Have you ever had a friend or loved one that you thought was gone forever because your paths parted?
While some people come back in the blink of an eye, others can take years to return.
No matter how negative your circumstances are, there will be a point where you both reach a breaking point and decide that it’s time to make things right again with each other again.
Chances are, if they’re meant to come back, they’ll eventually find their way back.
Here are 12 signs that someone is meant to come back in your life, even if it takes years and hopefully you’ll be able to find your way back to each other again.
1) You’re on their mind
Here’s an interesting fact:
Science has proven that when someone thinks about an ex, there are chemical reactions in the body which take place and create a physical reaction. Wouldn’t that mean that if they’re thinking about you, they must want to come back?
For example, if you’re thinking about a former significant other and you have a negative reaction, chances are there is something inside of you that still cares about them.
This is because people can’t think about something if they don’t feel something.
So how can you know if they’re actually thinking about you? They will likely make small comments here and there such as “That’s cool, I remember doing that with you.”
This isn’t something that they want to forget, but instead, it’s a reminder of a shared experience that is present in their mind.
2) They keep re-entering your life in different ways
It is an undeniable sign that they’re meant to come back in your life. It’s only a matter of time.
Sometimes people come back in your life, whether it be professionally, by running into them on the street, or even by bumping into each other at events or parties. They pop up time and time again when you least expect it.
As a matter of fact, there have been times I’ve run into an ex who I haven’t seen in years and when we do see each other, it’s like no time has passed between us.
It’s almost as if our souls remember one another and are constantly trying to bring us back together.
So give it a go:
If you see an old friend who you haven’t seen in a long time, embrace them, talk to them and see if they feel the same way.
3) They give you signs that they want to reconcile with you
An ex may be in love with you, so they’ll do a variety of things to make sure that you know it.
They may even reach out and call you up on accident or surprise you by turning up at a party when you least expect it.
So what can you do in this situation? Send this “No Communication” text
— “You know what. It’s best that we don’t talk right now, but I would like to be friends eventually.” —
This one needs to be sent to your ex at the right time for it to be truly effective.
But why I like it is that you’re communicating with them that you don’t really need to talk anymore. In essence, you’re saying that you don’t really need them to play any role in your life anymore.
Why is this so good?
You induce a “fear of loss” in your ex which will trigger their attraction for you again.
I learned about this text from Brad Browning, who has helped thousands of men and women get their exes back. He goes by the moniker of “the relationship geek”, for good reason.
In this free video, he’ll show you exactly what you can do to make your ex want you again.
No matter what your situation is — or how badly you’ve messed up since the two of you broke up — he’ll give you a number of useful tips that you can apply immediately.
Here’s a link to his free video again. If you really want your ex to come back in your life, this video will help you do this.
4) They’re trying to change themselves for the better
Have you wondered why someone who treated you wrong in the past eventually tries to change themselves for the better?
Assuming that they cared about you, why wouldn’t they want to improve and make you happy after all this time?
That’s the beauty of the universe:
It has a way of correcting the past and making you happy in the present moment.
For instance, maybe they had to go through some tragic event to make them realize how much they care about you. Or maybe they were trying to punish you for being so stubborn or hard-headed at one point.
But no matter how difficult or painful things were for them, as long as it was done with good intentions and not with ill will, it will eventually lead them to change for the better after all this time.
5) They feel bad about the way things turned out
Here’s the truth:
Sometimes when the two of you were together, one or both of you became hurt and bitter.
And when a relationship ends, it creates guilt in both people because they know they could have done something differently to prevent the breakup from happening in the first place.
While there is nothing either of you can do about what has happened, there may be a chance that one or both of you can find a solution for moving forward and making amends with each other – if only for closure’s sake.
Now it’s your turn:
If you feel guilty because of the way things turned out and want to make amends, don’t wait: Do it now.
Life is short and tomorrow is not promised. Be happy now before it’s too late.
6) You feel something familiar in their presence
This is a huge sign that the two of you were supposed to be together in the first place. When you’re with them, it feels like you’ve never been apart.
You feel alive and your heart is open to love again.
You’re not scared of commitment or getting hurt. You want to love them and they want to love you: It’s as simple as that.
If this were not the case, there would be no connection at all between the two of you, no matter how strong you may think it was or how much time has passed since you last saw each other.
In a nutshell:
If they are meant to come back in your life, you will feel something familiar and familiar only with them.
