9 steps to make her horny and sexually obsessed with you

Would you like to know how to make a woman horny and sexually obsessed with you?

While there are many ways to turn her on and make her think about you sexually, I’ll share 9 steps that never fail.

Here’s what you need to do:

1) Make her feel desired

The first thing you should know about women, in general, is that simply seeing a sexy naked body doesn’t get them aroused.

I’m not saying that doesn’t ever happen, but what they need is to also feel something – such as a man’s desire for them.

To make a woman feel desired, you should:

• Pay her compliments about her body and attitude;
• Tell her what’s on your mind when you see her;
• Tell her what turns you on about her;
• Mention the effect she has on you;
• Tell her how much you want her sexually;
• Show her your lust.

By doing so constantly, you maintain her interest and fulfill her need to feel desired.

2) Ask her what she likes in bed

Listen, guys hardly ever ask women what they like in bed. They are more focused on their wants and needs. 

Or, they simply treat different women in the same way, not considering the fact that they may have different preferences in bed.

But you don’t have to be like that. Ask her what she likes, what she doesn’t like, and what she’d like to try.

These are all important questions if you want to find out how to really please her. 

You see, after mastering the art of getting her horny, you’ll have to also figure out how to satisfy her in order to keep her sexually obsessed with you. 

And the best part? 

Talking about sex is something that most couples are not good at. If you break the ice early, you two have better chances to openly communicate about your sex life in the future.

3) Make sure you’re always clean and smell good

Want to know another secret to make her sexually obsessed with you?

It’s about being clean and always smelling good. 

You should never neglect your hygiene. That’s mandatory.

Regardless of how dirty a woman’s mind is, she might not be able to do certain erotic things to you because of factors like your hygiene and smell.

So, invest in a good deodorant, wash daily, get a good haircut, and so on.

Although you might have heard of pheromones and sexual compatibility, you shouldn’t count on them. A fresh, masculine smell always beats the smell of sweat, regardless of how pleasant it may or may not be.

4) Buy her sexy lingerie

Women love to be spoiled by men. There’s no doubt about that. 

And buying her sexy lingerie is one way of showing her that you care, plus it will make your sex life better. 

Manage to find out what lingerie she thinks makes her look hot and buy it for her (keep the receipt just in case you don’t get her size right).

In this way, she will be able to feel attractive even if she previously wasn’t in a sexy mood.

What’s more, seeing you turned on by her looks will, in turn, also make her horny.

Although they may not admit it, open-minded women want to try sexy lingerie and pose for their partners. 

5) Don’t be afraid to touch her

Would you like to make her horny? Then touch her!

As you probably know, women don’t really have an on and off button when it comes to their arousal, as many men do.

The solution? Touch her all over!

Caress her skin softly, play with her hair, and touch her neck and waist firmly. Don’t be too soft or too harsh either. Or, alternate between both.

And – unless she specifically asks you not to – touch her in the most intimate body areas. Explore her body; don’t just rush to the main parts. 

Does this sound like romantic foreplay to you? If so, you got it all wrong!

The main idea here is to discover how she reacts to you and to the different things you’re doing to her.

It’s a great opportunity to find out what really gets her going. Who knows, maybe you’ll end up doing something surprising; something that she has no idea she likes.

6) Build up sexual tension between the two of you

Here’s another way to make her horny and sexually obsessed with you: build up sexual tension.

Use your charming style, great smell, masculine attitude, sexual cues, and other aces that you might have up your sleeve to build up sexual tension.

For example, while you’re out, having dinner, you could seductively share with her what you’ll do to her later on. 

Or, you could go dancing and move your bodies to arouse each other. Touch each other, and kiss, but don’t leave early to build even more sexual tension.

There are also countless sex games that you could play to build up tension. 

The important part is to play with her, tease her, and make her really horny. Take her to the point where she can’t take it any longer.

7) Share your fantasies with her 

Did you know that a good erotic story can make women horny, too?

