Sometimes, it’s hard to know if you’re the only guy she’s talking to.
It’s really tough to read her mind and find out what she wants. Luckily, there are a few signs that can help you decide for sure if this relationship is worth pursuing or letting go of altogether.
Keep reading! Here are 15 signs that you’re the only guy she’s talking to.
1) Her texts and calls are quite frequent
The first sign that you’re the only guy she’s interested in is the fact that she texts and calls you quite often.
You will notice that there are no times when she doesn’t initiate contact with you. She could be calling you first thing in the morning, at noon, in the evening, and before bed, too. And if it is your guy who is calling or texting first, she’ll most likely respond within minutes.
Pay attention to her words, too. She could call you her “special guy” or tell you that she loves being able to talk to you about anything and everything. All of these things are signs that she has strong feelings and a connection with you.
This might be the relationship she’s been looking for, even though she didn’t know it when she first met you. And if this is the case, it’s important to continue talking to her so that real relationship blossoms between the two of you and those feelings never change or go away.
2) She’s making excuses to stay close to you
Have you ever noticed her trying to stay close to your place or work?
She could be leaving her home in a rush just to catch a ride with you. Or she could be leaving the office before everyone else and getting home ahead of the rest of the crowd.
If it’s something like that, chances are that there’s something more going on than just a casual friendship between you and her.
You can test her by avoiding her calls and refusing to see her for a few days. If she keeps trying to stay close to you, it means that she’s interested in you as well. However, if she lets go without any issues, then she’s just your friend – nothing more.
3) She can’t get enough of listening to you
Another sign that shows you’re the only guy she’s talking to is when she can’t get enough of listening to you.
Most girls have friends and family members who are important to them. But if this is the case, she’ll only talk when she really needs someone to talk with, like when she has a problem or feels stuck in a rut because of some issue.
And if that’s the case, chances are that you’re the only guy who knows what’s going on in her head and life.
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4) You guys are both on the same page about commitment
Trust me, this is one of the biggest signs that you’re the only guy she’s talking to.
If she knows what kind of commitment you want in your relationship, then chances are that she’s looking for the same thing, whether it is an exclusive relationship or marriage. And if this is the case, she’s put a lot of thought into it.
There’s a reason why women think deeply about these things before making any decisions. And if she had thought about them, it’s likely that she would want an exclusive relationship.
But there’s another way to figure out whether she’s looking for an exclusive relationship or marriage. Paying attention to what she says about it could help you figure out her feelings and intentions.
For example, if she tells you that she’s looking for something serious, then it’s likely that she wants to be committed to you.
There are also signs that are a bit more obvious. For example, if you guys have started spending time with each other’s families, then it’s likely that she wants to be committed to you long-term.
5) Her social media is directed at you
I know it’s a bit of a cliché, but if you pay attention to the kind of information that she shares on social media, then it’s likely that you’re the only guy she’s talking to.
For example, if you see posts about the TV shows that you two both enjoy or articles that you two like to read, then it’s obvious that she’s trying to show her friends and family how close the two of you are.
But wait, there’s more!
There are also hidden messages and symbols on her social media accounts that you can analyze to decide whether she’s interested in you or not.
For example, she might post pictures of herself and her friends. She might also share stories about what she does with her friends, like going to the movies, shopping, or doing other activities.
But when you look at them more closely, you’ll see that the events that she goes to are usually centered around something that you two have done together.
Don’t believe me? Just keep studying what she shares and posts on social media and it will become clear whether or not she’s interested in you.
6) She accepts your plans right away
You send her a text that says, “Hey, girl. How about we do something fun this weekend?” And within a few minutes, she replies back to you with “Sounds good. What are you thinking?”
No matter how busy she is, if she shows that she’s willing to see you or go out with you whenever you want to hang out, then it’s proof that there’s something more going on between the two of you.
And this also shows that you’re the only guy she’s talking to.
7) She tries very hard to impress you
One of the things that show whether you are the only guy that she’s talking to is when she tries very hard to impress you in some way.
This is likely to happen as soon as you two start dating.
She can do it in different ways:
- She can give you some kind of special gift, especially if it’s something that she doesn’t normally do for her friends.
- She could start dressing up to look prettier than normal, even if it’s just a casual date or going out with you.
- She could be extra nice and friendly towards you during your interactions.
If she does these things, it means she’s trying hard to connect with you and show that she cares about your opinion.
