Every girl has something different to talk about when it comes to topics that don’t make her feel uncomfortable. And if you’re so lucky to have found a girlfriend you like so much, then this list is for you!
Instead of waiting for her invitations and making small talk, learn how to make conversation with your girlfriend while also learning all kinds of new things that interest her.
Here are 27 hacks for creating the things to talk about with your girlfriend!
1) Build a new app
You can build an app for your girlfriend’s favorite TV show, or you could build a game for the latest movie. There’s a ton of tutorials online, so you should be able to find one that’s easy to follow.
You want to make sure your girlfriend likes the idea of you creating an app or game because this is what will help you get her attention in person. Maybe she would like to help you and learn something new.
You could also make a video about it and show it to her. Take a class together at the same school or community college.
It can be something you both are interested in, like cooking or art classes, or something that interests your girlfriend more, like learning a new language.
2) Go to the gym together
You can both go to the gym, and then after you’re finished working out and showering, talk about what you’ve been doing for an hour or two. Maybe she’ll tell you about her latest workout and ask if you have any tips.
It will help you to look great, but also to get rid of all the negative energy, so when you are done with the exercises, both of you will be energized and ready to talk about something else.
Also, if she’s not a fan of working out, she will be more likely to fall in love with you when you look great. Help her out if she needs some motivation, and she will surely be grateful for the help offered.
Besides, you can always go get a cup of coffee or tea after and enjoy each other’s company more.
3) Write a new song together
Writing songs may be the most romantic thing that a couple can do. Even if you have never written one before, you can try it and simply enjoy the process.
You could write a song with lyrics that express all of your feelings towards her. Most girls like romance, and what could be more romantic than a song?
In fact, this is the best way to express all those feelings that you’ve been holding in since the beginning of your relationship! Don’t forget to play the song over and over again as you’re writing the lyrics so that the song has a very personal tone to it.
4) Go out to dinner in a fancy restaurant
When you want to change things a little bit, go to a fancy restaurant with her. You can both look around the restaurant and talk about the food.
This is a great way to show her that you are not only interested in spending time with her but that you are ready to organize something special with her.
Or you could go to a chain restaurant and order steak, which is something that is always good for a date. You could also go out for breakfast or lunch and do the same thing, especially if your girlfriend doesn’t like going out for dinner so much.
5) Take her somewhere nice, where she’s never been before
You could take her to a new exciting place, where she’s never been before, like to a new museum or a national park. Ask her what she thinks of the place, and then go from there.
You could even take her to the same place on your next date so that you can make it a tradition. Make sure you ask her a couple of questions before you go, so you can find out what she would like to do, see and try.
Enjoy exploring this new place and create some great new memories. Don’t forget to buy some souvenirs for her that will remind her of special moments you spent together.
6) Go for a walk in the park together
You could go for a walk in the park with your girlfriend and talk about what you’ve been doing during the week. This is also a great way to get rid of negative feelings that you’ve been holding in and get a little support.
When you’re done with your walk, both of you will be energized and ready to talk about something else. Take some coffee with you, so you can enjoy the scenery and coffee at the same time.
Don’t forget to hold her hand, and you will turn the walk into a romantic date. If you manage to see the sunset, what more could you ask?
Well, not much. The conversation will surely start flowing, and your girlfriend will want more romantic dates like this for sure.
7) Take an art class together
If you and your girlfriend are interested in taking an art class together, then this is a great way to bond. You can find an online class or school in your area, or you could try taking one of the classes at a local art school.
It’s a great idea to go with your girlfriend because then you will have something in common to talk about throughout the class. It can be anything from pottery to painting.
If you’re not interested in learning how to paint, then maybe you could take a martial arts class. Just make sure that whatever you choose interests both of you.
It should push you out of your comfort zones and help you get to know each other better.
8) Take a trip together
You could take a trip together somewhere new and exciting, just the two of you. This could be as far away as Europe or as close as your local city, depending on what you both want to do and how much money you’re willing to spend on it.
It’s a great idea to take this opportunity to get away and focus all of your attention on the new experience together. Do the research concerning the places you could visit together and then go on a date to each place.
Talk about your feelings, interests, and dreams as you walk along the street of each new city. Make sure you explore the local bars and restaurants.
It will be an amazing opportunity to get to know each other more and get even closer.
9) Start a blog together
This is another great way for you and your girlfriend to spend time together! You could create a blog together and write about your experiences together.
If your girlfriend enjoys blogging, you can write a blog together about anything that you find interesting, and you can share it with the world. It can be a blog about the places you have visited or favorite recipes you’ve tried.
