How to make a man love you more than his wife: 15 useful tips (practical guide)

So you want to make a married man love you more than his wife?

I hate to break it to you, but you’re playing a very dangerous game.

However, this doesn’t mean that you can’t succeed. 

I guess it all depends on how far you’re willing to go.

Fair warning: Expect things to take an immoral turn!

Here are 15 useful tips:

1) Make sure you always look flawless and entice him.

Tip number 1 is far from fair, but if you use it, you might get what you want!

Let’s face it: it’s hard for a man’s wife to do all her chores and look sexy as hell while doing it. So, this is where you come in.

To make a man love you more than his wife, make sure to always give him something pretty, sexy, and stylish to look at. 

Men are visual creatures, so make sure you look drop-dead gorgeous, even when (or if) you’re spending the night together.

There’s no shame in using your body to get a man’s full attention and keep it. Deeper feelings will anyway (if they aren’t already) flood in.

2) Flirt with him and make him feel desired.

Tip number 2 is also pretty simple, and it’s easy to do. All you have to do is flirt with him as though he is the only man in the world. Be coy, but not too coy (that can turn him off).

The more attention he gets, the more attracted he will be to you. This means that you can use your feminine charms to make him want you and fall head over heels for you.

How do I know? Most husbands and wives stopped flirting with each other a long time ago. They stopped trying to be attractive to each other.

That’s why constantly being flirty can prove to be a very good way to get a married man’s attention, and make him feel desired. In addition, you will also make him feel alive and appreciated. 

3) Bring out his inner hero.

Tip number 3 will come as a surprise to you. In fact, after you’re done reading it, you might find the other tips useless. 

Why do I say this?

There’s a new theory in the relationship world that’s causing quite a stir – it’s called the hero instinct. 

Coined by relationship expert James Bauer, this fascinating concept finally explains how men really think and feel in relationships. 

And it’s something most women have never even heard of. 

According to James Bauer, men don’t actually need a lot to feel content in their relationships. In fact, what they need has nothing to do with sex. 

Men have certain innate drivers. And when a woman comes along and triggers them, it causes a powerful response. The result is a man who loves harder, commits wholeheartedly, and truly dedicates himself to the relationship. 

So, how can you trigger a married man’s hero instinct? 

The easiest thing to do is to watch this simple and genuine video by James Bauer. 

The truth is, once you understand how the hero instinct works, there’s no telling what heights your relationship with this man can reach. 

So if you want to give him what he truly wants from you, make sure to check out James Bauer’s excellent video. In it, he reveals the exact texts and phrases you can use straight away.

Here’s a link to the free video again.

4) Act like his wife doesn’t even exist.

Another great tip to make a married man love you more than his wife is to act like she doesn’t exist. Act like he’s not a husband (and a father!).

By behaving in this way, you’ll make him feel like a man who isn’t defined by his marriage. Instead, you’ll make it seem like he’s free to do whatever he wants (with you).

Of course, the thing is: this will turn him on and make him want you even more. You will win his heart over. 

He will feel as though you’re no threat to his marriage, but someone who he wants to be with.

5) Show him a good time outside the bedroom, too.

Just by having sex with a married man, you won’t make him love you more than his wife. Sure, he’ll want you more than his wife, but he might not develop deeper feelings for you.

This is why it’s important to show him a good time outside the bedroom, too. Make him feel appreciated. Make him feel like it’s for him that you’re doing all these things (and not for yourself).

Take initiative and try to be fun (to the extent that you can). By doing so, he will feel more alive, adventurous, and interested in you. 

He might even start to wonder: “Do I love her more than I love my wife?”

6) Have patience with him.

Your relationship with a married man is definitely complicated and you can’t expect him to develop deeper feelings for you than he has for his wife in a short time.

Instead, you need to arm yourself with patience. His marriage and your relationship are both complicated, so give him time to figure things out.

Make sure you don’t get too impatient and start pressuring him. Remember to stay focused on making yourself desirable.

Deep feelings of love will grow naturally inside his heart as a result of that.

Don’t expect it to happen fast, though! This is how things evolve in the real world.

7) Make sure he’s deeply infatuated with you.

Infatuation is a tricky thing. Sometimes, you can use it to get what you want (in this case, making a man love you more than his wife). At other times, it can be used against you.

Make sure he’s deeply infatuated with you before jumping into his arms and trying to make him fall in love with you to the point of no return.

