17 awesome tips to make a Leo man fall in love with you

What do Jason Momoa, Mick Jagger, Barack Obama, Antonio Banderas, and Chris Hemsworth all have in common? Yup, you guessed it, they’re all Leo men.

Are you head over heels in love with a Leo man?

Wondering how to make him fall in love with you?

Let me tell you right away that Leo men are amongst the most difficult to get.

They love being the center of attention and like celebrities, they’re always surrounded by people, so you really have to stand out for them to notice you.

What makes a Leo man tick?

Leo men dream big and live big.

They love excitement, extravagance, and having a good time.

They thrive on being the focus of attention.

Leo men are drawn to beautiful women who are assertive, independent, and loyal.

  • Women that love adventure
  • Women that make interesting conversation
  • Women that make them feel appreciated and special

Turns out they’re known as being constant “bachelors”, so it can be a bit of a challenge to get one to settle down.

However when in love, Leo men are happy to commit and are extremely passionate and caring.

But, it’s not always easy to be in a relationship with a Leo man as they’re known to get possessive and jealous.

What it all comes down to is that Leo men want to feel special and admired.

Keep in mind that they have a huge ego that needs to be constantly fed.

Here are some helpful tips to make you stand out and make a Leo man fall in love with you.

17 ways to make a Leo man fall in love with you

1) Be confident

Leos are confident and proud. As such, they are attracted to someone similar to them, someone self-assured and assertive.


You may still be working on your self-confidence and find yourself a little bit uncomfortable in certain situations. Somewhat shy.

Confidence can take a while to build up, but it can help to start acting confident:

  • Body language is one of the first things that people notice. Stand up straight. Hold your head up high and your shoulders back. This will signal that you are at ease, confident, and ready to engage in conversation. If you keep your head down and your back arched, you will appear withdrawn and unapproachable.
  • Don’t put yourself down. Own who you are. Remember, you’re great and whatever you do is amazing, be proud of yourself. If you work in a library, tell him that. Share how passionate about books you are.
  • If you see him at a party, walk up to him and start up a conversation. Even if you feel extremely nervous on the inside, you’ll seem very relaxed and confident to him.
  • Finding a mantra to repeat to yourself such as “I’m amazing, he’d be lucky to know me” or “I can do this” can help in achieving self-confidence. Believing is halfway to achieving.

2) Make interesting conversation

Don’t be afraid to express yourself.

Share your ideas and opinions with your love interest.

Leos love a good chat and want to be with someone who can engage them in stimulating conversation and who is an intellectual match for them.

Find out what your Leo man is interested in – is it film, sports, art, politics, nature, philosophy, etc.? Don’t be scared to share your point of view, even if it’s different from his.

He’ll appreciate the fact that you have a mind of your own and will even be happy to engage in a light debate.

3) Take a real interest

Leo men will attract all sorts of women who want to be with them for their charm and popularity.

What will set you apart from the rest of the ladies and turn lust into love is taking a real interest in him.

Make it clear to him that you care about who he really is.

Demonstrate an interest in both his day-to-day and long-term activities.

Show him that you care about what goes on in his life.

  • Ask him about his dreams and aspirations
  • Don’t forget the little things, ask him how his day went
  • Ask him about his work – how his latest project is going
  • Inquire about his family, their health
  • Take an interest in his hobbies
  • Get him some treats for his pet

Make sure not to appear too nosy.

You see, you want to show him that you are curious about his life and that you care about him without being too intrusive.

4) Be fun and playful

If you are bright and cheerful you will spread positive energy that will draw people to you.

On the other hand, if you’re constantly gloomy and in a bad mood, people will pick up on your negative energy and start to feel blue. This is why they’ll try and keep away from you.

Leos love parties and celebrations. Like a pride of lions, Leos like the feeling of togetherness.

They love socializing and playing games.

Show him that you’re happy in a group.

Entice him with your social prowess.

  • Start dancing
  • Show how easily you can slide into any conversation
  • Don’t say no to a game – be enthusiastic without being too competitive

Relax and enjoy yourself, this will make you fun to be around.

Be playful.

Spread joy.

Your Leo man will surely fall in love with you when he catches your wonderful smile and positive energy.

5) Befriend his friends

Being the social creature that he is, a Leo man has a large number of friends and that he spends a lot of time with.

This is a great opportunity for you to get close to him.

Become friends with his friends. This will give you a greater chance of running into him.

What’s more, if they fall under your charm, they’ll be more than glad to tell him what a great catch you are.

6) Be adventurous

A Leo man loves novelty and is always looking for a new adventure.