Write about each destination, and it will surely be a nice way to remember each one of those happy moments you spent together. No matter which topic you pick, it will be a great way for you and your girlfriend to write, share and grow closer to each other.
It will be a project you will work on together, which will make it precious for sure.
10) Go on a road trip
Driving through the countryside is a great way to spend time with your girlfriend. It’s also something that you can do at any time of year, from spring to fall.
You don’t have to go far either – just drive around your local area and see what you can find! Think about the time you have available and go to places both of you would like to see.
It can be very exciting to try and put your knowledge of a place to the test. Make sure you’re ready for an adventure as you travel through the country, so decide where you should go first.
You don’t need to know exactly where you will be going, but make sure it’s somewhere you both have never been before. As long as you see something that both of you would like to see, you can be sure that it will bring you closer together.
11) Volunteer together
This is another great way for you and your girlfriend to spend time together! You could volunteer at a local animal shelter or animal rescue center or help out at an orphanage in another country.
This will give you both a great chance to work together, and you could even develop a bond with the children who are in need of help. There is no better way to use your time than to help people in need and see what you can do to help.
Volunteering is also a great way to help you both develop as people, and it will help you bring you closer together in the process. You will learn to appreciate everything you have in life, and you will see how lucky you are.
Your girlfriend will learn that she can help other people and make a difference in the world. You could learn together how to volunteer at a local charity.
Spend time together and bond over something that is important to both of you. If she loves animals, you can go and help out at a local animal shelter.
12) Go camping together
If you love spending time outdoors, then you should take your girlfriend camping with you! You can go camping in the mountains or in the forest at any time of year if the weather allows it.
Bring everything both of you will need and prepare for a fun and adventurous experience. The more you can do, the better it will feel.
This is something you can share since it’s something that will help you bond with each other even more. It’s also something that you can do all year round, so it doesn’t matter if it’s cold outside or not.
You could go camping at night or in the afternoon during the warmer months of the year and make a fire to warm yourselves up when needed; just make sure you bring a sleeping bag, so you can sleep comfortably during the night.
13) Plan a surprise date together
You could plan a surprise date for your girlfriend! If you’re both interested in going out on a date together, then this is the perfect opportunity for you to do so.
You could create an itinerary and have it delivered to her via email or text message. You could even make it into a scavenger hunt that takes her on an exciting adventure around town.
Be careful though, if she is very busy, then try to simplify everything, so you don’t end up upsetting her with complicated messages.
14) Learn how to cook together
If your girlfriend is interested in learning how to cook, then this is a great idea! She can teach you some of her specialties, and you can learn how to cook some of her favorite foods.
You could even start a blog together to document your experiences together. You could learn how to cook together in a new way or a new dish or food that you have never tried before. This is a great opportunity for you both to spend time with each other while learning something new.
15) Go on a date at the same time every week
You could plan a date night once every week or two and go out for dinner or go see a movie or a play. This is another good way for you to spend time with your girlfriend, and it will help both of you to have a fun night and socialize.
Once you both get used to it, change the routine up a little bit and try something new. You could also create a tradition where you go out on the same night of the week – maybe on Sunday or Tuesday nights.
It’s all about making this an experience that both of you want to participate in and bring in some fresh energy into the relationship.
16) Learn how to dance together
If your girlfriend enjoys dancing, then this is another way you can get the conversation going. She can teach you some of her favorite dance moves, and you can do the same for her.
You could even learn together how to salsa, tango or some other popular dance style. This is a fun way to spend time with your girlfriend and learn a new skill at the same time!
Besides, both of you will feel sensual and comfortable while dancing, so you must try it!
17) Take a photography class together
This is a very creative way for you and your girlfriend to spend time together. You could either take a photography class together or just start taking photos of each other when you’re out and about.
With the popularity of social media, the importance of making great photos increased a lot. It’s a great chance for you and your girlfriend to learn how to take the best photos and post them so you can get feedback from your friends.
There is always an opportunity for both of you to learn something new, so why not take advantage of it!
18) Go to a concert together
If your girlfriend loves going to concerts, it will break the routine you both have. You could go together and see one of your favorite bands play live.
Pick the band or a singer that she loves, and you both can just sit back and enjoy the show.
You will have so much fun with each other, and it will be a great topic to talk about.
19) Take a trip to a new city together
If your girlfriend enjoys traveling, that can be a perfect way to surprise her. You could take her on an adventure that takes you both somewhere new.
