If you’ve ever had a dream that you cheated on your boyfriend and liked it, there is a good chance that your unconscious mind was trying to tell you something.
Dreams are windows into the subconscious and as such, they can reveal things about ourselves that we might not be aware of.
This doesn’t necessarily mean that you plan on cheating on your boyfriend in real life – but it could mean that there is something about your relationship that feels unsatisfying.
Perhaps you feel like he isn’t the right one for you or maybe there are some lingering trust issues.
Or perhaps an ex-boyfriend continues to have a strong influence over you.
It could be any number of things; the important thing here is understanding what this dream means so that it doesn’t come back to haunt you later on.
Let’s take a closer look:
1) You’re feeling stuck in your relationship
Is your relationship stuck in a rut?
Unsatisfying relationships often cause us to think about things we want that we can’t have.
When we feel restricted in a relationship, our imagination naturally turns toward what else is possible.
If things aren’t great with your boyfriend right now, it’s only natural that you’d want to consider your options – either consciously or subconsciously.
But how can you know whether he’s the right guy for you?
Should you stick with him? Will things get better? How long should you wait before giving up and moving on?
These are some serious questions and there’s no easy way to answer them. One thing that could help you is speaking to a gifted advisor.
If you’ve never spoken to a psychic before, don’t worry, there’s a first time for everything.
I can tell you from first-hand experience that there’s nothing to be scared about. The only thing is finding someone you can trust.
That’s why I use Psychic Source. Their psychics are not only gifted, but are kind and always full of understanding. I actually have one I always go back to because she reminds me of my favorite aunt.
2) You’re having lingering feelings for someone else
Have you been thinking about an ex-boyfriend recently?
If you have, he might have a stronger hold on you than you realize.
The fact that you dreamt about cheating on your boyfriend could be a sign that your feelings for him are stronger than they should be.
If this is the case, it’s important to take a closer look at the situation. Is this someone you’re still in love with? Why did you break up with him?
If there is a chance of reconciliation between you and your ex, you need to end things with your current boyfriend. It’s not fair to stay with him if you don’t love him.
3) Your boyfriend is taking you for granted
If your man has been taking you for granted recently, it’s only natural that you’d dream about cheating on him and liking it.
I mean think about it: You have needs and desires. If you’re not getting what you need from your man, you’re going to feel unsatisfied and unhappy.
Dreams can give you a glimpse into what’s really going on in your head. So while you may not give it much thought while you’re awake, it all comes out when you’re asleep.
4) Your relationship doesn’t fulfill you
Dreams are often a manifestation of our deepest desires. If your relationship is not fulfilling, it’s only natural that you’d want to look elsewhere.
We all want to feel happy and fulfilled in a relationship. If we don’t feel that way, we may either leave or at least dream about leaving.
But, it’s not always easy to give up on a relationship, especially if you’ve been with your boyfriend for a long time. The thing is that even though things aren’t good at the moment, you keep holding on to the idea that they will be – eventually.
The cheating dream is your subconscious way of saying: “You know what? I deserve better than this.”
5) Something feels off in your relationship, but you’re not sure what
Another reason for your dream about cheating could be that something just doesn’t feel right in your relationship.
Maybe you’re feeling distant from your boyfriend and you’re not sure how to talk to him about it.
If you still love him and want to work on your relationship, you need to figure out a way to bring up the issue with him. Maybe plan a fun weekend getaway full of activities you both enjoy.
If that doesn’t fix things, then maybe you think about speaking to a relationship coach.
Last year, I was so frustrated with my husband and our relationship that I was ready to call it quits. A dear friend of mine told me to take a breath and try one more thing. She told me about Relationship Hero, a site with dozens of highly trained relationship coaches.
As I was ready to leave my husband, I didn’t really have anything to lose so I gave them a try.
I’m not lying when I say it was one of the best decisions I ever made!
After a few sessions with my coach, my marriage was doing better than ever before. They made me realize that the root of our problem was communication.
Once my man and I learned to really listen to each other and express ourselves better, we managed to clear up problems that had been piling up for ages.
Why not give them a go? They could help you figure out why you’re dreaming about cheating on your boyfriend and why things just don’t feel right.
6) You’re angry with your boyfriend
Dreams typically come out of our unconscious and what you’re dreaming about may reveal something about your current relationship.
If your dream is about cheating on your boyfriend, it could be a sign that you’re upset with him for some reason.
