11 ways to tell a man you miss him sexually

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So, you miss a man sexually and you have no idea how to tell him?

You’ve come to the right place!

I’ve put together a list full of 11 delightful suggestions that will make your message heard.

Let’s go over them!

1) Make him remember one time when you two had sex

To begin with, this is one of my favorite ways to tell a man you miss him sexually. Why?

Because he’ll think he’s the one who misses you sexually. 

Let me explain. 

If you two are casually talking, you could ask him if he remembers that time when you two… (insert a fun event that ended up with sex but leave the sex part out). 

As you walk him through the highlights and laugh about what happened that day, he’ll involuntarily remember what came next as well.

There’s no way to know for sure whether he’ll mention the sex part or not, but if he does, then you’re on the right track. 

In case he doesn’t, you could ask a flirty question, such as, “I had a lot of fun afterward too. Maybe we should do that again sometime!”

2) Send him a sexy picture of yourself “by mistake”

Unless you want to just say the words to him, I have another suggestion for you.

You can make this guy think about you sexually if you send him a sexy picture of yourself. However, the trick here is to make it seem like an accident. 

By doing so, you’ll intrigue him and make him fantasize about you again. In fact, if you do this right, he might even overlook the fact that you were actually sending that photo to someone else. 

So, if you’re looking for a less-straightforward way to say to this guy that you miss him sexually, try with a sexy photo. Depending on his reaction, you may have an opportunity to say what’s on your mind.

Let’s say he compliments you. Take that chance and make him a compliment, too.

3) Craft the perfect text and don’t leave the juicy details out

Would you like to know about another way to approach this man and tell him all about missing him sexually?

It’s a familiar story and it usually goes like this:

You craft the perfect text and you send it to him! The beauty of this point is that it gives you all the freedom you need.  To be more precise, you can choose what to say based on your personality. 

For example, if you don’t talk very often to him, you could choose a mysterious approach that goes something like this, “The warmth of your body, the way you touched me, and how tender your kisses were… It all came back to me in a dream last night.”

By contrast, if you interact often with him, your text could be different. The point remains the same: make him picture himself in an erotic setting where you two are the main protagonists.

4) Show him that you miss him sexually

Why bother telling a man that you miss him sexually when you could just show it to him?

This point is really useful if you’re daring and you can be physically close to this man. Here’s how you could show it to him:

  • Make sure you look attractive and you wear something revealing the next time you see him.
  • Sit close to him and make sure he can feel your scent.
  • Get touchy-feely with him while you two talk about miscellaneous things.
  • Smile at him, wink at him, and flirt with him like you did before you two slept together.

By doing all these, you make him see you sexually again and associate the things you used to do before sex with the things you do now.

Before you know it, he’ll pick up the message.

5) Tell one of his friends who you know can’t keep a secret

If you want to be direct and yet enjoy the mystery of not knowing for sure whether he got the message, then you should consider telling one of his friends who you know can’t keep a secret.

This way, he’ll most probably hear about it and won’t be able to avoid thinking about it. 

And the best part? You won’t have to do another thing because he’ll have to make the next move.

It goes without saying that if he also misses you sexually, he’ll talk to you about what he has heard or make his intentions known to you. 

Well, let’s at least hope he’s more daring than you are!

6) Ask him an erotic open-ended question

What better way to tell a man you’re still interested in him sexually than by talking about sex?

This is the part where you have to be daring, whether you like it or not. If you miss him sexually, then it means you should feel comfortable talking to him about sex. Correct?

Either way, you’ll see that sex is a topic that quickly draws his attention. In addition to that, in the end, you might not even have to tell him that you miss him like that. 

In turn, you’ll arouse him and make him think about doing it with you. If so, you’ll just have to wait and see what his next move is going to be.

7) Wear one of his all-time favorite outfits when you meet him

Another great idea to tell a man you miss him sexually without actually telling him is to wear one of his all-time favorite outfits when you meet him. Think about a dress that made him say that you look hot as hell and wear it! 

He’ll definitely notice it and compliment you on it. That’s when you have to say the right things for him to understand you miss him like that. You could say: 

  • “I knew you’d like it. I like it, too! It sets me in the same mood as back then…”
  • “Do you remember what we did last time I had this dress on? I’d like to do it again.”
  • “I thought you said I look better without the dress. Still not convinced?”

Say whatever suits you and your personality. These are just some examples, but you get the idea.

