If you’re reading this, it means that you have a crush on someone and want to know if they’re thinking about you.
Whether they call you regularly or just send a quick message, there are some signs that your crush is thinking about you.
Read on to find out about the 14 undeniable signs your crush is thinking about you!
1) They call you all the time
Let’s jump right into it.
This one is a bit obvious, but if your crush is calling you all the time, duh, it means that they’re thinking of you!
To make a point – they’re not calling you randomly and they’re not bored.
They actually want to talk to you!
2) They text you all the time
This one goes hand in hand with the first one but it’s still worth mentioning.
If your crush is messaging you all the time, it means that they’re really thinking about you!
You see, some people are more comfortable calling, others prefer texting.
Either way, you can’t deny that your crush is thinking of you if they’re in touch so often.
3) They stare at you
I know what you’re thinking, but I don’t mean in a creepy way, I mean in a sweet way.
If the person you have a crush on stares at you often, it can only mean one thing:
They’re thinking about you.
They’re admiring your eyes, your smile, and paying close attention to what you are saying. To them, it’s as if you’re the only person in the room
4) They buy you things
If you meet up with your crush and they give you a gift bag and say, “I was in the bookshop yesterday and I saw this book which immediately made me think of you” or “I know you love Swiss chocolates so I got you some” – and it’s not even your birthday or anything – well, need I say more?
Your crush is definitely thinking about you and what’s more, they seem to have a little crush on you.
In a nutshell:
Their little gifts are their way of showing you that they like you and that you’re on their mind even when you’re not around.
5) They follow you on social media
What does it mean if your crush is following you on social media?
It means that they’re curious to know what you’re up to and to have a look at your life.
It means that they’d like to get to know you a little better.
If your crush has been following you on social media for a while, it’s obvious that they’re thinking about you.
6) They like your social media posts
And if in addition to following you on social media your crush likes your social media posts and comments on them, then you’re definitely on their mind.
Turns out that when someone likes you it’s only natural that they will gravitate towards your posts.
It’s a way for them to keep tabs on you and stay in touch.
7) They remember the small stuff
Maybe during a conversation a few months ago you mentioned that your birthday was on 12th November… and yup, you guessed it, they surprise you with a cake on your birthday.
Or it could be something else. Maybe they’ll remember how you like your coffee or that you’re allergic to pollen or something that you didn’t expect them to notice, let alone remember.
Clearly, you’re on their mind.
And what’s more, they like you. Why else would they remember such things?
8) They notice you
Here’s the deal:
If your crush compliments you on your new hairstyle or tells you something like “I love your T-shirt, I’m a big Nirvana fan too!” it’s a sign that they’re paying close attention to you.
They notice the little things because they’re interested in you.
9) They tell you!
Sometimes your crush will just come out and tell you, “Hey I was just thinking about you.”
Maybe they saw a movie they thought you’d like or saw a funny meme that made them think of you, whatever the case, you’re undeniably on their mind, they told you so!
10) You dream about them
We often dream about people we think about; people we like or people miss.
But did you know that you can also dream about someone when they’re thinking about you?
You see, dreams are a powerful tool. People that share a strong psychic connection are often able to communicate through dreams.
11) They’ve been talking to mutual friends about you
If your crush has been talking to mutual friends about you, it’s a good sign!
It means that they’re thinking about you when you’re not around.
Someone will say that they opened up a new Chinese restaurant for example and your crush will say that it’s great news because they know that you like Chinese food! Or when they’re all making plans to do something, your crush will make sure that they include you in their plans.
You’re not the only one with a crush.
12) You get hiccups
Here’s a weird one.
Did you know that in many cultures around the world they believe that when you get the hiccups it means someone is thinking about you?
So the next time you start to hiccup, consider that they may just be thinking about you!
13) They call you late at night when they want to talk to you
A lot of times, it’s hard to tell when someone is really interested in you. Sometimes they act like they don’t care and sometimes they seem really busy
So if your crush calls you late at night, it’s a good sign!
Maybe they’ve been thinking about you all afternoon and want to talk.
