So, you’ve been dating this Virgo man and then, out of nowhere, he starts distancing himself from you.
What’s going on? Why is he behaving like this?
Here are 50 big signs that the Virgo man is pushing you away!
1) He’s not making time for you
Virgo men are especially busy and when they meet someone new, it’s a pretty big deal for them.
They have a lot of responsibilities at home, so when you’re only seeing each other once or twice a week, they want to make sure you understand that they’re not going to be able to be available as much as you would like.
2) He’s not calling you anymore
If you’re used to hearing from him every day or even multiple times a day, and all of a sudden, he’s not reaching out anymore, you should be on high alert.
There is almost certainly a reason why he’s distancing himself from you.
Here’s the secret – he wants you to break up with him because he doesn’t want to be the bad guy.
3) He doesn’t want to go out in public with you
I’ve seen this one many times before and it’s always an extremely bad sign.
The relationship isn’t going anywhere fast if the man in your life isn’t willing to be seen with you in public.
Chances are that he is not ready for anything serious, so he is not willing to introduce you to his family and friends.
4) He doesn’t want to take you out on any dates
It’s very rare for a Virgo man to push you away because he’s tired of seeing you, but if he does, one of the biggest signs is that he won’t ask you out again.
Maybe it was a fluke the first time, so he gives it another try and then another…and then another.
If by number four or five your date invitations are getting turned down, there’s almost certainly a reason why.
It is a cue to you to stop insisting because he doesn’t want to continue the relationship.
5) He’s giving you a hard time about meeting his friends and family
Going out with the Virgo man’s friends or his family is a great chance for him to see how well you interact socially.
If he wants to keep you for himself, he’ll be sure to avoid setting up any social situations with anyone else.
You can try talking to him about it, but there is a high chance that you won’t get a straight answer about this.
Watch his body language and if he is avoiding eye contact, then it is time for you to direct your energy to someone else.
6) He’s not being good to your friends
If he’ll treat your friends nice, it means he has good character and that you can trust him with just about anything.
If he acts mean or rude to your friends, however, it may mean that he’s not exactly at ease around other people and is worried you won’t like him if you get to know him better.
It can also mean that he simply doesn’t want to make an effort to be on good terms with them, which is an obvious sign that he is not someone you should waste your time on.
7) He’s making plans for the two of you without asking you about it first
This is a pretty big one because Virgo men don’t like feeling like they’re in charge and if they tell their girlfriend to come over, they want to be sure she’ll be there when they arrive.
If he’s making plans with the two of you and not even asking if it’s okay, there’s a good chance he might be pushing you away by provoking you to pick a fight.
Figure out what would be the best way to end things with him without too much drama.
8) He hasn’t called you to ask how your day was or touch base with you
This is a sign that things are getting worse between you and the Virgo man.
If he has no interest in connecting with you, then why would he bother?
However, this is a sign that you should show him that you deserve respect and tell him loud and clear that this kind of behavior is not something you will tolerate.
9) His birthday doesn’t get celebrated anymore
If he doesn’t want to be with you anymore, it’s unlikely that he’ll want to celebrate his birthday with you.
The only reason this hurts so much is because it usually means it’s over for good.
If you are head over heels in love with him, it can be painful, but it is better to end things than to prolong the suffering.
10) He hasn’t invited you over in a long time
It would be extremely out of character for him to invite you over and not be there himself when you get there, this is why he would avoid saying the words altogether.
This is a sure sign that the Virgo man is pushing you away from him and may already be thinking of ways to make you break up with him.
If he’s not trying to get you into his apartment now, he’s certainly not going to be very interested in going over to your place either.
11) He doesn’t share his feelings with you anymore
If he is pushing you away, he will no longer be willing to open up and share his emotions with you anymore.
This is the point where you will be sure that things are not going well and that you need to end the relationship or you will just keep suffering and getting hurt.
12) He comes home from work early and isn’t talking about work anymore
If your Virgo man comes home early from work but starts talking about something else just as soon as he gets there, there’s a problem in your relationship that needs resolving.
