There’s something to be said about those uninterested men.
You know, the ones that don’t give you an inch of even if you are crawling up their feet trying to get any attention from him.
How frustrating and exhausting can it get?
Well, I know what I’m talking about, I was in the same boat a few months ago and seriously didn’t know what to do.
The good news? I figured it out! I figured out the secret formula to make a guy who’s not interested, interested!
It honestly felt like magic, as soon as I implemented these things – boom!
1) Look your best
As cliche as it sounds, guys are visual creatures.
If you look your best, you’re going to get his attention, and it will be a lot easier to get him interested.
So, don’t be the girl who doesn’t put any effort into her style, she doesn’t look her best, and she looks unkempt.
Instead, be the girl who knows how to dress up, knows how to do her hair, and knows what kind of makeup will complement her skin tone.
Now: I’m not saying you need to turn into glamor girl 3000 and go all out, when in reality, you prefer a more natural, laid-back look.
Honestly, there are so many ways in which you can look good, and it’s important to find the right one for you, personally.
Not for this guy, but because when you feel like you look good, you’ll also feel confident.
So – whether that means that you spend more time on your hair and makeup, or whether you simply like to invest in good skin care that makes your natural skin and makeup-less face glow, do what fits you.
And as for looks, you know those looks in which you just feel a bit… worn down? Try to drop those and swap them for things that genuinely make you feel good about yourself!
Believe me, the simple act of carrying yourself a bit differently due to this change will make a man swoon over you!
2) Show confidence
If there’s one thing that turns boys on, it’s confidence.
They want to be with a girl who knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to go after it.
If you aren’t sure if he’s interested in you, show confidence.
You can smile at him or be friendly, but don’t act too interested. You don’t want to come across as desperate or needy. Let him know you’re interested in him, but don’t be too obvious about it.
Confidence is attractive, and he’ll want to get to know you more if you’re not too shy. Being confident also means taking a stance for your opinions and simply not backing down.
He’ll like that you’re confident, but he’ll also like that you know what you want and aren’t afraid to go after it.
Confidence will be different for everyone, but most importantly, it means knowing your worth and therefore not accepting any less than you deserve.
3) Be funny
This one might be a bit tricky. You shouldn’t try to be funny if you aren’t naturally funny.
The only way to be funny is if it comes naturally because you can’t force it.
But, there are ways to fall into this category.
You’ll have to be charming and witty while flirting with him. Flirting with a guy is a fun way to get his attention, but it isn’t as serious as dating.
It is a good way to get to know him as friend and to make him like you. You might have to flirt with him a few times before he really notices you.
You see, if you are a funny gal, then you should definitely flaunt that. The thing is, guys love it when a girl can make them laugh.
They like the sense of humor because it is a sign of intelligence.
Smart girls are a turn-on, and they are definitely worth keeping around. If you can make him laugh and keep him laughing, then he will definitely be interested in you.
And the best part?
You’ll probably have a really good time, too!
4) Touch him “accidentally”
Not many people know that the first sign of attraction is actually touching.
In fact, it’s the first thing you do when you’re falling for someone.
It’s that light touch on the arm, the leg, the knee during a conversation.
You can do the same thing. If you’re talking to him, and you want to show him that you’re interested, try to find a way to touch him accidentally.
Don’t do it too much, though, or he’ll think you’re clingy or worst case, creepy.
You can also make sure to end your sentences with a light touch of his arm, hand, or knee while you’re talking to him.
This gesture suggests that you’re interested and shows him that you’re enjoying yourself.
Trust me, a guy who’s not interested will be intrigued very quickly when you are confident enough to touch him.
So, don’t be afraid to touch him.
And moreover, some guys are simply a little blind and oblivious – he might not even realize you like him like that!
So, when you lightly touch him, you will send all the right messages, letting him know that you are interested in him!
5) Make him feel good about himself
This one is a tricky one, but it’s also a guaranteed way to make a guy interested in you.
Guys love it when girls go out of their way to make them feel good about themselves, but unfortunately, not many girls go out of their way to do this.
You might think, “this is way too easy, I’m gonna get bored with it,” but it’s something you can do daily.
You don’t have to do anything crazy, just something nice to make him feel good about himself.
It could be anything from telling him he did a good job on something to giving him a genuine compliment, not in a flirtatious way.
You’d be surprised how many guys actually have pretty low self-esteem.
So, if you can be the girl who makes him feel good about himself, then he will definitely be interested in you.
And it won’t even have to be that hard. You just have to make him feel like he’s worth it!
You see, a guy will love a girl who can make him feel like a man.
6) Ask him for help
This is one of the best ways to make a guy interested in you without being too obvious about it.
It also shows him that you’re not afraid to ask for help and that you’re confident enough to know when you need it.
If you need help with something and he’s nearby, don’t be afraid to ask him for help. He will be flattered that you trust him enough to ask for his help.
Once you’ve asked him for help once or twice, it’s easy to make it a normal part of your interactions with him.
Plus, you get the added bonus of getting to spend more time with him!
I swear this is some kind of man-cheat code. For some reason, guys love it when they get a chance to help a woman. It makes them feel like they’re needed and wanted.
So, if you want to make a guy interested in you, don’t be afraid to ask for his help with something!
Every single time I’ve done this in the past, it has worked like a charm.
7) Talk about your hobbies and passions
Guys enjoy talking about themselves, but sometimes, girls make the mistake of only focusing on the guy.
If you really want to make him interested in you, try to talk more about your passions and hobbies.
