10 things to do when a Gemini man gives you mixed signals

Mixed signals from a Gemini man can be unnerving and confusing.

If you’ve been spending time with him, but he’s given you mixed signals about how he feels about you, it’s easy to feel like there must be something wrong – or that it’s all in your head.

There are many reasons why Gemini men give women mixed signals, which can range from playing games with you, to simply not being sure how they feel about you.

The good news? There are some things you can do about this!

1) Don’t take it personally

People often say that men are from Mars and women are from Venus, in that men and women think and communicate in very different ways.

That said, this doesn’t mean that you should take everything personally.

When a Gemini man is giving you mixed signals, it doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong or that he doesn’t like you – it just means that he’s not sure how he feels right now.

But not even that – he might not even realize he is sending you mixed signals! You see, some guys are simply busy and don’t realize that their behavior becomes sketchy.

If you get defensive, it will only make things worse, so try not to take any of it personally.

Communication is a two-way street, and if you’re getting mixed signals, it’s likely that you’re not communicating clearly enough, or he’s not communicating clearly enough either.

The thing is, Gemini men are pretty laid back, so when you start taking this personally and making it a big deal, he might be turned off even though at first, he didn’t even have mixed feelings.

The moral of the story is, his behavior might have something to do with you, or it may not, but either way, you shouldn’t take it personally.

When you get too serious about it all and try to control him, that’s when you’ll see him run.

On that note:

2) Don’t try to control the situation (or him)

The best thing you can do when you’re getting mixed signals from a Gemini man is not to try to control the situation.

Instead, try to let go and let things unfold naturally.

You might want to control the situation so that you can get clarity and know where you stand – but the reality is that if he’s not ready to give you that clarity, he won’t give it to you, no matter how much you try to force him to see things clearly.

While you can’t control the outcome of the situation, you can control your reaction to it.

Don’t try to manipulate things so that you get what you want. Instead, try to let go, be patient, and trust that everything will work out the way it’s supposed to.

If you don’t like the way things are going and you are not willing to wait, then maybe this is your sign that this man is not the one for you.

The thing is, you can never control anyone else, just as they can’t control you.

If you want to feel great in your own skin and enjoy the relationship, then try not to worry too much about what he’s doing or how he feels – just relax and let things unfold the way they will.

You might be surprised to find that when you stop trying to control the situation, he may start stepping up and doing more of the same.

Now: I know it can be really difficult to let go of control, especially when you are used to getting what you want when you want it.

The reality is that if you try to control the situation, both of you will lose – he will feel pressured and put on the spot and you will be disappointed.

Maybe he doesn’t like how things are going, or maybe he’s got his own emotional issues that are keeping him from being truthful – either way, the best thing for both of you is to let go.

Either you end things now, or you give him time to figure it out, but you can’t force him to commit.

Speaking of time:

3) Give him some space for a few days

If you’ve been out with a Gemini man, and he’s given you mixed signals, try giving him some space for a few days.

Gemini men love to be social, and they usually like to keep their dating life fairly casual and light.

This means that if you and he are hooking up but not seeing each other exclusively, he may be feeling a bit torn about what he wants from you.

Avoid seeing him for a few days, and see how he reacts.

If it feels like he’s pulling away, you can always give him a call and ask how he’s doing – but hopefully, you’ll notice that he’s trying to reach out to you and finds a way to contact you.

You see, Gemini men desire you, even more, when you aren’t available 24/7.

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Space is quite interesting, there is a saying that distance makes the heart grow fonder, and it’s true.

If you give him some space, he’ll gradually be able to figure out what he wants from you.

Even though it might feel counter-intuitive to give him space when you actually want him to commit, it’s a great way to get clarity and may help you to understand why he’s acting the way he is.

Maybe he doesn’t have enough time lately, or maybe he’s been getting bad news from his family.

Whatever your situation may be, try giving him some space.

Don’t be surprised if, after a few days, you see that things are starting to feel much more clear for him.

4) Communicate calmly and rationally

When you’re getting mixed signals from a Gemini man, it’s important to communicate calmly and rationally.

Don’t overreact, and don’t try to manipulate the situation either.

When you communicate, try to stay focused on the here and now.

If you’re messaging him, don’t write an essay about how he makes you feel in general – Gemini men prefer to actually talk things out in person.

Try not to get caught up in emotions and overreact to what he’s saying. Instead, try to stay focused on your point and how you’re feeling in the moment.

I know, communicating rationally can be difficult when there are lots of emotions involved, but staying focused is essential.

The thing is, when you start to yell or get angry, he will immediately shut down and try to avoid you.

With Gemini men, the best approach is to stay calm and rational and try to understand where he’s coming from.

One way you can do that is by listening closely to what he’s saying, and asking him questions that encourage him to explain his position more clearly.

Staying calm will allow him to stay calm, too, which will make a proper and productive conversation possible.

If you get all worked up, there is no way that you can actually hear what he’s saying.

If you want to be heard, you need to listen, and if you want him to listen, you have to communicate calmly and rationally.

On that note, don’t be afraid to be honest:

5) Be honest about your feelings

Something that women often do when they’re getting mixed signals from a Gemini man is trying to cover up how they feel about the situation.

They don’t want him to hurt their feelings, or they think that maybe he’s just having a bad day and that things will be better tomorrow.

Unfortunately, by trying to cover up how you feel and be overly nice, you’re doing more harm than good.

You need to be honest with him about how you feel and why you feel that way.