8) She’s not afraid to get emotional and share her feelings with you
Yes, women do get emotional. And no, there’s nothing wrong with it.
It sounds weird, but it’s a fact that most women tend to avoid having serious and heart-to-heart conversations with guys that they’re not interested in.
So take this sign as a positive sign that she’s the only one talking to you.
When she has deeper conversations with you, this shows that she’s comfortable telling you her thoughts and feelings. And if she feels comfortable, there’s a much bigger chance that she’s feeling as close to you as she can be.
9) She displays jealousy when another girl texts or calls you
Ever heard of the saying, “Jealousy is a sign of love”? It’s true!
When a woman gets jealous, it means she feels connected to you in some way and doesn’t want anyone else to have access to you. She’s also letting you know that she doesn’t want you talking to other women.
So if she gets jealous when another girl texts or calls you, then it’s likely that she’s interested in you and doesn’t want anyone else to steal you away.
However, if you’re still not sure whether or not this is true, then it’s probably a good idea to turn your phone off or ignore her for a few hours if she gets really jealous. Then see how long she stays upset with you.
10) She introduces you to her friends and family
Trust me, most women don’t bring every guy that they date around their friends and family.
So if she does this, then it’s proof that you’re the one that she wants to show off to the people who mean the most to her. And if this is the case, then there’s a big chance that you’re the only guy she’s talking to.
But be careful:
If she’s introducing you to her friends and family but only mentions the three of you being friends or being in a “casual relationship”, then it might indicate that she doesn’t want a commitment from you.
11) She likes giving you attention
Attention is a big thing for women and girls. And if she spends time talking to you and focusing on your needs, it’s proof that you’re the only one she’s interested in.
But here’s the catch:
If she draws a lot of attention to herself, then this is more likely to be her attempt to show off her beauty and grab your attention. On the other hand, if she gives you her full attention and puts herself aside, this shows that she’s truly interested in spending time with you.
12) She’s not too busy for you
As I mentioned earlier, most women aren’t interested in relationships that are only focused on sex. They want to be attached to someone and have a deep connection with them.
But if she’s not too busy for you, then this means that she’s available and willing to get in touch with you whenever you need her. It also shows that she wants to spend time with you, which shows the depth of her feelings for you.
Here are some tips to make her feel like you’re the only one in her life:
- Give her your full attention. Don’t be distracted by your phone or other things.
- Make plans for the weekend and do something exciting with her.
- Compliment her looks when you’re with her, but don’t overdo it. You don’t want to come across as a sleazeball who just wants to get laid because she’s attractive.
- Have real conversations with her and tell her about your feelings, fears, hopes, and dreams.
13) She shares her troubles with you but they’re not the same ones she tells others
Women tend to share their troubles and problems with their friends, but most of the time they don’t want to share with their closest ones.
So if she shares her troubles with you, then it’s proof that you’re the only one she can talk to and she doesn’t mind opening up to you.
However, if her worries are the same ones that she tells everyone else, then it might mean that she’s not comfortable telling you everything because you’re just a friend and a fling to her.
14) You have a nickname that only the two of you know
Giving someone a nickname is a special thing. It shows that you’re special to her and that she feels really close to you.
So if the two of you have something like this going on together, then it’s proof that she sees you as the one for her.
However, if she and her friends know what your nickname is, it might mean that you’re just a friend to her.
15) It’s always your decision or opinion that she asks for first
The last sign to show whether or not you’re the only guy she’s interested in is when you’re the one that she asks for opinions first.
She can ask her friends, family, or a total stranger. But if she wants to make sure that you’re the one she’s going to get advice from first, then it’s almost certain that you’re the one she’s interested in exclusively.
But here’s the thing:
It’s important to remember that this is NOT the only sign to show whether or not she’s the one for you.
There’s an 80% chance that she’s interested in you, but there’s still a 20% chance that she might just be your friend. So take everything into consideration and make sure that you’re not getting your hopes up too soon.
We’ve covered 15 signs that show you’re the only guy she’s talking to. These are all good signs and will tell you for sure that she’s interested in you. But don’t forget that there’s a 20% chance that she just sees you as a friend or an attractive fling.
So if you’re not 100% sure, then it’s a good idea to wait it out and give her some time to see if she will show you any other signs of interest.
But if you want to take things to the next level with this girl, you don’t need to play games or act like someone you aren’t.
In fact, there are a few simple techniques you can use that’ll change the way you approach women for good.
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