8) Ask him about his sex life

Okay, I get it; you might not be interested in his sex life at all! 

However, if you ask him this question, you could lead the conversation where you want it to go. 

Maybe you’ll find out that he isn’t interested in anyone sexually and that he actually had a really good time when you were going down and dirty. Imagine how easier it would be for you to confess your desires if you knew that!

So, take a chance and have a conversation with him that could end up with you getting exactly what you want!

9) Choose the right words to tell him

In case you want this man to know that you miss him sexually, and why, without having any other intention to flirt with him or play games, you could do so, with the right words.

But, before you do that, think about what you really want. 

  • Do you want to keep things strictly sexual with this guy?
  • Are you really interested in exploring your sexuality with him and that’s all?

As soon as you figure this out, you could simply say to him something like that:

“I’ve enjoyed our sexual experiences and I miss what you used to do to me, and the way you did it. I’d like to explore my erotic side with you with/without strings attached”.

Although blunt, the phrase above presents things simply and gives him the chance to respond in a casual manner. 

It’s not like you told him, “I’m horny. Take me now!” – which sounds kind of desperate, to be honest. 

So, rest assured he’ll not take it this way if you use the right words.

10) Find out if he misses you sexually first

Would it be great if you could tell this man “me too” instead of “I miss you sexually”?

You can! The trick is to make him say it first. 

Most probably, you don’t want to ask him directly and without context, so my suggestion is to play a game with him. A drinking game, maybe, to help him loosen up?

Truth or Dare is a very simple game that could serve your purpose. When his turn comes and he chooses “truth”, you can pop the question. 

Trust me, it will sound harmless due to the context and he’ll probably be honest with you. Hopefully, his answer will also be something that you want to hear. 

11) Use emojis or gifs to send the right message

Sometimes, using emojis and gifts is more suitable than using words. I’m definitely not saying that this is the case, but you can make it work!

If all the ways above are too straightforward for you and you want to use fewer words and no physical touch, then you could try to tell him that you miss him sexually with the help of emojis or gifs.

There are a lot of suggestive emojis and gifs that you could use.

Even so, don’t treat this point poorly! You have to do your research and come up with the best emojis or gifs to use in order to send the right message.

Keep in mind that:

  • You should avoid being vulgar.
  • You don’t want him to be confused.
  • You shouldn’t make it seem like a joke.

Although far-fetched, this point could work, especially if you two often communicate online and use emojis and gifs to express yourselves. 

What can I say instead of I miss you sexually?

By now you’ll be wondering if there are other ways to express your desire instead of saying “I miss you sexually”.

Good news:

There are! Here are a few suggestions:

  • I want you in my bed again and again.
  • I crave the intimate moments we’ve shared.
  • I need to see you naked again.
  • I yearn for your warm and firm touch.
  • I wish we did that again sometime.
  • I long for your tenderness.

Some of them might sound like too much, but we are all different, so you never know what works best for everyone.

How to forget someone you slept with?

The brutal truth is that even if you find the best approach to telling a man that you miss him sexually, he might not react as you want him to. 

Depending on your relationship and how long it has passed since you two were intimate, he might feel the same about you or not. 

Although I want you to be prepared for rejection, I still encourage you to go for what you want and express your desires. 

If it doesn’t work, however, rest assured there are ways to forget him. 

Let’s take a look at some of them:

  • Think about what you really missed about having sex with this man.
  • List the things that he did that made you feel amazing and try them again.
  • Explore your erotic desires with other men and see how it goes.
  • Don’t force yourself to forget about him or not think about him sexually. 
  • Have patience because you’ll eventually get bored of fantasizing about the same person.
  • Find other sexual things that make you feel a ton of pleasure.
  • Explore your sexuality further with or without a partner.

You miss this man sexually. What next?

While there are many ways you can tell a man that you miss him sexually and many ways to show him, there’s only one way that guarantees your success.

What’s that?

According to James Bauer, a relationship expert, men have certain innate drivers. And when a woman triggers them, it drives them crazy.

The result is a man who loves harder, commits wholeheartedly, and truly dedicates himself to the relationship.

So if you’re ready to turn up the heat in your relationship and make your man desire you like never before, here’s the simple way to do it.

Watch this excellent video by James Bauer.

In just a few minutes, he’ll reveal what you need to know about reaching a man at his core and eliciting in him the deepest desires of his heart. Seeing it is a must for every woman out there.

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