If you know that she’s “the one”, but she doesn’t seem to know this, it’s time to show her how much she needs you in her life.
Whether you’ve known her for a few weeks, months, or years, try these 10 tips to make her realize she needs you:
1) When she needs comfort, give it to her
Whether it’s cuddling in bed after a bad day at work or a pat on the back when you’re meeting up for coffee and she’s feeling down about something that happened earlier in the week, show that you’re there for her.
Women wouldn’t be able to resist a man who would do this, which is precisely why they’ll try to hook up with those who will. The more you give her the kind of love and attention she needs, the more she will crave it from you.
When you show her that you’re there for her and will listen when she needs you, she’ll begin to rely on you in times of need.
Show that you understand when she’s feeling down – that you’re on board with whatever it is she’s going through.
2) Remember the small things about her
You don’t have to remember everything about her—there’s no way you can—but make an effort to remember the little things.
Ask her about the small details in life, like how she likes her coffee, what kind of food she likes to eat, or what she thinks about a particular TV show or movie.
If you have these details in your mind at the end of a conversation with her, you’ll be able to hold on to them and use them later when you’re alone together.
When you remember a small thing about her, show that you put effort into remembering the little things about her and aren’t just using her for sex or for your purposes.
The more you do this, the more she will realize that having you in her life is what she needs right now and for the long run.
3) Attract her with your confidence
Confidence is an attractive quality for women. Women want to feel special and wanted; if you have confidence, it will make her feel like you see her as someone who’s special to you.
If she feels like you think she’s special, she’ll naturally want to be with you more often. And while confidence isn’t always a quality that comes naturally, it is one that can be built over time if you practice it more often.
Actually, a number of my male friends learned this from relationship expert Kate Spring.
As Kate taught them by watching this excellent free video, confidence is like a muscle that can be flexed and worked out on a regular basis. I was surprised how some of them who I know are totally shy around women, finally mustered the confidence and courage to date!
As you practice the techniques she’ll describe, you’ll be able to make your girl feel special in different ways as you get more confident.
And through this, you’ll be able to build something she can’t help but fall in love with.
4) Catch her off guard
She might think she knows you or be sure that you like her, but catch her off guard with a compliment.
Or, you can also surprise her with a call, ask her for a late-night snack, or just remember her favorite color and stop by with some flowers.
You don’t have to do anything big to make your girl feel special.
Something small like remembering the details of her life or knowing her well enough to compliment her when it really counts can show her that you’ve been thinking about her and taking care of things behind the scenes.
This will show her that you see things in her that she doesn’t see in herself and that you want to share them with her.
Catching a girl off guard will also make it seem like she can never predict what you’re going to do next – so it sounds like it’ll always be fun when the two of you are together.
5) Don’t be a clown – keep it real
Don’t waste your time on little jokes that get you noticed in class or at work.
It is acceptable to have a good time occasionally as that’s what living is about but make it clear when you’re joking and when you’re serious.
If she thinks you’re always joking around with her, she’ll lose respect for you and find it hard to trust your words the next time you make a serious statement. Keep it real with her and always let her know where you stand.
You don’t need to tell her how you feel about the two of you, but make it clear when she says something that might be a little snide or critical about your situation that she shouldn’t act this way.
If you want to show her how much she can depend on you, try to keep it real, and don’t play games with your words.
6) Take charge
Women are naturally attracted to guys who take the lead and take control of situations.
If you’re the person who leads, you’ll make her feel safe and secure as she feels like you know what she needs better than she does. She’ll begin to see you as a leader in your relationship, which is something she needs a lot of in her life.
This doesn’t mean you need to decide everything in your relationship; however, you can make decisions and blow her mind. Whatever it is you want to do together, tell her what it is and ask for her input on how she can help you achieve this. If she has questions or feels unsure about something, let her know that it’s okay to ask for help.
When she feels like she’s able to ask you for a favor, she’ll know that she can count on you and that you won’t let her down.
Just make sure that if you do ask her, it doesn’t come off as pushy or like she’s trying to get out of having to take care of things on her own.
7) Be more than an ordinary guy
Women want to be with men who are more than just ordinary guys.
They want to get to know their guy better and ask them what their interests are and what they like to do.
This is a great way to see if they’re the kind of guy who compliments her well and if they have qualities that she finds attractive that aren’t really on her radar yet. If you want to show her that you’re the guy for her, show her that you have interests and hobbies of your own.
The more she gets to know about these interests, the more she will realize that you’re the kind of guy she needs in her life.
8) Show some vulnerability
Girls always tell me that they want to be with a guy who’s sensitive and sensitive to their needs.
And while this is true, it might not mean that she wants you to share your feelings with her every day or even tell her how you feel about her yet.
But doing things for a girl shows you’re thoughtful and good at picking up what she needs, so it’s still important that you can do things for a girl. Women love guys who do things for them and show that they want to help them out.
So instead of sitting around waiting for her to ask you for something, take the initiative and do things for her even when she doesn’t think she needs it.
What this does is show her that you think about her constantly, not just when you need something from her and that you want to be there for her through thick and thin.
9) Create memories that last
While it’s great to spend time with a girl and develop a relationship with her, you can also create some really fun memories for the two of you and the both of you to look back on.
These should be things that help her remember how special she is to you and what kind of guy you are. And it doesn’t have to be anything overly expensive or overly crazy.
You can go on a weekend camping trip with her and her friends, go to the theater, or just take a stroll through the park as it sets the stage for great memories that you’ll both look back on later.
These memories will give her reassurance that you really like hanging out with her even if it doesn’t seem like there’s anything too exciting about it at the time.
10) Be attentive
If you want to make her realize that she needs you in her life, you need to be attentive to her.
This means that you need to make her feel special every day, listen to what she has going on in her life, and generally talk to her whenever you can.
This will do two things: the first is that it’ll keep the two of you connected and see how well the two of you get along. It’ll also show her that you really care about how she’s doing in all aspects of her life and that you want to know what’s going on in it.
This will make her feel safe and secure in any situation and will make her want to come back to you again. Just this small gesture can change everything in your relationship.
Take these tips and start applying them to your life.
You’ll be amazed at how easy it is to create a relationship with a girl that makes your life better.
And when you keep it real and pay attention to what a girl needs, she’ll see that you’re a man who’s worth needing around.
But if you’re still not sure that you can get any girl you want because of your lack of experience or self-esteem, Kate Spring is here to help you.
She’s the woman who helped a friend of mine get his ex-girlfriend back and has helped thousands of men get the girls they’ve always wanted.
This will be your chance to make this girl want and need you.
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