Are you trying to figure out if a guy is interested in you?
Do they seem scared of you or not too keen on talking to you?
You may be wondering what are some ways to tell.
This article explores 15 ways to tell if a guy is interested in you.
Read on for more!
1) He pays you compliments.
This is a sure sign that he’s interested in you. He will tell you that he thinks you’re pretty and compliment your personality, too.
Guys who aren’t interested in you don’t spend a lot of time paying compliments to the other sex, so this is a good way to tell if someone is interested in you or not.
2) His body language changes around you.
He may stand closer to you, perhaps even touching your arm or shoulder when talking to you.
He might also be more relaxed when he talks to you, and his voice may change as well, becoming softer and more gentle-sounding than it was before.
A guy who is interested in you will be more animated and expressive when he talks to you, as opposed to being shy or reserved.
Many guys have a tendency to clam up around girls they like, but if he’s interested in you, this won’t be the case.
3) He’s playful.
He makes jokes, and he may even playfully tease you.
A guy who is interested in you will want to spend more time with you, so he will find ways to show his feelings for you through his actions.
4) He looks at you all the time.
A guy who’s interested in a girl will look at her all the time when she’s around, especially if she’s standing near him or sitting next to him.
He may not realize that he’s doing it, but he will look at her often because he wants to know what she’s doing and doesn’t want to miss a thing.
5) You trigger something that makes him want to protect you.
If a guy likes you, then he will feel like a hero when he is around you and will want to protect you from anything that may hurt or upset you.
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6) He wants to spend time with you.
If he’s interested in you, he will want to spend time with you, even if it’s just a few minutes here and there.
If he likes you, he won’t be able to get enough of you, so he will try to make the most of whatever time he can spend with you.
7) He pays attention to what you say and does what you want him to do.
This one’s pretty obvious!
If a guy is interested in a girl, then he will pay close attention when she talks and will do what she wants him to do because he wants her to like him back.
Want that pumpkin spice latte from Starbucks? No problem, if he likes you, hell will get if for you, even if it’s a 2-hour drive!
8) He makes you laugh.
You know the type of laughter. The one where you’re afraid you’ll end up peeing yourself!
Not the boring, forced, OMG, this joke is really lame laugh.
A guy who is interested in a girl will make her laugh because he wants her to like him, and laughter is always a good way to get someone’s attention.
He’ll get your sense of humor and you’ll find him hilarious!
9) He compliments your appearance.
Men are visual creatures. He’ll be ravishing you with his eyes if he’s into you!
So, how do I know if he actually likes me?
He tells you that he likes your dress or that he thinks your hair looks pretty when it’s down instead of up in a ponytail.
A guy who is interested in a girl will tell her that he likes her hair, clothes, shoes, or whatever else he can think of because he wants to make sure she knows how pretty he thinks she is.
10) He shows his feelings for you through his actions.
A guy who likes you will act differently around you than he does around other people.
Don’t mistake this for him being afraid!
He may be more playful, more attentive to what you say, and more eager to spend time with you than with anyone else.
If the guy you like has these kinds of feelings for you and shows them through his actions, then it’s likely that he likes you back and wants to spend time with you as much as possible.
That’s a definite WIN-WIN!
11) He’s a gentleman.
If you thought chivalry was dead, think again!
If he likes you, then he will treat you well and be nice to you.
He’ll open the door for you, pull out your chair when you sit down at a restaurant, and stand up when you go to his car so that he can hold the door for you.
12) He’s more interested in you than anyone else.
If he likes you, then he will find ways to spend time with you and be around you as much as possible.
If the guy you like is always hanging out with other people and doesn’t seem to have time for you, then it’s probably because he isn’t interested in you and doesn’t want to spend time with you because there are other people who are more interesting to him.
If this happens. It’s ok, don’t try to force things.
No doubt, you’ll end up with him if it’s meant to be!
13) He makes plans with you right away.
If a guy likes a girl, then he will ask her out right away or make plans to do something with her soon after they meet.
He’s wooing you and doesn’t want to take a chance that you’ll go out with someone else.
So, if he’s making plans, this is a great sign that he’s into you!
14) He calls when he says he will.
If the guy you like is interested in you, then he will make plans with you and call when he says that he will so that he can tell you what time to meet him or what time to expect him to call.
He won’t flake on you, he won’t bail and won’t say “oh, I forgot to call you.”
He will also text you right away and won’t leave you hanging with two blue ticks.
15) He compliments you.
No, actually, don’t!
Flattery will get you everywhere!
A guy who likes you will tell you that he likes your hair, that he thinks your dress looks nice, or that he thinks you’re pretty.
If the guy who likes you compliments you and tells you that he thinks that you’re beautiful, then it’s because he feels attracted to you and wants to let you know how pretty and special he thinks that you are.
16) He doesn’t make excuses not to see you.
If a guy likes a girl, then he will make plans with her and show up when they are supposed to meet if at all possible.
If the guy who likes a girl cancels plans on her or makes up excuses to not see her, then it’s because he is either changing his mind about dating her or he is seeing other girls and wants to not have to lie to the girl who likes him.
