15 signs he is starting to lose interest (and what to do about it)

Has it recently occurred to you that your man hasn’t been paying enough attention to you?

Do you feel neglected by him?

If your answer is yes, then you need to admit to yourself that he might be losing interest in you.

Believe it or not, it’s very common to feel this way. Relationships have their own ups and downs, and while you’re in a relationship, your partner might be losing interest in you.

But before you take some action, you need to be sure that he’s really losing interest in you.

In this article, we’ll discuss 15 signs he’s losing interest in you and help you find ways to resolve this issue.

1) He’s not as affectionate or romantic as he used to be

Do you remember how your partner used to take care of you?

Let me guess. He was so affectionate, romantic, and loving towards you.

But what about now?

Now he has started to be more distant and reserved.

He doesn’t make as many romantic gestures as he used to, and he’s not as affectionate or romantic with you as he used to be.

Does this sound familiar to you?

Admit it. We’ve all been there because this is one of the most common signs that he might be losing interest in you.

At the beginning of the relationship, men often spend time with their partners in love and cuddling. But as time goes by, they aren’t doing that as much.

And your partner as well. He may also be less romantic and affectionate. He might even seem indifferent to your feelings and actions.

Let’s face it:

If he used to make your day with a kiss, but now you’re lucky if he gives you a peck on the cheek, then it’s time to worry.

Does he still send you flowers? Or surprise you with little gifts? If so, then your man might be losing interest in you.

Do you know what it means?

It means that you need to talk about it and find a way out of this situation.

2)  He’s not paying that much attention to what you’re wearing

Whether we like it or not, men always pay attention to the way women dress.

They are deeply interested in understanding how a woman dresses and makes herself look beautiful.

And guess what?

They even pay attention to what kind of clothes she wears – long or short, colorful or plain, tight or loose, etc. They might even be interested in your shoes and accessories as well.

But what if your man starts paying less attention to your appearance?

It could mean that he’s losing interest in you.

He might either have no idea what you’re wearing or he just doesn’t care anymore about how you look and dress up for him.

Just think about it.

When was the last time he gave you a compliment about your appearance?

Let me guess. It was a while ago.

He used to compliment your style, but now he just stares at your cleavage or legs when you’re wearing a short dress and heels.

In this case, it’s probably because he doesn’t find anything attractive about the way that dress makes your legs look.

And if that happens every time a girl wears something revealing and sexy, then there are bigger issues going on in his head than just looking at some cleavage!

3) He no longer acts like a hero

Do you remember the last time you saw your man act like a real hero?

It’s hard to believe, but it actually might have been a while ago.

In fact, he might have been behaving as if he doesn’t care about protecting you anymore.

But what about at the beginning of your relationship?

He used to act like a real hero and protect you at all costs, right?

Now, he’s just acting indifferent and you’re starting to get scared.

You’re afraid that he might start treating you like a stranger.

But you know what?

I’m going to tell you a sure way to bring out his inner-hero and make him take care of you once again!

There’s a new theory in the relationship world that’s causing quite a stir – it’s called the hero instinct. 

Coined by relationship expert James Bauer, this fascinating concept finally explains how men really think and feel in relationships. 

And it’s something most women have never even heard of. 

According to James Bauer, men don’t actually need a lot to feel content in their relationships. In fact, what they need has nothing to do with sex. 

Men have certain innate drivers. And when a woman comes along and triggers them, it causes a powerful response. The result is a man who loves harder, commits wholeheartedly, and truly dedicates himself to the relationship. 

So, how can you trigger your man’s hero instinct? 

The easiest thing to do is to watch this simple and genuine video by James Bauer. 

The truth is, once you understand how the hero instinct works, there’s no telling what heights your relationship can reach. 

So if you want to make your man more interested in your relationship than ever, make sure to check out James Bauer’s excellent video. In it, he reveals the exact texts and phrases you can use straight away.

Here’s a link to the free video again.

4) He doesn’t want to spend time with you anymore

Do you know what it means when your man doesn’t want to spend time with you anymore?

The answer is simple: it means that he’s losing interest in you.

The truth is that some men will go crazy if their partner comes over to talk to them or hang out with them. These men will be excited just because their partner showed up at their doorstep.

