probably because he has a better option lined up.

He may even mention her name or use some other talking points that suggest that the two of them are very serious about each other. If this is the case, don’t take it personally.

This guy is simply going to move on to someone else and it’s better for you to end things now than for him to break up with you later. In this case, the best thing you can do is just move on.

I touched on the hero instinct earlier – it’s the perfect remedy for the situation you’re facing. 

Why?

Because once a man’s hero instinct is triggered, he’ll only have eyes for you. You’ll reach a part of him that no woman has ever managed to reach before. 

And in return, he’ll be compelled to commit to you and love you like he’s never loved another woman. 

So if you’re ready to take that plunge and reach new heights in your relationship, make sure to check out relationship expert James Bauer’s invaluable advice.

Click here to watch the excellent free video.