Men are often called cute, but do they like it?
There’s no one answer to that question.
Some guys may take it as a compliment, while others may not be too keen to be called “cute”.
Let’s first look at why guys don’t like to be called cute:
- Some guys think that the word should be reserved for babies, women, and pets.
- Some guys think that being cute means they’re less of a man.
- Some straight guys worry that people will think they’re gay if they’re called cute.
- Some guys don’t want to be perceived as weak or feminine.
- Some guys would rather be thought of as handsome, strong, or sexy than cute.
- Some guys think that being called cute means that they’re mediocre.
- Some guys think that if a girl calls them cute, she’s putting them in the friend zone.
- Some guys think that being called cute means they’re not mature.
- Some guys think that being called cute means they can’t handle themselves well in a fight or in other situations where strength is required.
- Some guys feel small when they are called cute.
So, what can you call your guy instead of cute?
Here’s a list of 16 better things to call him.
Let’s dive right in:
1) His name
It may be obvious, but some guys like to be called by their name.
Now, he may appreciate a nice pet name from time to time, but he also likes it when you call him by his name.
He finds the way you say it sexy.
There are many reasons why men like being called handsome.
A lot of people say that it builds their ego and if they have a confidence problem, it can be a way to build their self-esteem.
It also makes them feel like they’re desired by the opposite sex.
This is a good one for guys who want to be called something other than cute.
It’s flattering to be addressed in this way.
It will make him feel happy to know that you think he’s handsome.
You can’t go wrong with calling him babe.
It’s one of the most popular terms of endearment for both men and women.
It’s sweet, kind, strong, and familiar.
Most importantly, it’s been around forever for a reason – it works.
4) Sweetheart or sweetie
Calling him “sweetheart” or “sweetie” is an alternative to cute.
It will make him feel that you see him as a sweet guy.
It’s also another one of those terms of endearment that have been around for a long time.
It may seem a bit old-fashioned, but some guys like to be called darling.
The fact that the word has been used as a term of endearment and affection for so long, makes it seem extra special.
It may not be for everyone, but if your guy is a “darling”, you’ll know.
Do you know how great it feels when someone calls you gorgeous? Give him this one.
If you call him gorgeous during times when he’s not feeling good about himself, it will make him feel good to know that he’s gorgeous and that seems like a really sweet thing to say.
Hunk is a very masculine term of endearment and describes a guy who’s well-built and attractive.
It makes him feel special and important.
It’s just a word, but some men like it because they think it sounds more manly than other terms.
And another thing:
Maybe it’s just me but hunk sounds like Hulk so it may make it extra special to be called that.
8) Big guy
Men love to feel big and powerful.
This is why most men love to be called “big guy”.
Champ is short for champion.
This word refers to someone excellent, to a winner, or the best of something.
It makes him feel like the best at what he does and your gift of the term “champ” will make him feel like a winner.
This is a sweet one (pun intended).
Calling your significant other honey has been popular for decades and it doesn’t seem to be going out of style any time soon.
It’s a gentle and loving way to call someone.
It shows that you feel close to the other person and care for them.
11) Honey-bunny and pumpkin
Ever seen Pulp Fiction?
Well, some of us Tarantino fans love to call our men “honey-bunny” because of the opening scene in Pulp Fiction. If your guy is also a fan, he’ll call you “pumpkin” in return.
Bae sounds like babe, and for a long time, I thought it was the new trendy way of saying babe.
Actually, bae stands for “before anyone else”! How adorable is that?
13) My love
If your relationship is serious, then you want to call him your love.
It will tell him how much he means to you. Every time you say “my love” he’ll be reminded of the fact that you love him.
This is an adorable term of endearment that’s very popular.
It sounds like “puppy” and means “precious”. It’s perfect for boyfriends. If you call your romantic significant other “Pookie”, he’ll definitely think of you as precious!
I’m kind of obsessed with this term of endearment.
Every time you call him “lover” it will make him think about what you do in the boudoir. It’s a term of endearment that’s full of lust and longing.
This one probably tops them all.
Sexy is more than just handsome, it’s a different kind of attractive.
When you call him “sexy” – you’re basically saying that you find him sexually attractive.
Granted it’s not something you can really call him in front of other people, but you can text him “hey sexy” when he’s at work or whisper it to him when you see him so that only he can hear.
How to keep your guy interested: 6 ultimate tips
For many women, it is hard to understand exactly what men want.
They are often left guessing in the dark about why their guy is not interested in them anymore.
Keeping your guy interested can be challenging, trust me, I know!
Men tend to find things that are new or different more interesting than the same-old-same-old.
Here are some ways to keep your guy interested in you:
1) Be confident
The first step is to be confident and to believe that you are worthy of being loved by him.
Men want women who are confident and capable of taking care of themselves.
They also want women who are independent and self-sufficient even though they may have a guy in their life.
Now, this will make him feel more self-conscious around you and will automatically make him attracted to you.
2) Keep him guessing
One of the greatest ways to keep your man interested is to keep him guessing.
What does this mean for you?
This means that you should not be too predictable.
It also means that he doesn’t have to know what you’re thinking and doing all the time.
Don’t share all your thoughts. Let him guess what’s on your mind from time to time.
And another thing:
Don’t share all your plans with him. Give him a chance to ask himself where you are and what you’re doing from time to time.
Trust me, a little mystery goes a long way to making you desirable.
3) Surprise him
Do something different. Try something new.
- It can be something as small as surprising him with a picnic on a regular workday.
- Or, instead of staying in to binge on your favorite tv show, take him out to see that new play or musical.
- You can also surprise him with tickets to see his favorite sports team compete or to see his all-time favorite band in person.
Don’t let life become all about daily routines.
Surprise him from time to time.
It’s one of the easiest ways to keep your guy interested.
4) Be adventurous
If you want to keep him interested, you need to be willing to try new things.
Now, it doesn’t have to be extravagant or expensive.
Ask him what he’d like to do.
You can also try something like rock climbing or white water rafting in your local area.
Or, for those really adventurous types, how about learning how to skydive or bungee jump?
Don’t worry if your idea of adventure is something on a much smaller scale like – trying out an exotic new restaurant.
Point is, keep it fun. Keep it fresh.
5) Look good for him
To keep your man interested, you need to look attractive.
So, it may be tempting to let yourself go a little once you have your man, but if you do that, you risk him losing interest.
What’s more, it goes without saying that looking attractive improves your self-esteem and your confidence.
But more importantly, it also makes you think that you are worthy of being loved by him.
And once you think that, it will automatically attract him to you.
6) Make him jealous
You don’t have to do anything drastic.
It’s all about the little things like:
- hugging a male friend you meet when you’re together
- flirting with the waiter when you’re in a restaurant with him
- bring up how great so-and-so is casually in conversation
The idea that he could lose you to someone else will both keep him interested and work hard to keep you.
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