You will need to use all your intuition to find out what may be going on with him and why is he acting this way.
13) You see him avoiding to do things you’ve asked him to do
If you’re the one that has to ask your Virgo man to do little chores and tasks for you, there’s a good chance that things are looking a little unstable.
Virgos are usually well organized and they like to do things around the house.
If he is avoiding it, it means that he wants to spend as little as time possible at home.
14) He can’t commit to anything for more than a week in advance
Virgo men take their time seriously and when they make up their mind about something, it might take days to make plans for it or coordinate with others who want in on the fun.
If your Virgo man can’t commit to a plan for more than a week, it’s a definite sign that he could be pushing you away.
It is a sign that he doesn’t want to include you in his plans and that it is time for you to make yours.
15) He doesn’t have any good ideas for things to do with you
If your Virgo man doesn’t have any good ideas for things to do with you, then it’s likely that he isn’t spending as much time with you as he could be and doesn’t want to make the effort to make it fun for both of you.
16) He’s acting all moody and sensitive, but won’t tell you what’s wrong
If he’s acting all moody and sensitive, it could be because he’s pushing you away from him, but he doesn’t want to say it in plain words.
It is his game to make you end things, so he can keep acting nice and put the blame on you.
17) He doesn’t want to see you anymore
If he says that the two of you aren’t going to be “seeing each other” anymore, that may just mean that he doesn’t want to see you again after a couple of weeks or a month or so until things cool down.
18) He’s keeping you at arm’s length
If your Virgo man is keeping his distance from you, he may be planning to push you away before things get any more serious between the two of you.
If he’s saying that he’s not going to be around for you anymore and you’ll never see him again, it’s a sign that things are not going as well between you as you were probably hoping.
19) He doesn’t want to tell you where he’s going or what he’s doing when he goes out with his friends
If he can’t be trusted to tell you where he’s going or what he’s doing when he goes out with his friends, it could be a sign that one day he’ll just disappear from your life.
He may be trying to see if you’ll chase after him, but if you don’t, he’s going to get tired of it and move on.
20) He leaves you out of the conversations at work
If your Virgo man keeps things between him and his coworkers, then there’s a good chance that you won’t make it into his life outside of work too.
If your Virgo man isn’t the one who’s initiating conversations anymore, it could be because he is giving up and hoping that you will end things before it gets too awkward for everyone involved.
If he doesn’t have anything to say to you, he believes he has nothing to lose by avoiding you and wants to keep as much distance between the two of you as possible.
21) He can’t give a straight answer about something important to you
If he’s given you more than one answer when you’ve asked him a question, there’s a good possibility that one of them is wrong.
If you ask him the same question more than once and he keeps giving you vague answers, he may be hoping to get out of it by keeping you confused and asking too much of him.
You will not be able to get any straight answers from him at all, and that means that he is pushing you away.
22) He’s mad at you without giving any reasons
If your Virgo man is mad at you without giving any reasons, that could mean that he has some misunderstandings about something with you and is looking for an excuse to push you away from him and shove the problems under the rug.
It is certainly not a good way to resolve things, but it is your responsibility to protect yourself.
23) You’re not happy about anything anymore and he still acts like everything is okay
If you’ve stopped enjoying your life with the Virgo man and he’s still acting like everything is okay, that might mean that he’s going to push you away from him.
It is probably his way to cool things off and see what will you do.
24) He doesn’t care about what you have to say
It can be hard for Virgo men to be around people that are always complaining about something and getting on their nerves.
If he doesn’t care about what you have to say, it could be a sign that you’re going to lose someone very important to you.
This is the part where you will need to make some hard choices and find the best way to move on.
25) He wants separate bank accounts
If your Virgo man is pushing you away by asking for separate bank accounts and more space in the house, then things are starting to go downhill fast.
This is not a good sign, and it can be very hard to get him to move back in when things are already headed in the wrong direction.
