Are you someone who finds it difficult to attract men?
If yes, then we feel your pain! Finding a man and keeping him around is not an easy task.
However, there are some secrets that will make any man addicted to you!
Are you curious? Then keep reading to find out how to make a man want you bad!
1) Be the best version of yourself
My first and most important tip: Don’t try to be someone you’re not.
Instead, be the best version of yourself.
It’s much easier to find love when you are content with yourself.
There will be no need to change yourself to fit into a relationship.
Instead, you can be yourself and search for someone who loves you for who you are.
This will make it easier to find a man who wants you.
You don’t need to change anything about yourself. Instead, you need to be confident with who you are and be yourself around him.
Why is this so important?
Well, when you love yourself and feel good, you are instantly more attractive to other people!
You’ll find that men will be attracted to you much more than before.
But what does that even mean “be the best version of yourself”?
Well, it means that you need to be confident in yourself.
You need to love yourself and be proud of who you are. It’s amazing how easy it is to find a man when you are happy with yourself.
Find your passion in life, the thing that gives you purpose, and pursue it unapologetically.
You’ll find that when you pursue your passion, you become more attractive to men.
It’s like a magnet! You’ll be attracting men who are looking for someone who can make a difference in their life and that is exactly what you do!
Don’t be afraid to go after what you want in life.
Instead, be confident with what you have and go after it with full force.
When you have passion, it’s so much easier to find love and share your passions with other people. Share your passion with the world and let everyone know how much you love it!
And the best part?
When you focus on yourself and your passions, you will not feel so desperate to finally find a man.
It’s ironic but once you are free from the need of finding “the One”, he will want you even more!
You’re probably wondering, “Okay, but how do I get him to like me?”
Well, this is where the second step comes in.
2) Show him your value
If you are looking for a relationship, you need to show him what he will gain from being in a relationship with you. Show him how great you are, so he will want to be with you.
You need to know what you bring to the table.
Be confident with your strengths and know your weaknesses. Show him what you can offer, so he will want to be with you.
You can do this by being confident around him. Being around him will make him see your value.
If you are unsure about yourself, he will see that too.
He will see that you are not confident and not worth his time. Show him your worth so he will want to be with you.
You see if you don’t see your own value and feel like you don’t deserve him, what makes you think he will see you any differently?
The first step to all of this is beginning with yourself.
You need to take care of yourself, nurture yourself, and love yourself.
If you do not feel like you are worthy of love and being in a relationship, then you will never be able to attract the right kind of man.
And that is why it is important to show him your value.
If you don’t believe in yourself, no one else will either.
Now: you might be wondering, how can I show him my value? What do I bring to the table?
Some women feel like they need to be drop-dead gorgeous in order to make a man want them, but that’s not true.
Sure, physical attraction is what pulls a man in initially, but in the end, it comes down to something completely different.
Let’s start with the point of attraction. If the only thing you have to offer is your looks, then he will soon find someone who is also beautiful, because there are lots of beautiful women in this world.
Plus, your beauty is something that will shift and change as you age, so having that be the only thing that hooks a man is not smart.
Instead, focus on the other value you can provide for him:
- someone who listens to him
- someone who lets him be in his divine masculine
- a woman who supports his goals
- a woman who, with her creative flow state inspires him to take things easier sometimes
You get the picture.
You have so much to offer, and none of it has to be about your looks or your career.
Once you realize how amazing you are, you can show him.
You can show him with your confidence and your love.
But not just that, you can also show him that you are a woman who is unapologetically herself and that’s all that matters.
If you truly know yourself, then you will know what it is that makes the world go round, and if the world goes round because of you, then it will be because of the value you bring to it.
3) Bring out his inner hero
When you want a man to be obsessed with you, bring out his inner hero. Let me explain:
There’s a new theory in the relationship world that’s causing quite a stir – it’s called the hero instinct.
Coined by relationship expert James Bauer, this fascinating concept finally explains how men really think and feel in relationships.
And it’s something most women have never even heard of.
According to James Bauer, men don’t actually need a lot to feel content in their relationships. In fact, what they need has nothing to do with sex.
Men have certain innate drivers. And when a woman comes along and triggers them, it causes a powerful response.
The result is a man who loves harder, commits wholeheartedly, and truly dedicates himself to the relationship.
So, how can you trigger your man’s hero instinct?
The easiest thing to do is to watch this simple and genuine video by James Bauer.
The truth is, once you understand how the hero instinct works, there’s no telling what heights your relationship can reach.
So if you want to give your man what he truly wants from you, make sure to check out James Bauer’s excellent video. In it, he reveals the exact texts and phrases you can use straight away.
4) Don’t rush the process
The next step is to not rush the process of getting to know him.
