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There’s a huge difference between a man being polite and him being genuinely attracted to you.
The difference lies in the subtlety of actions. When a man is merely polite, it’s part of his nature. But when he’s highly attracted to you, his behavior takes on unique twists that are hard to miss.
Understanding these unique signs can help you decipher his intentions and feelings. It’s not about playing mind games, but rather, understanding the language of attraction.
In this article, I’m going to share with you 9 unique things a man will do when he’s highly attracted to you. So sit back, relax, and keep an open mind…you might be surprised by what you learn.
1) He pays extra attention to you
When a man is just being polite, he’ll give you the same amount of attention as he would to anyone else. But when a man is highly attracted to you, he takes it a step further.
You see, attraction magnifies attention. This is a principle I’ve seen play out time and again.
A man who’s smitten will pay more attention to you than anyone else in the room. Whether it’s in a group setting or a one-on-one situation, his focus will be primarily on you.
Think about it, we all know how distracting our smartphones can be. If he’s choosing to focus on you instead of checking his phone every few minutes, that’s a strong sign of attraction.
Extra attention can come in many forms: more eye contact, more active listening, more questions about your life and experiences… the list goes on.
But remember, it’s important not to jump to conclusions based only on this sign. It’s just one piece of the puzzle. To get the full picture, we need to consider all 9 unique signs we’re going to discuss in this article. So let’s move on to the next one.
2) He remembers the little details
When a man is highly attracted to you, he has a knack for remembering the little details. And when I say “little details”, I mean those tiny, seemingly insignificant things that you’ve shared with him.
I remember when I first started dating my now-husband. One day, I casually mentioned how much I loved the scent of lavender. I didn’t think much of it at the time, but a few weeks later, he surprised me with a lavender-scented candle.
At first, I was baffled. How did he know? But then it clicked – he had remembered our conversation from weeks prior.
That’s when I realized how much he was really into me. He wasn’t just hearing my words; he was actively listening and storing away these tidbits of information.
If a man remembers things like your favorite book, or the name of your childhood pet, or even your preferred coffee order, it’s a pretty clear sign that he’s highly attracted to you. He’s invested in getting to know you on a deeper level, and that’s what makes this a powerful sign of attraction.
But again, it’s important to take this in context with other signs too. So let’s dive into the next one.
3) He mimics your gestures and language
This is one that might surprise you. When a man is highly attracted to you, he often subconsciously mimics your gestures, language, and even your speech patterns.
This phenomenon is known as mirroring, and it’s deeply rooted in our biology. Humans are social creatures, and mirroring is a way we subconsciously try to build rapport and foster a sense of understanding with the people we’re drawn to.
So if you notice that he’s leaning in when you lean in, or using similar phrases or expressions as you, this could very well be a sign that he’s attracted to you.
It’s a subtle sign, but once you start looking for it, you’ll be astonished at how often it happens. But remember, this is just one of the signs. Let’s move on to the next one.
4) He initiates contact more frequently
When a man is highly attracted to you, he’ll likely initiate contact more frequently. This doesn’t necessarily mean physical contact, although that can certainly be a part of it. It’s more about reaching out to you, whether that’s through a text message, a phone call, or making plans to see you.
It’s the consistency of his effort that speaks volumes. If he’s regularly making an effort to engage with you and spend time with you, it’s a strong indicator of his attraction.
However, remember that everyone has different comfort levels and communication styles. What’s important is the pattern – if he’s consistently reaching out and showing interest in your life, it’s a sign he’s genuinely attracted to you.
But as always, this sign should be considered alongside others. Let’s explore the fifth one next.
5) He shows genuine interest in your life
When a man is highly attracted to you, he’ll want to know more about you. Not just the surface-level stuff, but the deeper, more meaningful aspects of your life. Your dreams, your passions, your fears, and your stories.
He will ask questions that go beyond the usual small talk. Instead of just asking about your day, he might ask about your favorite childhood memory or what your biggest life goal is.
By showing genuine interest in getting to know you on a deeper level, he’s expressing his attraction towards you. It’s his way of building a stronger emotional connection.
But remember, it’s important to look at this sign in context with the others. So let’s move on to the next one.
6) He prioritizes you
When a man is truly attracted to you, he’ll make you a priority in his life. This means he’ll be willing to adjust his plans or make time for you, even when it’s not always convenient.
This doesn’t mean he’ll drop everything for you at a moment’s notice, but rather that he values your relationship and wants to invest time and effort into it.
This may look like him rearranging his schedule to spend time with you, or putting in extra effort to do something special for you. It’s about showing through actions that he values your presence in his life.
It’s a sweet and significant sign of attraction that goes beyond words. It shows that he sees something special in you and is willing to make an effort for it.
But as always, this sign should be seen in conjunction with the others. So let’s continue to the next one.
7) He opens up
A man who is highly attracted to you won’t just want to know about you, he’ll also want to share more about himself. This includes sharing his dreams, his fears, and even his insecurities.
Just last week, a close friend of mine was sharing about how her partner had opened up about his fear of failure. He’d never talked about it with anyone before. But he trusted her and felt comfortable enough to share this vulnerable part of himself.
When a man allows himself to be vulnerable with you, it’s a clear sign that he’s attracted to you. He trusts you enough to let you see him – the real him, not just the image he presents to the world.
This is a profound sign of attraction. But as always, it’s important to consider it along with the other signs. Let’s move on to the next one.
8) He includes you in his future plans
When a man is highly attracted to you, he’ll start weaving you into his future plans. He won’t just talk about next week or next month – he’ll talk about next year, and even further down the line.
This could be anything from mentioning a concert of your favorite band that’s happening in six months and suggesting you should go together, to talking about how he’d love to visit Greece one day and asking if you’d like to join him.
When he starts seeing you as part of his future, it’s a strong sign of attraction. It shows that he’s serious about you and sees potential for a long-term relationship.
But remember, this sign should be considered alongside others. Let’s explore the final one next.
9) He expresses his feelings
The most definitive sign a man is highly attracted to you is when he expresses his feelings clearly and directly. He won’t beat around the bush or leave things to vague insinuations – he’ll tell you straight up how he feels about you.
This can be nerve-wracking for him, as it involves a level of vulnerability. But if he’s willing to take that step and express his feelings, it’s the clearest sign of his genuine attraction towards you.
Wrapping up: It’s all about genuine connection
Human interactions and emotions can be wonderfully complex and beautifully simple at the same time.
When it comes to attraction, it’s not just about the signs and signals. It’s about a deeper, more profound connection that transcends words and actions. It’s about two people resonating on the same frequency, sharing moments, and building memories.
While understanding these signs can give you a better sense of a man’s feelings towards you, remember that every individual is unique. What might be a sign of attraction in one person might just be a friendly gesture in another.
So yes, keep an eye out for these signs, but also trust your instincts. Listen to your gut feeling. More often than not, it knows what’s going on even before you do.
And remember, at the heart of every meaningful relationship is mutual respect, understanding, and genuine affection. If he’s highly attracted to you, these elements will be present in abundance.
Attraction is a two-way street. It involves giving and receiving, understanding and being understood, caring and being cared for. So as you navigate this journey of understanding attraction, remember to appreciate the journey itself. Because ultimately, that’s what matters most.