With this in mind, the next step you could take to make her horny is to talk about your fantasies with her. 

This will not only show her that you’re willing to open up to her – which is a real turn-on for many women – but the story itself might also arouse her.

When you talk about your fantasies, make sure to include a lot of details, not to shorten the story. And, as you’re telling her, you could also start to kiss her and caress her. 

But, make sure to leave your weirdest fantasies out, for starters. You don’t want to scare her, do you?

For example, most women aren’t into having group sex – so you might want to avoid that until you get her hooked on you. 

8) Go down on her like no other

If you really want to make her horny and sexually obsessed with you, don’t underestimate the power of going down on her!

• Devour her lady bits like no other man. 
• Ask her for instructions.
• Do it like you really mean it.

All of these will drive her crazy and keep her wanting more. 

She will unconsciously associate the pleasure you make her feel with you. 

In other words, she will become sexually obsessed with you. 

Here’s another thing to consider: 

Even if she says she isn’t too much into getting licked, you should try to convince her. Giving you a chance might be the best thing that could happen to her – if you do it right.

Why is that?

Many women think they don’t enjoy receiving oral sex because they simply haven’t tried it with the right guy. Not many men are truly into satisfying their female partners orally.

The truth is, most of them don’t know what they’re doing. So, in case you’re clueless too, make sure to research the topic and try the tips as soon as possible!

9) Set boundaries and make her feel safe

The last step you should take to make her horny and truly sexually obsessed with you is to set boundaries and make sure that she feels safe.

You see, setting boundaries is especially important when it comes to sex because it makes her feel safe.

And feeling safe is the main ingredient in a fulfilling sexual relationship. 

Why is that? 

When a woman feels safe, she is more likely to open up and fully express her sexuality with you. In addition to that, women who feel safe also tend to be more sexually adventurous. 

But setting boundaries isn’t just about respecting a woman’s limits and protecting her from being pressured. 

Setting boundaries is also about making sure she feels safe in your presence because she knows that you’ll never push her limits. 

What else?

Setting boundaries is a way to make yourself stand out from the average man, who is so desperate for sex that he’ll do anything and everything in order to get laid. 

How do you tell if she is horny?

Well, there are a few tell-tale signs that can give her away. 

Here are some of them:

1) Her pupils will dilate

When she is turned on, her pupils will dilate, which means that her eyes will look bigger than usual.

This is a clear sign that she is aroused and wants you badly.

2) She will be more vocal

When a woman is turned on, she will talk more and have many different types of reactions when you are around her.  

She may giggle, laugh, and ask flirty questions more often. 

3) She will hold eye contact with you for longer periods of time

Want to know how else can you tell if she’s horny?

It’s simple! She will tend to look into your eyes for longer periods of time. And if she’s flirting with you, she’ll be holding your gaze even longer than that.

4) She will stare at your body 

Instead of paying attention to you, her eyes will begin to wander around your body. 

She might take a good look at your arms, chest, or even look lower than usual – if you know what I mean.

5) She will blush

Most women also blush when they’re horny. 

So, if you notice this when you’re with her, it can only mean one thing: she wants you!

6) Her breathing will speed up

Another thing you can tell if a woman is horny is by observing her breathing.  

When they’re turned on, most women will breathe faster than usual.

7)  She will initiate closer contact

Did you make her horny? If you did, you’ll know! 

An aroused woman will feel more confident approaching you, so she will. She will initiate closer contact. 

These are all signs of her attraction to you and her sexual interest.

Make sure that you pay attention to these signs the next time you are around a woman because they will tell you if she is truly sexually attracted to you.

Final thoughts

By now you should have a pretty good idea about how to make her horny and sexually obsessed with you. 

What next?

Take these steps one by one to make sure that you get the desired results. All of them are equally important, so make sure not to skip any of them.

Sooner rather than later you will get her hooked on you and you’ll be the main character in her sexual fantasies from then on.