Lachlan

I'm Lachlan Brown, the founder of the online blog, Hack Spirit, and bonafide writer for Ideapod and Nomadrs. I've been through a lot when it comes to relationships, and I want to share with you everything I've learned. If I can help just one person on their crazy journey of love, then my work here is complete. If you want to get in touch with me about anything I've written on Love Connection, don't hesitate to contact me on my Twitter (@lachybe).

The perfect guy checklist: 12 things every woman should want in a man

Women often treat matchmaking like planning the perfect interior home. They create a list that fits their version of a cozy, beautiful home with details right down to the color and shade. This might work in designing your dream house, but it, unfortunately, doesn’t work as well when finding your perfect match. The truth is, …

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10 ways to tell if your girlfriend has had bigger (without asking her)

Here’s a question you should never ask your girlfriend, even if it’s the last day of the world: “Am I the biggest you’ve had?” But you still want to know, right? All guys do! Here’s how to find out without humiliating yourself.  1) She directly tells you you’re not the biggest she’s had One of …

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“I acted crazy and pushed him away” – 14 tips if this is you

You thought he was the one. He understood you, and he was there for you. You were head over heels for him — so much so that you might’ve unintentionally pushed him away. It might’ve been the nonstop texting or wanting to spend time together every second of every day. It might’ve overwhelmed him, which …

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16 signs your partner doesn’t love you anymore (and 6 things to do about it)

Is your partner moody all the time? Do they hardly listen to you anymore? Look: It’s an incredibly difficult time to be in a relationship that feels like it’s going backward. After all, your partner used to be loving and affectionate, but now you’re not even sure what they feel. Worst of all? You can’t …

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