Instead, enjoy the process of getting to know him.
You can’t force a relationship. Instead, you need to let it happen naturally.
There is no right time to get into a relationship. It all depends on the two of you, and the connection that you have.
There is no formula to get a man to like you, neither is there a formula to get him to commit to you.
Don’t rush the process and force it. Enjoy the process and be open to whatever happens.
Why will this get him addicted?
Well, a lot of women force the process and try to rush things because they are yearning for a man to commit to them.
The man will walk away because he is not ready to commit to you, and that’s a shame.
Sure, a high-quality man will soon realize that he wants to commit to you, but ruining it in the first few days by rushing the process?
That is not a good idea!
Instead, let him come to you.
If he notices that you are not rushed, he will be wondering why and will want to commit to you even faster.
That brings me to my next point:
5) Let him chase you
Men love it when a woman is hard to get. It makes him want you even more.
Instead of you trying to get him, let him chase you.
He will enjoy the chase and will want to be with you more.
You see, it is all about giving him a challenge. You challenging him will make him want you even more.
It’s in a man’s biology, even if it sounds a bit cliché.
He will see that you are not an easy catch and will want you even more.
You see, men are programmed to want to chase, win over, and provide, while women like to be chased, be courted, and receive.
So, use this knowledge to your advantage and drop into your core feminine energy.
You see, when a man gets the opportunity to chase you and work hard for you, he will want you all the more.
Many women make the mistake of making it too easy for a man out of fear that he will lose interest.
Ironically, the opposite is the case!
He will be even more attracted to you.
This is how you can know that he is truly in love with you:
He will chase you without question and without hesitation.
And, he will be there for you when needed.
6) Be confident, but not cocky
The difference is important here. Being confident doesn’t mean you are cocky.
A man wants to be with a woman who is confident and sure of herself.
He doesn’t want to be with a girl who is unsure of herself and second-guesses everything she does.
Be confident with yourself and your decisions so he will want to be with you.
This also means that you are confident in what you bring to the table and what you have to offer.
Be confident in the way you carry yourself and the way you talk to him.
Don’t overdo it though. You don’t have to brag about yourself or be overly confident and cocky.
Let him see your confidence and let it show in the way you carry yourself.
You see, when a woman (or anyone for that matter) is cocky, it actually achieves the opposite and makes them seem a bit insecure.
When you are cocky, you make it seem like you think that you are better than the other person or at least pretending to be.
You are actually trying to impress them by claiming to be superior because of your self-confidence.
Plus, if you want to be in your core feminine energy, then being cocky is not the way to go.
A truly feminine woman is sure of herself without showing off.
When a man sees a woman with that kind of confidence, he will want to be with her even more because he is seeing a woman who is confident and sure of herself.
7) Be spontaneous
Be spontaneous and let him see that you are not predictable.
Men love women who are spontaneous.
They want women who are unpredictable sometimes.
Being predictable will make him see that you are boring and not worth his time.
On the other hand, being spontaneous will show him that you are interesting and fun to be around.
You see, if we look at general tendencies, men tend to be more analytical, rational, rigid, and planning.
So, in order to find balance, they need a woman who brings flow, spontaneity, and fun into their lives.
He wants a woman who is true to herself and her feelings, thoughts, and emotions.
If you are being fake or pretending to be someone else, then he will see that you are not authentic or real.
Being authentic means being yourself with no pretenses of trying to be someone else.
When you are authentically spontaneous, he won’t be able to get enough of you, trust me!
Be spontaneous with your words and your actions and surprise him and do something unexpected.
I mentioned this fascinating concept earlier: the hero instinct. When a man’s inner hero is triggered, he’s more likely to want you really badly.
Just by knowing the right things to say to him, you’ll open a part of him that no woman has ever reached before.
And the best way to do so is by watching this free video by James Bauer. In it, he’ll reveal simple phrases and texts you can use to make your man truly yours.
8) Be mysterious and play hard to get
Be mysterious and play hard to get.
Make him work for it a little bit.
I mentioned this earlier already but don’t put yourself out there and make it easy for him to get you.
Instead, make him work for your attention and let him know that you are worth his time.
Make him know that he needs to earn your time and engagement.
Let him know that you are not an easy catch.
There is a quote that fits this point relatively well, it goes: Don’t play hard to get, be hard to get.
Think about it, if you want this man to be obsessed with you, you have to play your part.
Would a girl he’s obsessed with being really easy to get?
No, she would be almost impossible to get.
So instead of being easy, be hard to get.
Don’t let him know what he’s getting into immediately.
It will make him work a little bit harder for you and it’s going to make him want you all the more.
And the best part?
It will make him treat you like the queen you are!
