The world of dating can be difficult. With so many options and so many opinions, it’s hard to find the perfect man.
And sometimes, you may be dating the wrong type of man who is actually a bad match for you.
Do you feel like you are dating a man who has nothing to offer?
Here are 12 things you should know:
1) You need to know who you are in order to know what you deserve
One of the first things that you need to know is who you are. “Know thyself” as they say.
We’re starting with this because the other points in this article will be more about him and the red flags a man shows who has nothing to offer.
So: what do you want out of life? What are your goals and values?
You also need to know what you deserve in a partner.
Do you feel like this man doesn’t have anything to offer and is just wasting your time?
You should ask yourself why that is.
Is he not meeting any of your needs, on the emotional or physical level?
Why do you put up with that?
It’s important to figure out what you want, need, and deserve.
You don’t need to have a perfect guy, but you need to have a guy that respects you and satisfies what you truly need.
If he can’t provide that for you, then it’s time for some self-reflection and figuring out what kind of person will make you happy.
2) He’s not ready to commit
Many men who date women but don’t want to commit are those who are still figuring out their life and career.
He may be a player, or he may simply not be ready to settle down yet.
However, it’s important that you know that this type of man is only temporary.
In the future, he might be ready for something serious. But in the meantime, he may just need some time to figure out his life.
If you’re looking for a long-term boyfriend, then this isn’t the guy for you.
A guy who has nothing to offer can’t even offer his commitment – which should be the bare minimum in a relationship, right?
If you do decide to stay with him, however, make sure that you don’t let him take advantage of your time and effort by stringing you along.
3) You can’t bring out his inner hero
When a man has nothing to offer, you will notice it because you can’t bring out his inner hero.
You should try it out and see how he reacts – is there a potential partner in him, after all?
There’s a new theory in the relationship world that’s causing quite a stir – it’s called the hero instinct.
Coined by relationship expert James Bauer, this fascinating concept finally explains how men really think and feel in relationships.
And it’s something most women have never even heard of.
According to James Bauer, men don’t actually need a lot to feel content in their relationships. In fact, what they need has nothing to do with sex.
Men have certain innate drivers. And when a woman comes along and triggers them, it causes a powerful response. The result is a man who loves harder, commits wholeheartedly, and truly dedicates himself to the relationship.
So, how can you trigger your man’s hero instinct?
The easiest thing to do is to watch this simple and genuine video by James Bauer.
The truth is, once you understand how the hero instinct works, there’s no telling what heights your relationship can reach.
So if you want to give your man what he truly wants from you, make sure to check out James Bauer’s excellent video. In it, he reveals the exact texts and phrases you can use straight away.
Here’s a link to the free video again.
4) He doesn’t want a relationship
If you feel like the man you are dating is not taking things seriously, he may not be interested in a relationship.
A man who has something to offer will make sure that you know he wants a relationship with you.
That type of man fights for his woman.
If he is only asking you out on dates and never asks you to be exclusive, it could be because he’s not seeking anything serious.
So, what does that mean for you?
You should ask him what his intentions are.
If he doesn’t have a plan for the future, then you should consider moving on.
You deserve more than to be with a man who can’t commit to you.
5) He has no ambition
If a man has nothing to offer, chances are that he has no ambition, either.
A man who has his life together will have goals and dreams for the future.
He could be working towards a promotion at work, or he may be planning to go back to school.
A man with ambition is not afraid of hard work, and he will make sure that he is always doing what’s best for him.
If this guy doesn’t have any plans for his future, then you need to ask yourself why that is the case.
Does he feel like there’s nothing in his life worth fighting for?
Men with ambition are attractive, there’s no doubt about it.
If you are dating a man who has nothing to offer and is content with leading a life of mediocrity, know that this is what he will always be.
And if you’re not okay with settling for less than everything, then you need to walk away now.
6) He doesn’t care about your feelings
If your partner doesn’t have time to listen and validate you, it’s a sign that he doesn’t care about you and really has nothing to offer.
