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I’m Tina Fey and I Love My Boyfriend
He’s completely in love with me too.
But here’s the thing:
If you’d asked me about my relationship 6 months ago, you would’ve heard a much different story.
Why?
My boyfriend and I were drifting apart, lost and lifeless. In fact, I was just about ready to give up completely…
Then I found out how to rekindle the flame we once had.
I saved my relationship
The reason my relationship flipped around is that I learned how to become his secret obsession…
It’s a fact that only one in a thousand women know how to do it, but it’s so powerful that it can overturn every disappointment.
Your situation could be different than mine:
- Maybe you slept with a guy too soon…
- Had a serious partner break up with you and lose interest…
- Or have been completely ghosted by a player who you fell in love with…
But by understanding the way male attraction works at the deepest level, you can win any guy’s heart.
How do you become his secret obsession? It’s when you tap into a man’s most primal, inner desire… he literally becomes obsessed with you.
It’s called the Hero Instinct, and once you learn to trigger it you will notice astonishing and amazing results in your love life, whether you’re single, dating casually or in a serious partnership.
Turning a man on sexually or intellectually may last for an hour or two…
But turning him on with the Hero Instinct will have him desiring to be with you for life.
The Hero Instinct is inbuilt: it’s stronger than hunger, thirst and sex combined.
And once you tap into it on an ongoing basis, you are in for a lifetime of romantic success and fulfillment.
Here’s how it works…
The hero instinct
Relationship coach and best-selling author James Bauer coined the term Hero Instinct. He discovered it after 12 years of working with clients and his own in-depth research.
James studied the evidence before his eyes and concluded that men fall in love with women who know how to trigger a very specific and primal part of them.
The Hero Instinct is a man’s inborn and deep need to step up for the woman he cares about and earn her respect in return.
It’s a man’s need to feel irreplaceable, needed and unique…
If you fail to stimulate it, a man will begin to lose attraction. However, if you do learn to trigger it, a man will commit to you for life by his own voluntary choice.
You may have a partner who’s an alpha male, or one who is more beta.
Either way, I can 100% guarantee you he is driven by the Hero Instinct.
It’s male biology and psychology at the deepest level to want to be an everyday “hero” for the woman he loves.
Triggering the hero’s instinct will heat things up romantically, intellectually and sexually.
But you have to understand the key fact that the more you try to do what you think a man wants or desires, the more turned off he’ll get.
Wait, what?
Yes…seriously.
What you actually need to do — and what the Hero Instinct is all about — is showing a man how he can please you, rather than trying to please him.
How does the hero instinct work?
The Hero Instinct isn’t that difficult to trigger, but you have to do it the right way.
If you understand what it is and how it works, you can have your man eating out of your hand. But if you go about it wrong or half-cocked, you’ll end up frustrated and it WON’T work.
That’s where His Secret Obsession comes in, James Bauer’s life-changing book.
His Secret Obsession showed me exactly how to trigger the hero instinct in my man, including the specific “signals” I needed to send him.
The best way for me to explain how effective His Secret Obsession is to tell you exactly how reading the book changed my own love life.
So here’s my story (in brief).
OUR GUIDE
How do you become His Secret Obsession? It is when you tap into a man’s most primal, inner desire… he literally becomes obsessed with you.
How His Secret Obsession Helped Me
Like I said, 6 months ago my relationship was on the rocks. My boyfriend rarely initiated sex, we barely talked and I was pretty sure we were approaching game over.
I talked to friends and family, but their advice basically added up to: try to talk it out, and good luck!
Well…that didn’t work.
What did work was His Secret Obsession. When I first discovered it, I immediately appreciated the no-nonsense style of James Bauer.
This wasn’t just theory or psychobabble: it was field-tested in thousands of relationships with a very high success rate.
So I tried it out.
And guess what?
My boyfriend became more revitalized and invested in our relationship.
Our sex life started heating up again, our talks got longer and deeper, and questions about the future started to fade away.
We were together again, and things were working.
That’s why I can speak so confidently about James Bauer’s book: it worked for me.
His Secret Obsession isn’t just random “feel good” suggestions: it’s a blueprint for finding love or rekindling it from the ashes.
Using the 12-word secret signal
I’ve also seen His Secret Obsession work for my friend as well. Her name is Mikayla.
Mikayla’s situation was a little different than mine. She was wanting to be in a relationship but finding that guys flaked on her constantly or treated her as a side piece.
Her self-esteem was shot, and when Mikayla called me up and met me at a cafe to talk about it I almost got choked up myself.
The poor girl was a wreck.
So after consoling her, I introduced her to His Secret Obsession and James Bauer’s work.
Specifically, I told her about his 12-word text that works to recapture a man’s interest when it’s rapidly fading.
This 12-word text won’t “fix” a relationship out of the blue, but it’s an excellent thing to say if you need to give a quick shot of adrenaline to your love life.
Using this trigger phrase was the first step in Mikayla turning everything around.
The only thing she complains about to me these days is that her boyfriend is too in love with her.