He gets bored easily.

If you want a Leo man to fall for you, you need to show him that you have a zest for life, that you are eager to try new things with him.

Show him how adventurous you are. Be ready to live life to the fullest. Be ready to say “yes”.

  • Go to an interactive play
  • Try some exotic foods, don’t shy away if your food has six legs
  • Say yes to the nudist beach
  • Couchsurfing? Sure, why not?

Embrace new experiences. Live in the moment.

What better way to get him to love you than for him to feel super alive when he is with you?

7) Dress to impress

A lady who takes care of her appearance is one who takes care of herself. It’s an outward expression of how she feels inside.


If you neglect the way you look, you’re sending out a signal to other people that maybe you’re not too happy with yourself. If you don’t care about yourself, why should he?

What’s more, a Leo man likes to be able to show off his glamorous girl, to take her out to dinner, parties, and shows.

  • Wear some make-up, make your best features pop, but nothing over the top.
  • Be stylish. Wear some well-fitted chic clothes.
  • Get your nails done. A nice red that pops is always a win.
  • Add some accessories like a nice piece of jewelry or a pretty scarf.
  • Don’t forget to spray a dash of perfume on your neck and wrists. It’s these little things that really count.

What’s more, when you look good, you feel good. Knowing that you look hot is a great confidence booster!

Knock him off his feet every time he sees you and leave him wanting more.

He’ll always look forward to the next encounter and will be eager to show you off to the world.

8) Be yourself

Don’t pretend to be someone you are not.

That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t bring your A-game to the table.

This list is supposed to help bring out the best in you and help you show off your best side to make a Leo man fall in love with you.

So, when I say be confident, fun, and adventurous, I’m not telling you to be someone else, but rather, to search for those qualities within yourself as they will appeal to a Leo.

Pretending to be someone else who doesn’t resonate with who you really are will only backfire.

9) Show affection

Leos love to give and receive gifts. They’re big fans of grand gestures.

But did you know that they also love public displays of affection?

Depending on the stage of your relationship, you may want to:

  • Gently brush your hand against his as you reach for your glass
  • Grab his arm when you are out on a stroll
  • Remove an eyelash from his face
  • Surprise him with a kiss or hug when you’re in public

He’ll appreciate any excuse you find to touch him. Don’t shy away from public displays of affection to show him how you feel.

Leo men can be great romantics and your shows of affection will assure him of being loved and encourage him to show love in return.

This also plays well into his need for attention.

Just keep in mind not to go overboard and become “vulgar” in your displays of affection in public. He may find such displays in poor taste and get thrown off.

10) Never embarrass him in public

Leos are extremely proud and have huge egos that are easily wounded.

So if you want him to fall for you, never humiliate him in public. By that I mean, don’t criticize him in front of other people, especially his friends.

If you are out in public, compliment him and let him know he is appreciated.

If he says or does something that you don’t like and agree with, wait until you are alone to tell him.

He’ll appreciate your honesty and the fact that you care about his feelings enough to wait and not make him look bad in front of others.

11) Turn up the heat

Leos are very passionate creatures.

If you’ve already made it to the bedroom with your Leo man, make sure to bring your A-game and crank up the heat.

If you want your Leo man to fall in love with you, you need to be a match sexually.

  • Show him how much you desire him
  • Be bold and unafraid to try new things
  • Take control
  • Compliment him, tell him that he rocks your world
  • Do it somewhere exciting like a fancy hotel

A Leo man wants meaningful and passionate sex. He’ll give himself completely, and that’s what he expects from you.

With that in mind, give him the night of his life and have fun.

12) Use the hero instinct

Treat your Leo man like he’s irreplaceable by triggering his hero instinct.

The term hero instinct was first coined by relationship coach James Bauer in his popular book His Secret Obsession.

What it comes down to is: a man wants to feel needed by you.

According to the hero instinct, a man has a deep biological drive to protect and provide. He needs to feel like he’s saving the day and rescuing the damsel in distress.

You see, he needs to be the hero.

If you’re always the one solving all the problems and even coming to the rescue when he’s in trouble, he’ll end up feeling undervalued and emasculated.

If he doesn’t feel indispensable to you, he may lose interest.

13) Compliment him

Leo men love to be flattered. They appreciate it when people notice how unique and talented they are.

Even though they’re proud and confident, they still like to hear people sing their praises.

So, if you want your Leo man to fall in love with you, make him feel special.