26) He wants you to spend money on other things instead of on making your home life better
If your Virgo man wants you to spend money on other things than improving your home life with him, it could mean that he’s giving up on having you in his life after all.
It could mean that he doesn’t want to spend the money on things like home improvements and he’s giving up on sharing life with you.
27) He cancels his plans with you without warning
If your Virgo man keeps canceling plans with you, he may have someone else in mind that he wants to take out on those nights instead of you.
It is up to you how will you react, but it isn’t something that you should let slide.
The more you let him do it, the more control he will have over you.
28) He’s not giving you a chance to be heard when you talk to him
If your Virgo man isn’t really listening to what you have to say all of the time, it could mean that your opinions don’t matter and he’s going to push you away from him anyway.
He probably doesn’t even want to make an effort to listen to what you have to say.
29) He doesn’t want to live with you
If your Virgo man is pushing you away because he doesn’t want to live with you, it could mean that he’s tired of being around you and wants to end things between the two of you.
If he isn’t living with you at all anymore and has already moved out, it might be a good idea for the two of you to part ways.
30) He has a change in his appearance that isn’t for the better
If your Virgo man starts neglecting his hygiene and appearance, it may be because he is avoiding physical contact with you and hoping that you’ll just break up with him if he doesn’t make an effort to look good.
He is probably trying to put some distance between you, so your feelings can weaken, so the breakup can be easier.
31) He doesn’t try to explain where he’s going or what he’s doing when he leaves home
If he starts being all secretive about his whereabouts, this is a red flag that you shouldn’t ignore.
If he doesn’t tell you where he’s going or what he’s doing when he leaves home, it could be that he has no intention of coming back at all.
If you’re going to stay in touch with him, this is something that you need to discuss before there is any hope of reconciliation.
32) His conversations with his friends aren’t about you anymore
If your Virgo man’s conversations with his friends seem to be about other women, you could be in trouble.
It is a known fact that men like to talk about their conquests and share the details, so if you’re not in the conversation, you may be losing your Virgo man.
33) He doesn’t want to talk about your future together
If he doesn’t want to talk about the future with you, then it might be because he’s not interested in having a future with you anymore.
If your Virgo man is giving you vague answers about his future with you, it could mean that he wants to get out of this relationship as soon as possible.
34) He won’t introduce you to his family right away or ever
If he refuses to introduce you to his family or does it too late, then there’s a good chance that you aren’t going to see the Virgo man anymore.
It is possible that he wants to keep you away from his family because they can be very judgmental.
35) He doesn’t want to go with you anywhere
If he refuses to go with you when you two were planning on going somewhere alone together, then it could be because he doesn’t want to spend any more time with you, but doesn’t want to say it honestly so he is just using various tactics to drive you away.
36) He’s not interested in meeting any of your family members
If he isn’t interested in meeting any of your family members, then there’s a good chance that you won’t see him again at all.
37) He doesn’t have a lot of money saved up for you and the two of you to start a future together
If your Virgo man isn’t financially ready to start a future with you, that’s a bad sign.
It means that he’s losing interest in being with you, and it could be just a matter of time before he decides to move on.
38) He stops connecting with you on the phone, text message, or via social media
If he stops connecting with you on the phone, text message, or via social media all of a sudden or starts avoiding messages, it could be because he has decided to break up.
39) He wants the two of you to have separate social lives
If your Virgo man wants the two of you to have separate social lives, then that could mean that he’s looking for someone else to spend the time with instead of you.
So, what could you do about it?
Try not to take it too close to your heart. sometimes people just don’t click and want different things.
40) He’s no longer interested in doing the things you want to do together
If he is no longer interested in doing the things you would like to do together, it could mean that he’s not interested in spending time with you.
If he always asks you out without being enthusiastic about seeing you anymore, then there’s a good possibility that he isn’t interested in having a relationship with you at all anymore.
41) He wants a lot of space and privacy sometimes and acts like he doesn’t like it when you need him around
If your Virgo man starts needing a lot of space and privacy and seems to be acting like he doesn’t like it when you need him around, there’s a good chance that he has someone else in mind that he wants to spend his time with.
