Twin flames are mirror souls. But does that mean they should get married?
Not necessarily, but they definitely can!
However, if you’re thinking of saying “I do!” to your twin flame, keep these 11 things in mind!
1) You are partners forever, but that doesn’t necessarily mean romantic partners
The twin flame energy is a soulmate connection between two people who are on the same spiritual path.
They often feel like they’re sharing one soul in two bodies and recognize each other as their true counterpart, hence the name “twin flame.”
However, this doesn’t mean these partners must be romantically involved.
Twin flames are also meant to share life lessons with one another through all types of partnership arrangements: from platonic friendships to romantic relationships to marriage.
So, before you go off marrying your twin flame, you should consider that maybe you’re not meant to be romantic partners after all.
Twin flames are meant to help each other grow, not only as individuals but also as spiritual beings.
They can do this by being friends, partners, or even soul mates.
However, if you marry your twin flame and stop learning from one another, you’ll both get stuck in the same place spiritually.
It will take away the purpose of your connection and ultimately fail.
The problem is, the nature of your connection can change over time, so what feels like a passionate relationship now could shift into a friendship a few years from now.
Of course, you run that risk with any marriage, so it is up to you to decide.
2) You will trigger each other… a LOT
Marriage means sharing your life with another person.
And this means that you will trigger one another in ways you may not have thought of before.
You see, twin flame relationships are already more triggering than any other relationship you can imagine.
This is because twin flames are so deeply connected energetically.
As a result, they can feel each other’s emotions, thoughts, and physical sensations.
If you marry your twin flame and live together, this means that you will often be triggering each other’s energy.
But don’t worry! This is actually a good thing! It means that your connection is super strong and that you’re learning how to help one another heal from past wounds.
It just means that you need to be extra careful about how you express yourself emotionally to your twin flame.
However, it could, of course, also backfire. Not everyone can deal with being triggered that much, so think carefully before committing to marriage.
3) What would a gifted advisor say?
The signs in this article will give you an insight into how to know if you should marry your twin flame.
Even so, issues related to love and dating can be confusing at the best of times, especially as your situation is unique to you.
So could getting some outside guidance help?
It’s fair to say there are plenty of frauds out there, who are just waiting to take advantage when we’re at our most vulnerable.
But after a really challenging breakup, I found that speaking to an advisor from Psychic Source was super helpful.
The advisor I spoke to was kind, understanding, and insightful.
My love reading gave me the guidance I was looking for (and needed) during a painful and confusing time.
Not only can a gifted advisor tell you whether you should marry your twin flame, but they can reveal all your love possibilities.
4) If you haven’t gone through twin flame separation yet, that could happen
Twin flames have a special bond that is not just like any other relationship.
And if you’re thinking about getting married to your twin flame, it’s important to keep in mind that there’s a good chance that you and your twin flame will go through “separation.”
It sounds crazy, but it’s true!
Twin flame separation is a part of the twin flame journey almost everyone goes through.
In this situation, it is best for the couple to get some space so they can work on their issues and potentially reconnect later.
But not all twin flames reconnect in this lifetime.
So: if you and your twin flame have not gone through a separation yet, there is a good chance you will in the future.
This is just part of the twin flame journey, so be prepared for it!
It’s up to you to decide whether you want to be married to your twin flame while that happens or not.
5) There could be a big age gap
One of the first things to keep in mind when you’re thinking of marrying your twin flame is the age gap.
Because twin flames have a spiritual connection, it is not rare for them to have an age gap of 10-15 years or even more.
Now: this doesn’t HAVE to be an issue, of course, but it definitely could be, especially once you’re married.
Society can get a bit weird when it comes to age gaps, and if you’re older than your twin flame, it’s likely that you’ll be the one who has to make the most changes in your life.
You also have to consider whether it will be okay with your friends and family if there is a big age gap between the two of you.
People can get pretty judgmental about this sort of thing, so keep in mind that even though twin flames are meant for each other, it doesn’t mean everyone will accept this!
Let alone the fact that certain cultures just outright won’t accept a marriage with a big age gap!
So: take all of this into consideration when you’re thinking about marrying your twin flame.
You have to keep in mind that there are lots of other factors involved, and even if you’re sure you want to marry your twin flame, it’s a good idea to consider all the consequences as well!
6) Marriage will be a new level of intimacy
Marriage is a whole new level of intimacy.
You will share everything and anything with your twin flame.
Twin flame relationships are intense as is, but adding marriage to the mix makes it all a lot more complicated!
So: if you are not sure you’re ready for that kind of level of intimacy with your twin flame, don’t do it!
You have to be sure it’s right for both of you.
If you’re not ready to take this step, it is best to wait until you are more mature and confident in your relationship.