  • Tell him how funny he is
  • Compliment his looks, the way he’s dressed
  • If you’ve seen some creative work of his, like a short movie, photograph, or even painting, tell him how talented he is
  • Tell him how unique and refreshing his taste in movies and literature is

Simply put, show him why he’s so special and why you’re into him.

14) Give him the spotlight

Have you noticed that all your Leo man needs is 5 minutes in a room before everyone is spellbound?

This is because Leo men are very charismatic and have a powerful presence. They end up being the center of attention wherever they go and they love it!

If you want him to fall head over heels in love with you, let him shine in the spotlight.

  • Laugh at his jokes
  • Pay attention to his stories
  • Show him you are his number one fan
  • Stand by his side adoringly

15) Be independent

Even though a Leo man is very social and loves to be in other people’s company, he also likes to do his own thing from time to time.

A Leo man values his independence and wants an equally independent partner.

So, while you should enjoy each other’s company and plan some fun activities to do together, don’t be too clingy. Find things to do on your own.

Give him some space and take some for yourself.

Show him that you love to hang out with him, but that you also have a life without him, that you don’t need him to hold your hand for every little thing you do.

  • Go out with your friends
  • Sign up for a dance class or take up pottery by yourself
  • Go see a play or an art exhibition
  • Take a short trip with a friend

Show your Leo man that you love your freedom as much as he loves his. He’ll find you irresistible.

16) Show him that you care

If you want your Leo man to fall in love with you, show him that you care about him.

Be attentive.

Even though Leos love big gestures, sometimes it’s the little things that matter most.

  • Find out what his favorite meal growing up was and make it for him
  • Get him that special edition book that he’s been talking about
  • Go to the record store and pick up his favorite album on vinyl to surprise him
  • If he has a cold, take him some chicken soup
  • Next time you go antiquing, get him a little something he’d like – like an old compass because he loves to travel

Show him that he’s on your mind and that you see him for who he is, underneath all the glamour.

17) Follow your dreams

Leos admire people who have goals and aspirations and follow their dreams.

Following your dreams goes hand in hand with independence, both traits that Leos have and look for in their partners.

Fall in love, go all in but don’t forget who you are and what you want out of life. 

Focus on your goals and work extra hard on achieving them.

  • Ace all your classes, get that degree
  • Start your own business, open up that bakery like you’ve always dreamed of doing
  • Get that black belt you’ve been killing yourself for
  • Get a studio to read your script

What’s more, you should play up all the work you’ve done to achieve your goals up to now. Be proud of your achievements.

Your Leo man’s bound to fall for you when he sees how persevering and determined you are. 

How do you know a Leo man is in love?

Once you land a Leo man, you want to know how he behaves when he is in love.

Now, because the Leo sign is the ruler of the zodiac, just like the lion is king of the jungle, your Leo man probably has a huge ego and is self-centered.

Normally, he’ll put himself first.

However, when a Leo man is in love, he’ll become the complete opposite. Suddenly he’s:

  • caring
  • romantic
  • emotional
  • and sensitive to your feelings

A Leo man in love is tender and true and makes a wonderful partner in a relationship.

Although he has a reputation for being a constant bachelor, once he falls in love, he’s loyal and all in, so once you have him, don’t let go!

Watch out though, you’ll find your Leo man can be a bit possessive and prone to jealousy. So you want to reassure him of your feelings and never give him reason to doubt you.

Are you ready for truffles, caviar, and champagne in bed? He loves to live life to the fullest which often means an excessive lifestyle.

What makes Leo men so special?

Leos are proud and passionate.

They’re most compatible with Aquarius and Sagittarius signs.

The love between Aquarius and Leo is passionate and long-lasting.

The love between Leo and Sagittarius is built on mutual respect, which is a strong foundation for lasting love

Leo men can be dramatic and love to show off. They love to be the center of attention and love fanfare.

They need to feel appreciated and like their partners to assure them of their love.

Leo men have a strong sex drive and like to keep things spicy in the bedroom. They like to role play and tease and don’t like to repeat the same sexual position on a daily basis.

They’re romantic and adventurous.

They want to feel a deep connection to their partner.

Leos can be very sensitive and hurt easily.

They’re very loyal and you can trust your Leo man to be faithful to you.

Some negative aspects of Leos are that they can get possessive and jealous. They have a huge ego and can appear vain to those that don’t know them well.


By now you should have a better understanding of what makes Leo men so unique.

They’re charming and loyal and make great partners if you manage to catch one.

Leos can be a bit of a challenge but if you think he may be the one, the list above should help you make him fall in love with you.

So what are you waiting for? Get out there and catch that Leo girl!

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