If you guy is into you. He will be a yes man.
He will follow through with plans and will do everything in his power to be in your presence.
17) He doesn’t act like a jerk.
If a guy likes a girl, then he will treat her with respect and be kind to her. If the guy you like treats you badly, then it may be because he isn’t interested in you anymore or because he is a jerk who likes to hurt people’s feelings for fun.
People or weird and sometimes, some men get a kick out of acting like jerks.
If he’s given off signs that he likes you but is not acting like a total douche, he might be overwhelmed by his feelings for you and is acting out.
If, however, he takes this to the extreme. He’s just playing you.
Don’t waste any more of your time and move on.
18) He looks at you in a way that makes your heart melt.
If a guy likes a girl, then he will look at her in a way that makes her feel special and beautiful.
If the guy who likes a girl never seems to make eye contact with her, or if he avoids looking at you when you are together, then it may be because he doesn’t feel confident in himself and is afraid you will blow him off.
19) He puts his phone away when he is with you.
This is a biggie!
Most guys I know are glued to their phones.
They’re either playing some new game, checking their socials, or watching Tiktok!
If a guy likes you, then he will put his phone away when he is with you and focus on spending time with you.
If a guy who you are with never puts his phone away when he is with you, not only is it a sign of disrespect, but it’s also a sign that he’s not interested in you because he doesn’t want to give you his full attention.
20) He will try to make you feel good about yourself as he listens to you talk about your life.
If a guy is interested in a girl, then he will want to be around her and listen to her talk about her life. A man who likes someone wants to spend time with the person and learn more about them.
A guy who is interested in you will ask questions about your life, family, and friends. When the conversation turns to you, then he will want to know what makes you happy, sad, or angry.
21) He laughs at your jokes even if they aren’t funny and seems genuinely interested in what you have to say no matter how boring it might be.
If a guy likes you, then he will listen to you talk about your life and your interests. He will want to hear about the things that make you happy and sad. He will want to know the things that are important to you.
If your jokes are lame and he laughs at them. You’ve got yourself a winner! He’s trying to make you feel good by laughing along, which is a great sign that he likes you!
He doesn’t want to leave you hanging!
22) He tries to get your attention by playing games or being silly around you.
Boys will be boys!
It’s like having a child “Look mommy!, Look at me!”
If a guy likes a girl, then he will try to get her attention in different ways. If you are busy talking with your friends, then he may try and grab your attention by doing something silly or playing a game with her friends.
Isn’t that slightly desperate?
A man who likes someone wants to be around them and doesn’t care what others think of him as long as he is making them happy.
23) He will let you know he is interested in you.
If you’re still scratching your head wondering if he’s into you or is just scared to commit.
There’s a simple way to tell.
In your gut, you will just “know”.
If a guy likes a girl, then he will do whatever it takes to let her know that he is interested in her. If she says something funny or cute, then he will let her know that he thinks she is great and makes him happy.
He will do everything in his power to make you feel happy and cared for and will stick to his word and do what he says he is going to do.
24) He wants to spend time with you even if it means going out of his way or taking time away from his friends and family.
If a man likes you, then he will want to spend time with you as much as possible. You will be his number one priority and he will move heaven and earth to make sure you’re top of his list.
He will want to know everything about you and make sure that you are happy and safe.
A guy who is interested in a girl will want to make sure that she is happy and won’t leave your side.
After all, you’re a great catch and you’re in demand. He’s not taking any chances!
25) He will ask you questions about your life, family, and friends.
If a guy likes someone, then he will want to get to know them better.
He will ask questions about your life, family, and friends so that he can learn more about the person he likes.
A man who is interested in a woman wants to know everything there is to know about her so that they can be closer together!
He’ll try to get inside your mind because he wants to know what makes you tick! He’ll also want to try to pick up on your likes and dislikes.
He’s learning everything he needs to know about you so that he can use this intel to make you smile!
How do I tell if a man is scared of me?
Unless you’re a sumo wrestler or have a reputation for being a fighter, it’s unlikely he’s scared of you!
Yes, he might be emotionally scarred, as in, afraid you’ll break his heart. But, not run for the hills scared!
Here’s the thing…
If you are wondering how to tell if a man is scared of you, then it can be difficult to tell if a guy is intimidated by your personality or if he is just shy.
A man who is intimidated by a woman may become nervous when he is around her, but a guy who is just shy may also become nervous and avoid eye contact.
At the end of the day…
He might just be emotionally unavailable?
I’ve been down this road before…
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Deep down, you know you deserve a man who loves you with all his heart, fully commits to you, and gives his all to your relationship.
Are you ready to make it happen?
When all is said and done, a guy will let you know he likes you in different ways.
He may do it subtly by asking you out on a date or he may tell you that he wants to be with you forever. However, the best way to know if a guy likes you is to simply ask him!
Don’t confuse shy with scared! He might just be an introvert and isn’t into loud romantic gestures. Give him time to come out of his shell and you might find you’ve found “the one!”
Now that you have read this article and learned how to determine if a man likes you, then I hope that your love life will improve!
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