You’ve been in a separation state with your twin flame for a while now. Or maybe you’ve been getting into a cycle of separating, then reuniting, only to separate again.
Either way, you want it all to end so that you can finally proceed to the next stage of your twin flame relationship.
Well, the good news is that it’s not entirely out of your control.
Here are 10 no bullsh*t tips to finally end your twin flame separation
1) Meditate and introspect
I know you’re getting impatient but this is the first step to have a healthy reunion with your twin flame.
The twin flame separation phase is going to be stressful for everyone involved. The last thing you want is for that stress to get to you and keep you so focused on the chase that you forget what the true purpose of a twin flame separation phase is: Growth.
Think about the reasons why it happened, and what lessons you need to learn.
Were you too clingy, perhaps?
Did you neglect to speak your twin flame’s love language?
Did you keep on shouting at them for small things?
There can often be many different reasons leading to the separation, and identifying them is important for your personal growth. In fact, knowing is necessary if you want to move to the next phase of your twin flame relationship.
2) Stop forcing it
You know what they say about love happening when you’re not looking for it? Well, this is pretty much the same.
For your twin flame relationship to progress, you must learn to trust in the universe for guidance.
And that, in part, means that you shouldn’t be worrying left and right about being back together with your twin flame. Instead, you must learn to let go and focus on becoming the best version of you.
This doesn’t mean giving up on your twin flame, of course. Rather, it means you’re simply not trying to force being together with your twin flame when neither of you are ready for it yet.
So that means you’re not going to stalk your twin flame online, or pester them to go hang out with you. It also means you don’t get hung up thinking about “what-if” scenarios all day.
You can only be together if you’ve evolved separately. Go evolve instead of forcing a reunion.
3) Recenter yourself
Relationships in general have the very real potential to make you lose sight of yourself. You might change who you are as a person just to “conform” to what your partner likes, for example.
This happens in mundane relationships, but can be especially potent in twin flame relationships because of how energetic a twin flame dynamic is.
And sometimes, twin flame separations can happen because you’ve lost sight of yourself. You might feel so lost and overwhelmed that you would run, or your partner might not like what they’re seeing and flee.
Maybe you’ve always wanted blues, but because your twin flame loves metal, then you bend over backwards to listen to metal so you can bond with your twin.
Get in touch with the things you like without thinking about what your twin flame would think, and just be yourself.
4) Ask guidance from a gifted advisor
The signs above and below in this article will give you tips on how to get back together with your twin flame.
Even so, it can be very worthwhile to speak to a gifted person and get guidance from them. They can answer all sorts of personalized relationship questions.
Like, are they really your twin flame? Is it a good idea to be with them romantically or should you just be friends?
I recently spoke to someone from Psychic Source after going through a rough patch in my relationship. After being lost in my thoughts for so long, they gave me a unique insight into where my life was going, including who I was meant to be with.
I was actually blown away by how kind, compassionate and knowledgeable they were.
In a love reading, a gifted advisor can tell you everything you want to know about your twin flame relationship, and most importantly empower you to make the right decisions when it comes to love.
5) Try to resolve the problems that drove you apart
Knowledge doesn’t mean much when you don’t back it up with action. So you shouldn’t simply stop just because you figured out the reason why the two of you separated.
You should also try to address those issues.
If your twin flame left you because you were a bit too clingy, then perhaps you should try to find ways to be less clingy. If they left you because you kept thinking that they’re cheating on you, then you should try to sort out your trust issues.
Improve who you are as a person—especially the ones that caused you to drift apart— and eventually you and your twin flame will be in sync again. When that happens, the universe will bring you to each other again…well, at least, until another argument pulls you apart.
But you’re not simply supposed to let new arguments happen, of course.
If you truly did resolve your problems, then any arguments between you and your twin should be short-lived and barely worth noting.
6) Exercise forgiveness
There will be hurt with every twin flame separation.
Even if you acknowledge your part in your separation, a little part of you will resent your twin anyways. And that’s on top of the frustrations that might continue to linger between you and your twin flame.
Maybe you’ve always been frustrated at how your twin flame seems to always spend more time and attention on others than with you.
It’s easy to fall even deeper into resentment now that you’re apart. But that’s not what you want. You’re twin flames, and you want to be together again.
So instead of holding on to those many, many hurts of yours, you should instead try to forgive them for all the things they did wrong.
I mentioned earlier how a gifted advisor can give you unique insight as to where your life is heading, but they can also guide you in healing old wounds, especially those concerning your soulmate or twin flame.
Getting guidance from a gifted person will give you real clarity on the situation.
I know from experience how helpful it can be. When I was going through a similar problem to you, they gave me the guidance I sorely needed.