9) Don’t be available at all times
Don’t be available at all times and let him know that you have your own life.
Let him know that you have your priorities and that he is not the only thing in your life.
Letting him know that your life isn’t revolving around him will make him want you more.
He will see that you are not an easy catch and that you are worth his time.
Of course, don’t be extremely unavailable, but let him know that you have things going on in your life.
Not only will this increase his sense of urgency, wanting to see you as soon as possible, but it will also create a sense of mystery.
What are you doing that is more important than being with him? Who are you with? Do you like him?
These questions will occupy this man’s mind until he is absolutely addicted to you, and it’s going to make him want you all the more.
Don’t put yourself out there!
Don’t put yourself out there and let him know that you are an easy catch.
Make him work for it a little bit, make him earn your time and engagement.
Do not be available at all times.
These means don’t change your plans with friends or family to accommodate him.
But, just a word of caution, if you have time and want to hang out with him, do it!
Just be selective and let him know that you have your own life!
10) Build sexual chemistry
Build sexual chemistry with him and let him know that you want him.
What makes a man crazy is when you show him that you want to be with him and that you want him sexually, but do not act on it right away.
This will make him want you even more and make him want to be with you.
You know, it’s pretty simple:
He will want you more because he will know that you want him.
You don’t have to be obvious about it. You can do it subtly and naturally.
- You can touch him while you are talking to him
- You can brush his arms while you are having a conversation with him
- You can also look at him in a way that lets him know you want him.
Let him know that you want him and build sexual chemistry with him.
Now: the most important part here is to let him wait a bit.
You see, men love the chase, we already talked about that.
So, if you tease him a little but then don’t give in to the temptation right away, it will drive him crazy and he will want to be with you.
Trust me, let him wait a little and then take it from there.
This is the best way to build sexual chemistry with a man.
It’s simple, it works and it will keep you from getting burned.
11) Use your body language
Use your body language in a way that lets him know that you want him. This will make any man want you and can make them addicted to you.
Lean towards him when you are having a conversation with him.
Let him see that you are open to him and that you are interested in what he has to say.
Use your body language in a way that shows him that you want to be with him.
Stand with an open posture and make eye contact with him.
Let him know that you want to be close to him.
You see, our body language says a lot more than our words ever could.
When you use your body language to seduce a man, it will drive him crazy, because his subconscious will be picking up on it.
12) Flirt with him
Okay, this one is pretty obvious, but have fun with this man and just flirt with him!
You can flirt with him while you are talking to him and it will drive him crazy.
Talk to him in a way that lets him know that you want to be with him, but keep it subtle.
Here, your body language will also come into play.
The more you flirt, the more he will want you badly, trust me!
Again, try to keep this natural, though, you don’t want to come off as desperate or easy.
13) Ask him questions
Everybody likes to talk about themselves, it’s just part of human nature.
So, when you take time and ask a man questions about himself, it will make him want you, even more, believe me!
He will notice that you are interested in him without having to insinuate it in any other way.
Don’t be the girl that is obsessed with herself and doesn’t care about him at all, that will only push him away.
Instead, be engaged with what he has to say and he will be wanting to worship at your feet, believe me!
14) Be yourself
One of the most important tips of this entire article is this one: be yourself.
I know, I gave you lots of ways on how to make a man obsessed with you, and all of that is fine, as long as they fit into your personality already.
Don’t pretend to be someone you’re not, just because one of the tips here said it could help you.
You see, you want a man to want you for you, not for some version of yourself you project to him, right?
If anything serious ever came from this relationship, he would get to know the real you eventually anyway, right?
And if that is not someone he would be in love with, better spare yourself the heartache by being yourself from the get-go.
When a man wants a woman, he will often want her badly regardless, these tips here will only enhance the feelings he already has.
So, go ahead and be yourself and make this relationship count.
He is going to fall in love with you eventually, trust me.
The more you get to know him, the more he will love you.
Finding a man and keeping him around is not an easy task.
However, there are some secrets that will make any man addicted to you!
Remember to stay yourself, whatever you do and that if a man doesn’t want you badly, that’s on him.
You have so much to offer, you only have to see it for yourself!
Once you do, every man you meet will see it, too, believe me!
And if you still struggle with making a man want you badly?
I touched on the hero instinct earlier – it’s the perfect remedy for the situation you’re facing.
Because once a man’s hero instinct is triggered, he’ll only have eyes for you. You’ll reach a part of him that no woman has ever managed to reach before.
And in return, he’ll be compelled to commit to you and love you like he’s never loved another woman.
So if you’re ready to take that plunge and reach new heights in your relationship, make sure to check out relationship expert James Bauer’s invaluable advice.
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