The thing is, the reason he is not interested in you could be that he simply doesn’t know the depths of your mind.
He might think of you as just another basic girl who doesn’t have much going on in her life.
But if you can show him that you’re passionate about something and that you really care about it, then he will definitely be interested in you.
It makes him feel like he’s getting to know a whole new side of you and he will definitely be interested in that.
Plus, guys love it when a woman is really passionate about something and her eyes light up while she’s talking about it.
I promise, only good things can come out of this.
Think about it: either he loves what you have to say and you have an amazing time together, or he is not interested in your passions and hobbies, and you’ll know you dodged a bullet!
Dating is not just about getting someone else to like you – it’s about seeing who you could potentially spend your life with, don’t forget that!
8) Don’t shy away from eye contact
This one is important if you’re hoping to make a guy interested in you.
Eye contact shows confidence, and it shows that you’re interested in what he has to say. It also shows that you’re interested in him and not just in his friend group.
If you’re not used to making eye contact, try to practice it in the mirror or with a friend. It might feel a bit forced at first, but it’s good practice for when you’re around him.
One tip that has changed my entire dating game?
Focus on one of his eyes when you look at him.
If you try to look at both eyes, your eyes will dart back and forth, which makes you look nervous.
When you focus on one eye to look at, your stare will be intense, which can be really hot!
9) Stay off your phone when you’re with him
If you’re spending time with him, there’s no reason why you need to be on your phone.
If you’re bored, try to have a genuine conversation with him. Don’t ruin it by being on your phone.
If you don’t know what to talk about, try asking him questions.
You could ask him about his passions, his dreams, his goals, or what he likes to do for fun.
Or, you could also try to find common ground between the two of you. Find out what his favorite TV show is or what websites he likes to visit.
You see, a guy will be even more uninterested in you if you spend your whole time with him on your phone.
He will start to think that you don’t care about him and you’re only interested in him for his looks or his body.
If you want to make a guy interested in you, it is important that you put your phone away and pay attention to him!
This will make him feel like you are actually present in the moment and that you’re interested in him.
10) Wear something flattering and timeless
You don’t want to wear something too flashy or too out of the ordinary.
You want to wear something that is flattering and timeless. It might seem a bit cliche, but guys like girls who dress up, but they don’t like girls who dress up in a way that screams “look at me!”
And, of course, don’t forget to wear something that makes you feel good. It doesn’t matter what you wear if you don’t feel good in it!
Now, if your personal style is flashy and out there, by all means, stick to that. What I forgot to mention is that most importantly, like seriously the most important part of it all, is wearing something you love and feel comfortable in.
If a guy doesn’t like your style and that’s a reason for him not to be with you, then he’s not the right guy for you, anyways.
You want someone who loves all of you, so really wear whatever you love, and don’t let him intimate you.
11) Show him that you’re a catch
If you really want to make a guy interested in you, show him that you’re a catch.
Don’t be desperate and clingy, but show him that you’re confident, that you like yourself, and that you’re a good person.
Let him know that you’re interested in him, but don’t be too pushy about it. Instead, let him know that you’re a catch, and you’re waiting for him to catch you.
You see, a woman who is a catch has certain qualities.
She is confident, driven, sweet, caring, and she knows what she wants.
She doesn’t need a man to make her happy, but if she finds a man who makes her happy, then she will be with him.
She is an amazing person who deserves to be treated well by the right guy.
When she loves someone, she is loyal. She takes care of herself because she loves herself.
When you portray these qualities, you will show him that you’re a catch and he’ll be interested in a heartbeat.
12) Be supportive of him
Guys love it when girls support them, especially when it comes to their passions.
If he’s playing in a basketball game, go and cheer him on. If he’s doing a presentation at school, go to his classroom and support him.
If he’s working on a project, offer to help him. If he’s getting bullied, stand up for him.
These things show him that you’re a good person and that you’re interested in what he has to say. It also shows him that you like him for more than his looks.
You see, ultimately guys are looking for a woman to be by their side who will have their back, even when things get tough.
If he knows that you’re there for him, then he’ll be there for you too.
When you support him, he will be grateful and see you through very different eyes.
13) Compliment him
Give him compliments, but don’t go overboard. If you want to make a guy interested in you, try complimenting him.
You’d be surprised how few compliments guys get on a daily basis, especially from girls.
A man loves to be complimented, as it makes him feel good about himself. It also makes him feel like you really like him for more than his looks.
When he gets a compliment from you, he’ll remember it forever and think of you differently.
However, don’t overdo it with the compliments. Guys can tell when a girl is fake and they won’t trust her.
If you want to make a guy interested in you, give him genuine compliments that come from your heart.
He’ll love the fact that you notice his good qualities and will love being around you even more because of it.
14) Ask him about his interests
When it comes to making a guy interested in you, ask him about his passions and interests and then listen to what he has to say.
When a guy talks about something that he loves, it’s very attractive to women.
A man who is passionate about something will be attractive to a woman because he’ll show her that he’s not playing the field and that he knows what he wants in life.
If you want to make a guy interested in you, ask him about his passions and then listen intently as he tells you about them.
You’ll show him that you’re interested in him for more than his looks and will make him think of you differently than other girls.
You see, he will feel free with you and like he can be himself.
You got this!
No matter what you do, you are an amazing woman who deserves an amazing partner.
If you know this is true at the bottom of your heart, you can make any man interested in you, simply because of your self-esteem.
Trust me, if you follow these tips, any guy will want to be with you, and if they don’t, you’ve really dodged a bullet!
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