They’ll do anything they can to spend time with their beloved partner, even if it’s just a short conversation over the phone or a quick text message.

But what about your man?

• How does he feel about spending time with you?
• Does he want to spend more time with you?
• Does he initiate conversations?
• Do you feel like your relationship is getting closer and closer every day?
• Or does it seem like your relationship is drifting ever further apart each day?

Let’s admit it.

He used to be the one who would do all the things you loved: cook for you, take care of you, and make you feel special. But recently, he hasn’t been doing that as much as before.

The main reason why your man is no longer doing those things is that his interests have changed.

He’s no longer interested in being romantic or affectionate with you.

And if he’s not interested in spending time with you, then there are bigger issues going on in his mind than just losing interest in the way that you dress or act.

He might have lost all desire to be near you, and that’s definitely a problem!  Because when a man loses all desire to be near his woman, it usually means that there are deeper problems going on between them.

And if that’s the case, then it’s time to take action and ask him why he’s not interested in spending enough time with you anymore.

5) His behavior has changed recently

Has your partner suddenly become distant? He may no longer be interested in being romantic with you or doing the things you used to do together. If it sounds like him, then the possibilities are that he doesn’t feel like putting effort into being romantic.

He may even find it hard to be romantic with you because he feels like he’s not good at it.

And this is why he doesn’t initiate conversations with you or ask you out on dates.

He just wants to be left alone and spends his time alone in his room.

How did this problem start?

Did you do something to hurt him?

Maybe you were too demanding, but now your man has become too afraid of getting close to you. Or maybe it’s not related to your behavior and he’s just lost interest.

Take note that this behavior may also be exhibited when other people are around and they’re talking about his relationship with you.

Why does this happen?

Well, the reason why his behavior has changed only when he’s alone with you is that he has become afraid of being too close to you.

But the reason why he’s afraid of being close to you may be that he’s not feeling like himself anymore.

Or what’s more likely – he has just lost interest in you and doesn’t want to move forward.

Either way, it’s a problem that needs to be fixed, right?

But how can you fix it?

Well, you need to communicate with your man and tell him what his attitude towards you is like. The best thing you can do is to try to see if he feels like talking or being romantic with you.

6) He has stopped returning your calls and texts

Have you recently noticed that your man has stopped returning your calls or texts?

If you have, you have probably wondered what the reason behind this is.

Is he mad at you? Does he feel like you’re ignoring him? Or has he started to ignore you because of the way you act around him?

Let’s discuss it in more detail.

When men ignore your calls and texts, it usually means that they’re not happy about something about you.

Maybe it’s the way you treat him. Maybe he doesn’t like the way you talk to him or the way you look at him when he’s around other people. Or maybe you just don’t express your love anymore.

But why does he feel this way if you haven’t been treating him badly recently?

But what could make him decide to ignore your behavior?

Well, in today’s fast-paced world, it’s hard to find someone who always has time to answer calls or texts.

Maybe he has become too busy and doesn’t have time to spend with you. But a simple text doesn’t demand too much time from anyone, does it?

That’s why you should think that he is starting to lose interest in you.

But it’s hard to tell – sometimes this is just a phase and he’ll start communicating with you again.

Just wait it out and don’t get upset if he doesn’t return your calls or texts.

It will probably be a while before they come back again. And that’s okay because there are other ways of communicating with him as well.

7) He doesn’t talk to you about his problems anymore

Sharing our problems with our loved ones is one of the most important things in a relationship.

It’s a fact and it’s something that we should always remember for one simple reason:

When we share our problems with our loved ones, they can help us to solve them or at least help us to cope with them.

That’s one of the reasons why we enjoy being in a relationship after all.

But what happens when your man doesn’t talk to you about his problems anymore?

Well, this is one of the most important signs that he’s starting to lose interest in you.

If your man doesn’t want to share his problems with you anymore, there might be a reason behind it. There could be a problem in the relationship that is making him unable to open up and talk about it.

This could be due to many different reasons, but the most common ones are:

• A problem in the relationship – maybe he’s afraid that you’ll get upset and leave him, or maybe he’s afraid that you’ll judge him and make him feel bad about himself.  
• A problem in his life – maybe he’s going through a hard time at work (or school) and doesn’t want anyone else to know about it.

And I agree with you – it can be hard to communicate with someone who doesn’t want to talk about his problems.