42) He no longer supports the two of you financially and acts like he’s doing enough just by working
If your Virgo man acts like he’s doing enough just by working and no longer supports the two of you financially at all, then there’s a good chance that he is looking for someone else to spend his time and money with instead of you.
43) He tells you he wants to be more independent and doesn’t rely on anyone else
If your Virgo man tells you that he wants to be more independent and not rely on anyone else anymore, that could mean that he is looking for someone else who will take care of him.
44) He doesn’t want to spend any more money on you or treat you any better than he does other people
Relationships require time, effort and money for creating all those special moments that make a relationship sweet.
If your Virgo man doesn’t want to spend any more money on you or treat you any better than he does other people, then there’s a good chance that he is looking for someone else to spend his time with instead of you.
If you notice that he is not interested in buying food, going to a restaurant or booking a vacation, it means that his priorities changed and he doesn’t want to spend any money on you anymore.
If it seems that you are the only one investing in making your relationship interesting, it is time to think about your priorities and realize that your Virgo man doesn’t want anything to do with you anymore.
45) He has no interest in the things that your friends do together anymore
If your Virgo man doesn’t want to do the things that your friends do together anymore, then there’s a good chance that he is looking for someone else to hang out with.
If your Virgo man makes your time together feel to drag on and on without any real timetable, then he has probably lost his interest.
46) He doesn’t like it when you want him to be more affectionate, touchy, and vulnerable in public
If your Virgo man isn’t into being touched, affectionate, or vulnerable in public anymore with you, it could mean that he is concerned about other people more than you.
47) He goes out with his friends a lot and doesn’t want to spend time with you anymore
If your Virgo man starts going out a lot with his friends but doesn’t want to spend any more time with you, then there’s a good chance that he has another person in mind that he wants to spend his time with instead of you.
If his new friends aren’t really close to you or any of your other friends, then there’s a good possibility that he is keeping you away on purpose.
48) He starts ignoring you, looking at other people, or being quick with his words when he’s around you
If your Virgo man is rushing through anything he’s doing whenever you’re around, then there’s a good possibility that he wants to shorten the time you spend together.
It isn’t a good sign at all, but don’t worry, if he is so rude, you should turn to other people for support and invest your energy into someone else.
Relationships sometimes don’t work out and no one is to blame.
49) He finds ways to spend more time with other people when he’s at home than he does with you
If your Virgo man starts finding ways to spend more time with other people when he’s at home than he does with you, then it is a clear sign that his priorities have changed and he doesn’t have time for you anymore.
If your Virgo man is always saying that he doesn’t have enough time for the two of you, then there’s a good chance he has someone else in mind and wants to end things with you.
50) He’s always on the go, which is frustrating because you want some time to connect
If your Virgo man is always on the go and refuses to spend any more time with you, it could mean that he has already made some other plans that don’t include you.
When you notice this, turn to other people for support and invest your energy into someone else.
Give yourself some time to assess the situation and figure out the best way to move on.
All in all, if you start noticing these signs with your Virgo man, it’s probably time to move on and save yourself from further suffering.
Yes, you could call it a Virgo man’s way of pushing you away, but if his actions are so subtle that you can’t tell what he’s doing, then you probably don’t have the emotional fortitude to deal with the Virgo man.
He isn’t trying to hurt you; he’s just being who he is and it hurts when they push you away.
I’m sure I forgot to mention some signs from your Virgo man, but these were the main ones that I thought of when I started writing this post, which will be more than enough to start waking you up from the wonderful dream you were in.
Walk away from your Virgo man as soon as you start noticing these signs, because you can be sure that he will be someone else’s problem soon enough.
If you don’t want to look back and see that your Virgo man was a dead end with no chance of ever giving you what you wanted, then start saving your time and energy for someone who is worth it.
Spend more time thinking about what you deserve instead of wasting it on someone who doesn’t even want to be honest about his feelings!
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