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Breakups are so challenging and confusing, I totally get it.
When I went through a breakup, I wasn’t sure what was considered a good sign and what wasn’t.
Then, one day, almost out of the blue, my ex-girlfriend was really angry with me.
I tried to get to the bottom of what that meant for us and you wouldn’t believe what I found…
Well, actually I hope you’ll believe me, cause it might help you out in your situation!
Here are some things it means when your ex-girlfriend is angry!
What happened to us?
Before I dive into the different things it might mean when your ex-girlfriend is angry, I wanted to share my own story real quick, just to show you that there might be hope.
After our breakup, my ex-girlfriend was suddenly really angry with me.
Even though that might not seem like a good sign, a friend of mine reassured me that actually, this is a pretty great indicator.
You see, anger is a very strong and passionate emotion, and if you feel something like that for someone, you are definitely not over them.
That’s why my friend told me, that the fact that my ex-girlfriend was angry with me, actually meant that she still cared.
What happened next?
Well, I decided to give her a call to see what she was so angry about and if there was a way to fix it.
When I called her, she immediately broke down in tears and it turned out that the reason for her anger was because she missed me so much!
We ended up having a really great conversation and we decided to meet up later on. A few weeks after our meetup, we ended up getting back together!
So yes, even though my ex-girlfriend was angry with me at first, it actually turned out great in the end.
Now: I’m not gonna sit here and promise that the same thing will happen to you because obviously, every situation is different!
But I can tell you all the different things anger can actually mean and maybe, just maybe, you find out that her anger is actually a pretty good sign, after all!
1) She’s actually still in love with you
This is tough to hear, but it’s a good sign. If she’s still in love with you and still has strong feelings for you, then she’s likely still going to be hung up on you even if you go back to her.
If there’s someone else she can move on to, but she’s still in love with you, then she’ll likely be angry because she is confused.
This can be good news if you want her back.
If you’re not ready to be with her and don’t want her back, then you need to realize that she’s not really over you.
She’s just in denial and will likely come back.
Now: I don’t know, if you don’t want her back, I would make that very clear to her so that she gets a chance to move on.
But if you do want her back and she’s angry, then you need to use this to your advantage.
She might still love you, and all you need to do is say the word.
2) She doesn’t know what she wants
This is another good sign. If she doesn’t know what she wants and is angry with you, then she’s likely not over the breakup.
She may say she wants to be single, but she’s not ready to date someone new.
She may say she wants to date other people, but she’s not ready to commit to anyone.
This girl may say that you two need to date other people, but she’s not ready to date other people.
Women are often more emotional than men, and often need more time to heal from a breakup.
When she is really angry, the core issue could just be that she is extremely confused about her emotions.
Now one question persists:
How many months are you supposed to date other people before you’re ready to date the guy you broke up with?
Women often don’t know what they want and need more time.
That’s why she may be angry with you and not ready to date anyone else yet. If she’s angry with you, she’s likely not over the breakup yet.
Now: what do you do in that situation?
If she’s not ready to date someone new, then you should give her some time and space.
You can’t force her to date you before she’s ready.
But you can stay in contact with her, let her know that you still care about her, and be there if and when she is ready.
The key here is patience. You must have patience if you want to win back your ex-girlfriend.
If she is confused about her emotions, she will likely just need a bit more time to figure everything out.
3) Ask a relationship coach for advice
Okay, maybe this is not your usual thing, it definitely wasn’t mine, but when I was in this same exact situation, I actually asked a relationship coach for advice.
I know, it sounds strange, but I found this site where a bunch of great coaches will help you out with your problems, it’s called Relationship Hero.
Trust me, I was skeptical at first, but the guy I talked to really opened my eyes as to why my ex-girlfriend was so angry and what I could do to resolve the situation.
I gotta admit, without his help, I don’t know if I would be back together with her right now.
Now: don’t feel pressured to try it, but I just wanted you to have the best possible shot at getting back with your ex and figuring her out a bit.
4) She’s bored
If she’s angry with you because she’s bored, she may not be ready to date you.
She may not be ready to date you because she’s not sure if she’d be able to date someone like you.
If she’s bored and not interested, she may not be ready to date yet.
You see, after the breakup, she might feel bored because she has nobody to be with.
This could translate into her getting angry at you because technically, you might be the cause of her boredom!
Now: if you want her back, that’s a pretty good sign, because it shows that she is desperate for your attention.
5) You might be mistaking jealousy for anger
Her anger is a good sign that she might be jealous of you.
She might be jealous of you and angry with you because she wants to be with you.
This is a good sign because she wants you back.
If she wants you back, she’s likely still in love with you.
You see, if she’s jealous of you and angry with you, she may not be ready to date anyone yet.
Jealousy is a great indicator that you have feelings for someone.
Think about it: when you are jealous, it’s usually because you have feelings for someone.
If she’s jealous of you and angry with you, it’s because she wants to be with you.
If she wants to be with you, then this is a good sign because it shows that she still loves you!