But on the other hand, it’s important that we also remember that our loved ones have a right to their privacy as well.

If a man stops talking to you about his problems, then it means he doesn’t want to share them with you anymore.

In many cases, this is because of his fear of what you might think about him or how he feels about them.

That’s why you need to remind him that your feelings and thoughts don’t matter and that everything he tells you will be kept in confidence.

But more often, when your man doesn’t talk to you about his problems anymore, it means that he’s starting to lose interest in you or even see you as a problem for him.

But this doesn’t have to be the end of your relationship.

There are a lot of other ways that you can communicate with him and help him deal with his problems.

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8) He no longer wants to talk about the issues that bother you

Has your man stopped talking about the problems that have been bothering you for a long time?

Okay, sometimes we can accept the fact that our partners don’t want to share their personal problems with us.

But what if he stops talking to you about your problems too? What if he stops listening to you and giving you advice about your problems?

Whether you like it or not, it’s a sure sign that your relationship is going through a rough patch. And even more – he’s losing interest in you.

Now you probably wonder why he doesn’t want to take part in resolving your problems or why he doesn’t let you speak about things that concern you.

Well, the reason is that he’s not interested in being in a relationship with you anymore. And this means that he doesn’t want to spend any more effort trying to understand things that bother you.

So, here’s what my point is: it doesn’t matter if he doesn’t want to discuss your issues with you – what matters is that he’s no longer interested in being with you.

This is a huge problem because it means that he can no longer communicate with you and help you through your problems.

To be honest, this is the scariest thing about losing interest – because it means that there is nothing that can be done about it and nothing can be done to resolve the problems. Y

you and he are now trapped together, and there’s no clear way out of the situation.

9) He has stopped talking about his feelings for you 

Now that we have discussed what happens when a man doesn’t help you anymore, let’s discuss what happens when a man stops talking about his feelings for you. 

Well, this is another sign that he doesn’t love you anymore. It means that he doesn’t care about you and that he doesn’t want to be with you.

And guess what?

If this has happened recently, there is a very good chance that something has changed between the two of you.

In most cases, men stop expressing their feelings when they don’t want to be with you anymore.

And this is why I say that if you find yourself in a relationship with a man who doesn’t want to talk about his feelings for you – it’s a sign that something has changed between the two of you.

It’s also a sign that he no longer loves you and wants to be with you.

So, what should you do?

Well, you should try to express your own feelings as often as possible. You should tell him that you love him and that you want to be with him, and that you want to spend the rest of your lives together.

You should also try to understand what he means when he says “I don’t know” or “I’m not sure” when expressing his feelings for you.

That way,  you’ll be able to avoid any problems that might arise from his inability to express his feelings.

10) He’s stopped listening to you and started ignoring what you say 

Can I be totally honest with you?

A man who doesn’t listen to what you have to say anymore doesn’t deserve your love or attention.

He’s basically telling you that he doesn’t care about what you have to say anymore. He’s basically telling you that he doesn’t want to be with you anymore.

And guess what? 

In most cases, men stop listening to what you have to say when they don’t want to be with you anymore.

And it’s a sign that he doesn’t care about being in a relationship with you anymore.

In most cases, this happens when the two of you are having problems and when there is nothing positive going on in your relationship anymore.

This happens because men tend to ignore things that annoy them, which means that they can no longer listen to what bothers them or annoys them – even if it’s important for their relationship.

But you know what?

You don’t deserve to be ignored. No one does.

Instead, you deserve to be heard, respected, and loved.

And that’s why you should take action and either make him fix things in your relationship or find a way to end it.

11) He’s started to make excuses

Ever noticed how he starts to make excuses when you ask him to go out with you?

Asking him to do something becomes a problem for him.

You see, men are not able to say “no” or “I don’t want to” or “I’m not interested”. But instead, when you ask them to do something, they have to make up an excuse.

They have to make up an excuse for why they can’t do what you’re asking them to do.

And the problem is that they usually do this in a way that makes you feel bad about and frustrated with them. They usually say something like:

“You know, I’m busy right now, so I can’t go out with you.”

 Or:  “I don’t want to go out with you because I want some time alone.”  

Whatever his excuse, it’s a sign that he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you anymore. He doesn’t want to be with you anymore, and he doesn’t like the fact that you want him.