7) They keep popping up in your horoscope, dreams
Here’s another way the universe guides us to our destiny:
Our horoscope shows what’s meant to happen next in our lives.
This is why so many people believe in astrology because they’ve seen before that it can help predict certain events that may or may not happen in the near future.
For example, you may have a dream about your ex and wonder what it might mean. But if you look at your horoscope and find out there is a new love entering your life soon, this means that you will be reunited with them again very soon.
I’ve been there and I know that it can be a little scary at first, but love knows no boundaries and the universe loves to bring people together.
Believe in the horoscopes and dreams you have because they will never lead you astray.
8) They show up at the exact moment
This may seem too good to be true or a little bit of a coincidence, but one of the greatest things about life is that we are always guided by the universe on what is supposed to happen next in our lives.
You may be on your way to an event and you’re running late when all of a sudden, you run into a former lover who’s also on their way to the same event and they help you get there.
That so happens to be the day the two of you are meant to meet again and decide that it’s time for things to change.
You just can’t help but believe in fate because your paths repeatedly cross even though it seems as if nothing is ever going to happen between the two of you.
Trust me, this sign shows that they’re meant to come back in your life and it’s up to you to take action and do something about it.
9) You feel a connection, despite not seeing each other in years
This is another sign that he/she will come back if there are two souls that were meant to be together.
If you had a romantic relationship with someone in the past, there may be a chance that you feel a little closer to them than those other friends.
And even if the two of you are not physically close, there may be other signs that your heart still remembers what it feels like to love and be loved by them.
We may not always give ourselves enough credit for how strong and powerful our hearts can truly be.
Once we open our hearts up to someone or something, it will never completely close up again. Even if we don’t see or speak with that person for years on end, we’ll always remember the love and joy they brought us once upon a time.
10) Both of you are ready to put the past behind you and move on
Someone is meant to come back into your life when you’re ready to start the next chapter of your love story!
Let’s be honest about the issue: Getting stuck in the past can be a dangerous habit for both of you.
It’s not easy. It’s enough to make you want to give up on love and walk away.
But I want to suggest a solution. You have all the tools you need to do this right now, right where you are.
I learnt about this from the modern-day shaman Rudá Iandê. He taught me how the lies we tell ourselves about love are part of what trap us in things like old relationships.
As Rudá explains in this transformational free video, love is available to us if we cut through the lies that we tell ourselves.
We need to face the facts about the mistakes we made in the past and love.
The alternative is to end up in loveless relationships or endless dating frustration that only leaves us cold and empty.
The alternative is to be sunk in stagnant codependency and completely unable to resolve things like old grudges and unforgiveness.
Rudá’s teachings showed me a whole new perspective.
While watching, I felt like someone understood my struggles to find love again – and finally offered an actual, practical solution to put the past behind and move on.
If you’re done with wasting your time on love that needs to be fixed, I invite you to watch this short video and open your mind to new possibilities.
Click here to watch the free video.
11) They’ve been searching for you all over the world
Sometimes it takes a little while for two people to renew their romance and sometimes, it happens the very next day!
You just never know how things are going to unfold for you, but what I do know is that if your ex seeks you out and does whatever is necessary to be with you again, then I say you should go for it.
They may have even been scouring the world in search of someone like you because they felt like they were missing something in their lives.
Take this sign as a clear message that they were meant to find you and to never let you go again.
Once they’ve found you, they’ll be yours forever.
12) They mention how much they loved you to their friends
This is a really good sign that everything is going to work out for the best and that there’s no reason to worry about anything.
You might not believe it at first, but if someone makes you think that they’re still obsessed with you and can’t stop talking about you (even after all these years), then there’s a chance that you’ll get more than just one more chance.
Let’s dig a little deeper:
Say if your ex-boyfriend tells his brother that he wishes they’d gotten back together.
Or maybe your ex-girlfriend reveals to her best friend that she’s still in love with you. In this case, they may have completely moved on with their lives but the feelings they had for you are still there.
And just like that, it’s only a matter of time before they realize what they have been missing their entire lives – you!
If you’re lucky enough to get an ex-lover or an old friend back into your life again, then don’t be afraid to open up and take a chance on something special.
And as long as they know how much they mean to you, love will always bring them around no matter what.
In the end, if someone is willing to take another chance and wish for your happiness – just go for it.
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