Because if you rush into marriage without being ready, things will end up very messy!
You see, being married is not all about the honeymoon phase and immense attraction 24/7, it’s when you really get to know a person at their best and worst moments.
The honeymoon phase can be over in a blink of an eye, and when that happens, one has to wonder whether the rest of the marriage will be as exciting.
And if you’re not ready for that, it’s better to wait until you are.
But as you know, when it comes to love, things rarely go as smoothly as we’d like them to.
That’s why I recommend speaking to one of the trusted, gifted advisors over at Psychic Source.
I mentioned them earlier.
They’ve been incredibly helpful in the past when I’ve needed guidance on my love life, and they’ll certainly be able to help you with figuring out if marriage is the right thing to do.
Whether you prefer to chat online, or jump on a call and speak face-to-face, you can get clarity on this situation right now.
7) It is not in the nature of twin flame relationships to get married
Twin flames are mirror souls that have a spiritual connection.
This means that they are not in the nature of twin flame relationships to get married.
Marriage is a cultural symbol more than anything else.
It is a way for us to prove that we have made a commitment to each other that we will remain faithful and committed for the rest of our lives.
Twin flames do not need this kind of proof because they already know that their relationship is forever.
Simply put, a twin flame connection is spiritual, marriage is not.
When you think about it, marriage is just a social construct, and it’s not really necessary for the twin flame relationship.
If you want to get married, that’s okay, but don’t do it just because you think you need to.
8) Your twin flame might be the same gender as you, but you’re not bisexual or homosexual
It doesn’t matter if you’re male or female: the chances are big that you have an identical-gender twin flame.
Now: even though someone is your twin flame doesn’t mean you have to ignore your orientation.
If you aren’t bisexual or homosexual, you shouldn’t marry your twin flame just for the sake of it!
It’s not like marriage will change your orientation in any way, so it’s better to find someone you are really attracted to.
9) Are they really your twin flame?
The most important thing to consider is if you’re really meant for each other.
Although I’m not doubting your connection in any way, you should get really introspective before deciding to get married and ask yourself:
Is there a chance this person is not my twin flame and I’m just infatuated with them?
You should ask yourself this question because there are many people who mistake infatuation for love and marry the wrong person.
This is especially true with twin flames because they’re really rare.
The last thing you want is to get married only to find out a few months in that it was all just infatuation and you don’t really have that deep of a connection with that person.
If you’re not sure, then it’s best to wait.
You should be in love with your twin flame and want to marry them for the rest of your life.
But how can you know for sure you’ve met your twin flame??
The truth is:
We can waste a lot of time and emotions with people who ultimately we’re not compatible with. Finding your twin flame is no easy task.
But what if there was a way to get absolute confirmation?
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Even though I wasn’t convinced at first, my friend convinced me to try it out a few weeks ago.
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10) Is it the right time to get married?
It’s best to figure out where you are in life and whether or not it’s the right time to get married.
If you feel like you’re not ready, then don’t do it!
Don’t rush into marriage with someone just because they’re your twin flame, because that may not be the right decision for you.
It’s only natural to want to get married when you find your twin flame, but you should be patient and wait until the right time.
If it’s not the right time, then your relationship won’t last.
You see, if you really are with your twin flame, the person that is truly meant for you, then waiting a few more years to get married is not a big deal because you will stay together regardless.
But if you rush into marriage with someone who is not your twin flame, then it won’t last.
You may get married and have a great relationship at first, but over time things will fall apart.
11) On a more positive note: you can marry your best friend!
The one thing that speaks for twin flame marriage is of course the fact that you can marry your best friend!
A twin flame marriage is about having a deep connection with another person, and the best part is that means you can marry the person who is also your best friend.
Frankly, the best marriages are the ones where the partner is not only a romantic lover but also a best friend.
If you’re lucky enough to find someone who makes you laugh, has the same interests as you, and is there for you no matter what happens, then why wouldn’t you want to marry that person?
It’s a win-win situation!
What should you do?
There were lots of pros and cons here, so you might feel torn between whether or not you should marry your twin flame.
The truth is:
If the decision is not a full-body YES on your end, it’s probably best to wait a bit longer.
You are not losing anything by deciding to give it more time.
The right person will wait until you’re ready and if they don’t – you’re lucky you didn’t marry them, am I right?
By now you should have a good idea of whether or not to marry your twin flame. But if you’re still unsure, I recommend getting in touch with a trustworthy advisor.
I mentioned Psychic Source earlier. Based on my own personal experience with them, I know they’re legit, kind, and helpful.
So instead of leaving things up to chance, take control of this situation and clarify what’s in store for your future.
Speaking to one of their experienced advisors was a turning point for me, and I think it could be for you too. Especially if you want to find out about your future with your twin flame.
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