Maybe they’re just really excited about something and have waited all day to be able to share it with you.
In any case, it’s an undeniable sign that they’re thinking about you when they call you late at night to talk to you.
14) Synchronicities occur
Do you find yourself thinking about your crush only to have them call you that very moment?
Or maybe you’re walking around and your crush shows up in front of you? Weird, isn’t it?
Even though this sounds very far-fetched, it’s not! It happens all the time.
It’s what we call synchronicity.
How to tell your crush you like them
No one ever really knows how to tell their crush how they feel.
And once they do, who knows how they’ll react, it might cause a lot of heartache and stress.
I’ve put together this guide to help you out.
Here are 10 steps to help you tell your crush that you like them:
1) Come up with a strategy
The first step is to come up with a strategy.
It’s important to do this because it will help you plan and prepare for the situation.
Use the information that you have on your crush to help you decide how to tell them that you like them.
Consider whether they would be more comfortable if you told them in person or by text.
- Do they like romance or does it make them cringe?
- Are they shy or extroverted?
- Would they prefer it if you joked around a bit first?
Everyone’s different, so think about what they would like.
2) Be confident
Confidence is key when it comes to social interactions, and we all know how important it is to make eye contact and show that we care about the other person.
People are attracted to confidence, if you’re confident it shows that you know what you want and are not afraid to go after it.
The last thing you want to do is come off looking desperate.
3) Compliment them
This shouldn’t be difficult.
You like them, so tell them exactly what it is that you like about them.
Tell them how good they look, that you like their smile or sense of style. Tell them you think they have a great sense of humor and they make you laugh.
Be sure to let them know how they make you feel and how you enjoy being around them.
4) Be blunt
Sometimes people get so nervous thinking about how to say how they feel that they end up saying something completely wrong or awkward.
Avoid this by making sure that whatever you say is straight to the point without any unnecessary details or silly jokes in the conversation.
Sometimes it’s best to get it over with and have fun than to try and sweep it under the rug and end up feeling awkward about it later on.
5) Be sincere
Be genuine with your feelings and let the person know that you’re interested in them without being creepy about it.
Never tell someone that you like them if it isn’t the truth.
If you like them, then tell them. If you don’t, then don’t. It’s that simple.
6) Give them some hints
There are a few things you can do in order to help your crush get that you like them.
Some of these tips include writing them a letter, sending them a gift, or even just saying something nice about them on social media.
However, the best way to ensure that your crush gets the message is through conversation.
Talk to them about their day, their week, or anything that’s been on your mind.
This will let them know that you care and that you appreciate what they have in life.
7) Show you care
Talking is only half the battle.
Now that the person knows that you have a crush on them, they must know that you care about them as well.
It’s important to let them know how much you like them without making it awkward or appearing needy or over-the-top about it.
The last thing you want to do is come off as weird and make yourself look like a stalker.
In order to do this, just take the time to tell them things about yourself that are not related to your relationship with them at all.
What is most important here is to be truthful – make yourself sound good without telling lies.
8) Be polite and respectful
This one is pretty self-explanatory; being polite and respectful in interactions with others allows people to feel comfortable around you and puts everyone at ease (so no one feels awkward around each other).
And once someone feels more comfortable around you, they’re more likely to open up because they trust what they’re hearing from you.
So make sure to be polite and make your crush feel comfortable when you tell them how you feel. If you see that they start to feel awkward and uncomfortable, don’t insist on the subject and move on to something else. You can try again at another time.
9) Be yourself
This is the hardest thing to do when you’re trying to get a crush, but it’s absolutely necessary to do it if you want your crush to like you back.
When you’re being yourself, they will know that this is the real you and they will feel comfortable with that person as well.
And because of this, they will be more likely to like you back and pursue a relationship with you.
10) Be positive
Make sure that no matter what happens in your relationship with your crush, you are able to remain positive and hopeful.
Even if the person doesn’t like you back the same way, it’s important that you keep a positive attitude because despite everything, you can still be friends, and who knows, maybe one they will change their mind.
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