But hang on a second.

If he’s still making excuses instead of refusing your initiatives and hurting you, then it means that he’s not ready to end the relationship just yet.

Then it means that you can actually do one thing to improve the situation:

I mentioned this fascinating concept earlier: the hero instinct. When a man’s inner hero is triggered, he’s more likely to start being interested in your life and commit.

Just by knowing the right things to say to him, you’ll open a part of him that no woman has ever reached before.

And the best way to do so is by watching this free video by James Bauer. In it, he’ll reveal simple phrases and texts you can use to make your man truly yours. 

Here’s a link to the excellent video again.

12) He’s not saying “I love you” as often

If telling each other heartfelt phrases such as “I love you” is a part of your relationship, then chances are that you’ll be disappointed if he’s not saying it anymore.

But you know what?

Saying “I love you” and expressing your feelings is the key to a healthy relationship, then it’s no surprise that when men don’t say these words as often as they should, it can be a sign that they’re losing interest in the relationship.

Now, I’m not saying they should say “I love you” every day. But I am saying that if you notice that your man isn’t telling you he loves you enough, then it means he’s losing interest in the relationship.

Maybe he’s just been using you as a way to fill his emotional needs and nothing more. Or maybe he hasn’t even noticed that he’s been doing this.

But if you notice that he’s not telling you that he loves you anymore, then it means that he’s losing interest in the relationship.

13) He doesn’t want to talk about the future

Do you remember how much your man used to talk about the future?

He would always make plans for the future and help you with your career or something that he thought was important for you.

And now, he doesn’t even want to talk about the future with you.

If he’s not talking about the future, then chances are that you won’t be able to have a healthy relationship with him.

I know that this sounds like a very basic thing to say, but it’s also very true.

Of course, I’m not saying that you have to sort out all your plans for the future and decide to get married or something like that, but making some plans together, maybe for the next week or something, is a good thing.

The thing is if you want to be in a healthy relationship with your man, then you need to talk about the future.  You need to talk about how you’ll spend your time together later on.

If he’s not talking about the future, then it means that he doesn’t care what happens in the future. It means that he doesn’t care whether you’re there or not later on.

14) He never initiates a conversation with you anymore

Let’s be honest. In healthy relationships, both parties initiate conversations with each other.

But what if you notice that your man isn’t initiating conversations with you anymore?

That means he’s losing interest in the relationship. It means that he’s not interested in having a healthy relationship with you.

The simple truth is that initiating a conversation is very important in a relationship. It means that you’re doing something for the other person in return.

And if he’s not doing this, then it means that he doesn’t care about what you have to say or if he’s even listening to what you have to say.

It means that the things that were important to him are not important to him anymore. And most importantly, he’s starting to lose interest in you.

15) He doesn’t look you in the eyes anymore

And finally, let’s move on to the last sign that he’s starting to lose interest in you. And it might sound a bit weird, but it’s true!

If your partner doesn’t look you in the eyes anymore, then chances are that he’s not interested in you anymore.

Sounds a bit strange, isn’t it?

Well, that’s because this is a very basic thing that you should be looking for when it comes to relationships.

But you should know that when it comes to nonverbal communication, the eyes are the best way to communicate.

And eyes are also a great starting point to know if the person that you’re with is interested in you.

But if he’s not looking at you in the eyes anymore, then it means that he’s losing interest in you.

What can you do about it?

Now as you already realized some signs that he’s starting to lose interest in the relationship, you probably wonder what you can do about it.

Well, the first step in order to fixing this issue is, to be honest about your feelings. Just talk to him and tell him everything that bothers you. Let him listen to and understand you.

But if he refuses to listen or pay attention to what you feel, then think about triggering his inner hero.

I touched on the hero instinct earlier – it’s the perfect remedy for the situation you’re facing. 

Why?

Because once a man’s hero instinct is triggered, he’ll only have eyes for you. You’ll reach a part of him that no woman has ever managed to reach before. 

And in return, he’ll be compelled to start being interested in you, commit to you, and love you like he’s never loved another woman. 

So if you’re ready to take that plunge and reach new heights in your relationship, make sure to check out relationship expert James Bauer’s invaluable advice.

Click here to watch the excellent free video.