Try not to attack him or make him feel bad. But use “I” statements to express how you’re feeling and why you’re feeling that way.

You see, Gemini men really value honesty, and they also love it when you express how you feel.

Don’t try to pretend to be happy when you’re not. If you are upset, just tell him why you’re upset.

When you offer an explanation that shows him that it’s a genuine concern, he will be more than willing to give the issue a fair chance.

The thing is, he will be able to tell that something is up, and if you don’t talk about it or act as if things are perfect, he will be the one getting mixed signals from you, and you don’t want that.

I know, being honest is scary, but it needs to be done.

Tell him how you feel without being accusing, and you’ll notice that he will probably fall for you more than ever before.

The truth is, the worst that can happen is that he tells you that he isn’t into you, and then at least you’ll save your time and self-respect and can move on!

6) Don’t play games with him

If you’ve been getting mixed signals from a Gemini man, don’t fall into the trap of playing games.

Don’t wait for him to call you or text you – call or text him first. Don’t try to create a situation where you can “win” or he can “lose.” Try to be as genuine and straightforward as possible.

If there is one thing that will ruin your relationship with a Gemini man, it’s playing games with him.

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You see, Gemini men hate being used, and so if he figures out you’re playing games with him, he won’t go back to you.

Even if you’re not aware of it, a Gemini man can usually tell if you’re playing games with him or not.

His intuition is pretty strong, so even if you don’t think that you’re being deceptive or playing any games with him – he will think otherwise.

So, instead of playing games, be upfront about what you want.

This brings me to my next point:

7) Be upfront about where you stand with your opinions and why

If you’re getting mixed signals from a Gemini man, it’s likely that you’re not quite sure how to respond to him.

If he’s trying to text you but you’re not sure what to say back, or if you’ve been on a few dates but don’t know if he wants to go out again, try being upfront with him.

Start the conversation with an honest and upfront statement, like, “I really enjoyed our date, but I don’t know if you want to go out again” or “I’ve been trying to text you, but I’m not sure what to say.”

Being really honest about how you feel and where you stand will be really attractive to a Gemini man.

He likes women who can actually communicate and express themselves, rather than women who are always trying to play games and hide from what they really want.

He will be more interested in you if he knows exactly where you stand and why you feel that way.

I know, when you first start dating a Gemini man, it can be nerve-wracking to be so honest.

You want him to like you and then it all goes downhill quickly when he gets into a situation where he’s hurt or upset by something that you said.

However, letting him know something like “Hey, I like you, but I’m honestly not sure where I stand with you. What are your intentions for this relationship?” will go a long way.

This will make him think you’re incredibly interesting, which is actually our next point:

8) Keep conversations interesting

If you’re getting mixed signals from a Gemini man, it’s possible that all of your conversations may be slightly one-sided.

That said, if you’re constantly talking about your feelings and how you want more from him, and he’s constantly trying to avoid the subject, you’ll likely never get past the mixed signals phase.

Try to keep the conversation balanced and interesting. You don’t want every conversation to be all about him and his feelings – and you don’t want every conversation to be about you and your feelings, either.

Find a happy medium and keep the conversation interesting.

You see, for a Gemini man, nothing is more torturous than small-talk, so try to avoid that at all costs, too.

However, in order to keep things interesting with a Gemini man, you have to have an interesting relationship.

To do this, you need to listen to him and be interested in what he has to say.

If you just give him a few simple “huhs” and “hmms,” it will seem like he’s wasting his time because your conversation isn’t going anywhere.

Instead, be interested in what he has to say, and don’t be afraid to go deep in conversations!

9) Don’t take the situation too seriously

When you’re getting mixed signals from a Gemini man, it’s easy to let the situation consume you and take over your life.

Instead of worrying about what he’s going to do next and when he’s going to call or text you, try to take the situation a bit less seriously.

Try to focus on things that make you happy, like spending time with your friends, going out, or doing some self-care activities that help you relax and de-stress.

Try not to focus so much on the fact that he’s giving you mixed signals – instead, try to focus on everything else that’s going on in your life and stay positive.

You see, when you take this situation too seriously, you are bound to react in ways that aren’t positive, and that could lead to a relationship that goes south.

Instead of worrying about what he’s going to do next and when he’s going to call or text you, try to take the situation a bit less seriously.

Try to focus on things that make you happy and live your best life. That’s actually my last tip for you:

10) Live your best life and don’t let him influence your mood too much

If you’ve been getting mixed signals from a Gemini man, it’s important to remember that you can’t control anyone else – and you can’t control how anyone else feels about you either.

That said, it’s important not to let every little thing that happens affect your mood and how you feel about your day.

Try not to let his mood or how he treats you affect your day too much. It’s okay to be upset if he’s given you mixed signals, but try not to let it get you down too much.

Stay positive and remember that you don’t need this person in your life in order to be happy and confident.

Live your best life and you will show him how amazing it would be to be with you.

Think about it: who would you rather be with, someone who’s life seems amazing, with or without you in it, or someone who is sad and mad all the time and broods at home?

I don’t know about you, but I would rather be with someone who is having a great time, instead of someone who is sad and not having a good time.

Final thoughts – respect yourself

My final message to you is, always retain your self-respect.

No matter how much you might like this guy, if he doesn’t treat you right, be honest about it.

And if nothing changes, have the strength to leave.

You deserve to be with someone who makes you feel special and loved, not someone who makes you question their intentions.

So, try to see if you can communicate with him openly, and if nothing works, see if that is really the man you want to be with.