Dating and relationship coach Clayton Max has developed sets of phrases that are guaranteed to make any man infatuated with you.

These phrases reach men on a deep primal level – most women don’t know about this, which is why they struggle to keep a man’s infatuation.

To find out what they are, watch his video here where he explains everything.

8) Make him a priority in your life.

Since he’s married, he won’t be available to you whenever you feel like it.

However, if you really want to make him love you more than his wife, you could make him a priority and make yourself available whenever he wants to meet you. 

It’s in your best interest to see this guy as often as possible. Otherwise, your bond might go hot and cold, and that’s not what you’re after.

So, even if it’s not comfortable for you to cancel your plans and meet him, it could be the right thing to do if you want his love. 

9) Show him that there’s a future for the two of you together.

His marriage is a stable thing for him as opposed to his relationship with you. So, what you need to do is make him believe your relationship is just as stable.

Make him believe and see a future with you in it. To do so, you can paint him a picture of a really happy future together with you. 

For example, maybe you two would have the opportunity to travel together and see the world and that’s what he always wanted to do.

10) Compliment him every chance you get.

Who doesn’t like compliments? 

You got it right! Men are no exception. 

So, if you want to make him love you more than his wife, compliment him as much as you can.

Tell him about his real qualities; don’t try to fool him. This will make him feel appreciated and desired. 

It will also make his confidence grow, which is exactly what he needs in order to see that his wife isn’t enough for him anymore and that you are what he needs.

11) Offer him your unconditional support.

If you offer him your unconditional support and unconditional love, he’s going to be more inclined to think that you’re special and that you truly are the woman he wants to be with. 

For this reason, you must choose the right things to say and the right things to do that will make him feel special.

I mentioned this fascinating concept earlier: the hero instinct. When a married man’s inner hero is triggered, he’s more likely to love you more than he loves his wife.

Just by knowing the right things to say to him, you’ll open a part of him that no woman has ever reached before, not even his wife.

And the best way to do so is by watching this free video by James Bauer. In it, he’ll reveal simple phrases and texts you can use to make your man truly yours. 

Here’s a link to the excellent video again.

12) Don’t involve yourself in his marriage.

This one is another tip that can prove useful as well as dangerous. It all depends on the situation, but for the most part, it’s a good idea to keep your distance from his wife.

It’s also a good idea to refrain from involving yourself in his relationship with her. If you do this, he will feel more attached to you and less attached to her.

13) Don’t try to get him to leave his family.

This one is a piece of advice that I’d recommend anyone follow! 

That’s because it can lead the man you’re trying to win over away from you, and that’s definitely something that you don’t want to happen.

On the contrary, you want to make this married man love you more than his wife. 

So, what you need to do is try to make him feel as comfortable as possible and feel like he can be open with you, not pressure him to make a choice.

14) Spoil him like you want to be spoiled.

Just because this man is married, it doesn’t mean that he doesn’t deserve the full service.  

Therefore, you need to make him feel like a king if you want to win him over.

So, make him feel special in any way that you can by pampering all his senses. Don’t stop at confessing your feelings for him and talking about romance. 

Try to do things that make him feel pleasure immediately. In this way, he will associate pleasure and feeling good with you.

15) Encourage him to follow his dreams

Marriage can sometimes be restrictive, and although this may not mean much to you, it means a lot to him. If he has dreams and goals, encourage them and help him achieve them.

Most definitely, he’s not getting this type of support from his wife. Otherwise, why would he look for it elsewhere?

As a result, he’s going to feel more committed towards you as opposed to his wife. This can lead to a deeper love for you. 

And that’s exactly what you want, right? So, encourage this man to pursue his dreams, even if they seem childish to you. Perhaps that’s why his wife doesn’t encourage him. 

However, you should do the opposite and try to really understand his dreams, regardless of their nature.

Final thoughts

I touched on the hero instinct earlier – it’s the perfect remedy for the situation you’re facing. 

Why?

Because once a married man’s hero instinct is triggered, he’ll only have eyes for you. You’ll reach a part of him that no woman has ever managed to reach before, not even his wife. 

And in return, he’ll be compelled to commit to you and love you like he’s never loved another woman. 

So if you’re ready to take that plunge and reach new heights in your relationship, make sure to check out relationship expert James Bauer’s invaluable advice.

Click here to watch the excellent free video.