Maybe he was a real a**hole to you the other day and hasn’t apologized. That’s why you dream about cheating on him – you want to be with someone better than he is. And maybe you want to hurt him, the way he hurt you.
7) You’re sexually unsatisfied
Maybe you feel like he doesn’t fulfill your needs as a woman and you want someone who appreciates and understands you more.
I mean, when is the last time you guys had sex? Was it good? Was it all about him or did he try to satisfy you?
Sex isn’t everything in a relationship, but let’s face it, without sex, you’re just buddies or roommates.
But I get it, it’s hard to keep the spark alive, especially if you’ve been together for a long time.
You might actually find it useful to watch therapist Esther Perel’s TED talk on the secret to desire in a long-term relationship. I found her talk very insightful and even ended up getting her book.
8) You may be tired of being in a committed relationship
Maybe you’re dreaming about cheating because you’re tired of being in a committed relationship.
Do you feel too settled? Maybe you just need to spice things up a bit.
If this is the case, it’s important to address this with your partner and talk about how you can maintain a healthy relationship while still adding excitement to your life.
You may need to try something new or do something that you’re not used to doing to break out of your rut and get excited about your relationship again.
9) You’re worried about your partner’s fidelity
Although you’re the one who cheated in the dream, it’s important not to be too literal in your interpretation.
You see, it’s quite possible that the reason you dreamt about being with another guy is actually that you’re worried about your partner’s fidelity.
This could be triggered by something your partner has said or done – or it could be something that you’ve seen in the news or in a movie.
The question is: Is there a real danger of your boyfriend cheating on you or are you just being paranoid?
Unless you want to hire a private detective to follow your boyfriend around, I suggest getting in touch with someone at Psychic Source to reveal the truth.
Not only will a psychic be able to tell you if your boyfriend is cheating on you, but they’ll be able to tell you what the future has in store for you.
10) You’ve been feeling lonely and want more romance from your partner
Have you been lonely?
Do you find yourself watching romcoms and longing for romance in your life?
If that sounds like you, maybe the reason that you’re dreaming about infidelity with a hot stranger is a way for your subconscious to tell you that you want more romance in your life.
Maybe it’s time to let your boyfriend know that you’re feeling a little lonely and that you’d love some more quality time with him.
What’s more, you wouldn’t mind being swept off your feet from time to time. Even a bunch of flowers or a dinner out would be wonderful.
Sometimes guys can be a bit out of tune with our desires and they have no idea what we need and what they should do unless we spell it out for them.
So instead of feeling bad and wishing he’d do something, tell him straight out what you need from him.
11) This is not how you imagined your life
This isn’t how you pictured your life when you were younger, huh?
Maybe you thought you’d be a big actress in Hollywood, dating your leading man.
Instead, you’re leading an ordinary life, dating an ordinary guy.
You’re not thrilled with who you are or who you’re dating, so you dream about cheating on your boyfriend and liking it.
12) You’re looking for some excitement in your life
If you’re dreaming about cheating, it could mean that you’re ready for something more exciting to happen in your life.
Maybe you’ve been with your partner for a while and you’re feeling a little bored with your relationship.
Or, maybe you’ve been stressed with work and other responsibilities and you’re craving some excitement and drama in your life.
Cheating dreams can also mean that you’re idealizing the idea of what it would be like to cheat. It’s possible that you’re just curious about what it would be like to cheat, or what it would be like to be on the receiving end of infidelity.
Why not try and bring some excitement to your relationship by going to a live cabaret show or watching a dirty movie together? Come on, don’t be shy, live a little.
13) Maybe it’s not about cheating
It’s possible that your dream isn’t really about cheating.
Maybe you did something in your waking life that you’re not proud of and feel guilty about.
For example, maybe you lied to your boyfriend about something important or you’re keeping a secret from him. This can make you feel guilty, especially if you’re like me and hate to lie.
If you dream about committing a serious relationship-breaker, like having an affair, it could be because you’re ridden with guilt.
So, consider if you’ve done anything that you feel guilty about. If you have, that almost certainly explains your dream.
The bottom line
If you’ve ever dreamt about cheating on your partner, it’s important to understand what it might mean.
It doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re going to cheat, or even that you want to – but it could be a sign of something else going on in your life or a way for your subconscious to alert you that you need to address something with your partner.
And hey, sometimes a dream is just that – a dream.
If you want to find out more about dreams, Psychic Source has some amazing dream interpreters.
Can a relationship coach help you too?
If you want specific advice on your situation, it can be very helpful to speak to a relationship coach.
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