What kind of man doesn’t want to know how you feel?
He may not be present in the relationship because he has other things going on in his life. If he truly cared about you, he would make time for you.
But if he doesn’t, you need to move on.
If he doesn’t care about your feelings, then he doesn’t care about you. And that isn’t what you want.
7) He has a bad reputation
If the man you are dating has a bad reputation, it could be because he has nothing to offer and he knows it.
A man who is confident in himself will be able to stand up for himself when people say negative things about him.
But a man who is not confident and insecure will lash out and try to make himself look better by hurting others.
If he has a bad reputation, it’s because he doesn’t have anything good to say about himself.
You should be able to trust your partner, and if you can’t, then you need to leave him.
8) He doesn’t want to spoil you
A man who is a good match for you will offer to buy you nice things, not because he has to but because he wants to.
If the man you are dating never offers to buy you anything, or if he doesn’t want to spoil you, then it’s time to reevaluate if this is the type of person you want in your life.
This isn’t even about the money. You can spoil your girl on a budget, for example:
- planning a romantic picnic
- lighting candles and giving her a massage
- showering her in compliments
There is no excuse not to do these things unless he really doesn’t have anything to offer.
9) There is someone else
If you feel like you are dating a man who has nothing to offer, it might be because there is someone else.
You see, when he has no time for you, and he is always out, it could be because he is spending his time with another woman.
So if you find yourself in this situation, know that you deserve way more than that, sister.
Don’t waste your time with a man who has nothing to offer.
Instead, spend your time with a man who will treat you like a queen, and there’s no shortage of those out there.
10) He doesn’t protect you
If your partner doesn’t protect you, this is a red flag.
Protecting your partner means not only physically defending them, but also emotionally protecting them.
Make sure that you are both on the same page and agree in taking care of each other.
If he doesn’t want to take care of you and protect you, it’s time to move on.
You don’t need a man who is scared of protecting you because he can’t stand up for himself.
If he doesn’t have your back, then he is not worth having around at all.
Only a man who has nothing to offer will shy away from protecting his woman, believe me.
I mentioned this fascinating concept earlier: the hero instinct. When a man’s inner hero is triggered, he’s more likely to protect you at all costs.
Just by knowing the right things to say to him, you’ll open a part of him that no woman has ever reached before.
And the best way to do so is by watching this free video by James Bauer. In it, he’ll reveal simple phrases and texts you can use to make your man truly yours.
Here’s a link to the excellent video again.
11) He doesn’t want you to meet his family
If your man doesn’t want you to meet his family, it may be because he doesn’t have anything to offer and will not commit to you.
If this is the case, then you should move on.
You can’t build a strong relationship with someone who doesn’t want to commit and be with you.
Family is very important in a relationship, and if your guy isn’t willing to share that with you, he may not be the one for you.
12) He will not make you happy and you know it
You know how good you should feel.
You deserve to be happy and fulfilled. And so does he.
The minute you start wondering if this is really the man of your dreams, take a breath.
If he’s not making you happy and you know it, then it is time to get out of the relationship without guilt.
Don’t worry about hurting him or about what other people may think; worry about your own happiness and well-being first!
A man who has nothing to offer can’t possibly make you happy long-term, so why are you putting up with this?
You deserve someone who offers you the world
Yes, you heard me right.
You deserve a man who offers you the world.
Again, that has nothing to do with how much money he has or how successful he is.
Offering you the world can be as simple as being the most supportive, protective, loving partner possible.
How can you get that?
I touched on the hero instinct earlier – it’s the perfect remedy for the situation you’re facing.
Because once a man’s hero instinct is triggered, he’ll only have eyes for you. You’ll reach a part of him that no woman has ever managed to reach before.
And in return, he’ll be compelled to commit to you and love you like he’s never loved another woman.
So if you’re ready to take that plunge and reach new heights in your relationship, make sure to check out relationship expert James Bauer’s invaluable advice.
Click here to watch the excellent free video.
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