You could visit another country or simply travel around one of the states in the US or Canada.
This is a perfect opportunity for you both to get out and explore the world.
20) Learn how to play a musical instrument together
If your girlfriend is interested in learning how to play an instrument, then this is another great hack you should try! You could learn together how to play the piano, guitar or perhaps some other instrument.
You could even learn how to sing and have fun while doing it.
21) Learn how to paint together
If your girlfriend enjoys painting, you can buy a few paint brushes, colors, and all the supplies you think you may need. Surprise her and simply let your creativity flow.
You could learn together how to paint in a new way. You could even learn how to do some graffiti art – using only spray paint!
This is an interesting activity for you both to spend time with each other and relax while doing something new.
22) Learn how to play an exciting sport
Playing sports is so fun, isn’t it? If you think she would enjoy something like this, go for it.
You could learn how to play a new sport together and bond over something that is important to both of you at the same time. Learn how to play tennis, bowling, or basketball.
This will help you see how she behaves when she is winning and losing, so it can be pretty interesting. Not only will you get a chance to spend time together, but you will also do something good for your health as well.
Pick something that you both love. Why not try boxing together?
This is a great idea for you to spend time together, but it will also be good for your vitality.
Just make sure you don’t hurt her! Make it fun for both of you.
23) Watch a movie or read a book
Watching movies is one of the best activities in the world. You could watch one of her favorite movies together, or you could pick something completely new.
You could invite your friends and all gather in the living room and watch a movie or two together. She will get to know your friends, and you will get to know hers.
Pick drama if you think she would enjoy a movie like this or a love story so you can hear her say that she loves you. You will be able to engage her in a conversation about her feelings for you and maybe get a kiss.
If you would like her to run into your arms, play something scary, and you can be her protector during the movie. In cases when you don’t have much time, you can watch short funny videos and simply laugh about them.
Reading is a great way to get inspiration and learn something new, you could read together books that inspire you and share your thoughts.
Choose something that she will enjoy hearing about. You could encourage her to read more or learn more things about you and discuss what she learns with you.
You will both be able to spend time communicating about things that are important for both of you. She will love your effort on this one!
24) Organize game night with your girlfriend
Organizing a game night with your girlfriend is a great idea! You could all play games together and have the best time of your life.
You could even learn how to play some of the exciting games that you both love to play. Pick old board games or find some new ones you never played.
She may remember her childhood and share some exciting memories. It will surely be a great conversation starter that will inspire you both to talk about the things you both cherish from your past.
Make sure you have a few options, so you always have a backup option if she doesn’t like the one you offer first. There is always something that she will be thrilled about.
25) Host a barbeque
That will start the conversation and make planning very simple. You can invite your friends and family, play some music and you will surely enjoy the day.
Don’t forget to:
- Pick your favorite food
- Write down what’s on the menu
- Select three ingredients
- Go to the store and buy each ingredient
- Outline a fire-pit grill plan for your date night in advance so that you can focus on the talk, not the plans.
The best things are often created accidentally, so don’t worry about what you’re going to talk about. She will have a great time, for sure.
Besides, having your friends around you will make it much easier for you to start talking and having fun together.
26) Have an exciting party together
If your girlfriend loves having people over, do what you can to make her wish come true. You could all get dressed up in fancy clothes and have lots of fun together!
You could even dress up as couples that are famous such as Elvis Presley or Marilyn Monroe. This is a great way for you both to spend time together and bond over something that is important to both of you.
You could all get dressed up in fancy clothes and have lots of fun together! You could even dress up as couples that are famous such as Elvis Presley or Marilyn Monroe.
27) Plan a unique or cool weekend
Plan a unique or cool weekend for your girlfriend. You could invite her friends, family and spend the whole weekend in one of the most exciting places in town.
Here are some ideas: rent a boat and sail around the lake; go on a hot air balloon ride; visit an amusement park; go camping to see the stars under the night sky – it could also be quite romantic! The possibilities are endless.
Choose the one both of you will enjoy and simply breathe in all these precious moments that will help you truly develop your relationship in the direction you want.
I hope you have found some of these hacks helpful. However, remember that this is your relationship and the best way to please your partner is to keep it fresh so you can both have fun with each other.
Sometimes even a small change can do wonders for a relationship and bring some fresh energy into everyday routine. If you feel like every date with your girlfriend is the same, you can easily change things and get inspired with these useful tips.
Use these hacks for creating new things to talk about with your girlfriend and make your relationship more exciting and fun!
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