When you learn to forgive fully, that’s the time the universe will start working on your twin flame reunion.
7) Finish any unfinished business you have with others
Just because your twin flame is the person destiny has written for you doesn’t mean that everyone else in the world is suddenly irrelevant. Sometimes separations occur in part because you have unfinished business with other people.
Maybe you got into a relationship with someone before you met your twin flame, for example. Your relationship is complicated and is about to fall apart, but as far as everyone else is concerned, you’re still together.
Your twin flame might run away in fear that they’re getting in the way of your relationship.
Or maybe your twin flame stumbled into your life while you’re in the middle of a heated drama between you and your friends. Your twin flame might flee so that they don’t get caught in the drama.
In situations like these, resolving whatever unfinished business you might have is something you must do if you want to build a good relationship together with your twin flame.
8) Manifest a reunion with your twin flame
The unconscious is where we are most in touch with what it is we truly need. And as twin flames, you have a very strong spiritual connection that lets you feel and understand each other’s thoughts without you needing to be in direct contact.
Your thoughts and feelings travel through this spiritual bond between you and your twin flame all the time, and you can use this to your advantage by spending some time each day trying to send messages through this bond.
Close your eyes and imagine that your twin flame is right in front of you. Then try to imagine yourself telling them everything you want to say. Every feeling you wish they would understand, and every word you would wish to hear.
In one way or another, those feelings will reach your twin flame. Your soul will resonate with theirs, and they might find themselves thinking of you a lot.
9) Create a warm and open outlook—and let your twin know it
It might be tempting to throw your twin flame the cold shoulder every now and then, especially if your separation hurts especially badly. You might even be tempted to rant about them to your closest friends.
But that’s probably one of the worst things you can do for your twin flame relationship.
At best it will delay your reunion by a significant amount of time, and at worst it will ruin all chances of you coming together in this lifetime. After all, fate can only do so much—and we can choose to defy fate if we so desire.
What you want to do instead is to rise above temptations and try to show your twin flame warmth and openness whenever they come your way. Take every opportunity you can be with them as an opportunity to show them how much you appreciate them.
By making your twin flame feel welcome, any apprehensions or guilt they might have from being in separation with you is reduced, which means they’re more likely to want to return to your side again.
10) Reevaluate your expectations
Sometimes your own expectations for what a twin flame relationship can be the reason why you’ve been getting into separation phases with your twin.
You’re twin flames, and what that means is that you’re destined for each other and that your relationship will follow certain patterns. But it’s important to keep in mind that every relationship is different.
It would be a big mistake to measure your relationship with your twin flame based on other people’s relationships with their own twins.
Just accept your relationship with your twin flame as it is instead of trying to see if you’ve fulfilled some sort of quota or milestone.
For example, some couples might experience their twin flame separation phases as break-ups that last weeks on end. Others experience separations that take but a few hours or days, and don’t involve any break-ups whatsoever.
And someone whose relationship with their twin flame is mostly stable with shorter separations might be so worried that their partner would inevitably try to “run” that they’ll end up running first.
By tempering your expectations and accepting the unique individuality of your twin flame relationship, you get to avoid making mistakes like these.
However, if you really want to find out if you’re truly meant to be with your twin flame forever, don’t leave it up to chance.
Instead, speak to a gifted advisor who will give you the answers you’re searching for.
I mentioned Psychic Source earlier.
When I got a reading from them, I was surprised at how knowledgeable and understanding they were. They helped me out when I needed it the most and that’s why I always recommend their services to anyone facing a dilemma of whether to get back together or separate for good.
As painful as they are, twin flame separations occur because something remains to be resolved in your relationship together as twins.
If you wish to end the cycle, or at least minimize it so that you can resolve your issues quickly, you need to slowly and steadily address any conflicts that may exist between the two of you.
While nobody is perfect, when you have settled enough of your mutual hang-ups, it should be possible for you to reach a point where you can tolerate each other’s flaws. At that point, you will have proceeded to the next level of your twin flame reunion and hopefully stay reunited for life.
Can a relationship coach help you too?
If you want specific advice on your situation, it can be very helpful to speak to a relationship coach.
I know this from personal experience…
A few months ago, I reached out to Relationship Hero when I was going through a tough patch in my relationship. After being lost in my thoughts for so long, they gave me a unique insight into the dynamics of my relationship and how to get it back on track.
If you haven’t heard of Relationship Hero before, it’s a site where highly trained relationship coaches help people through complicated and difficult love situations.
In just a few minutes you can connect with a certified relationship coach and get tailor-made advice for your situation.
I was blown away by how kind, empathetic, and genuinely helpful my coach was.