Now it’s all up to you: do you want to be with her, too?
6) She misses the relationship as much as you do
If she’s angry with you and misses the relationship as much as you do, she may not be ready to date anyone yet.
You might think: “Why would she be angry with me if she misses the relationship??”, but the thing is, emotions are complicated.
When someone misses something, they sometimes get angry because they can’t have it anymore.
And because you were the second part of this relationship, she might be angry at you!
Now, the good news is that this means that she would be willing to get back together with you.
This is a good sign because she misses the relationship as much as you do!
Of course, only if you are ready to date her, too!
7) She wants you back and is trying to figure out how to make that happen
If she’s angry with you it could be because she is trying to get you back but doesn’t know how to start the conversation.
You see, when she’s angry with you, it shows that you two still have unresolved issues.
And she might be trying to figure out how to get those issues resolved so that you two can get back together.
This is a good sign because it means that she wants you back and is willing to work on the relationship!
If she wants to work on the relationship, then this is a good sign because it means that she still loves you!
Now: is it a good idea to get back together with her?
Well, to be honest, it totally depends.
What was your relationship like? Why did it end?
What does she want to do about the relationship?
How do you feel about the relationship?
All these questions are super important and shouldn’t be ignored when you’re trying to decide whether or not it’s a good idea to get back together with her.
If you still have feelings for her, then it might be a good idea to give her another chance!
But if you don’t have any feelings for her anymore, then it might be a good idea to stay away from this relationship.
So, what do you think? Is she trying to get you back?
I mentioned it earlier, but when I went to see a relationship coach, they really helped me with these kinds of questions.
All that confusion was suddenly gone and they analyzed the situation perfectly and helped me find a solution that works for me!
Honestly, I am so glad I found them, so if you are feeling a bit lost right now, I can only recommend them: Relationship Hero.
8) She doesn’t want you with anyone else
Okay, this one is juicy. One reason why she might be angry at you is that she hates seeing you with someone else.
This is a good sign because it means that she still has feelings for you!
It might seem like she’s angry at you because she resents you, but that’s not it!
She’s angry at you because she still loves you and wants to get back together with you!
This means that if there is another girl in your life, it might be a good idea to end the relationship with her.
Why? Because it means that your ex still has feelings for you and doesn’t want to see anyone else get close to you.
Of course, if you are happy with this other girl, by all means, stay with her!!
But if a part of you wants to get back together with your ex, then maybe now is the time.
Think about it: people get angry when they see others getting close to their ex.
This is because they don’t want to see their ex with anyone else.
And if your ex is angry with you, then this means that she doesn’t want to see you with anyone else!
If she wants to get back together with you, then she might be trying to scare away the other girls so that you two can get back together.
9) She still has feelings for you
If she’s angry with you, one of the biggest reasons is quite simple: she still has feelings for you!
This is a great sign because it means that she’s trying to get back together with you!
Of course, if she doesn’t have any feelings for you anymore, then this won’t work.
But if she still has feelings for you, then there’s a good chance that she wants to get back together with you.
And if this is the case, then go for it!! You can fix things with her and get back together!
If your ex is angry at you, don’t take it personally. Instead, try to figure out why she’s angry and see whether or not there’s still hope of getting back together!
Now: if you feel like getting back together is not a good idea, then, of course, don’t do it!
But if you’ve been waiting for a sign, this is it!
10) She’s still figuring out who she is
If she’s angry with you and still figuring out who she is, she may be trying to figure out if she’s the sort of person who can date you.
If she’s trying to figure out who she is, she may not be ready to date anyone yet.
She may want to take some time to figure out what she wants and who she is as a person before she dives into dating.
To be honest, if she’s angry with you, she may not be able to see you as someone she’d like to date.
She may not be ready to date you yet because she’s not sure if she’d be able to date someone like you again.
If she’s still trying to figure out who she is, that could show up as anger towards you.
You see, changing and going through an awakening where you find out who you are as a person can be really emotional.
So emotional, in fact, that you might get really angry at random things.
When people go through a big transition in their lives, they often get really angry at everyone around them.
That’s because they’re dealing with a lot of emotions and changes, and they don’t know how to deal with all the emotions that come with becoming a new person.
They’re trying to figure out who they are as a person and that can be really confusing. When you’re confused about your identity, you might lash out at anyone around you.
Now: this can be a good sign, granted that this new version of her will still want to be with you!
There’s a chance for a reunion in the future
All these signs will basically tell you the same thing: there is a chance for a reunion in the future!
If your ex is angry at you, then don’t take it personally.
Instead, try to figure out why she’s angry and see whether or not there’s still hope of getting back together!
If you want to be with her but simply don’t know how or if she wants it, too, then talk to her.
I promise you, talking can really help you both to be on the same page.
And if you feel like you’re on the same page, then you’ll know that it’s time to move forward and get back together.
Can a relationship coach help you too?
If you want specific advice on your situation, it can be very helpful to speak to a relationship coach.
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