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Navigating the dating world is an art, and I believe that being classy is an essential part of this art.
As Tina Fey, founder of the Love Connection blog and relationship expert, I’ve seen my fair share of dating faux pas. But classy women? They stand out in their dating lives because there are certain things they simply just don’t do.
Being a classy woman doesn’t mean being stuffy or uptight. Instead, it’s about showing respect for yourself and others, maintaining dignity, and making wise choices.
In this article, I’m going to share 8 things that classy women never do in their dating lives. These tips have been gathered from my years of experience, so buckle up ladies, you’re about to step up your dating game!
1) They never compromise their standards
Dating can sometimes feel like a minefield of potential pitfalls. But for a classy woman, one thing stands firm – her standards.
Classy women know their worth. They’ve spent time understanding their value and they won’t compromise it for anyone. This doesn’t mean they’re overly picky or demanding. It simply means they know what they’re looking for in a partner and won’t settle for less.
In the world of dating, it’s easy to be swayed by charm, good looks, or an impressive resume. But a classy woman remembers that these are just icing on the cake. The real substance lies in shared values, mutual respect, and genuine connection.
Don’t be afraid to hold your ground. Your standards aren’t high – they’re just right for you. And trust me, the right person will rise to meet them.
2) They never chase after anyone
Now listen closely, ladies. One thing I’ve observed in my years of being a relationship expert is that classy women never chase after anyone.
Yes, you heard it right. A classy woman allows herself to be pursued rather than doing the pursuing. She understands that she’s worth the effort and doesn’t need to convince anyone to see her value.
This doesn’t mean she’s passive or aloof. She’s open, engaging, and expresses interest in a dignified way. But ultimately, she knows that if someone is genuinely interested, they will make the effort.
As the phenomenal Maya Angelou once said, “Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option.” So remember, if they want to be in your life, they will put in the effort it takes to stay there. If not, then it’s their loss, not yours.
3) They never lose their individuality
This is a big one, ladies. Classy women, in my experience, never lose sight of who they are as individuals, regardless of their relationship status.
Falling in love is an incredible feeling and it’s easy to get swept up in the romance. But a classy woman knows that maintaining her individuality is key. She has her own interests, hobbies, and passions outside of her relationship. She believes in self-growth and self-improvement.
In fact, this is a topic I delve into deeply in my book, Breaking The Attachment: How To Overcome Codependency in Your Relationship. It’s all about understanding that your happiness should never solely depend on someone else.
Always keep growing and evolving as an individual. A healthy relationship will respect and support this growth, not hinder it.
4) They’re not afraid to be single
Now, this might sound counterintuitive, especially in a discussion about dating. But hear me out. Classy women aren’t afraid to be single.
Often, people think of dating as a race against the clock, especially as we grow older. But a classy woman knows that there is no such thing. She understands that it’s better to be single and satisfied than in a relationship and unhappy.
Being single isn’t a punishment or a sign of failure. It’s an opportunity to learn more about yourself, to grow, and to discover what you truly want in life and in a relationship.
Don’t rush into relationships out of fear of being alone. A classy woman knows that her worth isn’t determined by her relationship status, but by who she is as an individual.
5) They never ignore red flags
Ladies, this one comes from my personal experience and years of advising women in their relationships. Classy women never ignore red flags.
When we’re infatuated, it can be easy to overlook certain behaviors or characteristics that may be harmful in the long run. We might justify these actions or convince ourselves that we’re overreacting. But a classy woman knows that her gut instincts are there for a reason.
She’s not afraid to address these issues early on. She knows that ignoring red flags now will only lead to problems down the line. And she values herself enough to know that she deserves a relationship free of such concerns.
So, my advice? Always trust your gut. If something doesn’t feel right, it probably isn’t. Don’t be afraid to address it or walk away if necessary.
6) They never tolerate disrespect
Let’s get real here, ladies. Classy women never tolerate disrespect – not even a hint of it.
Disrespect can come in many forms – it could be blatant, like name-calling or belittling, or subtle, like constant criticism or disregard for your feelings. But no matter what form it takes, a classy woman recognizes it and will not stand for it.
She knows that respect is the foundation of any relationship, and she won’t settle for anything less. She understands that love should never hurt or demean; it should uplift and inspire.
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow, what you stop, and what you reinforce. So never let anyone treat you with anything less than the respect you deserve.
7) They never lose sight of their dreams
Ladies, let me share something from my own journey. Classy women, like us, never lose sight of their dreams, not even for love.
Being in a relationship doesn’t mean you should put your dreams and aspirations on the back burner. A classy woman knows that her personal goals are just as important as her relationship.
She doesn’t let anyone dim her light or hold her back from achieving her dreams. She understands that a true partner will support her ambitions and not stand in the way.
As Eleanor Roosevelt once put it, “The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.” So hold on tight to your dreams and never let anyone or anything make you forget them.
8) They never apologize for their success
Let’s put it out there, ladies. Classy women never apologize for their success.
In the world we live in, successful women are often seen as intimidating or too ambitious. But a classy woman knows her worth and isn’t afraid to shine brightly.
She doesn’t play small to make others feel more comfortable. She celebrates her achievements and doesn’t let anyone make her feel guilty for being successful.
The truth is, being successful and ambitious doesn’t make you less of a woman or less desirable. Instead, it makes you a strong, independent woman who knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to go after it.
Never apologize for being successful. Your success is not your weakness; it’s your strength. Own it and be proud of it.
Conclusion
Being classy isn’t about being perfect. It’s about respecting yourself, standing your ground, and never losing sight of who you are.
For more insights on maintaining your individuality and breaking free from codependency in relationships, check out my book, Breaking The Attachment: How To Overcome Codependency in Your Relationship.
It’s time to put yourself first and step up your dating game. You’ve got this!
