Yes, guys do care about breast size — but not as much as you might think. The importance of a woman’s bust size often comes up in movies and TV shows, but what does this mean in real life?
Are men really that shallow? Do they prefer smaller-chested women over larger-chested ones? Is there any truth to the idea that men prefer big boobs?
Let’s take a closer look at the facts surrounding men, women, and breasts. Read on to find out if these assumptions are true or false.
The truth about men and breasts
1) Do men really care about a woman’s breast size?
The short answer is: No.
In fact, most men find women’s breasts to be sexy and desirable, but men aren’t as interested in the size or appearance of a woman’s breasts.
Most men love breasts and they find a woman with small boobies to be even better than one with big ones, says Ken Tanaka, M.D., a gynecologist at Barrow Neurological Institute and Parkersburg Hospital.
Some guys would prefer a bigger set on the chest, but for most men, it’s more about the rest of the body.
Some guys find this similar to other parts of the body; they want women who have an hourglass shape and are fit. But there are many men who don’t care about these things (and by most people I mean the majority).
Does this mean that guys don’t care about breast size?
Not really, because guys may be more attracted to other aspects of a woman’s body than just her breasts (in which case we would call them “a-cup”).
For example: If you go into bars you may find that all the guys are either hitting on or ignoring skinny girls with big boobs.
This does not mean that all men only look for girls with big boobs – it means that all guys may not be conscious about their attraction to the bust size of their partners.
2) Which factors do men consider when choosing a new partner?
Besides breast size, there are many other factors that men consider when choosing a new partner.
Some of these factors would include the person’s personality, the potential for a long-term relationship, her looks, and her sex appeal.
Here are some of the main factors that attract men, as per a recent study:
- Appearance (31 %)
- Sense of humor (30 %)
- Intelligence (28 %)
- Social skills and personality (27 %)
- Ability to provide financial stability (22 %)
- Sense of adventure (20 %)
So what does all this mean?
Well, it simply means that there are many other things (and other things besides breasts) that men find attractive in women besides their chest.
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3) Which part of a woman do men find to be the most attractive?
Apart from the breast, many guys would prefer to have a curvy frame. You can use this fact to flatter your man and make him feel good about himself (as well as make him feel like the king that you always desired, which is what every woman wants).
Opinions vary, but for most men, a woman’s chest is considered to be the most desirable part of her body. Guys would usually love it when women are blessed with large breasts – this will be true in all areas: heart, brain, and other physical attributes too.
But here’s the thing:
While guys might love seeing women with big boobs, it does not necessarily mean then end up desiring them.
Sometimes men can be happy with smaller breasts. Also, some guys do not like girls who are overly endowed and do not fit into their idea of what a woman should look like.
Basically, men appreciate the opposite of what society believes about them – which means that you should embrace your body for what it is and love yourself for who you are and not allow anyone to make you feel bad about your body.
4) How do men perceive women’s body shapes?
As per a recent study published in the Journal of Social Psychology, most men consider women as either “normal sized” or “large-sized” body types when assessing their attractiveness (some of the other body types include: “tall,” “average-sized,” and “short.”)
So it makes sense that if you are below or above these sizes, your attractiveness might change significantly in the eyes of men.
For most men who were polled (around 750 men) in a study on body perception, the majority felt that women who were three inches taller than them were likely to be more attractive.
So while a man’s preference in women’s body shapes might really depend on his own specific likes and dislikes when it comes to looks and body types.
Here are some things that you can take into consideration – which will help you alter your appearance to make yourself fit into your man’s perception of what an ideal woman looks like:
- Don’t be shy about your body.
- If you are not happy with the way you look, you should still try to get yourself into shape.
- Wear clothes that flatter your figure and make it look more attractive.
- Make sure that you have a small waistline.
- Take care of the skin on your face, neck, and hands so that they do not look too rough or wrinkled (this will also help you feel better about yourself).
5) Does a woman’s breast size affect the sexiness of her body?
No. Men don’t care about a woman’s breast size as much as women think they do.
Women generally believe that guys care more about the size of their breasts than they do; it makes women feel insecure and unattractive, according to research conducted by psychologists at the University of Michigan and the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill.
But in reality, men don’t care about the size of their partners’ breasts nearly as much as women think they do.
In fact, most men find small-breasted women to be attractive.
A study from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill found that men rated a woman’s attractiveness based on her weight, hairstyle, and personality more than her breast size.
The researchers also found that more than half of all men thought that large-breasted women were not very attractive compared with only 11 percent who thought so for medium-sized chests, and just 5 percent for small ones.
6) Do guys prefer smaller-chested women over larger-chested ones?
No. In fact, the size of a woman’s bust does not have a great influence on how attractive she is to men.
The first thing to understand is that there is no general rule that says that “men prefer small-chested women.”
What we do know is that when you look at the data from thousands of studies, it turns out that men are more attracted to women with larger breasts than they are to women with smaller breasts.
But even though this may sound obvious, I can assure you that this is not what most people think.
In reality, most men have absolutely no preference for breast size at all—even when they’re attracted to a woman and she has big boobs. In fact, studies show that the majority of men report being turned off by large breasts themselves.
If anything, the suggestion is not just “men prefer small-chested women,” but rather “men generally aren’t attracted to large breast sizes.” But even if these big boobs indeed turn some men off, it doesn’t mean all men are like this – or even most men!
So don’t blame every guy who’s ever rejected you because he didn’t like your boobs (unless he was into something else about you).
How to tell if a guy is interested in your personality besides your appearance?
Now that you understand what it takes to be attractive to a man, you may want to know how to know if he is interested in anything else apart from your appearance.