You’ve been warned…
The secret signals
Watching how much the 12-word text helped Mikayla opened my eyes to its power.
I was already well aware of how His Secret Obsession could change lives, but seeing the compressed force of this one phrase really made it hit home for me.
The reason the 12-word text is so powerful is that it draws on a number of secret signals which a woman can use to trigger and reinforce a man’s hero instinct.
James Bauer explains all these signals in a clear and engaging way, from the glimpse phase and fascination signal to the “IOU signal” and the damsel in distress signal.
These all work, because I’ve tried them myself.
- The Glimpse Phase gives a man a taste visually and sexually of what you have to offer, without being too obvious…
- The Fascination Signal is so strong that it can literally leave a man addicted to you after one dose…
- The Silent Action Signal sets you apart from other women and the “competition” without even trying, just by using a simple but ultra-powerful technique that most women don’t know about.
- The IOU Signal takes advantage of the way men don’t listen to half the things you say and is frankly ingenious.
- Damsel in Distress is more or less what it sounds like, except that if you overdo this one you can leave your guy bewildered and turned off, so it’s very important to understand how it actually works.
- The Protect and Serve Signal is another great technique to add to your repertoire that flips the script and makes your guy the one looking to get your attention instead of the other way around.
- Then you have even more incredible signals such as the Private Island Signal, the Love Instinct Signal and the Ex-Back Signal.
You heard that one right: the Ex-Back Signal is the closest thing to a real “love potion” that exists, and it can have you patching up a broken relationship far faster than you ever thought possible
Now is your time
There is no one-size-fits-all solution to love and relationships, but His Secret Obsession is something truly remarkable to have in your toolkit.
James Bauer’s work has changed my life and I directly credit him with helping turn my relationship around.
Yes, I put in the work: but James showed me the signposts to get back to love.
That’s no exaggeration, and I highly recommend any woman who’s struggling to find or keep love to check it out.
In fact, even if your relationship is “not bad” or “pretty good,” His Secret Obsession and learning about the hero instinct can take things to the next level in a huge way.
Men are very visual creatures and it’s easy for them to get distracted: don’t I know it!
But with His Secret Obsession you tap into something far deeper…
You’ll be the only woman that makes him feel complete.
Right now I’m handing you the key so you can unlock this precious reality; all you have to do is walk through the door.
Take advantage of this special offer now and click below to get full access to His Secret Obsession.
Frequently asked questions
James Bauer is a dating and relationship coach and also the author of bestselling books His Secret Obsession and What Men Secretly Want.
His training has helped hundreds of women across the world to improve their relationships, including mine!
This man has literally rescued marriages and helped patch up couples who were so far gone you would have sworn they were over.
James believes that being irresistible is about a special set of qualities that emanate from feelings of happiness, true confidence, and a kind of inner beauty that pulls at a man’s heartstrings.
Being irresistible is the embodiment of what makes a woman truly attractive in every sense of the word.
It’s about creating an irresistible attraction by being who you truly are in your feminine core.
His Secret Obsession has been shown to work in a huge variety of situations.
It definitely worked for me and my friend Mikayla, but it goes far beyond that.
Having looked at pages and pages of testimonials and done some in-depth research on the social science behind it, I can confidently say this program will help almost any relationship situation that exists.
This is because it is based upon deep primal desires found in all men.
Here are some of the relationship stages and situations where it has been very effective.
1. Attraction Stage
I’m trying to win the affections of a guy who doesn’t see me that way yet. How can I get him to see me as more than a friend? Why do guys show interest and then just drift away? I know he likes me. Why won’t he just admit it?
2. Dating but Falling Apart Stage
Things started great and now he’s drifting away. Why won’t he commit? I want him to choose me and stop seeing other women. He’s ignoring my texts
3. Re-Spark Stage
We’re together but need to Re-Spark the relationship. My man ignores me. Why won’t he return my calls? He has grown cold or distant
4. Ex-Back Stage
It’s over, but I want him back. I’m trying to start over with my ex. I want things to be like when we first met.
The website where you order His Secret Obsession has a great 60-day 100% guarantee on everything they sell.
This takes away all the pressure.
If it just isn’t a fit for you or even if you just end up not having time to read it, you can return it within 60 days!
You can get full access to His Secret Obsession by clicking here.
Here’s what I’m absolutely sure about…
I may not know you personally, but I know what His Secret Obsession and the hero instinct did for me.
And I’m 100% sure that you deserve it, too.
I’m also 100% confident you can and will have what you deserve if you take the steps to make it happen.
Here’s the truth:
You deserve to have an amazing relationship with a loving, caring, committed man NOW instead of years from now, so don’t miss this chance for true love and happiness…
I really look forward to hearing how His Secret Obsession transforms your love life.
And when you see your first bit of success, I would love to hear about it! Nothing would make me happier.
Remember, in this very moment you have the most power to change. It’s up to you to decide between happiness and heartache.
This decision is the only thing standing between you and the love and commitment you deserve. So seize this moment before it’s too late!
Click the button right now, and let’s get started!
To your future love and happiness,
Tina Fey, founder of Love Connection