While it might be hard to figure out whether a guy is really attracted to you or just using you for sex, there are some signs that can help.
1) Does he treat you with respect?
This is the most important factor to look for in order to be able to tell whether he is truly interested in you or not.
You will want to make sure that he treats you with respect and does not try to control you by giving off a “controlling vibe.”
If your man is trying to control your movements and make decisions for you, it can be a clear sign that he doesn’t care about the relationship and could eventually leave you if he finds someone else who makes him feel more attracted.
To make sure that he is not using you for sex, you should ask him about is intentions for your relationship and get a clear answer.
If he doesn’t answer you or refuses to talk to you about it, it could be a sign that he doesn’t care about the relationship and just wants casual sex with no strings attached.
2) Has he introduced you to his parents?
Another thing that you can do to see if a guy has real feelings for you is to ask him if would be willing to introduce you to his parents.
A guy who is interested in you will be excited about this and want to share this with his family.
If he is not willing to introduce you or tries avoiding the topic, it may be a sign that he doesn’t want what’s best for your relationship and isn’t ready for anything serious with you.
But keep in mind that some guys just don’t like to talk about their relationship with their parents, so don’t be too quick to judge.
3) Does he go out of his way for you?
One thing that you can do to see whether your man is interested in you is to simply look at what he does for you. There are many things that a man does for the girl he likes, but here are a few examples:
- He opens doors for her.
- He picks up the check.
- He helps with house chores.
- He takes care of you and treats you like a princess.
- He is extremely loyal.
- He respects you and allows you to be who you are.
If your man does these things for you, it could be a sign that he really cares about you and is going out of his way to make sure that you feel special.
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If you see him always bring out his inner-hero and go out of his way to protect and provide for you and your relationship, it could be a sign that he is interested in having a long relationship with you.
On the other hand, if he isn’t doing any of these things and is just using you for sex, then you may have a problem on your hands.
I mentioned this fascinating concept earlier: the hero instinct. When a man’s inner hero is triggered, he’s more likely to love you.
Just by knowing the right things to say to him, you’ll open a part of him that no woman has ever reached before.
And the best way to do so is by watching this free video by James Bauer. In it, he’ll reveal simple phrases and texts you can use to make your man truly yours.
4) Is he interested in your life?
The truth is:
Every relationship is a two-way street, so don’t expect your man to show interest in you if all he does is talk about himself and his interests.
An important factor to look for is whether your man asks about your day and how things are going for you.
Pay attention to how he behaves, because if he is interested in knowing about your life, it could be a sign that he’s really interested in you as a person and cares about what’s going on with you.
5) Does he show his emotions?
There is a common myth that men are “less emotional” than women. And while it’s true that men typically don’t talk about their feelings and inner thoughts as much as women, there is nothing wrong with this—it’s natural.
What you should ask yourself, rather, is whether or not he makes an effort to let you know what he’s thinking when you are having a conversation.
If you find out that it’s nearly impossible for him to stop talking about himself and his goals and interests, this could be a red flag for a guy who is only interested in sex.
While there are some men who don’t care about sharing their feelings with others, most men actually just want to hear their partner’s voice or discover what they’re thinking.
As a matter of fact, a study published in the Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology revealed that women greatly appreciate it when their partner shows his emotions, especially about love and sex.
The same goes for your man—if he wants to know what you’re thinking when you’re talking to him, he probably cares about your relationship as a whole. But if he just wants to hear your voice only, then this may just be an indication that there is no real interest behind it.
6) Is he trying to make your relationship work?
Everyone is responsible for making their relationship work, but this effort should be made by both partners.
If your man is not helping make things better, then you should start worrying.
However, what you want to pay attention to is whether he is actively contributing to the success of your relationship or if he’s simply “going through the motions.”
So what does all this mean?
When he truly loves you for who you are and doesn’t care about how you look or what you wear, he is going to want to do everything in his power to make your relationship work.
7) Is he focused on the future?
Trust me, I know that this one doesn’t come as a surprise to you. But the truth is:
A man who is truly in love with you will want to continue growing and developing your relationship.
He wants it to last forever, and he will take every means possible to make sure that it does.
If he sees an opportunity or a way to improve your relationship, he will take it without a second thought.
These two thoughts should never leave his mind:
- I want to be with this woman for the rest of my life.
- I want to do everything in my power to make this woman happy.
When you have these thoughts, you know that he is truly in love with you and cares about your relationship.
8) Is he interested in your relationship with family and friends?
I know, I know – it seems a little unfair that he isn’t interested in your family and friends, but it’s an important factor to pay attention to.
When someone really loves you and cares about your relationship, they will want to know about your family and friends because they want to make sure that everyone fits together.
If he really cares about your family and friends, then he will be interested in what you’re doing with them.
Most people don’t want to know about everything in their partner’s life, but rather just the parts that directly affect them.
However, when a person truly cares about you and wants to continue growing your relationship, they will want to know about everything—including family and friends.
Hopefully, you can get a better idea about whether guys really care about breast size.
Also, I hope that you’ll find these signs because they can help you determine if he’s really interested in you as a person or just a trophy.
And I have to repeat this, the best way to know is if he brings out his inner hero or not. I touched on the hero instinct earlier – it’s the perfect remedy for the situation you’re facing.
Because once a man’s hero instinct is triggered, he’ll only have eyes for you. You’ll reach a part of him that no woman has ever managed to reach before.
And in return, he’ll be compelled to commit to you and love you like he’s never loved another woman.
So if you’re ready to take that plunge and reach new heights in your relationship, make sure to check out relationship expert James Bauer’s invaluable advice.
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